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  1. Instead of complicating things why dont you use things around you like your name Kalvin Florals or FLoral Arrangements dont get to carried away in your name search as things can easily look gigantic without much ado.There are loads of posiblities for names and thats why you seem stuck but if you stop stressing and try something that you already have in your head from before you'll find that you already know that name you want. I wish you the best of luck in your name search and do tell us what name you decided on in the end.Suggestions K-FloralsFloral WorksFLoral DecoKalvin DecoThey all sound nice but at the end of the day its your decision to choose.
  2. @Roger 122I guess if you made 2 cute babbies that means you should have either twins meaning you beea seing her physically for over 10 months or or if the kids are not twins the that wopuld mean you been physically seeing each other for over 20 months. That also means your e-relationship has turned out quite well as you probably have got to know each other so much better in this time cause most relationships would have failed by now. I'd say in your book e-dating has actually worked out well for you and I wish you all the best.I sortof had an internet dating thingy going on but it got complicated and I quit. Basically I meat this woman online and we clicked and we sortof started exchanging emails and all that. The emails and the chats had that connection and I would look forward to her mails every morning we would exchange stories etc and I thought i was getting to know her and was being open about the things i wanted in a relatioship. She would ask me what my ideas were on marriage and dating and how I judge people or all that and I was honest but then she dropped a bombshell on me she said She had the same beliefs as i did but then had omitted something before. I asked what that was and she told me she was married. The reason why she didnt tell me before is because in her view her wedding was over shortly after it started she claimed her husband changed over night and became a drunk and constantly domestically abused her he would shake the sh*t out of her because he cant hit her lest she rings the cops on him. SHe claimed that the whole marriage was like a prison and she wanted to get free of it. The story obviously escalated to her wanting to run away from him and move to me because she was now in love with me and wanted to have my babies because we felt so right together. Now this was a shock to me because I suddenly thought whooaaaaa whats happening here Im not in love and Im certainly not ready for someoens wife to run from her matrimonial home in America, fly to UK and live with me just on a notion that we clicked on emails hence we will click physically and emotionally. I dont know if i did wrong but I didnt want her to ad me to her list of he changed overnight boyfriends because we didnt really know each other outside of what we chose to write about each other. FOr christs sake I thought I knew er well in the sic months we talked I had no clue she was MRS SOMEONE so I realised she could hae ommited loads of other things too. Like maybe she was a golddigger marrying people for money or those serial brides who marry you, wipe your accounts and dissappear without even a divorce. So for me E-Dating isnt quite glamorous
  3. Its seems like you got yourself an admirer who wants you. I mean the whole thing about the teller is meant to be a test to see if you get jealous of nice comments to her. I think she wants a relationship with you but you arent showing her the right signals that you want her back so she gets defensive by saying I dont want a relationship etc. This is because she does not wanna embarass herself by wanting a guy who doesnt want her back. I bet you a million dollars if you took her on a nice date and asked her out she'd say yes, You just need to show her that you want her back too. SHe is insecure cause she doesnt want to risk letting you meet another girl e.g in the queue in the bank so she's next to you to make sure other girls get the message your taken hence the people think we are a couple jokes. They are meant as a psychological trigger to start of a series of thoughts in your brain about how it would be to be a couple with her. Dont shut her out to much just be who you are but give her a little more intimate attention and she'll stop being a psycho cause she'll start thinking its all falling into place. The big question though is do you want her
  4. it seems you trully loved this guy and he's just been absolutely mean to you. I wish he had been much nicer to you but then so many guys are like this. Honey the thing is many guys are freaked out by Marriage. Yes a guy can easily propose to show his commitment but then in a guys mind with engagement you can always break it of. With marriage theres no break off. I probably believe he did feel strongly for you and he does care but the M word freaked him out. Guys think marriage means being tied down to one girl and never havving any fun because for guys normal fun would include chasing after girls and you can not do this when you married. SO they usually realise this at some point and push you away. If you get back with him and are still engaged to him just try and let him be the one to bring up the M word. Because he will feel like it was his choice not yours. I know its not nice waiting and waiting and you wanna bring it up but sometimes love needs to be patient for the greater good. I just was touched when I read your story because I know from personal experience hard painfull it is to love someoen with all your heart and especially when they are YOUR TRUE Love anfd then they let you down big time.A nervous breakdown in you case was quite healthy and expected and I understand exactly what you are going through because I was in a similar situation in my life about 5 years back. We all recover at different rates so dont stress to much if you aren't getting over it quick enough just let the healing process take its course. I know its easy for people to say get a rebound Boyfriend but that hard especially if you will compare them to the ex and all you really want is a clone of the ex. I just want to say Im sorry for all the pain you been through and to let you know we trappers are here for you. Even thought we can't change your situation but we can support you and and give as great advice for you to get through this easier. It's ok to feel we dont trully understand cause truth is only you in the situation will understand it in full but at least you are not alone.I wish you all the best and I hope you do get through this and Daddy gets better. But when things get tough just remember we are there for you.
