jezza1989

Im confident in going up to her and talking, but i need to find a way to talk to her so that its not just a one off, because i just sense that i'll speak to her once and catch up on 'the old days'.. then that will really be it! Nothing else to talk about! I need help so that we can have more conversations (of interest) and she will hopefully approach me in due course. p.s.- i will find it really hard if her mates are there 2, and even worse... another guy Please Help.. Any Tips??

thanks for the replies! i was just wondering, i dont really know what days she goes and how often, so if i see her again it maybe the last... u never now lol. so if i see her how would i be able to see her more often (without askin for her number because its a bit stalkerish and i aint good on phones lol) and possibly 'hit it off' pretty soon. i know patience is a virtue but i really cant get her out of my head. Shes also roughly a year younger. would you see this as an advantage seen as younger girls generally like older guys.

when i was roughly 12 years old i knew this girl , we got on really well and i had a bit of a crush on her (she may have shown the same feelings). i then didnt see her for 2yrs and a couple of years later i hav seen her out and about at tennis and we havent really spoken, iv probably spoken to her mum more because we know each other quite well! The other day i saw her where i work at the gym (im now 16) and she recognised me i think but were too shy to talk to each other. i still really like her alot!!! and want to date her but i think itll be really awkward to speak to her if i see her in the gym (where im planning to talk to her again). i just need advice on how to get to see her more than just at the gym and ask her out.Please help!!!