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why don't you just keep this account and just write a support ticket to cancel your hosting? that way, you aren't using up your credits for hosting and can keep your domain or domains that you have already registered. are you planing on hosting a website on your domain through another hosting provider or you just want to park it?if you want to go the long route, you can do what you mentioned. create another account, write a support ticket with your old account to transfer the domain to your new account. then tell them to close your old account close your old account. if you have any mycents or credits in reserve, you might lose them unless they allow you to transfer the credits. but from what i understand, we aren't allowed to do that.

knowledge sutra SUCKS and so do the admins and mods. this place isn't for knowledge anymore. it's for spam to hide the good posts and it's for people who think they are going to get some kind of free quality hosting from xisto.this place is just lousy. i am sorry but this place is crap. you can't count on anyone here anymore. look at all the spam that doesn't even get deleted and unnoticed every day? i could report posts all day long and there would still be spam here.it's a sad case when peoples threads don't even get approved on a regular schedule while spam gets through immediately!this place has turned in to a garbage dump. move this to vent or keep it here. i don't give a *BLEEP*

there you go. we started on the wrong foot as i knew we would. this is why i know this is going to take a while. your mind isn't able to adjust to certain ways of thinking. i had told you to assume certain things before answering the question even if the assumptions are incorrect. if we can't get through the first question here, then i cannot continue forward. all you have to do in answering questions is read the question carefully, and answer it in the form i laid out. now obviously you will have questions when answering the questions. too bad for you. i will not explain my questions because it might influence you to answer in a different way you would not normally answer. i would never ask you to give out a credit card # or anything personal like that where someone can take over your identity. i will answer questions about who you are and the experiences you've lived without limitations. i may not be able to prove things the way YOU want me to, personally, i don't care, but with logic and deductive reasoning, i will be able to prove SOME things which WILL make you think differently about this topic and the way i went about expression my own opinions and even facts that you tried to discredit becausse it's more in your nature to discredit that think on the lines of of how you go about asking questions and piecing things together in your own life there will be no debate or assuptions for now. it will just be me asking questions, and you answering them(wether your answers are right or wrong are irrelevant) with as much knowledge and fact you have inside yourself to answer them about yourself. you know yourself better than anyone, so it's important to be as truthfull as possible or this project and experiment wont work. i am glad you are agreeing to this. because in fact if i don't make a dent in you, i will have made a dent in others so not all will be lost. i have to find out how stubborn you are and how fixed you are in your one way thinking first though. my first question was was a test to that. you didn't see the whole question. if you did, you ignored a major part of the question. it was a very simple question too. the only reason why i am explaining THAT question is to start on the right foot so you know exactly what i want and need from you later on down the road. now, please reread the question and answer it as i have laid it out please

