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i hate school too. I hated the homework, hours, the waking up early and the teachers and the control they had and the school prefects. I hated when my parents woke me up in the cold morning and forced me to get ready for school. having porridge in the morning and waiting for my little brother to dress himself up while moaning School school school. What I hate even more is hating my life and my job. when you hate school that is all fair and dandy but what ever you do, do not let your hate for 13 years of school ruin the rest of your life. It is so easy to hate the years when we are in school because they are an inconvenience to our childhood life. School made us to be who we are today, we are in different kind of works because school. Look at it some people hated school to the point where they had to leave school but now some of them are now drug addicts and some of them are thieves because they want money and the only way to get a good job you have to be educated. My cousin left school before his GCSE's and now he is in and out of jails. I think education is very important even though its boring when you are getting up in the morning or when you have a lot of homework to do. Sometimes teachers are really boring but what we should realise is its not the teacher's future we are preparing but our own future. I hated school because of waking up in the mornings but now looking back i see that i have done well and went to school that i have done good to myself because i did not quit school because right now i am able someone who i am today because school.Most of you are teachers, managers, IT specialist the list is endless, it didnt just happen over night you had to take up 13 years of your life even more to be where you are and you are really happy right now because you are able to clothe yourself and buy your own food because you have the money to because you have a good job.What i have realised us people are not grateful of anything. We went to school for 13 years moaning about it and finish and get our college degrees, then we were happy. After school you got a nice job that gives you good money and you get all the benefits that jobs gives you, few months into the job we are moaning again. nothing is ever right with us people. Ti those who are still at school i say enjoy school because after you finish you will get a reward.

Hello dabYou have come to the right placeto support you crazy little habit hopefully you will not only support you habit only buit also share your knowledge with us. Some of us are trying to learn but do not have the right teachers for the things we want to learn so that why we are here trying to learn and gain free hosting and domain but being active in the forums. I take it you are now familiar with the forums and have done a bit of posting and seen those myCENTS going up and up and up. It feels so good knowing that you are rewarded for you posts in real servoices that would cost real dollars in real life. For me that is what I find Xisto most amazing for. Dad. I will check out your site the dab.biz and hopefully learn a little bit more about you. Welcome to KS and hopefully you will enjoy being on here.

Hey hey Windy 138 you just walked into the door of one of the biggest on line forum communities in the globe. Xisto is there for you and there is a whole new world on here for you to explore. We are all one big helpful happy family as probably have found out in the last 4 months you been with us. Sometimes I find things move a bit slow and it seems things go quiet I call it the KS family is sleeping period and then there are those times when a massive bell seems like it went bang clang clang in our brains and summoned us all to login and post stuff. There is so much activity and questions and answers and opinions and experiences just buzzing not forgetting the MYCENTS an going up heheheh sometimes with a bit of a backlog hehehe. In my experience i have found these forums helpful and that i spend lots time reading and laughing and sometimes frowning with shock as I read the threads and follow the responses. I found that there are people like Web Designer who are very cheerful and helpful and will always go out of their way to help then there are people like anwii who are not afraid to speak their mind and then there is people like me who are just to scared to even hurt a fly and then you got ASHBASH who will say anything thats in his head with out giving 2 cents what the next person things heheh we a real family we have all characters here and i find that really cool. My experience hopefully is similar to your and you are very happy on here especially for me is the free hosting because i now have my own website and domain and its doing very well. I am grateful for these forums and I hope you are finding the forums as great benefit for you as well.

Wow CmdPHREAK your intro is very intimidating. Makes me scared to ask you any questions because I am scared you will tell me off for being blonde. hehe Hopefully you will find our forums intelligent enough for you double the average me's IQ lol. I am glad i have a good singing voice because that the one thing I can finally say I have over you and that makes me have a cheeky smile. Also I have cancelled my trip to NY until I get to know you a whole lot more so I dont get on your wrong side when I come clubbing in new york and meet the only living boy there.Your Intro is very interesting and I like your attitude. i like people who have a strong head and know what they want in life. I know you are a knowledge tank as you have stated and I hope I will be learning a lot from you on here. I do not mean to be blonde at times but im not as silly as the 2=2 =7 type of questions. Sometimes though I do ask things that tome are seemingly hard to conceive for my tiny little brain but I know you have a more open mind and will probably thing duhhhh can the answer get any more obvious but please be gentle when you rip me apart lol I am glad you are into these forums and will help and get helped by each one of us who are on here and we will also be friend and family. Welcome to Xisto CmdPHREAK and feel free to go crazy with the posting and threading on these forums. Im looking forward to hearing what you think about things that are about life generally and also technology.WELCOME CmdPHREAK

