JasperIk

I have thought about this many times, and ive tried to explain it but half of the people dont get it, or dont believe it. I think it would explain why people think some colours look good, when some people do not. People tell me, but wouldnt everything look strange? Not really because if you have seen it all your life it isnt going to look strange.

We can be persistant lol i admit that. But just tell him you don't like him. Itll be better in the end just to tell him now, and get it over with. Or else its going to create tension the longer you dont tell him.

Let me start off by saying i tend to follow the sound of my own beat, its not that i am like that to be different, it is just how I am. Since elementary school I have worn mostly black, by junior high my whole wardrobe was almost all black. People made fun of me, and it sucked. But then by 8th grade, everyone was wearing black and listening to the music i had already been listening to, and suddenly i wasn't 'dark' enough. But anyway back to the original point of the topic.So I will use Hayden Christensen as an example, he used to be on this show called Higher Ground, and I watched it almost religiously but then it was cancelled. Well i didnt really see him untill news of star wars, i was happy but then when it came out everyone was soooo into him. And i thought it was funny because i would talk to them, and be like oh well did you ever watch higher ground? They never did and yet they are the biggest fans.Maybe i am just selfish and want to be the biggest fan of whatever I like, and i dont want people to be a bigger fan then me. But it does frusrate me, liking something for so long and then having some 'newbie' come and act like they are number one. And they act like your the faker, its just ridiculous. Im trying hard to explain it,and i hope you get me...

Im not even going to take your post seriously, because you just targetted gay men. How do you feel about lesbians? Your post is just against gay men being able to do what they want, your post isnt even legit in my opinion. Kids arent going to become gay by seeing to people of the same gender kiss, all it is going to do is make them see that it is ALRIGHT to be gay if they are. And that it is alright for someone to be gay, even if they aren't. Also slaughtering something, isnt nearly as bad as seeing someone kiss. Personally, i hardly kiss my boyfriend in public, not because im gay but because i dont think people need to express their love for someone in public, i mean a peck on the lips/cheek is fine but people full on making out is just unneeded, no matter if you are gay or straight. But i feel you should be able to do it if you want to. But your post is just stupid anyway, post again when you arent just targetting gay men. If two men kissing made people gay, then itd be the same for straight people kissing, then everyone would be straight. It doesn't work like that, and i cannot express the fact that people DO NOT choose to be gay. Your opinions really aren't even legit.

If somebody donates their body there isnt anything wrong. But if you take a fetus, and do something to it, it never said you could. Nor did the sheep, mouse, or monkey. If you donate your body that is your choice, and no one has forced you, it is YOUR body. Just as the other beings own their body, and it shouldn't be used in a manner they never wanted it to be used for. If they took organs from a body who did not donate their body then it is wrong. I'm not going to tell someone what to do with their body, because i wouldnt want them to tell me either. Except for abortion, because a living thing is growing inside of you, and it is their body now too, for now.

Its not that itll promote homosexuality, or that itll encourage it, its that gay marriage will encourage those who are in the closet, to come out. People who come out of the closet, were never straight they just have lived a life of denial. Anyone who says they have been turned into a homosexual is either 1. a homosexual who hadn't realized what they are. Which it happens, you are told how to be by everyone, and you live a life of lies to make everyone else happy, and you eventually get wrapped up in a lie you can't break because the truth is so far lost, you just believe your lies. 2. an attention *BLEEP*, or not a true homosexual. maybe even bisexual. or someone who has given up on the opposite sex, only to find people suck no matter what gender you are attracted to. But you dont go from straight to gay, if you are gay you have always been gay, you just havent admitted it, or realized it. Besides, why would anyone choose to be gay? Even if gay marriage is legal there are always going to be homophobes. Its like saying someone chose to be black in the 60's yeah cuz they so chose to be treated like dirt. Its really the same, you can't change what you are , nor can you choose it.

