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Simply ask her out to something, movies, dinner, lunch at school , hang with her, become someone that cares for her, and knows about her, then tell her how you feel. If your a nice guy she will think the same about you, however i do think at the age of 13 your getting a little over-fest with the love thing, just play it cool and be good friends and see where it goes. Your only young, and girls as girlfriends just isn't worth wasting it away.

Ahhhhh.... All makes sense now, and sounds good. My Girl? Well, i'll let you know in a couple of weeks. It's a huge question mark hanging over it's head. I mates with her ex, and I went to school with the other guy thats asking her out, and if I was her I would say yes to this guy, he is a good guy. So where does that leave me? Sitting between morals and a fair competition that i'm already behind in. Oh I Love, Love.

Very interesting indeed. Your saying that although he is being more helpful to his friends, then you, you still love him? ost girls would have kicked his head in already and found some other guy, guess there really are guine people left in this world.I could talk for hours on end bout the girl I like at the moment, but i'm trying to get her over her ex-boyfriend, and then also to make her more talkitive, without being drunk. I can say now, that she is perfect. Looking for a beautiful girl, good sense of humour, with a smart brain, caring, loving and it is just her. *Dreams* I really want to grow old with her! .... Anyway, I'm back to work!

Was that really called for? I think you over stepped the mark there. She was asking for help for family members, and I don't think that made any help to the sitiuation. Unless there is something helpful to say, don't say anything at all. Your remarks there were ingoranat and over the top considering she said in her first post she doesn't like them doing this.

Who said it was natural law for the woman to ask the guy out? If a chick that didn't impress me, or I didn't consider a 'catch' asked me out, and i still thought she was an OK, Sweet, Kind person I'd say yes, so therefore wouldn't I be her catch? Some guys don't like asking girls out, so if a certain girl would like a guy, then she should also make every effort to be with him, as any guy would with a girl.

Stop thinking that you blew a major opportunity as well. Every second you spend with her that is making her happy is only working towards your cause. The only time you can say "I blew a major opportunity" is when she finds another guy and she says she did like you. I'd say plan to ask around middle to the end of the day, that way you could both have some time to think about what happens etc. when you ask her if she likes you.Something which is important, make sure you tell her how you feel, not too strong, but not to light. If you put her on the spot she may not be open with you, because she doesn't want to feel like a 'dill' and admit to liking you, if she has the slightest doubt that you might not like her. Understand?

This is by far the funniest thing I ever read, why would you even bother to go out with your sisters friend. What was the tension like at home? Who did she come over to see? Your sister would feel like your stealing her away from her as a friend.All I can say is, just tell her how you feel, get to know her mother. That way you could really know the truth.

It isn't true love then. You have to get around what the meaning between love and true love is. Love isn't something that happens, but may not last forever, it has a concept of lust involved as well. True love, has a way of re-creating that spark of love over and over and never losing that love, just because you break up with someone doesn't mean that love is gone either.

If only my co-workers were 20-40 years younger. It sucks being the youngest in the whole company bu being in the IT Department you do get to travel alot and after hours is the best. I'm happy the song worked, but breaking there relationship up, how'd that go?

Strange how the world works. Good luck, and don't come off as desperate. Calm, and Smoothly talk to him, and have an idea of what you want hime to know, otherwise you could end up saying more then you may have wanted, or say the wrong thing.

I'm with Saint Michael with his last advice about being weary of his current girlfriend so to speak. It's exactly what happened between you two, you could potionally be doing to him. He could be happy with his current girlfriend and then a 'friend' has to come along and like him, and cause problems. You need to make sure you don't come across as 'imposing' on their relationship or that your trying to steal him. Maybe a simple letter explaining your feelings could be the best way going about it, that way, he can read it in his own time, think about it, he could opt to tear the letter up and throw it away or could easily keep it hidden somewhere. Don't think that "Oh, they will break up soon..." will get him back because people are hurt after relationships and it could get messy. Write a letter, I think people should go back to letters.Anyone says write him an email or SMS him, i'll shoot them myselfs! Romantic, pfft!

Strange thing is through, marriage isn't supposed to majorly change things in life, it's supposed to be a celabration and a commitment to a healthy strong relationship, not pressure or stressful. You wouldn't cheat on your girlfriend and you wouldn't cheat on your wife, and both are as bad as each other, so i see no real seperation between a boy/girl friend relationship and a husband/wife relationship, quite sad really. Personally, having a family which looks after child who have no home, abused etc. i'm glad there were no children involved as yet, cause the major daunting experience is as a kid and dealing with your parents spliting. All the best for th future though.

Oh, I don't doubt that one bit. Coming from me, who has crashed two seperate cars, fallin in love much the same as you did with someone, only to have them move away without a word, made some very folish mistakes in my time dealing with females, and i'm only 19, yet, i'm bound to make some more soon, it's about time for some more. We never stop learning and experiencing in this life, but we learn do learn very well from my mistakes. Your next relationship is only going to be much bigger and better then the last, and you need to work on your confidence, you can talk to anyone, its what you talk about which will reveal your feelings.

Sounds like she had it in for you from day 1. Using you, no strings attached i wouldn't be suprised if she was possibly cheating on you then tried to make a right with another wrong, getting married. Then her feelings have changed, and instead of doing what us normal people do, she has ran, and to break a marriage off by a text message, well mate, serioulsy suggest you nip this off and find someone you can truely trust and know them and there family and friends before you do anything again.Life is all about finding the right things not the perfect ones, you'll always find a bad one (for you), a handful of the right ones and if your lucky enough maybe the perfect one, and i do mean one! Life wasn't meant to be boring so alittle adventure is needed where possible. Don't Give Up is my advice to people!