Hey QZilver welcome to the worlds best Pot of Knowledge. You will find friendships and Knowledge and fun on these forums. I am glad you made the choice to join Xisto. You will get the free the domain as well as the free hosting.Like any other family we are all brothers and sisters and mothers and fathers and I am the grandchild Lol. We argue we fight, we make up and we sulk hehehe. We just a normal family that has respect and opinions on each and every little thing. but we are also just as helpful to one another. We look after each other I have only been a part of Xisto for just about 3 or 4 months But I have gained lots of knowledge and information by spending a bit of time of these here forums. Its so amazing the things I have learnt on here and I know when I came here it was only for the free domains and the free hosting but I have gained so much more knowledge than what I initially set my self or assumed I would find on here. I don't mean to scare you with all this jibber jabber but I am glad I joined these forums and trust me Qzilver you definitely will be glad that you joined Xisto.So let me say welcome to the family and we sure are glad that you have come to share your online life with us.

I think you should ask her if everything is ok and ask for honest answer and that she doesnt have to lie to you. With girls they tend to get fed up as time goes on. What you need to do is go and see her if you can if you still want her. If she said she gives any excuses my friend just know that your girl has moved on so you need to do the same thing. I know its easier said than done but you need to move on with your life. You know before you see each other the relationship will be sweet but by the time you see each other maybe there is something that you dont like about each other or maybe there is something that irritated her on you something that she did quiet fancy. Just talk to her, dont let her waste your time. Life is too short to waste it. You deserve better than that.

Its bad isnt it to want something that you cannot have. Well my friend you either wait until she dumped her current boyfriend or be extra nice to her so that she will see that you are a good guy and dump her boyfriend. Being nice doesnt mean you have to be a her stalker no be friends with her and do a lot of friendly activities with her. Sometimes people are in relationships for wrong reasons so maybe she is one of them people, so if you are nice to her you never know you might be lucky.But if that doesnt work my friend stay away from her and try and move on with your life. Look for other girls i m sure there are a lot of hot girls around your school, try and avoid that girl if you can. The good thing is that she knows how you feel and maybe she feels the same but doesnt wanna live the boyfriend she had for 4 years. It is not easy to just leave a relationship like that you need some time to think about it. But hey all the best.wait for her or find someone else who deserves to be with you.

Hi LegendaryHope u r having a great time here and you have already made new friends. i cant say i m new here neither can i say i have been here for a long time. I joined a few months back and i find these forums so helpful and the people here are extra nice. Hope u r enjoying your stay.

