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i know it will be hard, missy. you just have to know all the bad things he has done and how he will end up limiting you. that should piss you off enough to be able to leave him. no. i don't advise getting in to a rebound relationship or you are just leading someone else on just like this guy lead you on.so like i said before. get access to his computer if you still have it and delete everything! do that and other things to make him hate you. that is one option. giving him the power to leave YOU.your problem is hard because what i am hearing is you are dependant on him and he is your addiction even though he is scum. what do you think this says about you? now....do you want to be this person? if not, then you are going to have to change. you have the power to change. since we are talking about replacing something that you are dependant on, you will probably have to replace it with something else to be dependant on and keep busy. how about joining a gym and excersizing through the time you would normally spend with him? how about continuing your education? take some college classes and use your time that way. how about joining a bowling league or something else that is fun where you can meet new people to be social with rather than people on the internet. not that people on the internet is bad but it's good to have a balance. so these are some suggestions for you.you know, we are all dependant on electricity too, missy.....but you don't see people putting their fingers in wall sockets to get shocked and hurt. this is exactly what you are doing when you go back to this guy. also, truely know yourself. know you are a good person. know that you deserve better than this guy. know that there is better out there for you as long as you keep the doors open. know that life holds many good surprises for people if they can learn the small lessons in life that we are forced to face. know that if you can be strong enough to say no to this guy and close the door on him forever, you will be even stronger for it and will be more independant and less dependant on another guy which will make it easy for you to enter a more meaningfull relationship in the future. something that isn't based on dependance and insecurity....or the feeling of emptiness and being alone.one last suggestion i strongly recomend is either sitting quietly in your room to think or take a walk to think and think about yourself, who you are, what you want to do and who you want to become. think about those things and all the things you need to do to reach your own potential in life. try to gain the confidence that you can do anything you set your mind to. put the same dedication in to your own self as you have done with this JERK! you are better than anything he has to offer you and you deserve more than anything he has to offer. he may satisfy a need for you right now, but do you need to be hurt? if you do, then stick your finger in that wall socket and feel the pain. the hurt he will give you in the long run will be a lot worse than that! believe me, people like that can leave other people emotionally crippled for a long long time! sometimes people don't recover from it and the pain affects them for their entire life. do you want that to be you? you need to seriously ask yourself that question because right now you are on that road wether it's with this guy or the next guy. please make better choices for your future. you owe it to yourself to offer nothing but the best for yourself. don't you agree?

