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  1. I think that if you feel you are mature enough for sex, you should still conder alot of other factors like are you sure your current partner is the right one to do it with. Are you ready for the consecunces of sex like an accidental pregnency, are you using contraceptives, are you aware of sexual diseases, and always ask yourself time and again, are you sure you want to do it now, whats wrong with waiting a bit till you are more mature? Talk to other more experienced people that you respect and get their openion or advice. Its better to take some time to know what your choices are and proceed cautiously than rush into things and regreat later.
  2. Hey Aaron, I think that basically you should realise that your current gf and the ex are 2 different people and you should give her her chance. She was not the one who cheated on you and should not suffer as a result of a bad experience you had with someoneelse. This is also to give yourself another chance. Love is difficult to find for everyone, and if you have a shot at it, you really should not waste it. Your previous gf was silly to have blown her chance withyou, after all, name me any couple who doesn't fight occasionally, its normal. Also you should expect never to have fights with your current gf as well, its all part and parcel of life. Important thing is at the end of the day you realise that you love her.
  3. I really this that this girl should stop paying games about her relationship with the boy any more, she is giving herself unnecessary problems and making tjings way more complicated than they have to be. First of all, what is wrong with letting the guy you like or love knowabout your intentions towards him? Isn't that the whole point in the dating game, to let each other know about your intentions than get together? Why keep it a secret? I think that in relationships, one should be honest and upfront about things, it clears alot of misunderstandings and also helps build a solid foundation if you eventually get married. If you keep playing from the start, its hard to build trust and it gets worst when you are comitted, you just have this huge issue of trust problem.. I think that as long as your friend is clear about her intentions, it makes things easier for both parties.
  4. I think that basically if you find that you cannot trust your partner anymore its better to just break up and carry on with life. Obviously, your boyfriend was not very upfront with you initially about why he wanted a break up, and I think that thats not a good policy at all in any relationship. Since he has already made his decision, I think the best you can do is to abide by his choices and try to cope with it. I know you feel uncomfortable with it, but for the long term I think thats the right decision to make.
  5. This situation seems ironical to me. Somehow, all countries other than US and Israel seem to be treated like rebelling teenagers, deemed not mature enough to be well armed. as far as I know the most warlike and aggressive country for the past decade or so is none other than the US of A It is the only country with such a huge neuclear stockpile and advanced weapons, yet it is forbidding others to have even moderate amount of weapons. So my question is why such double standards? If USA is just afraid to loose the technological edge it has over others, stop being hypocritical and say so, don't pretend it because of concern for the test of the world or world stability. In the end its a power game.
  6. The first question I will ask is what is the parents role in all this. DO they know anything about what happened, were they involved in this terrible affair? If they were somehow involved, I think Brazil should lock them up for a long time to come as they obviously failed in their duties to protect and care for her like any parent would. As for the rapist, I think the guy should either be shot or locked up in some mental hospital for the rest of his life. It really getsme when a kid is abused, especially in such a horiffic manner. Now not only does the child mother suffer but her baby is the worst victim of all. I doubt the baby will have a normal life after this.
  7. One thing great about this service is that you can ring mobile phones in quite a fw countries, thats preety rare in most VIOP services. Ringing a mobile in any country is an expensive affair, so this is really good for the budget councious person.
  8. Do you seriously believe that bombing and killing innocent women and children is right. If that is your believe, I suggest you go and take some moral education classes. This bombing is not done by some crazed fanatic or terrorist, it is done by a the airforce of a country in a carefully planned and calculated manner. The IDF has always claimed to be the most moral country in the world, so does delibrately killing and murdering women and children count in those high moral standards? I think Israel and the IDF should really stop occupying the so called 'moral' high ground as murderers definately have no place there.