Oh My God this is such an obvios thing. Of course man is a slave of the Tech world. Just open your eyes and look around you. I thought thinks are there to make life easier and to do stuff for you but we spend all this time attending to our gadgets. Most of us have laptops and the first thing we do wen we get up is go on face book and log into skype god forbid there be someone who may have left a life and death mesage on my skype. As for my boyfreiend we actually have fights because he caqnt spend anytime with me n just because he wants to go on skype / facebook all the timeI mean if its not Facebook or skype its email or Nintendo Wii or Playstation or Andriod. We seem to be chasing after technology all the time. We get paid only to run to the nearest gadget shop to get the latest Ipod or Ipad or ISlave I-am a slave of technology product. Lol. I meane there are kids who are actually texterholics there is now an official desease which is based on kids who just can stop texting all the time I know a documentary where they were suing phone companies because the phone companies had offered unlimited text yet when they texted over 12000 texts they were then charged because of the fair Usage policy stated in the small print.I always wonered what the heck how does one go through 12 000 texts. And then I got a phone and realised me and ny friends would hardfly call each other but woud text each other, we would group chat whic is say have 5 friends all chatting so we have to send each text to 5 people at once and because the texts were free we would ask sucj silly questions using text like u ok? then responce to that would be at Gemmas my response doing wat? wana go shopping. and before you know it we have sent like 15 texts each.I know that I thought I was in controll until my first bill came along and I realised that whilst I had stayed within my text limits I had used almost 7 500 texts in that months what more those kids I see in the buss or at Uni who always have their heads bowed and their finger twiddling on the phone keyboard. Their bills must be massive i bet they exceed 12 000 texts a month. And of course my boyfrind and his Video Games on the phone on the computer on the Telly. Hes just a slave of that. He has to work at 9 am but goes to bed about 4am especially with the introduction of the online gaming of Playstation where you can play games with other people around the world. He even has the headset so they can chat to other gamers in the game world. I remember when he used to spend 3 or 4 days without a wink of sleep when he discovered a game called second life and would spend every mintue on their playing the virtuall world game. I bet he though he was in control but nahhhh the tech world had enslaved him. He would only get up to go to the toilet and on the way back get a can of juice in the fridge and a sandwich to much and its back to Second Life. I remember we wouldnt make love for weeks and I was frustrated and angry with the game and the Internet cause back then I wasnt into technology now loook at me heheheh the firswt thing I do since I got my laptop is check me messages on facebook and skype and MSN chat bwith my friends from around the globe and then get up and make breakfast lol. Ididnt realise this till a while backl when I realised I am a slave to the Tech WorldI mean just look at some people who will spend the day on Xisto not a bad thing but just saying people are addicted to technology.

30 bucks for my year book. But thats not all. We have to also buy a hymn book and a prayer book.the prefects are just to strict, we have to do hymn practice every wednesday and get detetntion for the smallest of things like not turning up for sports. Oh I hated my school for almost everything.I went to school in SOuth Africa because my parents believed that education was better there and the teachers or rather the whole school system is more stricter there and boy are they strict.THey are strict about everything, the uniforms have to be ironed, tidy and the right colors. You have toi have a summer uniform which is short grey skirts and a shirt with and open collar and a badge on the pocket. Winter Shirt which has no badge but has a collar that need a neck tie. and then you have to wear the jumper with a school badge embroided on the chest. If you decided to wear a blazer then its called No. 1's and you have to wear the long trousers and a white shirt and the school tie, and a blazer you were allowed to wear a jersy/ jumper as well under the blazer but were not allowed to remove the blazer or tie if you wore longs. So far sonds ok but then what was crap was the prefects had so much power given to them. Say for instance after school you aree walking in town going home you still were not allowed to take your blazer or neck tie off. If a prect saw you flouting the dress code, they had authority to tell you off in town or take your name down and give you a detention slip. Now In the School I was in Detention is not at all like the detention you see in American Tv were you have tosit in a locked room and read. Our detention was manual labour we had to go and weed the tennis courts, sweep the squash courts, weeed flowers, or some other demeaning jobs. And whats worse is the teachers were allowed to spank or hit you if you disrespected them or did something naughty. Generally they instilled discipline into you with a hard hand. Prefects were allowed to send you to buy them a coke from the local grocer and you cant say no or risk detention. say you were queueing for the bus as long as you were in uniform, if a Prefect came you had to let all parents and prefects and teachers on the Bus before you. Or if you were already in the bus you were not allowed to let a senior stnad while you sat unless it was too awkward to get up eg if you were in a pacvked bus at the back and the senior were at the front. Just to clarify senior according to our school was anyone the was in a grade above you or older. So if you were in Year 10 anyone in year 11 or 12 or teachers, parents, school leavers or university are considered seniors and you had to show respect to them. You could be naughty and ignore the rules but if a prefect saw you they could slap you accross the face and still be within the school laws. I know it sounds rubbish but thats the reason my parents chose the schookl cause of its strict laws and discipline. Now That Im older yes I realise that they had good intentions but trust me I hated that schbool with a passion because back then to me it was just teachers and prefects being bully.Not to mention that you were litterally forced to buy the year book because they would post them to your home address wheather you wanted it or not then you were expected to bring the money as part of the School fees for Term Three basically term three fees wewre 30 bucks more expensive than normal because they included the yearbook fee. Smart but cunning. Then there wasthe School hymn book because we would sing at assembly everyt tuesday and thursday. another 12 bucks for a silly hymn book. This on you had to pay for yourself as and when you needed a hymn book be it because you were a freshman or lkost the one you had. Prefects would literally do stop and searches for school hymn books and school ID oh my god# that just reminds me 2 bucks for a school ID Yes it was just a pice of card with your Name Surname and Class / Year I think. I dont remeber there being a photo but you were to carry this at all times so there was a stop and search policy by teachers and prefects were they would randomly check if you had school ID and a hymn book if not you had 1 week to get which ever you didnt have to avoid Detention well it wasnt even called detention it was called Friday Manual Labour. I think about it now as a good thing because all the kids from our school had a high pass rate and were renounced for being the best school and their discipline and parents love that because they know their kids are under constant surveillance hence have limited chance to get into crime and gangs. But still it doesnt chgange the fact the I hated my school for it Hitler Type Regime lol. I loved the short skirts though. watching male teachers blush if you sat without closing your legs lol

