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Hi Konrad, a few more details would be use full, what kind of job have you been offered, what are the terms of the position and how well do you know this Friend?

Hi Bani,yes i saw the "rage" on the other vent topic list. I will also admit its not my cup of tea, but hey at least he tried to create a new image, the location / welcome box is a bit naff, the layout is bland and honestly i dont see the point of a stripped down version of KS anyway.Keep venting Bani, we have all done it at some time, and maybe between the regular users of KS we could point out some key design ellements, functions and features that we would like to see in KS, then KS may grow into a resource that we all love and enjoy using.J

Hello Anwiii, maybe its just you that he doesn't want to know your location..... i'm not so keen on the new lay out to be honest, there are a few things that you have all said prior to now and I agree with most of them, what i think would be constructive is if we were to maybe be nice and suggest how we think he could make it better instead of being so down on his design. Bani, i get that your not impressed but given your level of interest in this new "development" maybe it would be nice to constructively advise him on what the community would like to see. How about that as a new line of discussion instead of the current negative angle Just a thought.

Relationships get stale, and if your not careful you mistake boredom for falling out of love. the spark that everyone is talking about doesn't just keep its self alight. it takes work and energy from both parties. I do think that there are times when people grow apart, when you have been with some one for some time, you may have changed, you may have decided that the course that you were traveling along no longer is right for you. Unfortunately this often means that couples split up if the other person is not willing to try change or compromise.I do believe that relationships take work, I know from experience how easy it is to let the "Spark" die, I also know how hard it is to keep the spark alive once the relationship has hit a major flat line.In all honestly if you love the person that you are with, and they love you then nothing is impossible, the sad part to that is that when you first fall in love with your special someone it quite often isn't love at all its more then likely to have been lust, and the spark from lust is harder to keep alight. Love is supposedly eternal so the spark from love is somewhat more manageable the that of lust's. the difference between love and lust well lets leave the sex out of it, lust encompasses all the newness and shinny parts of a new relationship, quite often when lust is presence the little things "habits" that people have they either don't notice or the ignore thinking its a little quirky idiosyncrasy that they have, the down side to this is that when it stops being first dates and romantic weekends away, and the day to day happenings kick in, those little quirky features that you tolerated, now start to annoy you beyond belief, this is when you either need to find the things that you Love in your partner or start to have open direct discussions with them. cause brushing it under the rug will only allow it to grow and fester like an infected wound..... and we all know that an infection not treated correctly can kill you.......In short there are most likely X number of reasons for a relationship to break down, and long term it may just be that one day you woke up and realized that your life is not what you want any more...... you owe it to your self to be honest and composed when talking to your partner about your feelings, weather its been 12 months or 12 years, it will still hurt if you can't work it out. You also owe it to you and your partner to make sure that your compromises are not all consuming. you need to know that there is balance in the relationship, that there is trust and genuine belief that you are both wanting the same thing.To grow old together, happy with the life that you have lived. If this is not how you see your life progressing then its time to agree to move on. long term or not it will never be an easy decision.............my thoughts anyway. hugs

I could be signing my own death sentence here.... but I'm on the other side of this discussion, I was the cheater, and yes it was my fault, I was bored, my partner was never there and the opportunity just developed with a friend who became more then a friend. I still loved my partner, still do. We are still together, but everyone is right its hard work and the trust is the hardest part its gone completely. Now my life is an open book but if I'm acting differently or have changed my routine then they assume that I'm cheating again, I know my partner loves me very much, and that is why we are still together, I can't imagine my life with out them, these days cheating is the furthest from my mind. Strangely enough i think we have a better relationship today as we are more open and honest about how we are feeling and when things aren't right we speak up and say something instead of me going to friends to talk and my partner just ignoring it. There's an old saying it takes two to tango and its very true, if your in a relationship and one party cheats then there is usually something missing from that partnership and its not always the cheaters fault, granted they made the move to cheat and they committed the act, but if the relationship was a happy and healthy one to start with then there is a fair chance that they would not have drifted else where.In my chase my partner said i cheated on them, i never had sex with the other person, i never even met the other person it was an only relationship but still i said and wrote some things that were not nice about my relationship, about my partner and given the chance I'm not sure if i have met the other person that I would not have gone ahead and had a physical relationship with them.I think if i had done that there may very well not have been any option to return to my partner and our relationship.For those of you who are so sure about no taking back a cheater, I suggest that you make sure that you have given it enough thought on the situation and what may or may not have lead to the cheaters reasons for drifting from thier relationship.Any way just my 2 cents worth. Don't flame me for my honesty.... or what i have done in the past.....

honestly my Cav's and Havanese are not too bad, its only when they get bored and that seems to happen in the winter when they are inside. the older ones curl up infront of the fire and the young ones seem to get into mischief. Touch Wood, they havent distroyed any furniture for a while now:) but puppies will be puppies.....

