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Hello,One of my friends had cheated on her boyfriend because he was not there to provide emotional support, later she did tell him and he went on suspecting her even though she never cheated ever again. He knew that but he kept putting himself as he was scared of being hurt but ended up hurting himself more than ever. They broke up for he put her in a depression all over again.I mean I was confused on whose fault it was the guy's or the girl's and it is disappointing for they both were responsible for the break up. So I guess it takes both partners to end the relationship.

Hello,Why does everybody keep saying " not meant to be" or " Should not be"... I mean we are not the ones who created the world and I am atheist so I do not even know how this world was made. Many belive God has and I have nothing against them. Homosexuality is a very natural and common occurrence in nature actually and It is said to be perfectly normal. Lots of animals have been recorded indulging in homosexual activities. We are the only creatures that indulge in sex for pleasure more than procreation and we can talk, no wonder we complain about homosexuality when no one else is complaining. I have no idea why people are making such a big deal about an issue that is perfectly normal.As for the issue that the kid will get mentally harmed or anything of that sort is actually the fault of us straight people. If we ever think about it, Let's say a couple sees a gay couple with their child and they are opposed to them, all kinds of dirty looks are thrown at them, but if the child goes to school there the hatred and negativity is passed from teachers to straight children or parents to their children thus the straight children end up treating the gay couple's child like a diease.A child is not damaged the instant it goes to a gay couple it is soceity that either makes or breaks a child. We cannot blame a gay couple for everything that happens to the child, while the parents might love the child a lot outsiders can easily crush the child by telling him that he is an outcaste or is some kind of an untouchable. If straight people stop all the discrimination then all this right and wrong will go down. For in the end the gay couple's child would always rely on soceity rather than its parents for reassurance in its image.

Hey, It is like some of the members said, lot of the girls are getting quite superficial due to many reasons. Nowadays we see so many shows where they show you how easy it is to look like a celebrity. huh? They are actually advertising their products but This is their easy way to look like celebrities Or also a reason why girls look scary with make up or look like they have drowned in it : First they wash the face for cleanliness Then they put on the concealer to hide the blemishes or something I think Then they put on foundation to smoothen the texture of the skin Then they put on bronzer for that sexy look Then comes the rouge if necessary or they skip this Then the fake eyelashes and mascara and eye liner and eye shadow Last but not least the lips, lip liner, lip balm, lipstick and then gloss The methods are nice but unfortunately if the girl does not do these steps neatly then they look very plastic and fake for then anybody can see that they are bathing in make up.

Hey,It i like I said , mior surgeries here and there is ok as it i syour body in the end but people who are fanatical about their bodies are stupid. I mean how long do you expect to be young. I mean what if your body would start rejecting the surgeries more and more as it is subjected to more surgery and finally It might cause complications to the body itself. There was this movie with Goldie hawn and Meryl Streep along with Bruce Willis, It is about the women taking some kind of a potion to stay young forever and would never die but they would have to take care of their bodies. At one point their skins starts peeling and they spray paint each other. I liked that movie, Quite funny lol.Some people do surgery thinking they look better but it actually amkes them look more plastic and ugly but some stick to one surgery and have a really body part later on

Hello Opaque,I know this is very churlish of me to reply back so late to this thread. I know how you feel about this loss and I do not want to givenay kind of sympathy or anything for I know how difficult it is move on when you lose someone special.I too have lost my share of special people and have through depressions after their deaths, Everytime I was reminded of them I would gointo a really bad depression phase that would rob me off all positivity.I hope you recover from the death and grow stonger for I believe that there is something positive in every negative even if you do not see them right now, Even in fights. I have gone through taht phase soI can safely tell you that It is ok to cry sometimes, It lets out all those bottled up emotions for emotions are not bad.Take care and I know you will be ok. Keep up the great work.

Hey,This is quite horrifying that a 9 year old had to mature physically and mentally so harshly. But I guess she must have been raped , I had once read in a news paper a japanese 9 year old too had become a mother. I can agree that there is a high chance of her being raped for nowadays the number of rapes has increased dramatically, I wonder if anybody helped her.There are many cultures where girls as young as 3 or 4 are married off and have sex after they get their first period, The girl might be a toddler adn the man might be a teen of 18-19. It is a gruesome culture, So there is a chance that if the young bride had her periods at the age of 8 she would be a mother by the time is 9 or 10. It scars the mother emotionally and physically as she obviously would not be ready for all of the baggage of a child at the age of 10.

Hey,I do not mind getting frozen actually but I would have to take someone with me or else it will be quite lonely, Maybe my boyfriend Atleast I wont be lonely and will ahve someone to laugh with incase we mess up.The possibility of cryogenics happening is there but the expense and the success of it is something to think about. I mean you do not know what kind of an effect it might have on your body for our bodies were not made to be frozen so there is a chance of the inner mechanism going splat. I think there is a person who has already been frozen or something, I do not remember so please do not take this as my final word.

