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  1. I think that if you feel you are mature enough for sex, you should still conder alot of other factors like are you sure your current partner is the right one to do it with. Are you ready for the consecunces of sex like an accidental pregnency, are you using contraceptives, are you aware of sexual diseases, and always ask yourself time and again, are you sure you want to do it now, whats wrong with waiting a bit till you are more mature? Talk to other more experienced people that you respect and get their openion or advice. Its better to take some time to know what your choices are and proceed cautiously than rush into things and regreat later.
  2. Hey Aaron, I think that basically you should realise that your current gf and the ex are 2 different people and you should give her her chance. She was not the one who cheated on you and should not suffer as a result of a bad experience you had with someoneelse. This is also to give yourself another chance. Love is difficult to find for everyone, and if you have a shot at it, you really should not waste it. Your previous gf was silly to have blown her chance withyou, after all, name me any couple who doesn't fight occasionally, its normal. Also you should expect never to have fights with your current gf as well, its all part and parcel of life. Important thing is at the end of the day you realise that you love her.
  3. I really this that this girl should stop paying games about her relationship with the boy any more, she is giving herself unnecessary problems and making tjings way more complicated than they have to be. First of all, what is wrong with letting the guy you like or love knowabout your intentions towards him? Isn't that the whole point in the dating game, to let each other know about your intentions than get together? Why keep it a secret? I think that in relationships, one should be honest and upfront about things, it clears alot of misunderstandings and also helps build a solid foundation if you eventually get married. If you keep playing from the start, its hard to build trust and it gets worst when you are comitted, you just have this huge issue of trust problem.. I think that as long as your friend is clear about her intentions, it makes things easier for both parties.
  4. I think that basically if you find that you cannot trust your partner anymore its better to just break up and carry on with life. Obviously, your boyfriend was not very upfront with you initially about why he wanted a break up, and I think that thats not a good policy at all in any relationship. Since he has already made his decision, I think the best you can do is to abide by his choices and try to cope with it. I know you feel uncomfortable with it, but for the long term I think thats the right decision to make.
  5. This situation seems ironical to me. Somehow, all countries other than US and Israel seem to be treated like rebelling teenagers, deemed not mature enough to be well armed. as far as I know the most warlike and aggressive country for the past decade or so is none other than the US of A It is the only country with such a huge neuclear stockpile and advanced weapons, yet it is forbidding others to have even moderate amount of weapons. So my question is why such double standards? If USA is just afraid to loose the technological edge it has over others, stop being hypocritical and say so, don't pretend it because of concern for the test of the world or world stability. In the end its a power game.
  6. The first question I will ask is what is the parents role in all this. DO they know anything about what happened, were they involved in this terrible affair? If they were somehow involved, I think Brazil should lock them up for a long time to come as they obviously failed in their duties to protect and care for her like any parent would. As for the rapist, I think the guy should either be shot or locked up in some mental hospital for the rest of his life. It really getsme when a kid is abused, especially in such a horiffic manner. Now not only does the child mother suffer but her baby is the worst victim of all. I doubt the baby will have a normal life after this.
  7. One thing great about this service is that you can ring mobile phones in quite a fw countries, thats preety rare in most VIOP services. Ringing a mobile in any country is an expensive affair, so this is really good for the budget councious person.
  8. Do you seriously believe that bombing and killing innocent women and children is right. If that is your believe, I suggest you go and take some moral education classes. This bombing is not done by some crazed fanatic or terrorist, it is done by a the airforce of a country in a carefully planned and calculated manner. The IDF has always claimed to be the most moral country in the world, so does delibrately killing and murdering women and children count in those high moral standards? I think Israel and the IDF should really stop occupying the so called 'moral' high ground as murderers definately have no place there.
  9. I agree, those ads that says free domains are really just scams. I have tried to search for free domains for a long time and I haven't really came across any. As for the free sub domains, there are some, but most still demand you allow them to place an ad on your website. So basically, those are not free either. Now the next question you should ask is are there any close to free domainss, my answer is yes, there are some for as low as 2.99 dollars, but thats just for 1 year, by the 2nd year thry are usually back to usual price. So unless you want to settle for a free subdomain, better be ready to cough up some money.
