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oh its adorable !i love the pictures ,he looks so sweet and adorable and masculine in bone structure .I bet their personality is proud and sensitive at same time with tons of loving pouring out of his entire body ,towards the whole family .i would appreciate you sharing many more pictures ,to see how he is growing and doing ,it placed big smile on my face ,as i waited for pictures to come clearer in viewing .the whole family ,must be filled with complete happiness having this adorable puppy sharing your lives .he is very lucky puppy have his new family too .best of wishes !

mystic warrior ,to me is one my best books I've read and some how it gives me chills when actually get absorbed inside the book .although some can say it is consider how to book it is actually not ,it sets itself out all by its self.one that you can read over and over ,always getting something new out of reading the book ,to add to your own self .another novel would be ,that i loved was called i know why the caged bird sings ,it was written so beautifully and inspirational ,very extremely.sometimes it kept you on the edge of your chair and then edge on bursting out in tears . okay i get absorbed in my books i choose to read and maybe look like a idiot ,as i open my self up in the books i read and it touches my heart and creates excitement in the adventures.so really think i just love curling up during lazy day and placing my nose in a book and allow myself travel just about any where ,the book takes you .

oh eating lemons are great! just cut them up and i like salt on mine and can eat them anytime . rather have a lemon than would a orange ,i know sounds strange but it is true . i have weird taste i guess and really glad to hear someone else has just as weird taste as i have . when it comes towards eating lemons

Smoking is not really good habit to even consider or start in ones own life although no one can really tell anyone what they should do or shouldn't do ,if anything like me when i was teen ,some one tell me not do something ,i was sure i was one out there in first of line and showing anyone i did it .although i smoked as a teen and felt it was just kool to do as a teen too ,everyone else was doing it and that is a laughing comment ,as my own mother used tell me ,if your friends was ll hanging from a tree by there toes ,would you do it too and have to laugh even now because the answer would of been i probably would been the one that thought of that in first place .although as smoking really being honest here ,i hated how i smelled ,no perfume in the world could cover up that awful smell in your hair or breath and clothes ,even though we try to cover it up ,that mixture of perfume or cologne and nicotine really ranked .besides it discolors your whites in your eyes ,ruins your gums and teeth and breath reeks high $#%^@causes many medical issues and no one wants hang around you .not created that habit then reconsider not starting it .those that have children ,well think of them as i heard it causes erar aches and other medical problems towards them too .when your own daughter could come to you one day and say mommy do you want die ,you reply no sweetie why ask me that ?your daughter ask again with such serious face .then mommy why are you killing yourself smoking and wanting to leave me .that would make anyone just quiet cold in all respects a it did me .sometimes smokers do not think about own self ,in life we should and think of others we love too .

Thinking about purchasing a new vehicle ,not quiet sure what though .i want a small car or small truck .i just do not know what kind of vehicle i should get ? i drive a lot in my life so place a lot of miles on a vehicle.i got approved for new vehicle ,although as i searched for couple days ,i still can not figure out what i should get ,do not wish purchase something that ,takes me long time to pay off and will not hold up over the years . I like the Toyota venza ,although my boyfriend says it looks like a granny vehicle . So I kind of had my eyes upon a ford edge too ,didn't tell boyfriend ,felt he may dislike that too .Or the Chevrolet Malibu although boyfriend suggested a jeep wrangler ,sorry that just didn't seem like something I would drive . I don't have preference of kind of vehicle just as long its stands up and gets good gas mileage . So any suggestions here ,would be greatly appreciated excited in hearing your suggestions . it would be my first new car ,and want to make a wise lasting decision ,that i can be proud of and know it will get me where i need be going in years to come .

Normally taking one multivitamin a day is good although our bodies need daily Vitamin A you can normally get that just eating good balance diet such as in carrots ,sweet potatoes ,spinach or tuna cantaloupe certain things like that including broccoli then we need calcium you can get that in balance diet of green beans ,turnip greens which most do not know what those are ,Orange juice ,salmon ,those areas Vitamin B6 comes in areas of fish ,beans avocados ,bananas cauliflower ,spinach then there famous folic acid areas that benefits in balance diets of oranges ,asparagus strawberries mushrooms ,poultry taking to much than our bodies need sometimes our bodies will throw it off at same time ,there can be issues in taking to much ,as statement above me stated ,something of good thing can be to much . At same time eating proper balance diet ,is best way make sure your body is getting proper vitamins needed daily . Now all this is really making me hungry !

