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Hello,I dont know how many of you would be interersted in this but this is definitely a thing I wanna know about,,, Why are many people hypocritic and lie?Even when they dont need to they tend to lie or make statements which are said by their true self but for the sake of impressing others or cover their insecurities.I knew a girl who used to lie like crazy evn though she didn't have to. I mean she could afford her own things, had great friends, nice personality except when she lied. I have seen a lot of people say things for it will show them in a great light or perhaps get them a date or something.You tell me what would you do with hypocritic people?I mean would you trust them? Coz even our politicians are liars... Dont you think?If you found out that your own lover,friend or family were lying or hypocritic. What would you do?Would love your feedback on itCheers,

Hi,Like I said before Kiling a person is like giving that guy freedom in a way so the best thing is to cut his tools off and let him pay the price by wearing a T-shirt or standard uniform that either reads that he has no tools left or that he raped a person and is to wear it FOREVER........Because as cruel as it sounds it is better to give that guy a taste of his own medicine in the form of loss and grief for a girl might find it humiliating to be raped, we let the guy also know how it feels.But the problem is that as long there are politicians and big mens' sons there will be rapists walking about town. Girls need to have courage and stand up for their own rights.OOHh Better idea, We let the raped victim a chance to beat the crap out of the guy and then we chop him up. Cheers,

Hi,This is one topic that really needs to be shown some light for nowadays we can never know if a person is really genuine or not. I mean you can never tell If a beggar coms begging to you saying that he has not eaten in days but does not look like it then what do you do?I give money to people who really deserve it like old people and handicapped people for they cant earn as nobody is ready to ive them a chance.I give to old people for when I look at them Iam constantly reminded of my grandparents and am grateful that they never had to lead such a life.Whenever a Person or child comes begging to me for money coz he has not eaten then I usually offer them food, The genuine ones usually happy take it and leave you with gratitude but the ones who want nothing but money will not agree to food and demand for money.... I tend to ignore them then.I feel bad for many of them but I cannot do anything so I usually leave.You can call it survival of the fittest or whatever but they and us have no difference for all of us are fighting for survival in the end, Genuinely or not for even we cheat.Cheers

Hi I was just reading a book and saw an article on poaching, It makes me think..... Are we bothered about preserving the world for generations to come or are we gonna be selfish till the end polluting,depleting and destroying all the resources that are present.think about it: We waste water,food,electricity Pollute all the possible Natural resources, Poach all the animals to extinction.What would you think should be done to help? or do you want to destroy? Or be selfish to think only about yourself.I want your opinion, Maybe we wont be able to do anything about it at a large scale but still why not give it a shot? For we can always achieve huge goals even with teeny tiny steps or baby steps.I thought of this because It is an issue that is a major food for thought at present in the world.Share your opinions..Cheers,

Hi the thing is I know that Everybody cannot remeber their lives and science has proven it but like in everything else there are scientifically proven exceptions. That is what is puzzling, If there was no previous life then why are there people with damning proof there claiming to know their past life experiences. The thing is Iam an atheist and also personally do not believe in the life cycle or such but when I saw documentaries and articles in books It sort of made me curious and I wanted to know for that reason what others thought about this as many believe that there is a previous life and all. I live for this life alone not for the next nor previous. I was just curious Bye

Hey,This is an interesting topic, Umm It is true that viruses need a host to live on Its a parasite as we call it but there are parasitic plants also who cannot live without a host tree, The only difference between a virus and a plant is that a virus is at microscopic level so we tend to ignore it and every creature in this world is parasitic in a way that is they live off each other, Now we would die if there were no flora and fauna a.k.a plants and animals right?So I guess the humble but dangerous virus is the "living dead" or the "undead". As for the dying without a host is applicable to everyone wo "lives"Example : A man who can survive on land cannot underwater as a fish cannot live on land for long.... So why not consider the environment we live in as the host and the other and without the host. Same as we cannot live without o2 or land and other creatures so cannot the virus.So my conclusion is that the virus is as alive as you and me and everything in this worldThink about it.Cheers,

Hello everyone,This was one topic that I wanted to talk about.How would you feel if you knew/remembered what happened in your previous life. I've read a lot about people knowing who they were in their previous lives with quite some interesting proof. Things like a girl knowing the history and status of a family and their location when she possibly could not have heard about them nor seen the place.A boy having the medical condition which his grandfather had died of. I'd like to know what you think on this for I found it a very interesting topicCheers,

Hey,First of all stop being shy , I mean it's ok for some time but girl will not appreciate it too much if you are too shy and will probably ignore you as a hopeless case but instead be assertive, confident,caring and mostly listen to what they say not hear.Confused?well the thing is girls dont want you to be slaves but listen and remember, notice things like a dress she likes or color or flowers. But dont restrict it to that remember atleast your first date or something....... Dont let this noticing thing be a phase keep it as a life long thing if you are serious about the girl.Anyway coming to physical....... It depends on girl to girl, You dont have a buffed body but atleast be healthy (not obese), smile a bit girls love it.Just be yourself and honest coz frankly I dont care about looks but care about the guy from the inside and that got me a perfect catch that Iam dating right now.If your serious and you like her and she likes you then she will not care about your looks.Just overcome your shyness and be confident and make her feel that you are her knight in shining armour.P.S. Dont act but do these things out of honesty and not for the sake of it. Coz girls hate acts and pretenses in a guy. Keep listening to her and you will know for yourself what she likes in you and wants in you. I hope I've helped in all this rambling....