Hey,I think you misunderstood me, It s not like he doesnt help me or anything, But it is more like he knows when I can handle a situation and when I cannot so his help depends on that. I like it that way for if he helps me in every case then I will be spoon fed dont you think?We have a good sense of understanding. I live with him so I talk to him in the night when we get the time for a quiet talk. What about your girl?

Hello,Nice article, I love reading these kind of articles actually adn it might be spooky over there with the myth going really wildly. Anyway I too am gonna google on this crying boys thing and might update here.Thanks

Hello,This is actually a productive thing that they are trying to introduce but it might not be easy for them to acheiveit as they have to make the substance in such a way that the body does not reject the artificial blood before the person gets a tranfusioon because if he rejects it then the patient is much more danger as his body immediately weakens down due to the internal activity, I have seen people after their bodies have rejected blood transfers and it is a painful process both for the doctor and the patient.But It is great if this idea works out neatly, On a lighter side I guess we too are turning into plastic rather than cyborgs.lol.

Hey,I actuallly started drinking socially when I was 13. Do not get freaked out, Socially I mean my dad. I asked him one day for his beer and he agreed. Still I do not drink with anyone else except my dad or my boyfriend.I think my dad was right in letting me drink with him for it kept me in control adn the only time I would drink was withhim.Anyway back to the topic, I do not think that 15 is too young to drink UNLESS you are doing it illogically like just to numb yourself or to look cool. Keep a level minded head on your shoulders and then decide to drink. But I think if you are starting to drink you should let a parent/Guardian know as it benefits you only in the end. If you are in trouble they know you better and can help. Besides then it prevents all heart resking and all. Nobody can stop you from drinking but yourself

Hey,I do not think that they are scared in any way of admitting that they are atheists or something, When I was turning into an atheist It was quite confusing for me as everybody around me were all religious people so nobody could help me understand my belief. I was confused because :1. If I became an atheist, again I follow a sort of religion for I am again following something I believe in.2. I wanted to be completely sure of my decisions before announcing officialy that I was an atheist.Sometimes people wmight also avoid announcing it as friends and family around might not agree. My parents and almost damned me to hell as satan's spawn lol just because I chose something the whole family was not ok with.Give them a chance to explain themselves and do not be judgemental for they too are people in the end

Hey,Just wanted to know if any body would ever go for any kind of Plastic surgery like Botox or nips and tucks or lifts or any other thing. I had seen this episode of Oprah where a woman got 25 surgeries I think because she felt that she was not "perfect". Another woman said that she had so many surgeries taht now her husband was threathening to leave her if she did not stop as the family was broke.I do not mind if the person needs surgery for a genuine reason like corrective surgery for people after accidents or something. Anyway Please tell me what you think.

Hey,What if the person says know and then calls you a jack@$$ for trying it on them. I did not try it but just asking, Why do you bother the dead souls . Not making fun of you but It takes a lot of strength for a person who doesnt want to die to move "forward" or atleast that is what people I know say. I do not believe any of that though. If a person dies then it is over then and there...

Hey, I live with my boyfriend soI guess everyday is a date for me. ..Yeah you are right about this, Well 1. If it was a guy i knew a few months then I would be having a date with him at a cafe or his place or generally go out to an amusement park or something for I am against movies as a date for it helps bonding and ok if it is a casual date but not preferred as a romantic date. I had my best date on a beach with my present partner 2. If it was someone I just metthen I guess I would meet up in a place like a cafe I know or a secure place and get to know that guy for I do not trust that easily, If I thought that the guy is safe enough then I usually go out for a second date. My boyfriend is from the first category.

Hey,I am velma and I am going out with a guy who is the owner of a pet shop and his name is Teddy. We started going out in a weird manner, Friends to lovers in a matter of days.Well him, I love him a lot and to describe is very complicated for he opened his business at a young age of 18 with no one to help so he is very mature but stupid at times, he has a very bad memory or selected memory would be my ideal preference, Wont remember what I say but can remember a random comment his friend passed, Very sweet and very understanding. He will support in every decision you make and will not shout at you until you have made a serious mistake. He says that he is not jealous when he sees me with another guy but later admits that he did feel jealous . He can be lazy, he can be hard working but he loves his "friends". Will do anything for them but will say no to me the instant I ask him a favour.He is very funny and loves to talk and if he is not working then he is obviously talking to.....friends. We are good together for both of us understand each other's needs without actually asking. He is a fun chap to hang around. He is practical and level minded. Loves to roam around on his Motorbike.Well there are too many things to tell but then I guess no one will read it

Hello,My best friend is my boyfriend actually,We started as friends then bestfriends then lovers At a point in my life I had major depression and even living a day longer was hard and a miserable process. He used to call me to know how I was...He made me independent and made sure I was not dependent on anyone but myself and one day while we were reading a book together we sort of talked out our relationship and now we are going out.I have very few best friends for I usually do not trust people very easily, There was another guy whom I had trusted but he had to leave me for another place so I have no contact of him anymore nad I miss him and I loved him to death.I have a few girlfriends who are close but one girl is my best friend, she is supportiing and nice and very helpful.

