Is Homosexuality Right Or Wrong? your views

[cangor 0]

Even if you're not looking in the context of morality, just think: why do we have men and women? To procreate. If human beings were intended to be homosexual then there wouldn't be two sexes.

[Skyfalling 0]

I personally have no problem with the thought of homosexuality, but I guess you could say I 'stiffen up' when in the actual presence of one. I'd like to be open minded about the whole ordeal, but when it comes down to it, I'm just uncomfortable around them. If I stay away from them then it's alright but if I'm with them then that's completely different. If I had the chance to get to know one then I'm sure it'd be just like having a normal friend, I guess I just can't bring myself to do it though.

[velma 6]

Hello,Why does everybody keep saying " not meant to be" or " Should not be"... I mean we are not the ones who created the world and I am atheist so I do not even know how this world was made. Many belive God has and I have nothing against them. Homosexuality is a very natural and common occurrence in nature actually and It is said to be perfectly normal. Lots of animals have been recorded indulging in homosexual activities. We are the only creatures that indulge in sex for pleasure more than procreation and we can talk, no wonder we complain about homosexuality when no one else is complaining. I have no idea why people are making such a big deal about an issue that is perfectly normal.As for the issue that the kid will get mentally harmed or anything of that sort is actually the fault of us straight people. If we ever think about it, Let's say a couple sees a gay couple with their child and they are opposed to them, all kinds of dirty looks are thrown at them, but if the child goes to school there the hatred and negativity is passed from teachers to straight children or parents to their children thus the straight children end up treating the gay couple's child like a diease.A child is not damaged the instant it goes to a gay couple it is soceity that either makes or breaks a child. We cannot blame a gay couple for everything that happens to the child, while the parents might love the child a lot outsiders can easily crush the child by telling him that he is an outcaste or is some kind of an untouchable. If straight people stop all the discrimination then all this right and wrong will go down. For in the end the gay couple's child would always rely on soceity rather than its parents for reassurance in its image.

[NNH1254 0]

Even if you're not looking in the context of morality, just think: why do we have men and women? To procreate. If human beings were intended to be homosexual then there wouldn't be two sexes.

Like velma said, the whole "it was meant to be this way" thing only makes sense if you believe in creation, but even if you don't, you might say that if people weren't meant to be polygamous then why can men impregnate a woman when another is already carrying a child of theirs? Polygamy is the most efficient way of procreating, but most people don't say it's OK. Also, the most efficient way of procreating is not the best way of continuing the species, since we'd overpopulate and outstrip our resources.

I don't really care if people are gay, as long as no lesbians think I'm one and ask me out it doesn't matter to me.

[hitmanblood 0]

Hello,
Why does everybody keep saying " not meant to be" or " Should not be"... I mean we are not the ones who created the world and I am atheist so I do not even know how this world was made. Many belive God has and I have nothing against them. Homosexuality is a very natural and common occurrence in nature actually and It is said to be perfectly normal. Lots of animals have been recorded indulging in homosexual activities.

We are the only creatures that indulge in sex for pleasure more than procreation and we can talk, no wonder we complain about homosexuality when no one else is complaining. I have no idea why people are making such a big deal about an issue that is perfectly normal.

As for the issue that the kid will get mentally harmed or anything of that sort is actually the fault of us straight people. If we ever think about it, Let's say a couple sees a gay couple with their child and they are opposed to them, all kinds of dirty looks are thrown at them, but if the child goes to school there the hatred and negativity is passed from teachers to straight children or parents to their children thus the straight children end up treating the gay couple's child like a diease.

A child is not damaged the instant it goes to a gay couple it is soceity that either makes or breaks a child. We cannot blame a gay couple for everything that happens to the child, while the parents might love the child a lot outsiders can easily crush the child by telling him that he is an outcaste or is some kind of an untouchable. If straight people stop all the discrimination then all this right and wrong will go down. For in the end the gay couple's child would always rely on soceity rather than its parents for reassurance in its image.

Well, we have certain prooves how was this world created maybe you want to check them I am not saying that god created earth and everything living but it is not common occcurrence in nature. Becuase in nature everything is based on procreation and homosexuality diverts from that principle so it is just stupid to say that it is common thing in nature.

