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You are soo cheesy if your going to dump someone by christmas just because you can't handle a little problem like meeting her family or overcome problems that be involved with meeting her family. If she is the one you marry, the good times of the marriage etc etc will overpower those times of the bad. I bet they even see that as funny with what you have just said.

God Point j! Now i have a reason to tell my father when he asks me why i want a manual transmission ov automatic. Good Job.

He was going fast because he had no brakes. The weight of any object that large plus the smallest down slope in a road will cause the object to at least gain 20% extra speed and of cause will grow with the weight and slope size. You could try chucking the bike back into 1st but it will jolt you flying, now i believe drivers would be more sensible with there loved ones in the car. I turn from road rage to road angel just by my girlfriend, mother, brothers etc being in he passenger seat of my car.

Point 1, you may not find out until you have to plan something major like a wedding. Also, you may think you can cope with it, therefore continue the relationship but then something triggers inside and think i cant be bothered hiding it or dealing with this anymore. Point 2, its not that she may be trying to make him jealous, its that she has had someone care for her day in and day out then all of the sudden it is gone. Therefore she is trying to fill that gap that has evolved.

How did he manage that? He must have had the spare key, by which he should of started the car and drove it to the other side. Was it a large parking lot? On the topic though, you'd think if you were her crush you'd be told. IF you don't get told, or see it then i guess you are no her crush.

Be straight out honest with her. (I wish i had a dollar for everytime i said that.) There is no point trying to sneak around the back and get an answer as to why she hasn't been returning calls etc, she will see this as a way of you accusing her for something. Just say straight out you feel that she hasn't been calling as often and that you feel she may be unhappy or the relationship is dieing, if she is comittied she'll be honest with you and you find the problem and also the solution to it. One happy relationship.If you want to get her flowers, get her flowers, your still at school so no one is expecting you to get her this nice flashy car or expensive camera. Flowers with a small teddy that says something cute like: "Everytime i hear your voice, my heart wants to sing the words, I love you.." etc etc. Most girls would like you more for something then something expensive. I don't want to say this, but if you break up in say 2 years, you can walk away less hurt knowing you didnt buy her this $1,000 ring or something etc. etc. otherwise it would add to your pain. Small, Simple but Effective.

See im slgihtly confused now, whats the problem? Is she asking for a relationship or are you? Do you want a relationship or just a friendship. You have got to tell her the truth, no use hoping, your trying to swing it nicely not hurting her feelings or etc etc. just tell her the truth.

Ohhh come on Iceblade, have a little more faith in him. Maybe he is too busy with his new girlfriend to bother coming to tell us what happened. Maybe she has locked him in the cupboard somewhere.

On the flip side if you do not take the change you'll be forever wondering the 'what if' factor of your life, then where are you going to be ing months time whn she has a new boyfriend and she tells you she liked you, all you had to do was ask her out. You'd be slapping your head silly if thats what happens cause you'll then spend your time thinking about times you could have shown more, asked her out etc..

Any chick that is going to date someone that is the same age as their own brother has got something happening inside their mind. Find out why she likes him, as it goes, don't get mad (or jealous), just get even. Find what it is she see's in him and therefore try and show her that you may be like that, if you are. If you aren't, then you have to show her others ways that you care for her and that you like her.Don't be afraid to ask her out just because she likes some other guy. You'll end up in my sitiaution of liking 4 chicks and onl 2 of them live close, while those 2 one you can't regulary see due to work timing constrints and the other is new to the location and hardly looks at anyone. It's not fun. I say at one of these functions just ask if she'd like to go fo a walk during a break or afterwards etc etc. The worst that will happen is she says no.

Well for starters (i love that quote), stop walking around looking sad, shes not going to like someone who is sad all the time. Secondly, don't be an idiot and say *BLEEP* like, im ugly etc etc i mean everyone has someone out there for them apparently and not everyone out there is this beautiful model that comes off of a cat walk etc etc.If your both friends then thats ya starting point, and thats where it has to stay. Just do little things to show you care about her. Say sweet things, your hair looks nice today etc etc etc... go hang out places together, but dont get attached to her, if your with her 24/7 then she is going to become very closed up and feel your invading her life.

For starters, just chill man! Relax, maybe down a few beers if legal, otherwise few root beers. Think abou what your going to say, not word for word though, i want you to think what it is that you want to tell her and let the rest come spontanously, if you believe you could do that. Then find some nice clothes to wear that are you, not someone else.Then if she agress to meet you, don't just say a park bench or something it some place good, offer to buy her lunch etc etc. be friendly, and sweat. How old are you both? Or have i missed that somewhere in 2 pages?

If you choose anything, i'd choose the card over the email and give it to her personally or something along those lines. Emails make you look as though your busy, your not that interested, your not that thoughtful. Why?Because email is one of those things that is easy, quick to use without much thought, yes the content could be complicated however the medium is not, choosing a nice cards, maybe making a personalised one, and outting some effort into it will show.