Hey,That is so sweet and I feel bad also on how desperate a measure he has to take to show his love for his girl but I kno wthat his girl will be proud of him seeing the cleverness of the lad.If I ever got a poem like that....Wait even a mail saying that he loves me without him going out of town I would die of joy, I cannot ever expect him to do that and I have come to accept that. But the way that kid had written was really precious.

Hey,She must be chasing a bone or playing with another dog. lol. I used to have a great dane and a german shepherd when I was a baby along with 10 cats. When the great dane or german shepherd (Samson and Brute) would sleep One of them would growl or bark and being big dogs their barks were scary.Once Samson(dane) started barking n his sleep and one of my cats, sasha went near him and clawed him reallly hard. It was funny for she hit and looked at him like he had done something wrong and she was punishing him. He looked really confused

Hey,The other day I saw my puppy sleeping and she was running, growling,whining and barking in her sleep. This has been a debate for a long time whether animals dream or not. Some say they do and others say they do not. If you believe in the scientific theory then they may be right but If you see it you may want to change your mind.I think maybe the reason they make all those sounds is just due to memory. It is like what we do i nour dreams if we concentrate on on one aspect of our day or anything for a long time then most of the times it comes in your dreams. I think oit is sort of the same for them for on days she has had played a lot then she tends to do the above active tasks but if she has eaten a lot then she would imitate sucking on a nipple. Its quite cute and I actually do not care if they dream or not but wanted to know what you guys thought about it

Hey,THis is a funny topic and I quite enjoyed reading the replies. Well I have never gone to the loo with a galpal on purpose or by choice. Usually If they want to ask me something or tell me something they force me to stand there and talk. I have no idea about the duration and races thing, You might be right for all I know though I have never heard of that :unsure:I think they have this social thing going on as for eons a woman's brain has been wired to stick together and do things together while their men hunted. Taking care of the kids and so forth, Now the only difference is their private time is in the loo. Sometimes a girl might go in to feel safe like other members have pointed if the doors or location is bad or maybe because it is a shady place. MAny times girls go in together to get teeny tiny corrections like make up dresses and such kind of things.Anyway I think it is harmless if they all go together as long as iot does not cause an inconvenience to others if in a group or cause a problem for the guy.

Hey,I hope he is joking, If it is true that he is making claims then I will never watch T.v again. What does he want now? I think he will start claiming that he is the father of the child and then start harping on How he is innocent or something.I think a piece of information like this is best ignored.

Hey,I am sorry if the topic is of hand. I di dnot meanto hurt anyone but if you google for hun then you get a sort of racial definition, My reason was if someone like me google it, I might get offended if I am not familiar with American culture.I am sorry if It caused any problems to you Mermaid I am sorry. Anyway Jumping back to topic.I can agree to what you say Watermonkey. My doctor was the same kind He would refuse to listen to anything that was not taught in his college, He once suggested a wrong diet and pills for my bestfriend who had a problem with her hormone levels and due to the bad diet and pills she had gotten the wrong hormones reaching her and tehmale hormone was being pumped into a more bigger overdrive resulting in her having facial hair and I mean Serious facial hair, She started looking like a guy more than a girl. I was freaked out because of the diet and pills affecting her so badlyNow she is alright but the food that she was consuming was having weird effects along with the pills. That was 5-6 years ago, Now that people are trying to boost crops and all You have thrice more the pesticides and chemicals in them making them quite harmful to the body. Added to that are all the fried and fast food joints.

Hello memaid, I did not mention people with genetically affected puberty, I wrote about girls getting them due to the environment, food, medicine, Stress, lifestyle. I wrote about my cousin too who has periods once in 5 months due to her genetical background. There have been cases where girls who have nobody in their family( Maternally and Paternally related women) having hit puberty at an early age but have daughters having periods due to many factors. In the place I stay a 5 year old girl was hospitalised for a reason and due to the intense drugs and theraphy she got her periods when she was 6. *peace* Cheers

Hey people,There is a rise in the age where girl are hitting puberty at 10 or even as young as 9. Doctors believe that It may be due to rise in stress and competition. One of my cousins has this disorder where she started having her periods at the age of 11 and she misses them for months..It has something to do with her family genes and the stress she goes through.Doctors also believe girls are gonna be prone top other kinds of diseases like osteoporosis (weaknening and thinning of the backbones).