What i can say to you girl is be very careful. Dont send this guy money anymore until you know exactly whats going on because he could be someone with a family there. I know people work hard but hey if you have a girl that you really like/love you cannot give her only 5mins and this babysitting business is crap. Have you ever visited this guy before? or he just come to you?. Some guys just wants a bit on the side so becareful of becoming one. He could be playing you fo rall you know girl. What you need to do is sit down and really think that do you want to be in a relationship with someone who doesnt give a damn about you or you deserve a better man. I know you must love this guy but sometime you have to let go for you to be happy.

She so wants you and i think you are the problem. She came to you so that you can confirm but you chickened out. You like her and she clearly likes you so go for it and just tell her. I know of someone who was in a similar situation but it was a girl. This guy acted all nice and friendly but deep down he really liked her and people used to tell her that he likes her but couldn't tell her because he was scared that he will lose his friendship with her because of taking things further, she realy liked him and could see a future with this guy but she couldnt tell him how she felt because she believes in a guy asking a girl out not the other way round. Then what happened is a girl started dating someone else and then he didnt take it well now they are not talking anymore because he is jealous of her relationship he wishes it was him with her not the other guy. So i say to you act fast if you really like this girl otherwise she is gonna find someone and you are gonna be regretting why you did not make a move when you should have.

Mother felt there was no affection between her and husband then decided to date younger man. All the time she used to make excuses about business meetings until one day daughter went out with boyfriend to a hotel for a meal only to see her mother with a younger man booking into the hotel and yet she had lied that she was going out for a business meeting in another city. Daughter followed her mother into the hotel only to be told that her mother was not taking any calls off people or making time to see anyone due to being very busy. Daughter then left and went back to the house and told her auntie (mum's younger sister) about what she had witnessed. The younger sister suggested they should go back to the hotel to confront the sister. As soon as she got there the receiptionist refused them to go and confront the sister then they went back home. Daughter was soo hurt that she wanted to tell her father but her aunt stopped her from saying anything. Time went by, daughter began to feel no respect for her mother and all the time would not listen to her whenever she spoke to her. Time passed by mother continued with her cheatin on the husband until one day it caught up with her. She started feeling feverish, was in bed all week and started saying that she didnt feel well, her elder sister came and took her to hospital. She had some tests done and got the shock of her life with the results. She tested positive of HIV and AIDS and also was told she had a kidney infection. She agreed with her elder sister that she wasnt going to tell her husband about her tests results. Her husband felt lonely and got comfort from his wife's younger sister then began to have a relationship with her. Since the sister wanted to keep it as a secret, she wouldnt tell her hubby nor daughter about her illness, until when elder sister began to avoid her and this affected her to bits. She then suggested to get discharged from hospital and went back home. One day hubby and younger sister got busy downstairs and she needed some help, managed to go down the stairs and as doin soo, got the shock of her life, sister busy making love to her hubby, then she went back upstairs. Daughter also found out about her father's and aunt's affair then moved out of the house and left. Coz of all the pain she had put everyone thru, she had noone to share with what she had witnessed until when she decided to be honest with her family, told her younger sister first that she was HIV positive n suggested that her sister went for some tests, before she could tell her hubby, he was involved in an accident and died on the spot.Younger sister went for some tests and tested positive, went back home and told her elder sister about it and told her she was relocating, coz sister was left with noone, she committd suicide and she died. After some time, daughter came back home only to find noone around, went to her auntie's house and everything was explained to her, the death of her father, young aunt relocating, and mother's suicide.How would u cope with such an odeal if it was to be u going through all this and ur family putting u through all this?