Hi,Iam a girl myself and I absolutely do not think that make up is required by a girl except for enhancing her features. Example if she has almond eyes or a pretty shape then a bit of eyeliner will make her eyes even more defined and they will stand out making a guy notice her eyes. If a girl puts on a lot of make up then she is hiding her true self behind and the fact is make up damages rather than beautifies for the effects are very bad. I mean it ruins her self esteem along with her skin. Rather than lipstick its better to wear lip balm which gives a shimmer look. Girls think that they need make up to look pretty but If you feel pretty and confident it makes you glow and that inner glow is what makes you seem appealing to a person in front of you, not make up.We see stars with and without make up and we pass judgment but fail to realise that they either have a certain feature that is attractive or the fact that use of a lot and different kinds of make up along with time and age slowly destroyed their skin.It is alarming though to see so many girls younger than 13 wearing a lot of make up when they actually dont need to.This was my opinion not meaning to hurt anybody

Hi, The first thing you have to do is find out the reason why he is so depressed and when you do just keep encouraging him to move forward rather than warning him or telling him that he should not die, tell him that you would miss him and the fact that it would be pointless if he died and there are people who love him and need him. If he ever tells a secret then encourage him more, let him know that there is someone whom he can trust. If a suicidal person realises that there is someone for him make him live for you if not for himself but first get him to try to live for himself. Remember a person who feels like giving up on life is when they are lonely, unloved, insecure or sometimes misinterpreting messages. I have seen people who threaten suicide coz they want attention or to TEST you. Man they are freaky. A teacher of mine had told me once that only weak willed people commit suicide and that the true test of life is to overcome hurdles of negativity, So Just remember one thing find out the reason and yo and his other close trstful friends must supply with what is deficient in him whether it is love or understanding or plain attention. Remember a suicidal person needs somebody to love him. Cheers, Best of luck

Hi I agree with adriantc with the cloning of animals which have been extinct because of man.I mean if it is because of man then how can it be survival of the fittest when we play unfair and human cloning is a very controversial,vast and difficult thing for If there is a said percentage who use it to change this world for a better cause, Agreed but what if It is abused for selfish or violent causes.i mean think about it, What if The clones are used as suicide bombers or like lab rats because they are not NORMAL.It can be abused, Dont you think? I mean it will be very easy fro evil people to take for granted and belittle the life of a clone for it is not Normal.I shared my opinion and do not mean to hurt anyone. Sorry if I was rude.

Hi assasinkilla,I totally agree with what you just said for it is true that people who have a lot money most of the times do not have the mental peace as they say.It so happens that I have two girlfriends who are in otally opposites. The rich girl has her complete family, money to buy whatever that she wants but she doesnt get her family's love.While that poor girl who lost her dad has barely the money for basic living but she is so happy mentally and her family loves her so. I mean she can take any decision and she knows that her family will support her through till the end.Its amazing to see her interactions with her fmily but I have seen rich families that have very beautiful relationships.I guess it is your mindset that decides the relationship along with money rather than just the monetary status .

Wow I know waht you mean My friends uncle got drugs prescribed for malaria and the man died as a result coz they were not the right ones or something but yes any drug prescribed or not is dangerous

I totally agree with ansar It was freaky and for that reason alone I do not watch Hindi flicks nor modern hindi music for it is freakishly dated. I mean ok the classics were beautiful but remixing them ND MAKING DATED versions isnt exactly nice you know?I like original songs

Hi,I too like moby a lot, Why does my heart feel so bad is one track that i cant resist ever and another is lift me up and another one which I dont remember but will definitely write aboutCheerio

Hi,Wow this is kind of cool that somebody likes miss monroe. I saw the thing sort of on a documentary channel but I still think that she was murdered like princess Di.