Immature? Because we don't Ball-Room or 70's Disco dance at night clubs, cause we like to have fun? Please, give me a break, your asking for attacks and insults with that comment. Personally, it's not perverted if your both doing it togeter and secondly, why is it anyway? I suggect people go look the meaning of the word up in the dictionary and might be suprised to reliese its only dacing with some style and sexyness nothing perverted.Life doesn't need to be complicted while dancing, its a time of relaxtion and fun, so don't sit there because you can't dance, go out there and maybe a girl will find you and show you how to dance and if you get along well together what do you know, your in a relationship 3 months down the track!

I guess you made the foolish mistake to start with, in your opening statement there you said about all the relationshisp forming and i guess it came across that you weren't looking at that stuff heading into adult life, then you became blind at the sight of a hot guy, and wihout really knowing him let him in to a place where guys should only be when truely in love and got yourself hurt, but im glad you have learnt from this experience and i could only imagine what will happen the next time round meeting a guy. Good luck and it wasnt a bad experience just a silly one!

I'm glad it worked for you, this is surely one of th more interesting topics that has been started, im just sorry it didn't work out with your first wife. Shame really, but oh well, starts well, ends well.

lol Sorry, just your reply sounded like you had jumped into the mind of a female and spoke what they want and need. If you look most males says stuff like, "if you give her this and that and from my expereince she'll like you this and that" but you were soo difinite that is what she wanted and it just sounded like you were. But, my mistake.

Unfortunly though, two wrongs don't make a right, therefore if you put two drug addicted people together you just get a bad abusive relationship, selling and disturbing drugs etc. I can say that relationships are addictive, once you are in one, you don't want to get out, however, some people also just in it for the sex, so they are addicted to the sex and not the relationship. Some addicted to the money, others the attention. One chance you have to keep that one amazing person that both of you are addicted to each other and not the money, attention or sex.Although, if your thinking addication then this could be worse, if your on drugs you can't give up cold turkey, on average, however with a relationship you won't really get much of a chance so i hope you all get addicted to the right person, the ultimate soul mate.

Well i believe it depends on the person, most people these days party a hell of a lot at there young ages and then mature abit. If you were 13/14/15 i would question there so called 'cyber' relationship but older then 16 i think most people can make work. If you go back over topics on this subject you'll notice most in that young age range.Living in two different countries is the hardist part, mainly cause it will cause one of you great expense to see the other or in the end eventuallity who moves to whos home town to live happily ever after...

Should age matter? Yes and No. Within age ranges there needs to be a acceptance level. 10-16, 16-20, 20-40, 40+ crissing those ranges puts you into a different lifestyle, she is starting to learn the way of the worlds while you are starting to find yourself in the world. While you're going to college or whatever, she is in school learning things, being with guys her own age, it will only distract her and you.However, Should this matter? No, not really, age shouldn't be defining weather a relationship will work or not, or if it even starts, but you have to question your own intentions and he your liking some aged 14 at 17 then are you not meeting people if your own age, how do you even come about getting together with a 14 year old to start with. I can be understanding, i don't care if she was 14 or 18 to be honest (any younger, i would be worried), but the law may not be soo understanding, it doesn't take each <16 as a case by case basis and you automatically end yourself in the *BLEEP*, now you have to weigh those odds to those of the happiness you have with her.

Follow the above advice of being yourself. The problem is from experience most guys tend to not be someone there not, but show there 'idiot' side in the wrong way, you say stupid things maybe do stupid things, however, just relax, maybe even a few drinks and maybe a few of your friends as well, and slowly 'dawn' on her. If you get your friend to say, this is ... have fun, Bye she will feel a little in-closed and trapped. Maybe the movies!!

Depends who you are, the above would describe the average nicer guy that doesn't have the whole, i'm a hunk, have sex with me type mentaility. However, there are alot of guys out there that would say yes, a relationship of this kind would involve sex. If your worrying only about sex though, then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place, more somewhere far away.

If you don't know her, then how do you know she isn't that drop dead what ever you call it kinda person that your so intent on having because the way i see these drop dead people usually do drop dead in someone elses lap while still attached to yours nd i'd wonder if your someone who fits in with the drop dead crowd or the brains and personaility type? Wow, my most *BLEEP*y post, and it was still nice!!

Can't get more simple. Say to her, you either want to be with me or you don't. Tell her how you feel, do this while sitting somewhere quiet ad not going o be left stranded and she isn't going to feel intimated. Guys and Girls don't need that kind of *BLEEP* from there partners, it suits them, but it stuffs up the lives of those partners. I didn't think the world would get to a sitiuation where thinking of another persons feelings/thoughts would be something spoken in past tense. I see however that it is becomming more and more common, is it so hard to decide weather you want to have a relationship with someone or not? If, you have slight doubts thn why not give it a go, and see where you end up, unless your talking marriage with is another kettle of fish.I guess my adive to you, would be to think along the lines of the cliche of "Plenty more fish in the sea..." and put the altermatom (sp?) to her, and say its either a relationship or not? Of course if you love her then you need to show the grestest of times before hand, but also be yourself, tell her your working 100 different jobs to to support yourself and buy her things and take places and make a life for your future relationship. But, ultimly like truefusion said, make up your mind on what you want and stick to it.