I think we all like to eat.... some of us enjoy our food more then others

Hmmm well that depends on the occasion i suppose don't those southern ladies deep fry everything and some of them have bodies to die for.... And it most definately doesnt seem to hurt those southern hunks either with thier southern drawl and 8pack muscled bodies.... Sheepdog I figure we can deep fry anything we want as long as we spend the next 6 hours chasing after the Kids, puppies and what ever else seems to monopolise our lives..... It all comes down to Balance, If we burn more fuel than we take in we loose weight, its when we take in more fuel then we need that our asses start to look like Big Mama's so Deep Fried Marsbars and 8 hours of chasing animals should keep us in check

Hmmm i wish my cav's had read the same breed standard that you know about.... My lounge may be still intact if they didn't distroy it I do love them, I know what you mean about wimpy dogs, I used to have collies and rotties, but when I moved out of home I couldn't take them with me so these days my partner and I are happy with the smaller breeds, But I have a soft spot for BIG dogs, Afgahns and most of the Larger Spaniels are just fine.My Partner refuses to get an Afgahn as the grooming would kill us...... He does most of the grooming and Showing. He's very passionate about it all. Has a trick for just about every coat type and has spent many hours and hundreds of dollars working on getting the right mix of product and technique to get the coats the way that he wants them for show...... Keep at it with search for a breeder who will let you have some new lines I'm sure you will find one, good luck with the breeding program, Its hard work and made even harder when some breeders don't test or advise what issues they have in thier lines....

Hello Eragon,good to see your back on topic, Yes there are similar stories round the globe about Dragons, and different cultures all have similar references, but the same can be said for many mythical creatures and some not so mythical, if you look into the history or writings of any culture, and compair it with another culture you will see similarities, be it dragons, vampires, Religeous figures etc, the lines of comparison are all very similar, if you are talking about the worlds ability to know or replicate events with out actually seeing whats happening on the other side of the world, then given this similar time / event line then you could be correct in beleiving that mythical and spiritual creatures and beings were omni present. As you know from my past postings I beleive in the dragon spirit as well as thier actual presence in times gone by, I also believe that there is similarities in many of the worlds wonders. With regards to Dragons and if they exist today, unfortunately I don't beleive we will ever be lucky enough to be graced by thier beauty and power again, I can only hope if they do exist that I will live to see them again, However I think this is unlikely, well no in an actual dragon form, possibly as a spirit guide or energy source. It would please my very much to have someone prove me wrong and show me that they still exist, that would be a wonderful supprise in this very cold world.Jase

Hey Eragon,Nice to see you introduce yourself here. we've spoken a bit last week, and I agree with Anwiii, your a very intelligent person, extremely creative as well and I like that, there is so much that i'm sure you have to tell the world, I'm also certian that inside KS you are protected to an extent, so go on write away, the spelling will get better and if you want I'm sure someone here will help you with it as well, Have to agree with Anwiii on the stories, you need to do it via a blog so that it can be tracked back to you KS has a Great Blog Facility, so use it.... if you want someone to check your stories for spelling before you post them, shot it to me via PM or email and I will check it over, you also seem to be in a bit of a rush at times when posting, i would suggest that you try not to post anything of importance when your rushed as it seems to effect the information you are trying to put out. All in all your a wonderful person and I'm more than happy to have you as a friend. Take care we can talk soon about your love for Dragons and more....CheersJase

We have been breeding Cavalier King Charles Spaniels for the past 9 years and in the past 9months we've moved into the Havanese breed, Our new boy is a Havanese, great bloodlines and all going well he'll be a Canadian Champion before he leaves to come over to Aus. The Quananteen period here is 30 days from arrival but he has had to have all of the tida tests and usual stuff done and been clear in Canada for the past 5 months. so all up its a 6 month delay before we actually get him, He will be our 4th import. It costs me a small fortune everytime my partner decides we need new blood...... But I wouldn't have it any other way The cavies are fairly easy to groom but the havanese are a full time job. they need to be brushed everyday, they have a silk like cost that doesn't malt, so the only time they loose coat is between 6 - 12 months when they go through coat change and then you need to physically drag out all the old coat over the period so that the new coat can grow through and so that the old coat doesnt knot and matt up.... its a huge job and can be very time consuming but its what you do if you want show dogs.....