ok listen up. although i agree that friends and family can be somewhat non understanding and limiting in the advice they give, but now that you have lived through your limited experience with this guy, you should know what you have to do. heck. you even said it yourself. now let me clue you in on something here to where it might make it easier for you to let this scumbag go. i have seen preditors like this on the internet before. some are innocent, some are not but they are still preditors. they prey on people like YOU.....yes YOU.....the people easiest to be preyed upon but let's not get in to you and why you are easy "prey". let's talk about HIMhe's a preditor. he doesn't love you. he lies to you and he cheats on you. he could be married and you would never know. he could have a local girlfriend that he sees and you would never know. this information you have on him is ALOT! but guess what? it's very LITTLE information compared to what you DONT KNOW about him. this is just the surface that you have scratched on this guy. now. you have two choices. you can bite the bullet and be lonely for a while without this preditor who doesn't love you and who cheats on you and lies to you, or you can punish yourself further by giving in to him and the lies he says. wasting a year or more of your life until he hurts you even more. let's say you're with this guy for 2 years. that's two years that you just closed the door on any other healthy relationship or other activieties that you can enjoy rather than spend it with someone you know who will lie to you and cheat on you. you want that time wasted? you want to close the doors on your life or this guy? that's the choice you have to make right now. nothing.....i mean NOTHING will be positive out of this relationship. this i PROMISE you. you only scratched the surface by finding out what you already know.he's good at convincing you? ofcourse he is. you are his prey. you believe him because he is believable to you. this guy is wasting your life and ruining part of your life and you are still talking to him! why? because you're gullible? you're an idiot? you want to punish yourself? you think you can't get anyone better than that? he is USING YOU for his own benefit because he has no life. he's a loser. he probably doesn't even have any friends and the friends he may have are only his friends because he lies to them too because if his friends knew what he is, they would not be friends with him. not when he can lead multiple women on and hurt them.maybe you two are a match. maybe you have no life either so it's just best to hook up with some scumbag preditor with no life? you better get your crap together missy. there is a saying...."hurt me once, YOUR fault. hurt me twice, MY FAULT!". you love him? you THINK you love him. you can't love someone you don't even know. what other lies don't you know about and will find out eventually if you stay with this guy? YOU DONT KNOW HIM SO YOU CANT LOVE HIM FOR WHO HE IS! and you DEFINEATELY don't love him for what he has already done i am sure! so now we know it's not love you can possibly be feeling for this guy. it's only the IDEA OF LOVE that you are feeling and it's attached to this guy who you have been spending most of your time with. has he treated you with the same ideas of love that you have inside? NO! NOT EVEN CLOSE! so don't attach this guy to your idea of love either.now. am i getting through to you yet? do you now know you can't possibly love him and that he doesn't love you? that he will tell you any story because he knows you will believe any story he tells you? do you love when someone takes advantage of your trust and loyalty? do you love that in a person? this is exactly what he is doing. taking advantage of you in the worst way. now STOP SPYING ON HIM! don't waste your time with him. if you have access to his computer, delete everything on it as payback and don't ever talk to this guy again. he used you and he will CONTINUE to use you as long as you let him and it could be 2 years more before you find out ALL the dirt on this scumbag. DONT GIVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY and don't waste your time on him anymore. he is out to hurt you and he has already done so. he will hurt you more if you let him so DONT LET HIM HURT YOU ANYMORE! now i am sorry to be so blunt and firm but this is the kind of stuff you need to hear right now......the TRUTH....not the lies he tells you. STOP LISTENING TO HIM! he doesn't care about you. he probably has 5 other people to take your place so losing you is no big deal for him no matter what he says. you are replaceable because you don't give him what he needs. if you did, he wouldn't be going out talking to other women and flirting and trying to hook up with them. so his girlfriends are liers. your friends who talked to him are liers but he comes out squeeky clean? HAHAHAHAHAHA! WAKE UP!!! the only thing that makes him look squeeky clean is the lies he tells and you would rather trust and believe in him than your own self, family and friends now? this guy will seriously HURT you. you don't know this guy and you don't know what he's capable of. if you are willing to get close to him then you allow him to get close to your friends and family. your bringing this liar and cheat close to those you care about. he's DANGEROUS! he's not innocent. he's GUILTY in every sense of the word and you are playing HIS game. you are putting your friends and family at risk right now because you don't know how to let this guy go. you better care enough for yourself, your friends and family to let this creep go or god help you. you will be just as bad as he is to allow this man in all your lives. you have already gotten your friends directly involved by talking and scamming this guy. you think they want to waste their time? do you think they even want to talk to this scumbag? NO! they are doing it for YOU!!! and you are allowing it!!! so WAKE THE F UP!now missy. i don't want to scare you away from posting again. you came here for advice. you are being controlled by this man right now and you need other strong people to help control you in the opposite direction of this guy that will only hurt you. i know he has fullfilled some of your needs. you wouldn't have thought you loved him otherwise. you wouldn't be so hurt right now if you didn't see the good he gave you. but all the good and all the things he fullfilled for you were deceptions. he's not really like that. he lies for a living and is an expert at it. he is good at what he does and that's why this guy will never be alone. when you finally get the strength to leave him for good, you have already been replaced by two more suckers that he will prey on. he is THAT good at what he does. i have been on the internet for over 20 years and have seen it all. i have seen my friends raped because they thought they knew and loved someone they met on the internet and i have known people who got seriously physically abused and mentally abused after they spent their last dime to move in with someone they met on the internet and had no way out to go back home where it was safe. please please PLEASE don't be one of those people. i have also see people get attatched to people over the internet and send the person they love and who has never met, MONEY....and lots of it. please don't feed in to his lies. you don't know him. everything he does he does for himself. not you. he does NOT love you. all he wants to do is control you. you need to end this relationship with this guy you don't know and you need to end it NOW! i know how hard it is after thinking you knew him and how he could have never done something like this to you. breaking up is never easy. there is better out there for you than this guy so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE trust me on this one. i know what i am talking about and doors wont open for you until you close the door on this preditor! you need to close the door on this guy and never EVER reopen in just so he can sweet talk you and fool you. you will be hurt and lonely but at least you wont get more hurt by this guy. you may even feel more insecure but you will be stronger for it! you will see so many other possibilities out there waiting for you. a lot better than the situation you got yourself in to with this guy. he can say everything you want to hear and sweet talk you every day.....but in the end, YOU are the one who is going to get hurt if you let him while he will just move to his next victim because he never cared about you in the first place. you were only a game to him so please......one last time.....don't be or play the fool!

