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To tell you the truth, real love is enough to last and overcome anything!! Ask me, i met the love of my life and we have a long distance relationship thats working out great so far!! But it all has a lot to do with how much mature you both are about it. Especially when it comes to marriage, its not an overnight decision one can just make. It takes a lot to be committed to someone forever through thick and thin. When you marry you have to be hundred percent sure she's what you will ever want and if she falls short, you should be prepared to accept her for who she is and appreciate what she is not consider the negatives only. Study has shown that people in love perform better than those without someone to lean on. But love cannot be enough if two people are not rational about it. It needs a lot of work, and you get out what you put in.

I've already forgotten about her!!well, i still know she exists okay but i don't wish we were together or anything because i met the girl of my dreams now :)forgetting is quite easy especially if it ended on a bad note

well what happens most of the time is that people lose focus and drift away in different directions.I've been part of a relationship that i really was into at first and wanted to do whatever to keep it afloat but after a few months, i was really fed up and wanted something new, the perfect soulmate.making it past the honeymoon phase is not at all easy!! Its the true mark of a true relationship and once people overcome and accept each other for what they're...together with the good and the bad...then everything will be good.Another sad reason is that people pretend at first and give an impression of being the perfect match when deep inside they know they got issues. this can really force the other person to cheat. The reason behind the cheating is not to hurt the other by telling them its over but rather thinking, i'll stick around with her and just find someone to try out if it works or not. of course this is bad...i'd appreciate if people just came out in the open and discuss whatever issues on the table.

welcome man.glad you could join us again in this amazing community for sure!!hope to see ya around!!

I like PHP alright but I have just discovered Java is a much more serious and deadly tool!!!I used php for a bit with mysql and quite an impressive combination...so yea, PHP rocks!

Looks guys, this is a matter that needs careful thought. I don't usually agree with anwii but heck, he's laying it down for what it is!This guy has a bit of a problem I once had. I really liked this other girl but I ended up dating the friend. It really hurt her bad and they too broke off their friendship because of me and I felt horrible afterwards. Everything is very much like what you've described...i flirted with her real bad with no burning wish to take it to the next level...and just hit it off with her best friend.Anyway, back to your story...this guy might have a real thing for you...but he needs that push and needs to know you aint no booty-call when he's around. I think you two maybe real close but you need to give him a real wake-up call. Coming out in the open and declaring out your feelings for him will not work in your favour. Personally, I like to chase after girls then "win" not the other way round. A girl telling me she likes me will really scare love away,I might commit in the end but the feeling of having been "trapped" will not disappear easily.So with this guy its all bout making him see you two can be an actual couple. Not knowing if he has good intentions since he asks sexual questions...that doesn't sound too good. He needs to improve his approach if he wants something worthwhile. But anyway, why don't you instead of answering and obliging all the way, answer a few then...stop in the middle of it and tell him you'll do it when you're ready since sex is a delicate subject with you. Tell him you share such knowledge when you have gotten 100% trust in someone...that is a proper boyfriend...and you don't really understand what he is driving at...after that...make it clear sex is a no go area if this relationship issue is not resolved...but do not ask him if he loves you...he has got to make the first move....thats how you know if someone likes you.I hope my advice helps.

Nice poem!!!I know im replying a bit late but I totally loved it and 2010 has started with a real BANG!!!THIS IS MY GREATEST YEAR EVER!!THanks mate.

Whoops, yay!!! I'm also thrilled to know there is a new forum introduced. I wish I could advise you but I don't know how you may find out about each specific law. Asking a lawyer might help or googling it if it made the headlines.