  10. Hi guys and gals,I decided to share with you the strange and crazy ways guys have used to try and pick me up before.Once, I was walking in the botanical gardens, I was just there minding my own business, looking at the different plants. i wasn't wearing anything sexy either, just a pair of track pants and a t shirt. Suddenly, from out of nowhere, a tall Greek guy with dark hair and a golden earing tapped me on the shoulders and spoke something to me which I had trouble understanding. At first, I thought the guy was lost and needed help for directions or something. It was only after a few minutes that I realised he was asking for my phone number....lol....he than grabbed my hand and begged me to go out with him, promising me that he would pay for dinner and danccing. He also told me if I ever visited Cyprus, he would ferry me around in his bike. He than proceeded to hold my hands and walk the gardens with me.Another time, me and a girlfriend decided we should hit the clubs . At a hip dance club, we decided to share a booth seat, just as we were approaching the booth seat, 2 teenagers, dressed ihn typical gansta outfit, trackies and all just slipped inot the booth we were about to sit in. Obviously, they wanted to courner us or something, so we just ignored them and after like 5 minutes we left the club.Another time, me and same girlfriend were waiting for the last train home and we missed the train, therefore faced a 5 hour wait till morning. Strangely enough, the genitor who was cleaning the station saw us, and offered us a lift home. In his car, he was flirting with us non stop.
  11. Its preety simple really. If he can't take what has happened like a man and just laugh it off, than you should avoid him till he gets a grip and move on in life. I think that both you and him need to grow up. Things like what happened occurs to almost everyone, so the thing to do is just move on and get back to the more important things in life. If you don't like the guy, don't give him false hope, tell him in his face, but don't lead him on.
  12. I think that having a healthy dose of sealf esteem is good, as it gives a person confidance and a believe in his or herself that him or her can succees in life. In addition, with a confident personality, it does wonders to your social life and help you get around in society much more easily. However, having too much self esteem is not good at all. It results in a person being cocky and over confident and tends to breed anti-social behaviour as well. It is important to find a good balance between the two, as it would result in a much healthier personality.
  13. hi, I think that being jealous in itself is not a bad thing. It shows that you love the person, and if they show affection for someone else, it hurts you. However it can be extremely distructive too. Its natural to feel jealous you should not surpress the feeling, but before rushing to confront your lover or smash the furniture, sit down, relax, take a deep breathe, write down what made you feel jealous, analyse it logically, do you have proof, could there be another innocent reason for explaining your lover's behaviour towards another person, f you really feel that your lover has cheated on you, wait 1 week, if you still feel the same way about the matter in 1 week than talk to your lover about the problem and see what he or she says, important thing is don't loose your cool or all will be lost.
  14. I think the phrase is not really accurate. Its not love at first sight, its lust at first sight. In my openion, if you first see someone and you feel attracted to that person, its lust not love, its impossible that you love him or her just by seeing the person for the first time because you know nothing about the person. If the person is married, is a murderer, is a sexual offender, or even the person's first name. Its all lust, you are attracted to the person's body, their charm, their look, their eyes, etc, its physical. Its only later, when you have already established a relationship with that person be it as a friend, as a co worker, as a buddy, that you can decide if you really love that person since you already know more details about that person.
  15. I think that your write up on the letter S is preety accurate for me. I've often been accused by my boyfriend for being secretive although I hardly notice that at all. YOu're preety right on about the sex part and the knowing all the secrets of the trade too hahahhaa at least I have heard no complains so far. As for being self centered, I think we all have that to some degree, for me my sense of self is very important so yeah I think you hit the nail right on the head.