bani, i stated in my last post how your limits aren't rational at all. limits create prejudice and subjective thinking. my experiences in life are facts bani yet i will always be unable to prove them to you. you want people to be able to prove things to you except when someone has a closed mind, it's impossible to prove anything to anyone. i can say the sky is blue, but you could still probably hold up a good debate in why you think the sky is pink. it's an endless cycle unless why can use our own experiences. from my own experiences, there is a logical deduction. almost like putting pieces to a puzzle together yet you don't want to use those pieces. why? because you would rather believe in nothing rather than something when you feel life holds no purpose. i didn't use you in an example because i feel it's appropriate to ask a person first since most people like to keep SOME things private about themselves. as far as me saying you get depressed easily, i am going back to a post you made a while back that didn't give any clues to your depression. most people DO create their own depression bani. that is not a secret in this lifetime. that's why counseling or doing things like writing, walking, excersizing, and other things are able to help people with their depression. if people refuse to help themselves, then they will just stay depressed. some people are unable to do this. but i have given you my reason for the comment. it was based on what you have already said publically. what i was talking about are asking you specific questions to use you as an example to prove my point that you aren't qualified to even give an opinion on this subject, AND that you are wrong in your general opinion. i can prove it using your own words but i would have to ask you to be completely honest and no beating around the bush. what i mean by beating around the bush is that you said you don't get depressed often when in fact, it is natural to get depressed often. some people just choose not to dwell in it more than others. there are a lot of things that depress people every day in life. the people who DON'T get depressed are the ones i actually worry about more because there is something inside them that is blocking the natural ability to care about things in this world to prevent them from getting depressed. i know exactly what i am asking of you when i asked to use you as an example bani. that's why asking your permission first is appropriate. i want to stress this part because you made it look like i said one thing and done another like a hypocrite or i was ignorant in my thinking when i posted what i did. i am never ignorant when it comes to subjects like this. at least less ignorant than others as i have experienced a lot more than others in a deep sense of reality that very few people travel in this life. once you say we can use you as an example though, i don't want to be in the middle of things and then have you chicken out so if you do say yes, i want you to know exactly what it will entail. it will entail everything personal about yourself with no restrictions. this is the only way i will able to prove something to you bani. talking general talk like everyone is the same is pointless because everyone is different. this is proven by the fact that we all "choose" different paths in life. the reason for this as i will prove later on, is that we all have a purpose in life and most everyone is born with one. not to just wonder around endlessly not knowing what to do with our lives and NOT just by our learned experiences or guidance from our parents, teachers, or peers. also, before you answer my questions about yourself, i need you to think of the true answer. i know it will be hard for you at first because you said you don't get depressed easily when i know you do. you are just labeling depression in a different way than i am to say you don't. it doesn't make you wrong, and it certainly doesn't make me wrong either. all we are going to do is base everything on what you tell me and i am sure i will have to clarify a lot of your answers so this may take a while. but since you started this thread and i am assuming you want some true answers, then we can do this by using you as an example. i will start by asking very easy and basic questions. most of which i probably already know the answers to. i need to prime you so you can be more open about more deeper things that you don't think about too much in your own life later on. in the end, you will have come to realizations you didn't know before and parts of the way you think right now will change. that i can promise you. i do have to ask questions though. me just telling you things i can't prove will be a basis of argements which will be unproductive right now. i just want facts or facts that you THINK are facts pertaining to your own life. so now that you know what my purpose is, are you game? you're not going to chicken out later and able to handle this method? if you are willing, we can start in my next post. in the meantime, recheck my facebook profile and check those picture i took on a dark night. and answer me one question for now.... if and only if i took those pictures, if and only if, saved those pictures, if and only if i never altered those pictures in any way, if and only if they weren't altred by anyone else, if and only if my camera usually takes clear and crisp pictures without any distortions...the question is.... what would you think about the pictures that you wouldn't have thought before? you know what pictures i am talking about, correct? they are my graveyard pictures i have only recently shared publically. use my conditions i set before you answer even if you feel the conditions didn't exist. this is a good question to ask first which doesn't really have to do with you directly until i get the ok from you that we can move forward in talking about you directly.

i need someone who is knowledgeable on creating word press themes. the theme i have in mind is a very very simple theme. not much to it, and i prefer it to be a wordpress theme. the catch is that i don't want it to look like a blog.with that said, i have an image i can upload through email which i want duplicated. it's a simple theme with a header and sub header below it, the pages will be below the sub header and the theme is two columns. pretty basic but like i said, i don't want the content to look like a post and i need room for a couple other things like images but it's VERY basic.i can't pay ya, but will be willing to trade seo services or i can just owe ya one, or you can help out for free because you're just that type of person. either way is fine with me. i would need it asap.i have already spoken to a friend of mine, but this person doesn't log on very often anymore so i don't know if this person is up for it or has the time to do it under the time frame i need it by so this post is my backup

i think mandla and missy are both not talking objectively and just talking through their own learned experiences.mandla- you made very little sense except to acknowledge peer pressure. sure it can be an influence when you a teenager, but as we get older, we start to realize how peer pressure influenced our lives negatively, ultimately making us stronger to fight more for who we are and what we want to stand up against.missy- guys may have cheated on you in the past, but that isn't the root of the problem here. it's your inability to make wise choices for your own self. if you are going to be with a guy for any reason but the RIGHT reason, then they are not going to take you seriously. you have made a choice every single time to be with certain guys. you allowed certain types of guys in to your life for a reason. thinking you know how guys act just based on your inability to make smart decisions is not going to get you very far.bani- a agree with you. the best way to get to the bottom of things is to ask a cheater directly why they cheated. and you are right. they WILL lie. they are unreliable. that's why they cheat.now to answer mandla's question who i would choose to be with on a deserted island? i would try to get some three way action.....but that's just me...