One thing i like about your site, is the domain. congrats on choosing such a nice and memorable one...it sticks to mind easily...no need for users to bookmark.Now the lows:You site is talking about something different mate...with such content, it should be digyourcode.comyou need to make it fit the description...what I had in mind was something to do with computers on the hardware and software part not specific code languages. You have to add information on Installation of softwares, fighting virus, provide articles on such subjects that are DIRECTLY linked with computers. Btw, thats not really a niche but you've joined a large field of similar sites...the one edge you have is that domain...its deep, its so cool...now plan your stuff again...do a little research...relaunch with more steam then ask for SEO...i'll gladly help you if I can.Good luck mate

Welcome to Xisto family mate.I hope you get hosting soon share with us your website!!This is one of the best communities online and i haven't had any major issues with my hosting so far!!!See you around.

This is too difficult..not because i don't have any but they're just too many.not celebrities btw, but just a few i know...if its a celebrity maybe then beyonce...but she's not the best i've seen certainly!

I decided to come back again and realised it was still on the home page....i was stoked! and all credit to you anwii! i think you're reaching millionaire status here at Xisto...actually i heard you are going to buy Xisto in MyCents currency? lol! [now thats your level...i won't be surprised if you reply to that...i purposely have to act immature to have a chat with you.] but at the end of the day, im glad to have met you...you showed me this world is full of people who wish to change the world and use whatever ways to do that, even if it means they become the problem afterwards..and hey dude..og...granddad lol..life starts at forty so you still got chances...good luck to you on that. im forced to try and advise you now that im happily in love...everybody else please pardon my nonsense..this thread might as well turn into something about anwii coz he needs help..he's really forty! oh you spoke about my social life?? nah you did not? did you? of course...being you, you just throw anything out [at 40! lol]...i don't socialise by choice. most people my age are into drugs and all the other crap stuff...should i force myself to hang out with such? i don't think so. Only friends i have are people I grew up with and trust. most people i meet don't really stand for what i believe in so im pretty content with my life...and of course...my new girlfriend makes it all magical... oh...life is sweet and I never did nothing with that girl so stop anwii...sicko seems to be the only word you know [at 40!]

I'd say patience, hardwork and prayer.And thanks for posting this...im directed to your site and hope to start meditating.I haven't really tried it but would like to learn asap...i've heard good things about itCheers

don't even bother talking to her. she's not into you. I have similar experiences when i've got something special happening with a girl and we both know it, but for some reason...it doesn't work. Some girls have other options and just decide to settle for you just for the time being and once another guy looks her way, she totally forgets about you. I don't know what sick game she's playing but not inviting you to the party was a tad too much. and not answering your calls?? thats darn stupid and insensitive. leave her and move...don't waste your time. find someone who likes you as much as you like her. good luck...my advice is just for you to keep dong the usual things and if she doesn't make a move...don't bother going for her. What good is't for here to come back and say she's sorry for ignoring and having fun with other guys? acn you trust her afterwards? she messed up huge...and thats the end.

GUYS IM BACK!!! Heck this thread is still running? wow!!! i surely did start something didn't i!! Oh my god, jeez, just going through what people posted when I was away has got me laughing real bad! anwii, people has said that way you try to give advice is wrong and you have denied this. cools, i aint got no problem with that. maybe you do it for the long posts...mycents...whatever man. well...this might surprise everyone but I am dating a very gorgeous girl now! yeah!! she's the best thing that has ever happened in my life. [i hope this doesn't close off the topic though...i'll keep it alive, i swear!!!] @anwii...you need to grow up. you're forty but my younger brother talks more sense than you. I mean...it beats me totally...how does a man who's almost the same age as my dad pick a fight with twenty year old? don't you have anything else to do? i mean come on...i can't even stoop to your level...im 20 and im over that! i feel sorry for those who know you in person. You just babble and can't reason. at such an age, i'd stop acting like my hormones are on fire and approach an issue with some sense. anyways...i never really told you like this because i respected you as you are twice my age but after seeing how you treat others as well...you should be disgraced...you don't have any manners...i don't know how you grew up but i hope i don't raise up my kids in such a way. i'm truly sorry if im doing the same as you do..anyways...all the other guys...thanks bunches...as i said im now in truly in love and happy how i saved myself from this situation! [or rather how God saved me!! lol]

hey welcome mate!I really liked your post..you're darn hilarious ...i recently got my hosting..and its pretty good and reliable.I have been hosted here before and never had any issues.Good luck, i look forward to seeing your sites.