  16. Hi guys,Well, this is my current dating story. I am seeing a guy from France but he lives in Geneve. So this summer break, he has earned enough money about 1500CHF to fly me to Switzerland to spend the summer break with him, this is so cool. He just asked me this week if I would fly down to see him, and I thought this is only 1 weeks notice, how can I just drop everything to fly down to see you?? But in the end I thought, what the heck I love this guy, he's paying for the trip why not, so I just pulled out my old backpack from the cupboard, dust it out, got 2 weeks worth of short sand t shirts thrown in, personal stuff and off I go on the 1st of August. I'm a bit apprehensive seeing him again as we have been apart for 6 months I wonder how he as changed physically. One thing is for sure though, I know i will love to see him face to face again and melt in those sexy blue eyes.
  17. I think that love and money are not mutually exclusive. In fact I think that you need to have both love without money will mean the end of that love much sooner than you think. You will start to fight about bills and expenses, life without money is no fun at all. However, having money without love is also terrible, and as they say money may not buy you true love, so really its good to have the correct balance of both love and money.
  18. My honest openion is that if you allow religious differences to get between your love for the girl, I'm afraid to tell you that the love you have for her is not very strong. If you really love her that much, you will think of any way around the family objections due to religion, even to the extent of running away with her, but of course that is an extreme for of expression but it shows that the love is more powerful than the objections. However, if you think that the family problems are more important than the love, than I can assure you that with time passin you will feel less and less for her as it is not really love in the first place.
  19. I think thew best time to say I need some space is anytime you feel you need some space, regardless of which point you are int he relationship. You must remember that even though you are in a relationship, you are still an indivedual with rights to privacy and having your own space. Just because you are attached doesn't mean that you have to give up your rights. If you find that your partner intrudes into your personal space, let him or her know and ask them to back off.
  20. My first kiss was in a club in Australia, Perth called the o2 bar. It was this drunk guy who slobbered all over me....hahahah but it was still a kiss. My first real kiss was at the airport where my French lover flew in, and gave me THE BEST smackeroo I ever had, hahahha in comparison to the drunk slobber.
  21. I think that its preety easy to get someone to love you. All you have to do is to be extra nice to them give them whatever they wish for. If they are hungry, bring them to a fancy resturant, if they want to go shopping, pay for their purchases, offer them surprises and gifts often, send them flowers every day, write them crazy love poems, make the person laugh, make the person's life easiler, offer lifts to the person, if you live in a big house, invite her over often, bring her out to different places and make her happy.In my openion, it works 9 out of 10 times.
  22. I think that since you are the man, behave like one. Ask her out direct and if she rejects you, try and try again till she agrees. If you really want something in life, you should try and do it, not waste time sitting around thinking of why you sholdn't do it.
  23. I agree on this count, trust is indeed a matter of degree. Betrayel of a couple is also a matter of degree. I think I understand what you mean about him and the other woman, its an emotional betrayel rather than a sexual betrayel. In the end, you have to decide together with him, what are the rules and boundries of your relationship as a couple. I think you both must agree on which direction to walk together before you both proceed further. If you both agree on the groundrules, than if either party breaks it, the concequances should also be transparent and so both know what to expect and do.
  24. I would like to say that being shy in itself is not a flaw, some girls including myself even find it cute. However, if your shyness gets in the way of what you want, or what you are able to achieve, than it becomes a character flaw and you must do somethihng to overcome it. I think the role model apparach is very good. Because some people instinctively don't know how to overcome their shyness, they can take their cue from famous cool dudes. That way you have a road map to follow, just do like they do, you don't have to come up with anything original, but a word of caution coming from a gal, girls like genuine guys, don't over do the cool dude thing or it could very well backfire. Be confident, but let your genuine nice guy personality shine through
  25. I think the situation is very simple. It doesn't matter if you are the Texas guy or if she has a boyfriend already. It doesn't even matter if its an online relationship or a offline relationship. What really matters if that you love her and that she isn't married. I think that you should try your best to win her over. Even if she has a boyfriend, as they say it ain't over till the fat lady sings. SO do your best send her flowers every day, write marshy love poems to her. Ask her out to fancy resturants for dinner, man I mean THE WORKS>If in the end she still doesn't fall for you, you can at least say one thing with a contented heart, thatyou have tried your very best and didn't let this opportunity get away.
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