  5. welcum bak. hope you over the thigns that got you suspended and you will be a lil more mature about everything. DOnt take things to heart too much just have fun bro. Wish you all the best.

  6. wow!!! What a world we live in. How bad does the situation have to be for a guy to wanna shag a 14 year old girl. Surely there are loads of consenting adults out there. I mean this behaviour is seriously twisted. How do you get satifaction sexually knowing you are practically raping someone even if you justify it in your sick mind that its just statutory rape (where it sex with a consenting minor. AFter all what does a minor know so its not really consent is it?) Do people ever stop to think how they would feel if someone did that to their own daughter or sister. So many people cant even stomach the thought of their mom opening her legs and gettting shagged by a man yet they wanna open little kids legs and rob them of innocence while risking the kids getting desease. This is a very twisted mentallity. Just last night after Britains Got Talent I switched over to Channel 4 and the was a program on South African Girls who have been sexually abused. What hit me heardest was that one of the girls was 8 and already had been raped 2 times. She felt ashamed and you could see she was struggling to cope with it all. Whats worse was that once she decided to go public the most hurtful part was that other kids at school laughed at her saying she brought it on her self and probably loves the attention form old MEN. I thought DIsgusting. How surley can a man enjoy pinning a crying female to the floor and forcing her to submit sexually or even kissing a girl who is fighting to get you off. SHouldnt sex be at least bit romantic and RIGHT. Not this cr*p were seedy males target innocent kids and worse threaten to kill them if they told anyone. I hate rapists and I have a daughter myself if anyone was to ever lay his paws and molest my daughter I would take the law into my hands and castrate him. I dont even recommend prison. Just castrate the bastard and live a one inch stump for a penis so they can pee. But ROb them of the right to sex forever cause that exactly what they rob women of. The right to healthy loving sex. And these woman are scarred for life. Many can never ever trust MEN and yet rapists go to prison come out and walk down the street no one knows they are rapists or were once rapists they even manange pull beautifull women and have healthy sex lives in a relationship (assuming ) they never rape again) but their victims struggle for much much longer than the sentence the rapist got and sometimes for the rest of their lives can never trully enjoy sex. SO I say make the rapists PAY for the rest of their lives. Just get Scissors and snipp the problem off. EXTREME but thats the only way they will learn if they cant control themselves well get rid of the thing causing the problem.As for people who entertain dirty thoughts in your head about little kids I think you are just as bad as these rapists because its not something to be proud and self righteaous about. You should actually get MENTAL Help cause to be honest if an older woman had the same intentions but directed at your sons you'd be furious. So get a grip and go get some mental psychiatric help. Surely you know that your thoughs are wrong unfortunately we cant prosecute people for thoughts but morally we cantell you that you have rubbish thoughts and you need to get help.
  7. i have never own a small toyota but my family has always had Fords and TOyota pickup truck and I can say I have a lot of trust in the Ford Brand. If I was to suggest anything, I'd say geta second hand Ford Escort or the Focus because my sister has a focus and It has never given her any trouble. It runs ok I have never heard her complain about it so I' would assume the consumption aint to bad either. My first car was a Ford Escort and so was my Best Buddy's first car and he eventually had to up grade as he had kids and his wife wanted to go all posh and get a Volvo. But he's always said to me Mandla if you want a brilliant reliant fuel efficient car FOrd Escort is your car you can never go wrong he says. And I believe him cause in the 4 years I had an escort I never had one single problem even though mine was probably a twelfth hand cause it have 11 previous owners. Looking at that I was only a teen and got my license you all know how teens are in cars not dangerous but you are still in experiemental mode. You do a lot of stuff you never do when you are older and wiser. So for me I'd suggest an escort or Focus becaause I later had an escort for 5 years and I eventually gave that to my younger sister when she got her license and she's never had any problems with it. It sails through MOT and she loves it. If you were talking about bigger family cars I'd have said Citroen Xantia or C5 because I have own both and they were even more perfect than the Escort. but thats a whole new topic and its not what you asked about.