At first I thought you meant [from reading the topic title] seats that flung up when you got near them. I was going to say im still getting used to the automatic flushers! But Yeah itd be cool, just walk right up step and up it goes. You'd need it to go back down within like 2 minutes though, like maybe have it automatic to go down. Incase you live with a chick who hates when you leave the seat up (though, its just as much effort to put it down, as it is for us to put it up!) Though Id find it funny for maybe a kid to step on it and get hit in the head or nose.

Don't they already have cheese in a hotdog? The inside of the french fry is just too small for my ketchup needs. I litterly soak my french fries in ketchup lol. But i admit, its a cute idea. Also when i think about it though, i just picture biting into a french fry and it like squirting out, and it grosses me out. Especially the thought of ranch inside [some of my friends like ranch *gags*]

My cats are way ahead of you lol. They like my moniter because it produces heat. But yeah, when my computer is on its much warmer in my room. Sometimes itll be more warm in my room then in the rest of the apartment. But I never leave it on for the night, I always shut it down, or else itll freeze up. So when I go to bed, about 10 minutes of laying down it gets cold because the heat has gone away.

Its bad enough the mother aborted the baby, and then to use it for science is wrong. The unborn BABY atleast deserves to be burried (not put into a trash can) if it isn't allowed to live. I'm against embryotic stem cell research. (question: Say If someone had a miscarriage, could they donate that? That in my opinion would be a little better then using aborted babies because it was intended by the mother, and there was something wrong with the baby, so for it to used for research wouldn't be nearly as bad as a fetus that was aborted.) In my opinion no life is more important than anyone elses, we are all equal and the aborted baby, shouldn't be used to save someone elses life, it was going to be a new being, before someone decided to destroy it. And its almost life, is just as equal to the life it *could* be saving, thus it shouldn't be used because it deserves something better than anything scientific. Note : Im NOT christian, and I am also AGAINST testing on animals. I am against all testing that could harm a living thing, and anything that harms a once could be living thing.

Honestly, i think the only people who should have a right to say anything other than government is...gee gay people? Its just all these religious people, and homophobes sure have a lot to say about gay rights, but they aren't gay and they have no authority so why speak? Gay people should be the only people allowed to express our opinions, because we know. Sure straight people try to help, and stick up for us but sometimes they go overboard and make us seem like we cannot fight our own fight. Then religious people talk about how it is wrong, and how marriage is sacred but if marriage is religious why is it such a political debate if religion and politics arent supposed to go together. Marriage should be about love, and nothing more. Then there are the homophobes who are mainly ignorant, the men only like lesbians because they find them hot, but don't respect them individually, nor understand that real lesbians mostly don't look like porn stars. They hate gay men, because they dont understand us, and assume we all are like Jack from will & grace, so when movies like Brokeback mountain come out and show gay men aren't all glamoured up cher fans, they get angry because they think its not true and dont want us to be like them [average hard working people]. The women are disgusted by how gay men act, they dont think we are masculine enough, and they think lesbians are too masculine. Then there are the people who don't think homosexuality is real, even though we get hurt for are feelings...oh yes bring on the pain i want to be laughed at, kicked at, and hurt for my "made up" lifestyle. What do gays really want? I can't speak for every gay person but this is what i want : I want to be able to walk down the street without being looked at, pointed at, laughed at, threatoned etc... I want my love for someone to be recognized, I want to be my work to be acklowledged as a person thing, not a gay thing. I don't need a fancy dancy wedding, really I just want to get the same benefits as everyone else. Its not like itll hurt anyone, unless they chose for it to hurt them.

I used to hate reality TV, but some of it I am glued to. Like VH1's Celebreality im addicted to lol. I watch the surreal life and celebrity fit club, i fricking love these shows. I kinda watched my fair brady but it was rather weird. I liked Till death do we part, or whatever the show with carmen and dave [that was MTV though right?] But i also love Road Rules, its fricking great and the real world road rules challenge is probably my favorite reality thing. Even America's next top model catches my attention. But Im not much into Big brother, Survivor, Joe Millionaire...or any other dating reality show. Except I liked boy meets boy (wonder why? lol). Id say my favorite reality show ever was the Joe Schmo omg, it was the greatest ever.I have not much against them, they are entertaining. And i know i can just shut the tv off, if i dont like it.