Hey Sheepdog,My partner is just like you doesn't like soaking either not keen on the heat from a hot bath, but a warm to cool bath will have the same effect with the salts, they help draw out some of the toxins produced durring activities (using muscles you don't usually use ) its incredable how a simple 10 minute soak can take away the aches of the day. But if your pool was full and working then strangely enough a soak in a pool with an above average ph level will do the same it works on osmosis effect on the body drawing out the toxins.Anyway hope your feeling better.

Hello Eragon, I'm confused Saphira? Is yours ? Having been a wicken for as many years as I am old I'm curious as to how you became a guardian to a dragon. This usually a birth rite, passed down through the generations. And it is 9 generations since the legend of the last dragon was seen in this relm, so again I'm asking you. Which dragon line do you come from. The european or the asian lines? As for the issue with "white" and "black" magic. In part you are correct however, what you have overlooked is that each and every person has the capability to produce dark or light magic, it is all dependant on the intention and end result, even people who mean well may do more harm with an ill placed white light spell if the full consequences are not considered. Whislt I agree most enlightened beings make a conscious decision to work towards light or dark energy. We are all capable of both. Its all part of the greater ballance. Obviously with guidence and a solid training most enlightened beings choose a path but we are all capable of either function. I would like to know more about saphira if your willing to give me more details. I look forwards to more chatsRegardsJase

Hey Sheepdog, I know that pain of being old and chubby, I also know how much joy that garden will bring when its in full bloom this year. you should take a few photo's of it so we can all enjoy its wonder. I hope you don't ache too much, you need to take along hot bath with epson salts to reduce the ache, add a drop or two of lavender and half a cup of olive oil to the bath to help rejuvinate your tired shell.... Hope your back soon. and in good helth on your return. take care Jase

I don't quite know the situation at home with you and your father, however given his expectation and such that I'm sure if you approached this as an option for your to build character and gain independance while still under his watchful eye, i'm sure that with a little discussion from your mother, He may be given to allowing the caravan concept as it will actually put you in a much stronger place financially than moving out all together and in his mind he may feel that he will still be able to protect and guide you when you need. I'm also sure once you have requested time with him to learn how better to manage your money and work toward responsible financial stability that he will see this is a very sensible solution, much more so than you moving out completely or staying under his roof feeling as you do. Give it a go, asking him may supprise you with the response you require. if you feel he is open to such learning opportunities... Let me know how you go. Jase

Eragon, thank you for your response, I agree, that old magic still is with us more so with some than others, however I would disagree that it taints the air and is the cause for lack of dragon rebirth, during your studies on Dragon (Arach), you may have had reference to Magic, and from this reference you will have been instructed that there is no such thing as dark or light magic only the purpose and use of such energy, So my question to you young dragon master is this, are you certian that the Arach clan do not exist in this relm today, but are just hidden by which you refer to as tained old world magic?I expect that you are well versed in the study of Draca and its many incantations, I'd be currious to know of which evolution you are charmed with and which you have knoweldge of?I'd be further happy to discuss the this topic futher and explore our joint understanding of the worlds within our own.with respect and trust.Jase