There are many creatures in the wild who have had homosexual tendencies like apes and cats and dogs that too under studied experiments, Unfortunately I had a pair of *person* tom cats with me when I was a kid and the idea of gay marriage is not completely mad for they themselves would want a normal life of their own. It is not like that they chose to be gay but it happens genetically from the time that they are conceived.Again I say treat them like humans and not specimens of the lab. For they are not lab rats.I have to admit though that they are very brave to say that they are gay when others would not

Wow,Its nice fro once to see people who read! Well I cant say that one particular book changed my life or anything of that sorts. I loved the Orwell "Animal farm" and the way it has shown humans, James herriot's classics were beautiful and filled to the brim with positivity in every situation of his life, Durrall's funny family and his love for animals, I am like durall forever collecting animals though was not lucky to get an owl,Like I said every book teaches whether those comics or novels or fiction for we will never know what drove the author to write it. Iam an avid book reader and will read anything possible. Life teaches you in various forms whether you meet people or read all day long. I learnt bit by bit reading my butt off but it is true that the author is putting a bit of himself in the book when they write it. If the person is writing for merely money and nothing else you will recognize in his style of writing. But a person who writes out of love to share will give you a different feeling when reading. I never cared about the intentions of a person writing a book but always kept it in mind that the book itself is life in its tiniest form waiting to be opened and studied, to be learnt. No book is bad or good, Think of it as a bit of life and you will see yourself eager to know it. Cheers to happy readers

The funny thing about crimes and the death penalty or DEATH in short is that It becomes the end for the criminal and the only ones who "Suffer" are the families/loved ones for at that moment of rage they would want the criminal dead thus stooping down to their level but later either due to their holy places like churches,temples and mosques..... or their own conscience They would feel guilty for behaving like the criminal. Even if they say that the criminal deserved it but In the inside the guilt hurts them inside. And I totally agree to Mr moore's point that you give a fancy name to justify your crime against the criminal Instead of killing that guy and letting him off why not make him get a job and take care of the family or donate the money earned to some charity.Because In some cases the murderers genuinely regret their mistake so why End their life If they are good souls?But If they are the psychotic then counsel them and If they do not change then they should be given the same mental misery as the family.Even though It sounds cruel it is the only way A person will repent what he did and ask for forgiveness. Giving the death penalty wll mentally prepare him for death, Not in all cases does the criminal repent on his crime.Like they say : Fight fire with fire,

Ok now We are talking,First of all It is your will and your will alone that gets you onto drugs and whatever be the drug whether psychoactive or whatever it isnt exactly BAD.I mean If you have the drug then it is alright but if the drug is enjoying you then It is your fault and nobody else's. Not meaning to insult and sorry If I sound rude but it is true. People get hooked onto it when either they are not prepared or they are scared of facing life.There is nothing wrong as such and the only reason that such a thing is said about drugs is because of abuse and misconception. If we do not know a thing about a particular thing then we immediately harbour negativity towards it. It is sort of the thing that comes down generations along with other things .Hearing from elders all around we are fed with negative thoughts against a particular thing in this case drugs but we fail to see that all our saintly ancestors have been using drugs to attain heightened spirituality. Like I said It is all in one's perspective, If it is used wisely and properly then why not but as the chance of misinformed people abusing it is high, People think it safer to ban it in general :lol:

I agree with both roconzo and yratrom. I mean if you had seen shelters decades ago then you would have been at rest after donating the food and all but nowadays you cannot trust the shelters for you do not know whether they are really helping or just there for the money.I adopted my kittens and my dog from a shelter. They were in cages and i felt bad for no creature smart or dumb should be kept in such a way.And the place was a little room where there were 20 dogs 5 cats, an owl and tortoises.Its heartbreaking that humans are so selfish and hurt when they can simply help not for brownie points,money or HONOR but just for the sake of helping.

Hey,I just saw the vote question and I thought at firt to click yes but then hesitated for I would not like to know, Not out of fear but more of reactions,You might be cool about it but people around you wouldnt, Imagine telling your parents or a loved one that you are about to die....NO WAY!!!But on the serious note whether you pay attention or not, death keeps sending you offline messages, I know I got them Recently I was in an accident and believe it or not I kept getting all kinds of feelings which I never had. I mean something in my head kept telling me that something is wrong and that I should not be on the bike but I never listened and I lost my best friend. But like everything else even death has a positive side, I lost my best friend but I became stronger and much more mature in life. it brought my family and values of life closer.The positive of knowing death would be that you would open a huge can of worms which you would be pissed at first but happy about knowing it later. I just dont want to know about death for the fact that it makes you strong but you have no idea how the person in front of you will take it.I was angry at first at my dead friend but now realize that maybe in those last moments of his life he must've known that he was about to die. Who knows???? I surely dont,,,,,

Hi,First of all who can define what is right or wrong?. No one can exactly define it for positive and negative itself is a perspective. Think about it If a teen smokes or has sex, to him it is justified but to his parents and others it is the ultimate sin. It is the same with homosexuality, We do not understand or respect what is new and different to so we suppress it coz we think it is bad. But what about them? Are they now like us who perform functions like us?Humans are creatures that reason, they say but we do not. In a documentary I saw it said that gays were highly respected for they were more highly tuned with the fine arts and history than their straight counterparts, This was ages ago. It is none of our business whether they love men or women. When we speak of morals, we forget our own sins and point at another's.So in short, I just wanna say that do not make gays look like freak shows but treat them like you and me.Whether they want marriage, kids, publicity or love whether genuine or not. Accept not reject, Be positive