one option without reformatting is to just change the admin password to blank or another password of your choice. to do this, you need another computer to download a file and make a bootable cd. the file for you would be here, and the webpage where the file is located and where it explains more is here. i had to fix a friends computer once who had just bought a laptop from someone who forgot the password so i just burn the image file to cd, ran the cd, and change the password to nothing. it worked like a charm. now unless you already of an operating system on cd or dvd or other type of media, you will need another computer to fix your problem but i HIGHLY suggest you just try to reset the password before attempting to restore your laptop to out of box state. then, once you can get in to your system, toshiba might have the option for you to create a restore disk. mine does. otherwise, there are other options....

hahaha i guess i will tell my burn story too. i think i beat yours when i was a really little kid, i was cleaning the inside of my parents car. i was always fascinated by the lighter how you can push it in and how it would pop out and how it glowed so i pushed it in. when it popped out, i looked at the red glow and decided to touch the inside with my finger. talk about instant burn! i was always curious in nature so one day i took out my dads razor wondering how she he shaves his face with it. i decided to feel the razor and totally cut myself. i went to show my mom how i was bleeding and the first thing she told me was don't get blood on the carpet hahaha i was an idiot when i was young and things haven't really changed much for me now that i am old

i guess i am way too trusting. GIVE ME THE POLYGRAPH any day!personally i would rather trust than not trust and be wrong about not trusting. sure, there are signs people give off when they are lying, but sometimes it's just very hard to tell. and even if they are caught with a lie doesn't mean the other things were a lie...or.....sometimes it DOES mean that. some people are EXPERT liars and anyone who thinks they can know someone well enough to know if they are lying....is LYING or needs to mingle with the outside world a little more.....

what??? WD lies??? stop the presses! we have a new press release!common lie:q: how are you?a: i'm ok

the moon is a he and moonlight is a she? what is this supposed to mean? the moon is gay and giving off feminine qualities? i would also have to say that that is one ugly "she" to be hiding in the dark!

yes, harlot. you need a few more posts before the mycents system kicks in on your account but all your past posts will still be credited. as long as you signed up at xisto with the same email address you saigned up here with to link accounts, you are all good to go. just keep posting!

hey old timer! you sure talk a lot for an old man. which means you haven't forgotten more than you learned so now tell us stories about the time when movie prices were a nickle!

i wish i could have had my wife take one before we got married! i know she would have failed miserably because that is all she does.....LIE

what's the user name of your friend here? is it a secret?

hands down....the ultima series. i am surprised nobody mentioned them. those games were ahead of their time. we are talking 80's(25 years ago)

people who crave it are just iron deficient. it's why some people actually eat dirt. i highly suggest not eating chalk, but taking some iron supplements to reduce the craving. also, there really isn't any proof that eating chalk causes kidney stones. eating chalk, from my own research is not unhealthy.....but eating a lot of it might have some side affects just like eating too much of anything. best bet is to still supplement your body with iron suppliments. i also highly suggest you ask a doctor about this. people like me and others aren't really qualified to answer such questions.sheepdog- actually, they say chalk does have taste and the colored chalk tastes the worst. i am not going to test that one

this is a really good topic. i can't possibly say what the most common lie is, but here's one....q: are we there yet?a: almost!andq: can you spare some change?a: no!

all we can do is love unconditionally. when we set conditions on love, that's when we are let down and that "love" can turn in to something else by our own choice because of the expectations we have on love. personally, i think when we truely love, we will always love.....een if there is hurt attatched to loving.