I am glad cause I just got home from town and found that I had had an update on my cents. I dont wanna stand up and say yipee the Credit system is now fully back on but I can say I am trully glad I got a bit of an update. I am trying to raise money to purchase a domain and pay for hosting and I wanna make sure I have enough to maoney to buffer me if the system goes down for an extended period of time.All I can say if we have got to keep poting if we are to make MYCENTS, at this point I dont really ahve enough experience with MYCENTS to say this is not the normall amount compared to before because for me this is a first time experience. Since I joined KS there was a system problem with mYCENTs and I guess OPAQUE is workign 24 7 to ensure the scriipt is up and running perfect. I know also for a fact that us chatting in this thread only adds pressure to him so Im not surprised he hardly comes on line lol. Its better for him to work hard at the script with out us stressing him out pressuring him to finish the script. So many of us are just complaining yet we dont really appreciate how much work goes into writting scripts that have to run a massive system like this. Unfortunately the system cant hudown say at 3 am and run the script because this is a worldwide forum and am in states might be 12 midday in australia and 5 pm in England so the logistics of running the script at a set time may not exactly be feseable for these forums.

why blame fast food joints for a problem thats only brought about by the fact that we are all tryna get more for less. I think the blame goes to the whole food industry tryna cash in on Genetically modified foods. I mean shouldnt the guys making the chemicals that speed up chicken or beef growth take into consideration that the people who will eat the food has minimal excercise and hence the side eefcet will be fatten. And this is not just children but adults as well.Has the food industry ever cared bout people or just about profits cause if you look at countries like africa they grow their own food in the feilds or farms and they eat organic products 90% of the time. You find they are not obese because they have to walk 5 Kilometres to get to school early morning and another 5 kilometres from school. so they automatically have done a fat burning excercise and there is hardly much chance of a build up of fat in the body unless its a genetic inheritance. For most people junk food is a lunchtime meal and an evening snack but because of the high amount of walking and running after the buses or public transport as they have to fight for entry into the trains or buses as they full up quickly and if you dont shove and push with the rest you will get home after 3 hours or get to work very late.They dont need gyms to excercise, their whole life is full of excercise. Yes they eat fast foods but you will find the source of the fast foods is organic and hence not as fattening as in western countries. I mean diseases like diabetes are there but very low in number. But if only you knew how high their sugar content is in africa you'd realise that Western world countries are having a major prolem with their genetically enhanced food.Yet you will find people saying its the parents fault, its the fast foods industries fault. Look The Fast food Industry is there to make money ad hence they will get the cheapest product and sell it for the mosst profit so we can not really blame a business man for wanting to make profits. And if a product is available and cheap why should people not buy it. Arent we all looking for a bargains included in the list beiong fast food. Its Todays world i blame. We have cheap cars and they are the main problem source, we have electrical bikes and those are the problem. We have paedophiles and they are the main problem. You see from my point of view its not that a person goes to the gym because we cant practically afford to have a gym membership for the whole family. So what should we do. If only the world didnt have paedophiles then things wouodl be better, kids would be not obese. Every parent wants to protect their child and now drives their child to school. They by scooters and electric bikes for their kids which means the kids only walk to the driveway and then sit all the way to school then get up and walk to class. They spend all day except break time and toilet time sat down and walk back to the school gate sit in the car or on a bike and once home only walk back into the house. They hardly burn any fat so their body is just pilling on fat which is actually the food which was meant to be burned as energy but never was. Hence instead of eating 2kgs of food, burning 1,9kgs of it into eanergy to carry on the days activities and then storing 0.1kg as reserve energy (fat) the process is totally reversed we only using 0.1kg as energy then convert the rest to fats so tell me how long before we are all obese.We need to start letting our kids walk to the shops and to school and get involved in school sports like athletics and tennis and squash those high energy sorts which makes our kids run around and not be just idle and lazy. We cant start blaming parents and fast food shops when the truth is probably that they are not responsible for the problem anyway and besides whats the point of blaming each toher instead of offerign a solution.