  8. is a Sxy Mfckr

  9. Web_designer thanks for that link. I had actually come across this site in my search but unfortuantely had just pegged it down to a small picture gallery because I had worked with the dfgallery before. The Version one was fine but it was the one which had limited pictures. It would only scroll when you click the link to the next batch of pictures and only aloud for two pages so that only worked to about 20 pictures or even less. When I visited the link initally I saw the version 1 and was like - argh i've tried this before and it didn't work. Actually I have tried to even find a work around for version one but couldnt get one so I amost gave up. But then I remebered that you have always given very good referals and because you did say I should scroll to the bottom of the page, I carried on reading only to see that they have version 2.0 just realease and i tried it on line with the provided sample. That demo seems perfect. If it works it will be perfectly whay I was looking for. I am currently at work now so I cant test it but will be home in a few hours and I will download and try it. I just really cant wait to try it. The imaging is so perfect and would match the project style perfectly.Thanks so much for you contribution and help.I just wish I could help you back as much as you have helped me in the past few weeks.
  10. I would be chuffed if someoen could give us a script or link linking me to a script that will detect the website visitors I.P Adress and calculate the location of the visitor and then using that data display the local weather.I have an internet radio station and I think this would be a brilliant bit to add to the website home page. I dont really like the ones where you have enter the post code yourself because if you are in a non postcode area say South Africa then you a fooked. I'd love to get something that will automatically update from on of the weather forecast severs and display bright graphics and Tempreture. Similar to i-google. if you customize your google page you get a weather feature thats local to you. Unfortunately I dont remeber if I had to put my postcode manually but when I start google it brings up a page which has the current weather in one corner and the min and max tempreture too Theres a picture with the Sun or Clouds or rain or wind then underneath is tommorows forcast and tempreture Minimum and Maximum.Any help given or advice is greatly appreciated
  11. DOes anoyone know any tutorials I can use to put this together? I believe this would be an MMORPG but not really maybe the BEST would be MMOVW (Virtual World). Any assist is appreciated
  12. Ok. Heres me writting fingers crossed wishing I should be so lucky.I am designing a website for a friends he has about 990 pictures of the family christianing. He has asked me to set up a picture gallery for him. MY inital plan was to set up a flash xml driven gallery with scrolling images that have reflection and are mouse sensitive the more you go left the more faster the images scroll across. similar to an Iphone. It doesnt matter if the thumbnails flip around or just grown in size when you put the mouse over.Is this clear so far?Ok now I have found an xml script that can do this but still im stuck what I wanted wasnt just a script to do this but a script where this would scroll acros the top of the gallery or below the gallery and then there is a large image where if you click on the thumbnail in the scrolling section. It shows up in the big section. I have founs a few scripts but the are only for like 40 pictures and this is a 900 picture gallery. Also I have found one that was able to do this but the pictures were cropped if they were portrait they didnt scale to fit as much as possible wthout distortion. So I would want something which if the photo was too tall would resize it proportionally. too. The thumnails have to be made from the origanl pictures being resized to thumbnails cause im not gonna sit there and create thumbnails one by one for almost a thoushand pictures. It took me hours to rename the pictures from the default DSC_1464566 to 1, 2 3 4 up to 995 so I ask that it creates thumnails automatically. If theres anything you wanna find out thats not clear please just post below and i will respond. I am not looking at using lightboxes cause they arent practicall for a thousand pictures. Imagine having to close a thousand lightbox windows that would be shyte
  13. I noticed the Google logo has changed. I dont know if you all noticed it but the logg had changed slightly. I dont mean the themed logos we always see I mean the actual logo has changed. I couldnt quite put my finger on it for a while but it has no shadow and looks more brighter. and probably something else. The colors might still be in the same order but definitely there is a change thats happening also when you search a different par comes up on the side i think its on the left hand side have a look at the actuall logo. If you see the themed one then go into images and look at the word Google on the header you'll notice a difference. I noticed the change a few weeks back on my desktop computer but the change only came though on laptop a week later so it might also not have changed cause of you cache settings if thats the case delete the cache i think and you should see the updated logo.
