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Xarex, Man that was one of the best posts and reply's to the issue of boosting web traffic and advertising i've seen in a long while. the suggestion on writing a ebook on the topic is something I think you should do. Awesome work. I'll keep you in mind next time i need a project launched.... Thanks again for the input it really was top shelf cheers Jase

Anwiii i'm please we can agree to disagree, she ROCKS but then again I think you know that too Mind you i'm also partial to Pink and her twisted view on the world as well .....

Anwiii you are correct I know what life is like and how people's issues can affect how you live. I also know how had it can be to go against your family. I lost mine so i could be with my life partner, its been 10 years monday week since we entered into our life together.... So I know exactily how hard the decision between family and lover can be, You are correct about the cowardly act of running its never a good thing when you run scared from a situation. The worst part about running is that eventually life catches up with you. if he walks away from this girl and he is indeed in love with her. then in time no matter who he marries this love that he has for the current girl will create a darkness that will eventually shaddow his commitment to any other relationship that he may have. in its worst form it may even lead to resentment and hatered for his family. Tejas, you really need some space and solitude, a few minutes, days or what ever it takes, But you need to be clear on what you want. Either way you need to make the decision, anything we say here can give you guidance but at the end of the day when your alone, sitting quietly with your thoughts, You and YOU alone will be the the one who knows how you feel, and what you're going to do...... I can only hope that it is the honorable thing and that you make the decision sooner rather than later. as the longer you leave this situation the darker that resentment could become for all parties involved. Best of luck with your search and may your honor shine through. best wishes Jase

Hi All Just thought i'd post the link to GAGA's new clip for Judas. http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/ Awesome work yet again.cheersJase

Hey Tejas,there are a few things that i suppose we all need clarification on? firstly are you parents saying no because you are supposed to be entering into an arranged marrage? Secondly do you love this girl really?if the arranged marrage is part of the situation, then you will need to approach the situation with care as your family will have sent much time and resources in securing your social standing with another family and both families will have alot to loose if you were to go against social protocols.....I'm one who knows all about social protocols... and going against them. Second part. if you truely love this girl and she truely loves you then it will make no difference to wait 1 day or 3 years. especially if you have left your family believing that you are parting ways with this girl. they will not only still be thinking that it is ok for the arranged marrage to go ahead but also that you have betraided their trust by deceiving them and still having a relationship with this current girl. you will need to man up and make a decision that you beleive in. once you have committed to this decision you will then have the strength and solitude to aproach your family and address the issue of your relationship with this girl, You will know in your heart of hearts that you are 100% committed to her and to the relationship that you have. Once you are committed then your love for her and your need to protect her will be evident to your family and to everyone else. and if you are passionate enough about this relationship your family will see that and they will not want to hurt you and work a way arround the arranged marrage that they have in place for you.But if you kid yourself and let 2 or 3 years pass by, beleiving this will soften your families decision it will not, they will grow very angry with your decite and betrail. You need to make sure that no matter what no one else is miss lead by your love for your girlfriend. and that no matter what happens you make sure she is safe and secure in the knoweledge that you will protect her.If you stand by her then nothing else will matter in the long run.......Over time people will come to see that you are a good man, that you have provided for your lover, and that you are capable of providing for your future family.... Your family and your community will eventually see that you are an honorable man and respect you for that, even though in the begininng of this persuit it will be hard, people will grow to trust and respect you.Trust and Respect are things that are earned. You need to have foritude and honor to earn them. Make sure that at the end of each day you have proven beyond a doubt that you are the kind of man that this girls family would have choosen for her, and that this girl is the kind of girl that your family would have choosen for your regardless of social status and financial backing. When it comes to matters of the heart and love your mother will understand even though she will not say it, and Your father who i'm assuming is a man of respect and honor will think more of your for choosing the honorable path and facing this immeadiate hardship with dignity and solace. If on the other hand as some of the others have pointed out, if this girl is just a distraction while you pass time. then again be honorable and end it now do not keep her waiting in the hope that in 2 or 3 years she has the chance of being happy with you. that is not fair to her or honorable to your family and your future wife.Hope my views help.Regards and best wishes

Hey don't be embarrassed..... i tend to be a little discrete when talking about my partner and our life usually.... so I tend to be less specific when i refer to my partner. As for your question as to wether a relationship between and same sex couple and opposite sex couple is the same. having been on both sides of that fence, its not the sex of the person that matters, its that attraction that you feel. its that chemistry. I really appreciate your support and warm feedback.. thanks again.