Sometimes relationships tend to get rusty over time. There are millions of reasons why people break up with those they love and care about even after 10 years. I have always been one of those people who want a relationship that lasts but then life doesnt always present us with everything the way we want it.When you start dating someone its exciting and theres a rush that we get from being with that person. Its that feeling of excitment that has you checking your face in the mirror evey 5 minutes because you dont want them to see any blemish on you. The same thing that makes you have butterflies when you are together. Its the excitment o getting to know each other and finding out more about each other what makes you tick, what makes them tick. Their history, their dreams, what they want in life and all that. People are different just like a game of cards oyu may have the exact same combination of cards with another player but that dont mean they will play them the same way. One is a mini series version with only a year worth of reading material assuming that reading a person is getting to know them. Another person is an encyclopedia and takes 3 years to get to know. For some the book starts of as a romanntic thriller which drives you will with desire and passion and keeps you wanting more but three quarters of the way it slowly changes to a thriller which keeps you hooked but has no real passion or storyline then finally yu get into the last quarter and the story just looses the plot. Its as if the writter has run out of things to tell and is just a boring lump of fairy tales which dont make any sense of just becomes a book that is so predictabl and wierd that we cant wait to take it back to the library or book exchane to get another better book. If that dont make sense relationships can also be equated to drugs. They start of nice and you can see yourself having this long good relationship with the drug as it makes you feel so good but after a while deepending on the get hooked on the drug ability of the drug you start to see the side effects. the bad bits and at first you think i can handle them but they get worse and worse till you just dont care about the drug. so you get rid of the drug from your system. Its hard at times ad takes a lot from you but at times its an easy walk away. So after 6 years you can find that the boyfriend who used to make you that jittery and excited is just a boring old hag and has no drive in life thay are still in the same boat they were 5 years back and to be frank they dont seem like they care if they are stuck in a boyou or not. all that matters if that they are alive. They dont even care to do a good thing for you and take you for granted just because you been around for so long you are now a fixed asset.So with time comes that greater test of any relationship. but NEVER assume that becuase its survived the last 7 years, it a signed and sealed relationshipp that wont ever sink. Cause once you stop trying to cultivate and keep that relationship growing then you are headed for one thing only...... your demise.

Gifts will always be gifts but these days people only seem to care about expensive gufts. Yet the truth is that the free gifts usually have a whole lot of meaning to people than an expensive car. You see a good act an example being a simple smile to a stranger can actually make another persons day, yet buying someone a diamond might just get the re-action couldnt oyu have bought a bigger one or a sapphire or a smug comment. Yet a simple thing like a flower can mean the difference between a bad day and a good day to another person. I mean i find it more intimate when my boy friend buys me flowers or a cheap necklace compared to an expensive dinner which requires me to act all ladylike or whisper and be all prim and proper at a resturant playing boring chill out music. I know its the right thing or settign seeing as its my birthday or our anniversary or something lik that but flowers or a box of ordinary choclate always makes me smile cause its not expected its a surprise, Yet with the anniversary dinner or birthday dinner or outting i am expecting everything well not as in all the details but i am expectant that somethign sweet or a sweet gesture is going to happen yet with a cuddle or a smile from a stranger are totally un expected and they hit you like powwwwwww and you thinking thats so nice of that person i didnt think people were still nice. You know that element of surprise comes into play.If I coould start a fad it would be that each person every week picks a random day to do one good deed different from the last three weeks to a total stranger. I would advocate that people do things which cost nothing. Like helping an old lady across he street, smiling and saying good morning, give a lift to a neighbour who is by the bus stop on a rainy morning or rather a random time Be less rowdy or noisy if bus is full of adults thet Go do the garden for a disabled person or home. There are so many good deeds we can do. Spend a saturday working at the local community centre on a volunatry basis. There is so much to be done in the good deeds department and people seem to have forgotten that being nice doesnt take anything away.

thanks guys gals for all your advice. I am really impressed that ou all took your time to actually read my problem and give advice that was open and sensible. To be honest a lot of the points you all raised were very tempting and I must say I took one of the advice and put them into action. Needless to say he was sooooooo angry he called me fuming and cussing and he ditched me. I cried for a the whole night cause i kept trying to ring him and he wasnt pickng up my calls. I also felt like I'd just lost everything. but yesterday I was lovesick but spent the whole day keeping busy. i went out with the girls and had fun getting chatted up by handsome strangers and being sniged by navy officers we met ut in the tom.Thanks for all you support and I appreciate all your advice. I will keep posting any major changes so you can see what your help has changed in my life. tHANK YOU ALL