  14. surely you must have a lot of idle time on your hands to read this bollox. I mean what has the world come too. How desperate are people to conform to religion that they even find a search engine as a religion or church. I mean the next thing is they will have church of Mobile phones since we rely so much more on mobile or cell phones than google. Quick proof. Whats your brother / sister or best friends mobile phone number. CHances are you dont know it off heart you were like let me get my cell phone and check. Just like we do with google. Whats that site about Purple doughnuts with cherry flavour - oh google it.Then Our kids and the younger generation will have church of Playstaion, Xbox and Wii cause thats all they ever do. oh ofcourse before joining church of google one has to join church of computer. since like christians there is no other way to the Father except through Christ. Well there is no other way to Google except through computer.And yes phones, ipad and PDA's are all computers just not the same shape as a generic PC.And just to answer the question - I would NEVER join the Church of Google
  15. Kosmik, welcome to freedom and Knowledge.I can literally visualise your website project coming to life as a result of your posting here. After all for good quality posts and responses you will accumulate MyCents which will pay for the hosting and domain in no time at all. I know at first its daunting but just take it easy and you'll be rolling in MyCents soon. We are all a big family of friends and helpers and Mods too so dont be afriad to ask. As they say, there are no silly questions just ............. oh i cant remeber the last bit but basically it means dont be shy to ask. Which ever one of us who knows best to answer will give you and answer that will hopefully satisfy you. So get a cup of tea or coffee and get posting.Once again pal, welcome to Xisto
  16. You are right Shadowx, This is not a genuine forum post, but more of an advert for the stupid phone. The post has no valid information apart from the silly info in really bad english. I couldnt even get the advert after reading it. I was like what the eff. And there for a second I was like duhh. Are you asking a question, or you tryin to be smart and tell us the about a product you hope we will look into. There isnt even anything to suggest they have a problem with the so called 0 rings thingy but its more like they are thinking aloud an to me that whole post just sounds like a load of lardy dardy duh advertising.Surely if their company has money to branch into phone systems they should set aside money to do a bit of advertising which is not Spam. This kind of crap makes me wish I was a mod or spam Patrol so I could Zap this post right out the window and get the MYcents for it retracted oh and obvious a Warning would be in place. If only I had the power.
  17. The way you talk is as if witchcraft is still outlawed and anyone caught practising it will still be burned on a stake or stoned to death. I know the past wasn't kind on religions that they did not understand so any thing they didnt understand they feared and with fear came excuse to act irrationally like stone someone. Whats significant about dressing like a goth if you are a witch or is that just some stereo type. I'm interested in finding out about witches and what exactly its all about. Im not there to judge anyone or condemn anyone. I just would love to know what the religion of withcraft entails. How does one become a witch, what powers if any do you posses or are you granted. Are witches good or bad. Is your life similar to the charmed ones always chasing demons etc. Now please dont feed me BS cause that will only make me discredit the whole thing in my mind. I want something that makes a bit of reality sense. Not we travel by teleporting or we had a meeting in china over night and when i ask more details you just worm your way out with more false stuff. I want someoen who genuinely will talk to me about their experience. Im not looking to become a witch or anything I just wanna get to know and understand what witches are all about. Also so I can have a general view on the bigger picture of this thing we call life and spritual world.
  18. One an image is on your pc screen from the internet, then a copy of it will be in the temp internet files folder. So i think based on my level of knowledge the only way to put the image on line is to call it using flash. there is a way of calling an image in Javascript I think and display the image as flash. You can call the image as a flash slide show and just make it rotate the same picture twice to the ordinary viewer they wont see transitions cause the start and end product are the same but I think when they right click to save as even if they have the Enable right click script, they will only get that flash right click menu which says loop, rewind, pause etc other than that they sort of dont have access to the files themselves as they are downloaded as flash files and even if they were to view source the source file will not show the script that calles individual files but just a script that simingly opens a swf file. Hope this works for you
  19. i cant remember what it was but it was those ones were you had a mini cartridge that went in the top Oh I remeber now Game boy. Back them it was amazing then I upgraded to game boy color and i was the shizzle back then. Telly wise my first game console must have been a nintendo to. It was the one that looked luke a 10 x bigger cartidge than the gamebox and it was two dee. You had the red cartridge with like 40 pins that you would force into this thing and the game would load. The thing is probably a collectors item by now lol. Then there was the SEGA Station then I had PS 1 and now PS3 wow technology. Now theres wii and playstation project Natal
  20. Tell me about it. Life is trully unfair. Someone once said life is like a deck of cards, you never know what you are dealt. But also remember what an old gambler once said. Know when to hold on, know when to walk away and know when to run. There is no point putting yourself in dire straights for nothing. Instead of being reactive why dont you try and keep ahead of the posts. Instead of thinking let me write seven dollars worth of posts why dont you try and stay ahead rake up a bit of money in your billing by posting sensible stuff as often as possible. That way you can easily have 40 or 50 dollars in your billing then when you have a writers bloc or exams or have to go on holiday. that pot of money will come in handy and you'll not be under pressure to raise the minimum required. Imagine if you were to loose internet connection for a week. That means your site would be suspended again next month. So try and just keep ahead and save up for a rain day as they call it. Its a shame the pressure you are under right now especially with exams and all. I'd say stop worrying about the site for now and get your exams out the way. You can always set up your site again after a week but if you fail your exams it maybe be a year before you can take them again and I think i'd rather loose a week than a year. If only we could exchange myCents I would give you the worth you need for this month just to help you out but i dont think that is allowed here.Anyway good luck with the exams and remember if life gives you lemons, make some lemonade and soon everyone will be queing to buy a drink in the hot sun.