OK it is not perfectly normal because gays who are gays by nature they have problems with hormonal disorder and that is why they feel in certain way for the sam sex, also if you check the gays who are stating that they are gays just for lust or pleasure I would say they are insane and they are usually people who have been trying to attrect attention of some one else. (These two facts have been proven by American society of physiologists).

And for your third aspect I would just say if you are already stating that then you must know that children learn from the enviroment and in the biggest cases it is their parents or those who take care about them if gay couple takes care about childe then child will learn that from his or hers so called parents and it will think that is it is completly normal and it is not.

My biggest saying against the gays or homosexuals that is what I was thinking in the first place is that they cannot procreate and as the most gays are in developed countries they are just decreasing and destroying our westeren civilization furthermore.

It is just wrong and it should be illegal and people that is homosexuals should pay taxes for being homosexuals.

[JasperIk 0]

It is just wrong and it should be illegal and people that is homosexuals should pay taxes for being homosexuals.

I think heterosexuals should be taxed for creating homosexuals. YOUR procreating (that you all apparently cherish so deeply despite the fact that this world is over populated) creates homosexuals.

[velma 6]

Hi hitmanblood,

OK it is not perfectly normal because gays who are gays by nature they have problems with hormonal disorder and that is why they feel in certain way for the sam sex, also if you check the gays who are stating that they are gays just for lust or pleasure I would say they are insane

Did you know that all humans are first conceived as a girl foetes and then the male sex organs develop. At that stage If there are hormonal imbalances then it actually is not their fault for most gay people do not choose to be homosexuals and for the part where they do choose to be gays...Why not? When we straight people can have sex just for lust and pleasure, Not for procreation I think they too deserve to have fun.

And for your third aspect I would just say if you are already stating that then you must know that children learn from the enviroment and in the biggest cases it is their parents or those who take care about them if gay couple takes care about childe then child will learn that from his or hers so called parents and it will think that is it is completly normal and it is not.

Exactly my point the child does learn from the environment and the child is treated badly by the external environment i.e us "straight" people and then causing all kinds of psychological disorders in the child. Maybe because of us the child of homosexual parents might go for lustful sexual experiences.

My biggest saying against the gays or homosexuals that is what I was thinking in the first place is that they cannot procreate and as the most gays are in developed countries they are just decreasing and destroying our westeren civilization furthermore.

I do not actually see the connection in the gays not being able to procreate and the western civilization getting destroyed phenomenon....Why would you want more people to be born in this world when the present population itself is struggling to survive. You do not need more people to keep the western civilization sustained, It is the people who do it and belive me we have enough population to sustain the civilization and It will take a long time before we run out of children to sustain the civilization.

The positive side of Homosexual people not being able to procreate is that all the children who are living in orphanages who deserve a really good home would always get a nice home. So If gay people are allowed to adopt in peace then you can imagine how many abandoned kids might get a chance of a home, It might seem like a small number to us but It is a big thing for those kids and we cannot spoil it by treating those kids like outcastes or something.

I think that most religions state that You should love every human being no matter how they are, Even if they are diseased. Then why do we cause such a ruckus.

We cannot decide a person's lifestyle and If that person is minding is own business then we are definitely not allowed to judge them. By the way If we are so against "Homosexuality" Why is lesbian pornography such a hit? I wonder or is that ok according to nature.....

Cheers

[Albus Dumbledore 0]

Did you know that all humans are first conceived as a girl foetes and then the male sex organs develop.