Am i Stingy? Yes...cheap Maybe. I just don't like to spend money a lot. One main reason is because I don't have a job currently, so any money that is given to me is by someone else. Im not really a moocher, I don't ask for money for like expensive stuff, but if i need money i do ask. Right now, I dont have to pay rent, but im moving out of my ex's apartment soon so i will probably have to. And thus, I need a job. One thing i do have a problem with, is im cheap on myself but not cheap on others. I always want to buy other people things, and then i end up with no money for myself. When I buy food, i buy the store brand, cuz 1. its cheaper and most of the time tastes better.

In gay relationships it happens too. I have some friends who i know i will never get with, because they are too good of friends. Sometimes im the one who puts them there, sometimes someone puts me there.Kinda the same, when i find out a guy i like is straight, lol immediate friend zone there lol.

I lost my virginity at 13, and i got something i wish i could give back. Don't do it, thats just simple. Dont have any kind of sex, some people assume its okay to have other sexual activities, but if it can give you an STD, dont do it...Obviously your going to think about sex, most teens do and if they say they dont they are lying. Some think bout how they arent gonna do it, others think bout how they want to. But basically just think about it, don't do it. If you arent ready for kids, or an STD then you arent ready for sex. Sex isnt just bang bang and you are done, sometimes yeah its that simple but now-a-days its more like bang bang baby, bang bang syphilis. just dont do it untill you are atleast 18, atleast then you can account for whatever problems it may give you.

The thing with BMIs and such they dont count like muscle. So maybe to the BMI your overweight, but muscle is heavy and it could be just muscle. And if your doctor says your okay, its probably because he/she has taken muscle into concideration.My BMI result: Underweight

Most songs i dont hear, untill people sing them. Like My humps..i didnt hear it at all till my friends were singing it, same with laffy taffy...gah i hate that kind of music. The pointless gibberish that corrupts kid's minds. Basically any hip hop or rap song i hear is rubbish...and people just over kill it, i dont even find the lyrics funny.

Art is funny to me, sometimes the best artists are the ones who dont know they are good, other times the people who think they are good, are the worst. Why must it be called professional and amauter? Isnt art supposed to be an opinion? So if the professionals dont want to give you the time of day, then forget them. They obviously have taken art to their heads, and their heart isnt in it. You can be really good at something, but if its not from your heart its nothing.

Im getting really annoyed with all the commercials and ads about joining the military. I swear its basically the same as Nazi Propaganda. All they both talked about was being the elite, being better then anyone else. Im really tired of it, and they try to suck you in, and young hopeless naive KIDS are the ones who are getting sucked in and it is wrong. I mean if a kid really wanted to join on their own they would actually do the research you don't need 5 commercials about joining the army or navy every commercial break! The commercials just brain wash you, and lie! They say you can get an education, immediatley that sucks you in, but what they dont tell you, is in order to do this, you must give your life practically, or atleast your sanity. But of course if they told you the full truth you wouldn't want to join. All it is is propaganda telling you only the good parts, while skipping over all the bad stuff. Yes there are jobs in which you arent directly in the line of fire, but i have friends who weren't and they still almost lost their life. Maybe, because I cant ever join the military I am able to look past all the lies, and see the truth...but for the hopeless naive kids my age they are just looking for an easy way out...when will this stop? When will young men realize this isn't the way i dont understand how a war can fix the problems, its just a continous cycle, young men go to war, come back their kids go to war...we have been in war with other countries for almost longer then American has even been a country... all you are is killing your sons with the bs propanganda. I Am sorry of for some reason this post offends anyone, but if it does its probably because you are either in denial or have been brain washed. I dont have these opinions because i dont care, i have them because i do.