I have to admire everyone's thoughts about expectations in a marriage ,as i can not find faults with ,anyone placing their own feelings about expectations being in a marriage ,right or wrong .I can only be inspired that ,such strong feelings are place in your replies .as for me i believe there is always some form of expectations in a marriage bond together .i will believe ,marriage is forever .i will see that in a marriage come compromising and accepting ,each other ,as themselves ,as must of accepting each other ,to actually fall in love and held vows in marriage ,to spend rest of your life together .within accepting each other ,there yes needs be strong compromising and the will within side your own heart ,to take both sides in any given issues ,good or bad and hold communication between the two ,in actually coming to some agreement in solving any risen issues in a marriage ,together .to always hold disagreements without compromising to me is only one sided selfishness that ,needs attention in maybe ,being more on grown up side of self instead that child ,that always stomped around ,getting their point across and their own way ,no matter what age ,we become ,that becomes very unpleasant .marriage is strong bond of two souls as one ,sharing their lives together through the good and bad ,till comes time ,both are content and happy ,just being ,there for each other ,finding great pleasures ,sitting on porch ,enjoying ,your surrounding life ,while two are sitting there ,one looks at the other ,the other ,knows just what that look really means and how simple look that sparkles ,means without ever saying one simple word.Grasping each others hands ,locking together ,holding that smile ,Life is Good ,that you both made it through all those Years together.When two people come into a marriage though and afraid to share their life with one they married afraid that doing that ,would lose something Important in the person they fought so hard to become in ones own self ,will always struggle through life ,feeling emptiness of never having that strong bond within marriage ,that shared look ,as always be discontent in all the wonders in one's own self .so thank you ,everyone for your wonderful replies ,once again i am inspired by the replies and touched my own heart ,as no one is wrong in how they replied ,as each is different in this world .that makes each of us ,special in our own ways .have a nice day

Oh those dogs are very cute and very very loyal to one owner too ,they don't take up easily with others as one may think .they do not like to actually be consider a family dog either .do not take much care and brushing ,easy to keep clean .have maybe sometimes ,especially when get one that is really high strung out and can easily get stressed out over anything ,they do tend to ,create some medical problems ,like skin rashes ,mostly that is caused from being depressed environment or stressed out ,like visitors that like to tease them ,just hear them growl or bark or their protecting their one owner .when that happens in getting skin rash ,there is this simple solution to cure it ,that i getting something called bio silk ,that protects the coat and skin .although looking for a pet that will be very loyal to just one owner ,you picked the right pet then .wish you best of luck as getting a pet is filled with happiness at same time it becomes a pet that is life long best friend .

Exactly I believe there should be expectations in a marriage ,something that may not be the same although it becomes compromising and respectful with those expectations that is shared together in a marriage .being able to work through anything and actually solving what you both worked through together .i don't believe a solid marriage would hold no expectations.There is always expectations .Sharing a life together ,growing with each life's experience ,compromising with each disagreement finding that safe middle ground that can be compromised together ,that brings two people closer together and filled with happiness that even when all those years ,shared together ,all life's changes ,when your partner enters a room ,there is always that bright sparkle in the others eyes or both ,that never seems to dull ,no matter ,how many years shared together .that spark stays forever between the two .expectations are in a marriage ,to discuss anything together not just your dreams and goals ,but the expectations of any given out come ,weather good or bad ,sharing each others ,opinions and understanding and compromising together ,not just one way ,a shared way together .once again ,thank you ,for your warm inspiring replies ,I really appreciated reading them .

Well thanks for interesting input here on this feeling and Topic ,I really was touched ,reading some of the replies and have to really admit ,it hit home in my own thoughts and about way Life should be .it isn't way Life feels one is expected to live or for reasons of all else in expectations ,you have to make those decisions for self and bring your own happiness at hand and taking that Journey that is for you to take .Those Tiny "what ifs" do seem to pile up in my thoughts at times ,that seems to leave me pondering on the direction I am taking and areas i am living ,they seem to become over whelming .to release those simple small what ifs can release alot of pressures in how a person should be living and finding happiness .thank you all very much for inspiration and replies . sometimes simple things in life can get over whelming in every day life in jumble of our thoughts .

Asking in regards does marriage hold expectations of each other or is it wrong ,to hold expectations in a marriage ? Should it be consider that expectations hold no place in a marriage? Should expectations play a big role in a marriage ? Curious to find input of everyone's feelings concerning expectations in a marriage . What would you Suggest ?is right or wrong .

How can a person stop feeling this over whelmed detachment from others . Have you ever wonder what your life would be like ,when there was no expectations of all areas you are expected to live in this world ? Sometimes I always feel this over whelming ,urge that comes over my life ,as knowing I will always be attached to those I love ,although there becomes this state that falls over me ,that I wake up in mornings and just want get in my car and head where ever my car takes me and money allows me to go ,without a care in the world and no expectations . I always felt there was something in me that always felt never to settle down ,live all those expectations that our parents ,hold for each of us as we grow up . Living certain life that allowed you to feel alive although no matter how much you try ,you find you are unable to handle ,living that care free lifestyle and come back ,living what was always expected of you .Being told should just suck it all up and become that better person and create a life that ,society expects of you to be doing ,so I did create a life and sucked it up in certain way . Although will that feeling that stays inside a person ,in breaking away from living a life that is expected of you to be living ,this detachment you hold inside yourself . Just to get in that car and drive away ,free without limitations in sucking life up and becoming like everyone else in this world . Have you ever ,held this feeling inside you ?Do you ever over come that emptiness inside you ?