Based on the vents that you have discribed, I'd say this relationship is done and dusted. You need to accept its over and move on this girl has finsihed using you and wanted a clean get away and a nice way of telling you i have found something more real and less imaginary like what we have here or rather what we had before. I was recently involved in a long distance realtionship with a guy in Australiasia and he was treating me like a trophy, he never loved me he just played me and a few other girls it took good advice from some people on KS to help me make a decision. Its only been a couple days that I left this guy and for me it quite hard to cope with it but I know Im doing the right thing. As for you, you need to realise that sometimes something is good for a while just like chewing gum the sweetness lasts for a while but then after a little while you get a sore jaw and you want to spit the piece of gum out. Same with relationship when you first tasted the relationship it was juicy and sweet and you both felt the right sep would be to get together and officially become a couple. But with time every relationship will stop being about that good feeling from the first night or first meeting to things more realistic like compatibility and locallity. Probably your girl started realising that she wanted a physical relationship where she could get physicall and sexual attention which can not be recieved in a long distance or internet based relationship. There are a lot of factors which affect the decision to break up a relationship. Mostly its realistic factors not just simple things that are hard to understand like I just dont feel it anymore. As simple as that statement is, we all know how hard to understand or comprehend that ambiguous statement its not you its me.In my view I'd hopefully say move on. Dont be a *BLEEP* cause thats giving her attention still. I say just completely wipe her out of you thoughts blick her from your email, IM, skype and Facebook cause the less you hear or see of her the better and qicker your recovery will be. Remembe the old adage Out of Sight out of Mind. Basically the less you see of her or read from or about her then the higher the chance of forgeting her and moving on. There is lots of other thing one can do to keep busy like being on these forums it all takes away the stress of thinking about her and remebering all the sweet good things you all did together. Just keep yourself busy and run away from those blues music or slow rnb tracks that only talk about missing a lover or a lover who has left.Good luck buddy

those are really funny points especially number 7. Although some of the points are a bit out dated and far fetched i like the idea that some people really take time really think about wat girls want and the good points on what is trully valid. Most of the points are silly and humorous as opposed to real. STill though I do love the efforts and the points listed.

Thats a very spooky dream, but probably might be dreaming about something bad that is going to happen to you, something evil because that person does not reseable something nice but a ghost.Christians say if u dream about something like that and it felt real you need to straight away wake up and pray but i dont know how the non christian go about this.

I think you may have a point there. Maybe people do die in a non peacefull way. But the never wake up to tell the world about it. I wonder if the ever has been someone who has watched someoen die in their sleep maybe from a bedside virgil of a sick person and witnessed them pass on. it woudl be nice

thank you for welcoming me to KS. hahah I like that you are so honest. i think with the honesty and honesty i will be happy learning from all of you. Thank Web_designer .

I gues by now you should realise that she's not really a friend but someone who probably only wanted you as a friend when she was the leader or in the limelight. You some of these friends we have only enjoy being our friends when we are a step behind them in life. They always tell us of their achievements and expect us to marvel but seem to quickly move on from any subject which steals the lime light from them. I'd say sod this friend and whats more. You need to carry on with your life and stop nagging at why ypou cant make it to her list of friends this christmas. In your shoes I would write her one last email telling her that I think our friendship has taken as much beating as it will ever and that you are tired of trying to mend things always. Tell her that you want to let her know you are not mean and will not be eveil iof she wants to be friends again but let her know you will not be getting involved in her cat an mouse games anymore. Tell her you can findd other friends and that if she is not comfy with it then it s best you both say hi and move on at your frends wedding. At the wedding you should ignore her and stay away from her as much as possible and just have fun with your other friends. Make an effort to look happy and make her realise that your life aint stopped because she's acting like an idot otherwise if you do she wins cause right now shes hoping you are wishing things were the way they used to be and you are incomplete without her. So by showing her its not like that you are a survivor and her stoppiung talking to you was just one of those things you teach a lesson to her that she wasnt the leader or the limelight in your life but just a person you used to hang out with as a friend.