With all the posts about how its not fair to judge a lesbian and her decisian to have a baby naturally...well. If you don't have sex, to get pregnant then technically it isn't natural. In my opinion if you have to get pregnant by artificial insemination then you weren't meant to give birth. Its kind of unnatural. Often times you end up with MORE then one baby, and sometimes the baby/babies come out defected. This goes for straight women too.

I don't know if he was really 'bi' I think he liked woman, but not as much as he liked men, like he enjoyed their company but he preferred to actually be with men... so i guess in a sense its bisexuality, but since i dont agree with it, i just refer to it as gay when he was with men, and straight when he was with women... Cuz i personally rather not admire a bisexual. Besides at the time in the 70's he probably didn't want to admit he was really attracted, i mean yeah the bands name is Queen, but he wasnt really I LIKE MEN every second of his life, so maybe he did live with women and he did like them to a certain point, but i dont think he was ever IN love with a woman.... I know this isnt the original point of the post, but i dont have the slightest clue what the original person is babbling about, sure i get that some of the 'american' language isn't correct, but i mean people on the internet make me ANGRY when the incorrectly spell words, because they think its cool, like instead of Phone, they put fone. But if you are refferring to 'real life' then that is rather lame, because each country has their own way of spelling things, so its rather rude to assume YOUR way of spelling is correct if it has already been put into a dictionary, and it isn't 'slang'

I find it funny when people say people became gay because they dont like the way the opposite sex acts, well duh they are gay! I mean think logically about that statement... And, people dont become gay because their parents are...if that were the case everyone would be straight, because their parents are straight. But yeah using a guy to spawn your children and then litterly pushing them out of your life is wrong. Besides they often tell lies like 'your dad just didnt want to stay around' and it makes the kid hate the dad because they assume that is the truth. Plus i think the sperm doner idea is just gross, and weird.

Im not against lesbians who adopt, i just hate when they give birth. They often use a guy that they know, gay or straight to get pregnant [mostly not by sexual intercourse] and as soon as the baby is born the lesbian doesnt want anything to do with the guy, forcing the child to be fatherless. Plus all this i believe that part of the reason why there are gays is to help the world be less populated and if every lesbian has a kid, how does that help?? Besides there are kids in orphanges who need parents more then unborn babies right? And yeah the kid will be fatherless, but its also motherless technically too so when it is adopted it goes to two loving parents, instead of two 'loving' parents who have pushed the father out completley and have just litterly USED him. It just bothers me...

You obviously dont have the slightest clue what being goth really is. [i am not gothic btw] And i respect your biblical beliefs, but for those like myself who dont really believe in the bible, it kind of offends me to have someone basically tell me i have no life for actually questioning why, because i dont believe 100% in anything...so i do wonder, isnt it a human behavior to wonder? And since there is no proof for really anything, i will continue wondering and unfortenetly i wont ever know untill its my time. And that kind of scares me, so you can believe in heaven but i dont...I cant believe in just one thing because there are so many posibilities, and most of the time i just believe we die and that its, we are burried and life is over and that just makes everything so pointless, but what is lifes point?

I wonder this a lot too...because no matter how long i think about it, i still wonder-why ARE we here? Sometimes i feel like i am the only one who wonders it, because i talk to my friends and family and it seems like everyone thinks they will live forever even when someone they know dies, its as if people are blind to the inevitable. Sometimes i try to imagine nothing, as in the universe doesnt exist and for a moment, very quick moment i get lost in this thought because its so bizarre because i can hardly think of nothing, what would nothing be? And i wonder often why people work, and go to school and have families because in the end itll all be gone. When i go to my families for holidays i sometimes think about how in probably 20-30 years it wont be like that, ill probably be dead and so will others in my family...and soon in 50 years no one will be there, itll be a whole new generation in my family, much like how right now my generation is 'new'. I just find it sad that hardly anyone wonders these things, or if they do why doesnt anyone speak about it? Are we all just in denial?