  21. I think the biggest problem is not piracy as piracy had it pros and cons. People think that piracy make prices rise as in the case with canda but aat the same time you have the issue where in order to entice you to buy the legit product than download companies should lower their prices eg I will not go and buy PictureShop CS III for 350 dollars if i can download it for free. But if the program were to be made 50 dollars I would buy it. basically I'm sayingh companys who budget for 100 sales and assume that they will make a million are setting themselves for disaster why dont they make a product worth 100 but sell it for 10 dollars and they will easily find a million people buying it hence getting them 10 times more revenue.Cause they should research the market well not based on optimisim. To many company's price things on a price they feel in reasonable yet they should rice things at a price that they not think but know is affordable to the demograph that will buy. Everyone knows teens and young adults are more on the computer than a proffessional web designer so theres a higher chance that 1000 17 year old Rodney's will wanna use WEBSHOP CX than 1 Company that will want a multiuser license so if they made WEBSHOP CX affordable for Rodney with his pocket maney then 20 dollars x 1000 is 20 000 at less than a dollar a CD to produce that 19 000 gross profit but it they sell it fo 500 dollars company A will by it on multiuser for 600 dollars and the 1000 rodneys will hack or pirate it from the copy Rodney's dad has at the office and all the software company will make is 600 dollars period. Give it a few weeks and the 1000 rodneys will have the software anyway from the illegal torrent downloads sites.Then again the industry needs to diversify and stop crying foul. They should no hold on to the old technology but move on witht the times and go into partnership deals with companies like apple so they can sell apps and *BLEEP* not just rely on the same selling points from 1950's
  22. i use adsense and to be honest I think they are a bit too much on the strict side in their terms and conditions but hey if i owned Google or any company i would make terms and conditions that best suit my company not the users. I havent used Adbrite but I have come across their adverts before. At first glance they look like google ads and the only difference in the Adbrite Ads little logo. If you just scanned through the page at high speed you would never see the difference. You would just assume its google ads. My question though is how popular if Adbrite with the advertisers. Cause theres no point me putting a adbrite ad that even though is totally random will pay me $0.005 a click i'd love to get a add that pays about 5 cents a click.
  23. i was on Adobe site and realise they advertising CS5 but what I dont know is are they advertising it as a released product or as a future product. The buttons on the site seem like they are for a future date because when you try buying i think it says you can buy to reserve for future release or something. Maybe they have updated their site in last few weeks to change this.But I am interested to see where they will take Dramwever to and Photoshop as those are the programs I use. I hope they will improve Dreamweavers capability in a lot of ways which I think they havent done yet but the web design industry has already gone past. Also a faster loading time and less mucking around processing time and that would be great. Just out of curiousity where did you see the videos. I'd love to check them out too.
  24. can anyone really describe what exactly is spam? Not in deep words like in the rules but just in a normal human way that i would understand. Cause i have still not understood what spamming is. If I said LOL in my post is that spamming or is it just when someone answers a post or topic with stupid stuff likeyh rite or ROFLor is it somethign to do witht the content value of a post as in if the post value is simingly sill or has no direction.Anyone care to explaain without saying go and read the T&C's
  25. ok....... in that case lets say Congratulations Anwiii and Weldone bro.Yeah you all have to watch out now you never know when Anwiii will strike and just like that ***POOF*** he will be gone and return another day lol
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