this is where you are 100% wrong in your thinking bani. this is going to create confusion for you to seek out truth unless you are arguing just for the sake of arguing. please don't turn in to truefusio. i hope i didn't offend him by saying that. all i mean is that although arguements and debates are good, there is a line drawn when balance can become comromised. why are you wrong? harlot was right in a way. depression is a major cause. but depression isn't the key to is. depression is just the result of why someone feels unfulfilled. if we are constructed to live, then there would be no unnatural deaths yet we face unnatural deaths every day. MY whole basis of arguement relies on the FACT that i know life holds a purpose and people in it hold a unique and specific purpose for their own fulfillment. just because you don't know this fact doesn't make it untrue. even if life held no purpose, that in itself would make it relevant to this conversation. you ever think that it's not that people want to avoid death, but rather people want to avoid life? most people who commit suicide don't really want to die, they just want to avoid life....THEIR life. their unique situations that lead them to be suicidal. you can't talk about life and death and LIMIT how we talk about it. that limited thinking will get you nowhere. there are no RULES to life and death except natures ways of controlling it and the purpose we were all born to live through or be unfulfilled. although in life, it takes years til death where we gain the knowledge we have which we wouldn't otherwise have if we had died sooner, but ever child is born with knowledge bani. morals can be learned, yes. in a way you are right when you say morals or values are just an opinion. but that is on the surface. when we are born, we have knowledge through our spirit and soul. a way of life that is innocence. in some ways, that is the true guide to morals and values. not what is learned. birth is a part of those morals and values we take with us until we are guided differently or guided in a way that supports our natural ways from birth. you say a purpose to me is irrelevant. i say death is irrelevant because death is a part of life and the cycle of life and you can only be reborn through "death" as you call it. i am not going to play by your rules anymore bani. they are for the weak and the ignorant. people who create limitations on others are people who want other to play by their own rules so they can guide them towards the same limited mindset. i am not really a believer in that but i gave it a shot. from now on, there are no rules to this thread. if there still are, i will be the first to break them also, since you started this thread, i feel a need to use you and your life as an example to prove my points. you would be a classic example because you feel life holds no purpose, and you also get easily depressed which is an attribute directly related to suicide for most people. let me know if your game. it's one thing to talk in general and get nowhere. it because easier to talk and debate over when we can use a live example under specific circumstances. with that said, don't assume you have all the answers. if you did, you wouldn't have asked your original question. the reason you feel life holds no purpose is directly related with you looking for answers in all the wrong places. i for one believe that for every question, there is a truth....or an answer. we aren't constructed to live. we are constructed to survive there is a big difference. living however is a choice after we are born when we get old enough to know how to kill ourselves. if we choose to live, it's because we were cinstructed to survive. but i do like how you said we are constructed to live because i know you can't mean physically. you had to mean it towards our mental state. so knowing we are contrusted mentally a certain way which gives us strength to live, where do you think that comes from? don't tell me it's because people enjoy living. lets really get to the nuts and bolts of it, shall we?

that's funny that you can talk about their cons and not talk about yours. you seem immature to me and it seems you feel more secure when a man is around to take care of you when maybe you can't take care of your own self.i never knew childish and playfull is a con in people though. let me give you some good advice that i am sure you will not take, but it's worth stating anyway. drop both of them. you aren't ready for a relationship. the first one you are using selfishly. the second one you just want to have fun with but could never be fullfilled fully with. so yes, drop both of them. what you are experiencing isn't love. it's a strong feeling and emotion, but it's not love. i would bet you don't even love yourself or even know what true love is right now.it's important to realize this so you'll be stronger for it in the future. you don't need a guy in your life. sounds like you need to be there for yourself and your child who you had irresponsibly and is now without a father even though this other guy stepped up and is trying to be a father figure.so personally, i think you need a break from guys right now. yea, they can give you what you need in the short run sometimes, but ask yourself if you can ever be truely fullfilled with them. doesn't sound like you can be. you owe it to yourself to be strong and guide you and your child correctly in life or suffer the consequences later when you will eventually end up with nothing to show for the choices you made todaya little pointer on true love. true love doesn't see the cons in a person. actually, they see differences, but they are willing to overlook those differences and not mention them because they are irrelevant where true love is. there are other reasons why i know you aren't fully IN love with these two guys and i have stated it indirectly earlier. once you can take care of yourself and your child and follow your dream, then someone can love you for who you are. it starts with you. guys should not be a filler in your life just because you feel you need them for one reason or another.hope this helps. i doubt it will though. you need some true soul searching before you will ever be ready for a commited relationship. i don't feel you will be taking this advice, but i hope you do. you sound young enough to start with a clean slate and deal with the past problems you have faced to move forward. don't wait too long to change though. life is funny where it can seem like your trapped with no way out sooner or later....

nice geek cake. the ram looks good. i want that piece. 7 years huh? seems like it has the members of 1 year. this gives the meaning of looking young a whole new meaning. happy birthday anyway.....maybe when we turn 21, we can party a bit.

i meant to thank you for responding, wd. i think it was you who bumped this thread when the spam was buring it. i know you had no clue like me what the problem was, but you did manage to help revive the topic. now i have a fairly good idea what is going on. i created a support ticket early in the afternoon yesterday so i am way ahead of ya it's the weekend now. i doubt i will be recieving any support for a few days. another reason why i will be moving ALL my hosting in two weeks. at the very least, downgrade my account and let host gator have my business. xisto could have had it. i tested them right after i upgraded my account and failed miserable. pretty much the same way the forum is being run right now. i haven't given up all hope though....although hope has always been my downfall in life.