Question of this topic is . What are some of the Areas in your own life ,you offered in helping other people ? How does it benefit others and also yourself in long run too ? I am always curious how Different life styles ,allow their life to open up in helping others ,or is it more benefiting to ,just not help others ? In our busy lifestyles these days ,placing our selves in society eyes that we each should hold expectations of living a life ,as our parents did and so on . Keeping a job ,getting married,creating a family ,all those wonderful life's expectations that is just the way ,life should be ,lived by all . We can get wrapped up in our own to do honey list our own selves and it becomes very hard to actually concentrate on lending a helping hand towards someone else . Although one of the best things you can offer in life is actually helping others ,some how inside you ,allows you to see beyond all those life's expectations ,step outside of your own self and actually view the world ,by seeing through another eyes . When anyone actually offers ,helping someone else besides yourself ,it allows you to learn new areas about who you are inside own self too . You begin to actually view how graced you are in life ,even not the so good things too . We all have everyday many opportunities that slip into our own lives ,that could offer a little piece of self in helping others ,and allow yourself to feel that spiritual life inside own self . We can start closer to our home life by helping your spouse out ,or children ,then reach in areas helping the community ,you are residing in ,by helping animals ,or creating fund raisers for many great causes . what are best things you done in lending a helping hand out towards another .sometimes in our lives ,we all need ,place our hand out towards another to be grasped .

really how can anyone state ,knowing you just been told your going to die and hold limited amount of time left of your precious life .how can anyone would ever believe ,their dying because something they did wrong in life for god or any god to ,make life shorter than expected .or for being told be consider it about lies or deceptions that was told or lived through out your life .if this was true ,what wrongs did infants or small children do ,when something horrible happens and they become angels in heaven and their life is shorten than expected ,i can answer that absolutely nothing they could ever do wrong ,just as any adult could done wrong ,and face ,medical decision that ,their own life will not be lived as expected in this world .sometimes god ,calls us back as we are needed else where never will i ever believe god would call you back as you ,did so many wrongs in this world .as for prayers ,that should always be something added in our hearts already . The quiestion to the topic was not something anyone did wrong and holds a need to ask god over and over in what they did wrong in their own life to be told they were dying ,or lies through out life .the topic was ,once the doctors told you ,that there is no cure ,there is no medical treatment for what ever term or cause it may of be .that all in all ,your life has been shorten ,would you or would you not discuss this news with loved ones right away .would you share this news of dying ,with love ones and feel their lives changing over the news in how they are treating you ?would you share this news with loved ones and accept how it is affecting more than just you in knowing ?would there be a list of things in dreams you want do or just spend rest remaining time you have left with all you love ,or would you just take a vacation and die alone and spare all you love .i guess that answer will have many different ways as each is different ,i only wished to hear replies of what if ,it was you that was told ,news of dying ,what would you share and not share with loved ones ?

yes i guess hearing different ways of sharing and coping with knowing your dying ,could not really be answer ,it really depends on that person .that is holding the news .in making a big decision for their life .

besides there are lines that maybe love ones ,do not actually wish to care to know that type of news ,they ignore it too ,as it never was shared .thanks for Sharing different ways of handling this type of news .

at same level i feel ,knowing you are dying maybe they do not share this news ,as not to change anything that is real in life already and love ones ,need something of life filled with happiness and not disturbing news like ,one they love is dying .*shrugging*

using your time ,left before dying ,yes ,you would want ,life to be happy and filled with simplest dreams ,that could become ,part of you .still telling those ,you love ,your dying would change many things and i feel some couldn't offer that and feel some can offer that .some offer many things in what one shall call ,protecting those they love or having some form of pride ,that is instilled within them .maybe they are confused themselves and have to come with grips of the disturbing news themselves before sharing it with loved ones .i feel the question will linger differently inside everyone thier reasons .

yes could be consider unfair to leave that till the end for loved ones to know the news .at same time ,when there is many areas ,your trying to improve on your own without anything getting in the way ,you surely would not wish to lay a news like this on anyone you love .as you would never known in your own self ,did things improve on there own or was it because the acknowledgment of the news ,you just shared with your love ones .i did something like this as one my classes in how we all react differently in knowing we are dying ,for what reason it didn't matter .retrieving what each of us would do during a time like this .how we would keep it inside ourselves or should we let our love ones know .can we face there looks and there pity looks upon you during these times or there tears ,or shall we just go on ,as every day life .would be something hard to actually know what to do .

exactly that is how i see it in telling anyone .holding off telling those you love the news ,prevents being treated Differently than if they just did not know the disturbing news ,although maybe it is not right and leaves those you love empty or cheated some how .as for doing all things ,you never done before think that would be wish of all that holds that news in thier life .