Does this have any point at all? Or just to amke us all reply with aw I must admit some of it does burden some truth, however, alot of it is 'ficational' love. Most of all love is being able to love and like the person judging by the above, you must cry with but also comfort each other. Anyway have a good day...

Oh, admit it. You balled your eyes out for hours on your bed, while your mummy was giving you a hug to make it all feel better. Over 100MPH, Motorcycle, Building and she survived, is she like superman or what? Oh yes its all well lovly and that but come on, who do you know could survive a crash like that? Sorry to dampen the happy love story. Did he even try and find a hill to slow himself down? Could have driven until out of fuel?

You can't define it's material base, but you can define what 'love' is. IMO, strictly mine, love is a bond between two things, items, peoples etc. and without the 'two' there is no love. There are different types of love. Food Love, Item Love, People Love, Animal Love and the reality is that it is very specific as well. You may like a certain brand, your dog, not everyone elses as well. People believe there is two love sitiautions, feeling love, and true love. feeling love would be when you first get your puppy, you adore the hell out of them, then the noveility wears away. True love is simply that, that lasts forever. What am i getting at here? People can love each other at any stage, it may not be true love where nothing could seperate them, but a mild form where you have someone you can trust. Those in a relationship for sex and money only are doing nothing more then what hookers do on the street. You have to feel something, you have to holding that relationship for more then money. Otherwise its just plain useless.

You will always get objections, however you will always get objections with any relationships. You get some 'older' people out there still believe in the more tradinational standard of own race, but this is what makes our world so much better. Being able to move forward and have no problems at all with how we feel or what we feel just because someone is of another race. I think there is more problems and contravesy with gay marriages then anything else within this world of love.

I say you might have lead her on abit, if she is dropping large hints at something, then just ignore them, she will eventually move along and either ask you out or not.Then you got to follow the advice of other before me, however, you i think you'd be mad not to want to unless of course something you are not telling us. If i got along with a girl, she liked me, unless something major was standing in the way, i'd give it a go once, then if something happens and it ruin your friendship as well then as was said eariler she has the major problems.

Oh thats what i must lack, self control. I either deeply care about a person or i don't. I am not sure wether it is just me or not but i can't turn on or off how much i care i like someone. He'd have to state his intentions to whoever he meet, otherwise then he would be starting to 'play' her and i just ind it could get difficult, but i understand where you are comming from.

Mich is quite right. In this context of this topic being at Uni isn't godd for it either. From my limited experiences with friends/family/relationships etc places like School/Uni/Work mould people different way, and people change more then they would if not there. They also change in different ways at uni to the way you would at work.Many Uni Students would go from Party-Animal to a mature young person who knows to knuckle down to pass. Unfortunly with this relationship may suffer a great as well. Its going to depend on your and hers mentaility/work style etc.

That there creates a bigger problem because your at uni and can't just leave, and she is at uni and can't just leave, and uni is the biggest 'meeting' ground there is besides parties i say. All you can do is follwo my orginal advice of deciding wether its a full pledged relationship, and have that very regular contact with her while she is away, even if its emailing by day at uni, phone calls at night etc. and letters with flowers or smalll prezzies attached. Something that will make her remember you as the best guy in the world.

What happens if: He dates other people fins someone just as amazing as this girl, and starts to date her, they form a relationship, then this other girl come back after 2-3 years and is he expected to choose between the two or drop everything for the other girl or stay with the new girl, its going to get very complicated.

You have to look at it on the flip side though, would you rather be with someone that wants to be with you, or is just there cause you have had one breakup over the 5 break up milestone etc.On the other hand also look at why your experiencing so many breakups perhaps. Cricitising trial seperation like that isn't getting no one a helping hand, because there are relationships out there that could benifit from these seperations.You move away from someone, you relise how much you actually love and depend on them being there and you gain a fresh lesh on the love between the two of you.

You have to decide what is going to happen with your relationship, you can't have it both ways. Your either great friends with each only, or you both feel for each other in a greater way.If you like this girl, still her outright, which i believe from what you say she knows you like her, and commit to a relationship with her, that is the first step, the second is dealing with the distance.It depends on the circumstances you are in, would you ever consider moving abroad to be with her? Or would she give up what she is doing to be home with you? Or can you both handle having a long-distance relationship.I can't stress though that you both need to sort out what relationship you both have, if she see's nothing between you two now, she could end up finding someone else abroad and she may not ever return, or return with him.

Maturity doesn't have a place here, cause you are generlising that freshman's are in-mature and don't deserve a fair go, when there could be this freshman that has total maturity and up most respect for treating others, and a great personaility but you should let him hang because he is a freshman.