  9. I agree, those ads that says free domains are really just scams. I have tried to search for free domains for a long time and I haven't really came across any. As for the free sub domains, there are some, but most still demand you allow them to place an ad on your website. So basically, those are not free either. Now the next question you should ask is are there any close to free domainss, my answer is yes, there are some for as low as 2.99 dollars, but thats just for 1 year, by the 2nd year thry are usually back to usual price. So unless you want to settle for a free subdomain, better be ready to cough up some money.
  10. Hi guys and gals,I decided to share with you the strange and crazy ways guys have used to try and pick me up before.Once, I was walking in the botanical gardens, I was just there minding my own business, looking at the different plants. i wasn't wearing anything sexy either, just a pair of track pants and a t shirt. Suddenly, from out of nowhere, a tall Greek guy with dark hair and a golden earing tapped me on the shoulders and spoke something to me which I had trouble understanding. At first, I thought the guy was lost and needed help for directions or something. It was only after a few minutes that I realised he was asking for my phone number....lol....he than grabbed my hand and begged me to go out with him, promising me that he would pay for dinner and danccing. He also told me if I ever visited Cyprus, he would ferry me around in his bike. He than proceeded to hold my hands and walk the gardens with me.Another time, me and a girlfriend decided we should hit the clubs . At a hip dance club, we decided to share a booth seat, just as we were approaching the booth seat, 2 teenagers, dressed ihn typical gansta outfit, trackies and all just slipped inot the booth we were about to sit in. Obviously, they wanted to courner us or something, so we just ignored them and after like 5 minutes we left the club.Another time, me and same girlfriend were waiting for the last train home and we missed the train, therefore faced a 5 hour wait till morning. Strangely enough, the genitor who was cleaning the station saw us, and offered us a lift home. In his car, he was flirting with us non stop.
  11. Its preety simple really. If he can't take what has happened like a man and just laugh it off, than you should avoid him till he gets a grip and move on in life. I think that both you and him need to grow up. Things like what happened occurs to almost everyone, so the thing to do is just move on and get back to the more important things in life. If you don't like the guy, don't give him false hope, tell him in his face, but don't lead him on.
  12. I think that having a healthy dose of sealf esteem is good, as it gives a person confidance and a believe in his or herself that him or her can succees in life. In addition, with a confident personality, it does wonders to your social life and help you get around in society much more easily. However, having too much self esteem is not good at all. It results in a person being cocky and over confident and tends to breed anti-social behaviour as well. It is important to find a good balance between the two, as it would result in a much healthier personality.
  13. hi, I think that being jealous in itself is not a bad thing. It shows that you love the person, and if they show affection for someone else, it hurts you. However it can be extremely distructive too. Its natural to feel jealous you should not surpress the feeling, but before rushing to confront your lover or smash the furniture, sit down, relax, take a deep breathe, write down what made you feel jealous, analyse it logically, do you have proof, could there be another innocent reason for explaining your lover's behaviour towards another person, f you really feel that your lover has cheated on you, wait 1 week, if you still feel the same way about the matter in 1 week than talk to your lover about the problem and see what he or she says, important thing is don't loose your cool or all will be lost.
  14. I think the phrase is not really accurate. Its not love at first sight, its lust at first sight. In my openion, if you first see someone and you feel attracted to that person, its lust not love, its impossible that you love him or her just by seeing the person for the first time because you know nothing about the person. If the person is married, is a murderer, is a sexual offender, or even the person's first name. Its all lust, you are attracted to the person's body, their charm, their look, their eyes, etc, its physical. Its only later, when you have already established a relationship with that person be it as a friend, as a co worker, as a buddy, that you can decide if you really love that person since you already know more details about that person.
  15. I think that your write up on the letter S is preety accurate for me. I've often been accused by my boyfriend for being secretive although I hardly notice that at all. YOu're preety right on about the sex part and the knowing all the secrets of the trade too hahahhaa at least I have heard no complains so far. As for being self centered, I think we all have that to some degree, for me my sense of self is very important so yeah I think you hit the nail right on the head.
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