Hi Anwiii,thanks for the feedback its greatly appreciated, at the risk of loosing a potential online friend, i have a correction to make my partner is another man hope its not offending anyone here. but you are right in this day and age we are lucky. I know that and I appreciate the time you gave to give me support and feedback.I'm thinking that the little supprises and gestures that are out of the norm might be the best route to take to Spark things up again.Just on a side Note where do you feel i should have posted my comments if not the vent just for future reference?anyway hope all is wellcheersJase

So yesterday I was watching a great movie, "Shelter" 2007 its all about one guys struggle with life and responsibility and fitting in to social expectations. Its a great story, all about love and dicsovering new things, about family and loyalty. it got me thinking about my relationship. I've been with my partner for 10 years next week actually. We have had our moments and believe me i've screwed more then a few things up along the way. But what i miss most about our life at the moment is the Romance. Not the Sex but the romance. you know that feeling when you walk into a room and they are there and all you want to do is be with them, they smile and it lights up your world. Well i miss that. Believe me I still love my partner, more now then I think i did when we first fell in love. Its just that life seems to have gotten away from us and we are all about getting things done. making sure everything is perfect or at least looks that way. I miss US..... the alone time with just the two of us, we have our kids and I would'nt trade that for the world but I really do miss US.Am I just being silly or am I focusing on what I want too much. I don't know I seem to be always asking for more ME time and US time and it just never seems to happen, by the time I get home from Work, We are both so Tired and set into our routine that before I know it I'm sitting on the lounge watching TV or reading of something and my partner is on their way to bed or already in Bed asleep. We seem to live in the house together and occuppy the house but at times other then the fact that we sleep in the same bed, we just don't seem to be together, it scares me a little, actually a lot. As i've said I've done some stupid and hurtful things over the past then years and every time my partner has moved passed my screwups and we have moved on together. I just want to know is it possible to get that ROMANCE back into your life after 10 years and how do i do it? i'd give anything to feel that excitment of the first stage of love again that rush you get when you hold hands or cuddle at night. I love that when i crawl into bed at night my partner without realising "usually while asleep" reaches over and grabs my hand and holds me tight as i fall off to sleep. that gives me conformt. I love that we have our little rituales, we allways kiss before i leave for work and usually kiss when i get home and walk in the door "Unless they are on the phone". I know we love each other. I just think that SPARK of emotion or newness has faded and I don't want it too.. I've seen other couples in my family and friends circle that after 50 years of marrage seem to still have that conneciton and spark. I'm just wondering if they too went through that stage where everything seemed routine and dull, or if they allways had that spark that rush when they were together?Anyway if you get the chance check out Shelter, watch it with an open mind its a beautifully filmed and written piece, well thats my rant / vent for the dayhope you are all doing well.cheers Jase.PS any feedback or comments on relations / romance and love would be greatly appreciated positive comments only please

Hello Sue,Welcome to KS and Xisto,Hope you find what your looking for here. everyone is nice, been a member at Xisto for years and used them for my first lot of hosting. these days i'm on KS a bit more but either way the people are nice and very helpful,so have fun and enjoy the world around u.cheersJase

Hi and thanks for the welcome.... I know the double post was an acident as i hit enter and it submitted it with out me actually having finished writing what I wanted too.... So hopefully it won't happen again anyway thanks again for the warm welcome Cheers Jase

would God surf the net. Well i can only imagine that God would and i would also assume that God most likely does keep an eye on the social media type locations to assist where possible.As of the content I think that God would definately be well aware of the good the bad and the silly stuff that is on the web as far as that goes.I think that in this day and age if God had the opportunity to open another door to interact with His/Her Followers then I'm sure God would be on the net and anywhere else that would draw some attention.anyway just my opinion....cheersJase

Hello Windy & Vernon,Congratulation and welcome, nice to see you both active on KSgood luck in the future and please let us know if there is anything that we can do to help you out.Everyone here is more then willing to assist where possible and look forward to your contributions within KSHave a great dayCheersJase

Hi Tony,Welcome to the KS,Hope you find what your looking for here, there are lots of people willing to help and assist where possible so feel free to chat and explore. looking forward to talking to you soon.have fun and enjoy your day.cheersJase

Hello All,Just thought I should say Hello, its been a while since I actually had time to swing by and post or be involved here. So a little about me............ its all about me isn't it Anyway I'm qualified in marketing and management, have been for several years now. Currenlty working and Sales, and Development for a software company that I am part owner of, enjoy working with small business to help them get better web exposure and traffic. Always up for a chat or discussion about just about any thing and very little scares me away so have at it folks.I'm a great listener and usually have sound advise, if i don't i will let you konw somone who may be albe to help you out.So thats it from me, be keen to talk some more to you all. check out my profile for more details.cheers and stay safeJase