yea, that will be my last resort. for now though, i have to give xisto some crap. i can't wait for their response. they need to fix it. not me....and they also have to warn users when they are changing their customers servers so problems like this can be quickly addressed. a monkey can do the job better. i am sure glad i chose the philippines to outsource to.....

bani- you are absolutely correct. originally i thought it was my .htaccess file but disregarded it beause i had removed all info from it and still did the same thing. silly me, i didn't do a hard refresh. only a soft refresh. before reading your post, i was wondering why my php scripts weren't working on my main page. it turns out that the server isn't recognizing what's contained in the .htaccess file the specific line of code is.... AddType application/x-httpd-php .htm .html this one line use to allow php scripts to be embedded in html websites. it seems after the server change which i wasn't notified of, everything went to *BLEEP*. i am going to have to curse xisto for yet another blunder here. they are really pissing me off with things lately....ESPECIALLY when beta server was always down and their server status wouldn't recognize it being down. i think i am just going to plan on moving everything to hostgator except my domains and use my remaining credits for domains only. i can't have this incompetence when i am about to buy about 100 or so domains in bulk soon. ***edited to delete a couple comments about a previous post that was deleted***

i was thinking of writing a support ticket, but i wanted to make sure even my backup file does the same thing. i know it's not something i did with the code because i haven't touched the code in ages. i guess i will get of my lazy butt and upload my index file and related files that i know were working at the time. ***update*** something happened where my site loads now. some of the links don't work, but that may be because i changed permissions a couple days ago thinking it may be my permissions and possibly a hacker. let's update this is real time..... ***update*** ok i changed permissions and i can access the blog part of my site. there still seems to be a problem with the php script on the main page though. this could be an issue when they moved my site according to velma. i don't know. let me check what server i am on..... ***update*** yup! indeed my hosting was moved to a new server. i tried to check the server info at https://support.xisto.com/serverstatus.php but it isn't listed. i will have to look more in to this later and also write a support ticket to ask them why my hosting was moved. thanks for the responses guys! i will update you on any new changes. did xisto do something to where my site loads now? this is very strange....

how did you try out post to host if you aren't even earning any mycents yet? stop spamming this forum and making up stories. this place is for serious discussions only

can someone please advise? please visit one of my older sites i hardly do anything with anymore. when i visit it, it tries to open a file rather than load the webpage itself. funny thing is, it's having problems in firefox, but not in ie(i RARELY use ie). i tried to test it in ie when it was having problems loading in firefox. see if you can spot the problem and advise for any possible solutions. online cheapo i haven't touched this site in ages and it is just automatically doing this without any edits to it. i thought at first it had to do with my .htaccess file, but i removed the contents from it and still having the same problems. i am too busy with other things to be fiddling around with it.

the op said to rate a country and he named and rated north america. so much for this turning out to be an intellignt thread...magna- i think many people will disagree with you on india being a freedom country. i can argue that all day longdodgy- i love st. patricks day. i also like me irish whiskey. i have less than a quarter irish in me, but i think i relate more to them than other nationalities.i live in the u.s., specifically missouri but was raised in california. i the only way i can rate is if i am allowed to rate two things....1: i rate the u.s. a 10/10 if i have to compare it to any other country2: i rate it about a 7/10 on it's own with no comparisons. the place still sucks in many ways but there are also benefits and privlidges here that you can't get anywhere else in the worldin my opinion, everything started going downhill after the 15th amendment of the u.s. constitution and our bill of rights aren't what they used to be. you also hardly EVER hear someone refer to themselves as a sovereign anymore. it's because the government has created way too many "laws" to regulate it's "citizens"

well this wasn't a belief. this was a prediction made by someone who has tried to predict other things that turned out to be false. where does it end? i doubt even 5% believed in his prediction. people have a right to believe what they want, sure....as long as i have a right to make fun of them and believe they belong in jail or a nut house

welcome back to tell us about the fish lube in the tube. that IS weird. i never heard of that before. that's like that spray cheese but it's everywhere so it isn't that weird.is the fish rotten? how do they preserve it?!?

yes to all the questions. what you want to do is open up a communication line so she is able to talk to you about anything and you are able to talk to her about anything. after that, respect her wishes right now and see what happens. there is a reason why she wants to take things slow so don't push her. it should be enough right now that you talk every day and have the opportunity to be with eachother. you do need to get some answers though. you need to know where you stand with her and if this can grow in to something more or if she is planning on just being friends. she owes you that much at least. you don't need a "relationship" label, but you do need to know where you stand in the relationship with her....