I couldn't agree more mate! WHY? well, first and foremost, I hate soccer. I hate all the crap thats associated with it...i hate the players, i hate the refeeres who don't have the guts to silence those barbarians and i hate the administration too.. Oka...thats a lot of hate, right there okay..BUT I can't ignore the two teams in the world that play soccer as it should be: Arsenal and Barcelona. I support Arsenal just because Wenger is the only real coach there is...he moulds his own players and doesn't even spend much on players but they consistently end up in the top four. thats not a mean achievement...the guys know how football should be played. seocndly, i don't support barcelona because they got rid of eto in a rather rude way. On todays game..i hope Arsenal wins. Arsenal as got so many players that a few injuries shouldn't ruin anything. its probably the team with the most options right now and i think Chelsea will be no match. the defense needs a bit of work, but the strikeforce is superb and when they have won, they've scored huge. Good luck to Arsenal and down with Chelsea! Arsenal 2 Chelsea 0

You are on the right track!! gosh..just a few things though:Could the banner be straight...this one is 'winding'...i am not sure if its possible for it to be straight all the way? My idea was of a boy and girl...to show the community is for everyone. :)and lets remove the text at the bottom all together. for the font inside the banner, lets have a fancy one that looks nice and catchy..preferably not cursive.the background has to be transparent yes..nice thinkingnice work and thanks a lot

Size: 550 X 120 Theme: Abstract [ i say this but any style can do...i like something a bit playful but with a serious tone underneath] Render: Yes, no? [i dont know what rendering really is but if you its nice, please render it!] Render Theme: Community [im using this theme here: theme you just select outline at the top] Color: Red Text: Yes. Young Venturers. Be inspired. [this should be in red since the banner will be white] Other effects: im open to anything thats not too 'in your face', that is to say, it has to be a subtle style what i had in mind, was something where they're two young people..just the outline of their bodies [maybe in white? you can use your discretion]..each on either side of the banner who are in mid-air [jumping] whilst holding it...and the banner will be written "Young Venturers. Be inspired". Just below the banner, in white: youngventurers.com [the font-face just has to be nice and a bit playful but professional]

In my honest opinion, nothing beats Picasa!try it mate, all that other software is way behind, Picasa ftw!

i wouldn't want to be such a pessimist honestly, i hope they do find it and soon!Aids is just a disease and nothing is incurable, its just a matter of more research and soon we'll have it!

i agree with everything thats been said but let me just add my two cents: the way I see it, yes most religions are there to promote the positives but what gets in the way is the attitude of some people who become so convinced that their religion is absolute truth and fail to recognize other religions that people believe in. I will refrain from naming which ones are extremists of such behaviour but most wars being fought center on that error of judgement. I think people need to realise that religion and worship has got a lot to do with faith and not anyone can be greater than another. I have switched religions every now and then in quest of one that i feel most comfortable with but i ended up an atheist before i changed to what i now believe in. Most people follow a religion blindly and this spoils everything. tOne quote i heard that i liked very much by Abraham Lincoln was "A man who mistakes his religious beliefs to be factual abandons his intellect" and i think its very true.

welcome to Xisto dear friend...this is one of the best hosts on the web if you ask me and this idea of using virtual money rocks!I hope to see you around and see your site being hosted soon.Cheers mate, have fun.

to tell the truth im not sure but i would like to think they use some proprietary software of theirs...microsoft is not a big fan of open source software so the software they use, they never put it out for people to tweak and add more functions, etc so nobody really knows im sure.

Welcome edmar! Thanks for joining this lovely community and have a nice time as a member here. This is a very vibrant community and the more you post, the more you learn and meet all sorts of characters.wish you nice times.