Hi,I would agree Android is the way to go, Have an android based touch pad. works wonders. I also have a Blackberry Bold and just love the BB stuff have been working with communications companies on and off for the past 10 years and BB seems to be holding thier own,You really need to let us know what your intended use of the phone will be so that we can be more specific with our replies to your needs.But regardless the Andriod solutions seem to be getting more and more active every day so if your really keen go for one of the Android Range.CheersJase

Hi,FACEBOOK? You should be more focused on what you are going to offer to your members. the opportunity for you to genuinely offer a new community access point with a point of difference.What is it that you hope to be able to offer your members should be your first point of difference that they will not be able to gain from another solution?Once you have decided what will set you apart from the other network solutions then you will have something to work with.You will then need to decide how your members will interact with each other, what and how they will interact will become a major draw card for your solution.You may also want to consider why and how often you will need to have your members coming back to your site. Or will they interact via an email like network that runs through your site?These are all the base things that you will need to evaluate before you will know if your site is going to work.Forget FACEBOOK its no threat if you have something different to offer you members and potential visitors In the mean time use FACEBOOK to get traffic. You?d be surprised how quickly things can grow and develop on the web. Have fun with it and let me know if you need any help with your future direct. CheersJase

I've been wondering lately about the whole 2012 situation, fossil fuels and in particular Australia's abundance of natural resources. Being from Australia and having benifited for many years from this countries good luck with resources, if this country and indeed the planet will continue to function as the "Fossil Fuels" supposedly run out. I doubt that I will see this occur in my time but then again there have been many things that I didn't think I would see in my time.I beleive that the concept of alternative energy makes a heck of a lot of sense to me and I am currently researching solutions for heating and powering my new home in Tasmania, which I will start to develop in the next few years. But as much as I beleive this is the socially responsible thing to do. The several Questions remain.1. Would the earth as we know it continue to function with out fossil fuels or would the worlds populations come to a grinding halt if we suddenly ran out of oil and natural gas?2. Would our electrically powered divices that we all rely so heavily on become great boat ancors of the future, if the worlds fossil energy sources suddenly stopped?3. As users of this limited energy source, how much do you think society would be prepared to sacrifice to continue thier online habits, their flat screen TV's and thier constant need for bright flashy items?I know there is more then one answer to this posting and that there are polar oppisit opinions on the topic, however I also know that the concept of 2012 and the world changing as we know it is fast approaching, I also know that most people regardless of status if given the opportunity and the funds would prefer to take an alternate source of energy, so why is it that in a country such as Australia with such large expanses of land and above average exposure to sunlight on a daily bases that our government does not do more to assist in the developement of alternative energies as well as the implimentation of legislation that would encourage builders and developers to move towards ensuring that all new building were more self suffiecient and less of a drain on our current fossil fuel based power systems.My plans for the new house are two fold, firstly to ensure that the house can function off the grid so to speak so that we do not have to rely on government infrastructure, but as a source of income or at least to offset some of our other expenses I'd like to enable a conection with the local electric grid to sell back excess power to the power company. I know this can be done and is actually becoming a more popular solution with many Australians given our rising electricity costs. I also feel that the new home should be constructed in a manner that does not impact as much on the envirionment and as such feel that the McMansion solution seen here in Australia and also oversea's in the USA is not a feasable solution for my life or for many others concerned about the effects it will have on our resources globally.I'm leaning towards a composit construction of old and new technologies, I really like the concept of Straw bale homes however want the look of a modern open plan living space. I'm also investigating the use of Thermal energy to head the house taking heat from the earth's core and using it to heat the floor mass of the building again using an existing resource that have no additional polutants or draw on the environment at large.So I come to the point of this rant, I would really like some feed back on how you all think a modern home with all our mod con's and electrical components should be intergrated with the well established to be "Green" and sustanable. My partner is a clean freak so the end result must be a modern clean astecally appealing solution with out any quirky requirements. The aim is to leave as little a foot print during the build process and also once we begin to live in the structure while ensuring we maintain the level of modern convenience that we currently have.Your thoughts and idea's on this is greatly appreciated. I'll post some of the preliminary house desings in the comming weeks as well as any other relevant material for those of you who may be interested.really looking forward to your thoughts and feed back.Cheers and good health Jase