Hello Muscianly,Interesting move considering your recent personal situation, I think your independance is important but not at the expence of your well being, may i suggest an alternative, is there room at your family's property to perhapse purchase a caravan and locate it in the back yard? if so this may be the best option for you, that way your expenese will not be as high, and you will still have the support system in place should you need it for now as well as the physical separation that you may need to clear your head and focus on your studies.Working on the fact that this is an option and your family are happy to allow this, I would think that instead of spending the $1000 per month on rent + utilities and other expenses, you should then create a saving account and have the same amount placed into a term deposit for 6mth periods, adding each week to this, you should also set up another account and have 10% of your income taken immeadiately from your pay each week and have this placed into the new "Forced Savings" Account, you should never touch this account, it should always just be there collecting 10% of everything that you earn. Over a short period of time this 10% will grow but you will not even notice 10% missing from your income after a few weeks. this account may then be used as a stabilising factor when applying for a loan on either a very good quality used car or perhapse a new small car that is around the same price. (I had the same delema last year, my company car that I had been driving for the past 5years was no longer available to me as I changed jobs, so I looked at the cost of purchasing a new car and the option of a good second hand car, the only concern i have with a second hand car is that you are not sure why someone would sell it and if they did why? what issues may it have, So I looked at the Kia Rio here in australia its a great little Car, Seats 4-5 comfortably and travels and handles well and has all the features of many of the more expensive cars i looked at, I paid just over 12K for it, which was nearly as much a some of the used cars i had been looking at. but it is up to you.) Given that you will be saving the money from rent etc by living in the caravan in the back yard, you should also be able to move that money towards paying for your new car sooner thus reducing your debt and also increasing your credit rating, which will help when you go to approach a bank for the money to buy an appartment / small house.The Next thing that you need to do is work on your studies, you can not afford to be failing your classes, I know there are reasons behind your current state of mind and lack of focus, but it is time to cleanse your mind and refocus on you and your future, from the security of your caravan, you should be able to apply yourself more completely at your studies and still get the personal space and rest you will need to succeed.I'm hoping that your family will be supportive of the caravan idea, it will empower you in many ways, but most of all give you the chance to save large amounts on money which you can put to good use in the future to assist with your path in life.Anwiii also pointed out that there are many more issues that you need to address when completing your budget, and planning for the future, I would suggest that you take the time to assist at home with some of the financially draining task, such as the weekly shopping, so that you get a feel for the items that you will actually need to buy as well as ways inwhich to acheive better value from your weekly grocery shopping, i'm sure you mother or whom ever it is that does this task would appreciate the company as well as respect you for wanting to learn this valuable life skill, While you are on this area of family finances, ask polietly to see if you can be included when your family pay thier monthly utility and associated bills, so that you will get a feel for how to deal with regular bills and managing family budgets. The other pointer that you will need to learn is that every time you go to the shops it costs you more then you expect, so when you are doing you shopping draw up a list of items that you need to cover you till your next shopping trip, and stick to the list do not add any extra's as you walk around, then do not go back again till the following week, Also if you are cooking for yourself to help in the shopping list create a menu planner, this way you can check your pantry and fridge to see what ingredience you will need for your shopping list. The more organised you are the more money you will save. There are some really good websites here in australia on budgeting and how to make your money go further, I would imagine that there are simmilar in the USA however ours would work just as well. many base their efforts on cutting down on purchasing and becoming more resourcefull.Other things to consider when shopping and buying are to buy in bulk only when it is something that will not perish, there is no use buying 3ltrs of milk if you are only going to use 1/2ltr of milk and the rest will be thrown out. They are just a few things to keep in mind, let me know what you think about the caravan idea, It worked for my friend and its how he saved enough to buy his first house. Take care you know where I am if you need me.Jase

Hello Eragon,I'm not quite sure what your hoping to acheive with this post? but i too beleive that Dragons did exist, but along with them comes all the other incantations and creature from a time well past. Perhapse you could give us more of an idea on what kind of discussion you would like to see happening here with regards to your Dragon Debate, being of Celtic background, I truely believe that there was a time when they existed and a time where man and dragon existed in harmony even if it was only breif. I'd also be currious to know what your interest into dragons is, and if you beleive in the other creatures from that time?I look forward to your continued engagement in this topic.CheersJase

Morning All,Web_designer i'm curious to know if it was strange at first when you started to go out and smile at people when you first arrived in the US? for me a smile from a stranger is a wonderful thing, but in my culture there is a smile from a stranger, then there is also a "SMILE" and that look from a stranger that is cruising you or that thinks your hot..... either smile makes my day, but that passing glance and knowing smile of someone giving you the ego boost of a cruising / thinks your hot smile is just a truely inspiring thing......You know when i was growing up, i grew up in a small rural town with a very heavy european / ethnic community. I myself am an anglosaxin gay boy so growing up in a town full of religious catholic greeks and italians was interesting, for the whole of my youth, even though i was picked on for my sexuality, the european culture didn't seem to care that much and many of my friends (mainly girls) were italian or greek, I suppose that's where i got my love for good food. Anyway throughout my entire youth the ethnic community seemed much more like home to me then the white of the town, even though i was one. I think there is a lot to be said about the way things were, I was a gay man in a rural farming town and everyone knew it, some didn't like me and i'm sure they talked about me behind my back, but you know what i always felt protected by the same people, they gave me respect for hard work, they allowed me to be apart of thier community, Maybe it was the token gay thing I don't know but back then people were pleasent and warm regardless of who you were, These days I live about an hour away from where I grew up and the world is a completely different place, its no longer illeagal for me to be Gay, I can be proud of that change to common law, People still talk behind my back, but these days I don't feel safe in my community, the friendly smile you talked about is still there but there is a lack of trust behind the smile that we seem to give and get these days. I don't know maybe its because we are all so connected and aware of the greater world community around us that we are constantly in fear of the next big catastrophy? or maybe its just that we are not sure if its just plain safe anymore to be friendly with out caution.I think the smile is one of the nicest things that we can give and get for free and it really does touch us in a very special way. I just wish that with the age old decency of a smile came some of the pasts more sensible ethical notions, like trust and kindness. Oh well one can dream.