Funny how that is heh? The male sex organs are the female organs turned upside down. Think of the ovaries as the testies and the if you know you're anatomy, it all makes sense from there XD

I do not actually see the connection in the gays not being able to procreate and the western civilization getting destroyed phenomenon....

that is my point exactly

The positive side of Homosexual people not being able to procreate is that all the children who are living in orphanages who deserve a really good home would always get a nice home.

that is what i said, but people still like to bring up the thought of parents encouraging and wanting the kid that they raise to be homosexual like the parents are.. which like you said, depends on society, not necessarily how much the parents influence the kid(s)

[velma 6]

Hey Albus,I am happy that atleast somebody sees the positive of being gay. People speak about the children's mental health without for once realising that they are responsible for the child along with the parents. I mean there are first of all less gay people adopting children and the ones who do it is because they are really desperate for a child. I do not think they would get a child just for the heck of it. They are already under the scrutiny of people.I feel funny for when I think of this situation I can think only of that character in "The Simpsons" the Holy man Love joy's wife who keeps saying "Think of the children" Even if she is thinking rationally or not.

[Albus Dumbledore 0]

I agree that most homosexual couples would get a child just for the heck of it, but because they really want a child.I also think that the world is better with a population of homosexuals because the world is greatly populated, in my opinion a bit way too much, and the homosexual population is sort of helping in a way to keep population low since they cannot produce children, or more people to populate this over populated world.I don't know what you are talking about when you talk about the Simpson's because i don't watch it. :|

[velma 6]

Hey,One of the reasons people do not appreciate homosexuals is because they cannot "procreate". I do not know why it is so important for them to be procreating. I mean Is that why people have sex? If people have sex just for procreation then can you imagine the number of children conceived and born ever second. And the weirdest bit how many of those parents would be teenagers...And even if tomorrow a technology was developed to let a person who has changed their sex to have kids naturally then there would be an uproar on how the kids are unreal or born without a soul or something. People would say that the child would get a mental disorder if it came to know that it's mother was a man before or something. The child is an innocent creature without assumptions in its first few years and is said to be a crucial period for it so if we went and treated the child horribly then obviously it would get mentally scarred. In Wildfowl and Wetlands Trust [slimbridge], Gloucestershire there are these gay flamingo couple called Carlos and Fernandes that are taking care of a chick that was abandoned by its own mother and the gay couple have adapted by producing milk in their throats which is usually done by their mother. The two are very protective and caring about their chick. I guess we need to be learning fro them

[iGuest 3]

Well, It is hard to say that homosexuality is right or wrong. May I refer to the bible: God destroyed Sodom..... , part of the reason was that men were having sex with men. I agree with Danieluchis, I think loving is not wrong but when you have sex, so loving and abstinence is definitely right I THINK. I don't think people should be ashamed of what they feel.-anonymous

[iGuest 3]

The fact something IS doesn't make it right. Homosexuality IS, killing IS, poverty IS- yet this doest make it right. We have come to accept so many things that claim themselves to be norm, that we forget what it is that we should stand for. How can it be that a sexual orientation that causes harm to a man's body is right in any way. How can we go on accepting these devilish acts because society, and other first world countries are accepting it. Jamaica has always been different...why change for others? "Broad is the way that leads to destruction , and many fall therin."-spmw

[rayzoredge 2]

I believe that sexuality is based on genetic composition... which really means that sexual preference isn't a choice, although it may seem like one. The choice nowadays is to recognize yourself as a homosexual or a bisexual (coming out of the closet). All this crap about it being a bad thing sprouts from religious beliefs and political standing and it's not correct to say if it's a right or wrong thing.It's correct to say that it isn't exactly ideal to try to procreate being homosexual (since it's really not going to happen), but other than that, what's not to like? I find that bisexual and homosexual individuals are as friendly, nice, cool, and fun as anyone else. They are no different than anyone else aside from their sexual orientation.Sure, no one would like to be hit on by a homosexual of their same gender, but is that really true? Take it as flattery. One thing that I'm guilty of is the whole trend on using the word "gay" as a derogatory term. It sucks that a mass of people look down on h*omo- and bisexuals... people need to open their eyes instead of following their d*mn books and just listening to what their peers say, if you catch my drift.Then again, that applies to a lot of things...

Edited November 26, 2007 by rayzoredge (see edit history)

[Liam_CF 0]

Of course it is right. Nobody should be discriminated against for life choices or anything. I don't believe that you choose your own sexual orientation, you just are. It's not genetic though, it's environmental, changed by the way you live. Different types of people think differently but I think this is completely the correct view.