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  1. When I was verbally and emotionally abused at my last job and the time before that. I was literally screamed at, humiliated, talked down to, and downright insulted to the point where I was always in tears and felt completely incompetent. I stuck out my last job for a year even under the emotional and physical drain and now I am underemployed in a new job that is just as stressful but at least I don't have people above me abusing me everyday.
  2. It should never just be a sex thing and if that's what it has become u need to consider ur options. Sex will always be great once the person nos ur likes & dislikes and has time 2 perfect them. u need to remind her of the qualities in her that drew u to her in the beginning and ask her what she liked about u? and tell her wen u love sum1 u don't try 2 change them they change on their own accord. give her some of her own facts see how she likes it lol. but for something fast caz if u carry on cheating and she ever finds out you'll become the bad guy no matter what ur reasons were. good luck
  3. I usually search for home work and research related to school work. I also search for music and movies that i want to download. I usually search for people and place i want to lean more about also. I also try to search news and other information about the country I'm currently living in, Belize. Even though it's considered the third world, enough progress has been made in many areas and more and more people are educated and not as ignorant. But anywhere in the world one goes there will always be problems, only that it's usually more prevalent in the third world. But i would label Belize second world if that makes any sense. lol. Anyways one other thing i usually search for on Google is news for my website. Dunno if this is against the rules, but if it is sorry and I'll remove it as soon as someone tells me to. My website...Belize news, pictures, audios, etc. ==> Armond Times Belize (Official Website)
  4. Hello new guy from China. I hope to make trpa17 your home, at least, as an free hosting partner. When I first joined...I almost didn't caz other free hosts didn't require you to post to gain credits, but after a few weeks i came to love Xisto. I tell everyone to use this when they want a free host and domain name. Anyways i only have good things to say about Xisto, the few times i have had problems they have always been solved.Later.
  5. I speak 100% English. I also speak an African dialect of English known as creole in Belize. I know a little Spanish, but I do not speak it fluently.
  6. Yes i was lying in my bed, and then someone jumped through the window, and i woke up, but i was still asleep. then it continued with something else and i woke up again but was asleep, then i tried to wake my sister up but she wouldn't listen and then i woke up and i was awake this time, and i was like, "damn i need to stay awake, i can't dream about this anymore", but i fell asleep and did it two more times it was annoying.I was happy when i was awake. i didn't want to go to sleep for awhile.Because i usually sleep.
  7. Not as described, but presumably if you have a bad heart, etc., you could panic from events in a dream and stress your heart and die. But no one would have the answer would they, because the people who had the dream that killed them were in fact - dead.Of course worrying about dream while driving down the street might distract you so much you have an accident and kill yourself.
  8. I speak English in my dreams. Even though other people may be speaking other languages. Chinese is often one I hear alot. I speak English, they can understand me. They speak Chinese, I can understand them.
  9. Everyone experiences life in different ways, they have different feeling of such things like excitement and contentment. its like a feeling that makes you feel happy and glad, giving every Factor in your life a feeling of contentment and a sense of self belief washing over you.You say you are making progress with your self development, this is a wanderful occasion to mark. try and use this feeling to explore more of your self.
  10. That is how you know you are dreaming. This is a good way to be ready to begin something called Lucid dreaming. When you are dreaming and realize that you are you can change the dream. As to why we can't read in a dream there are many theories. My favorite is that writing is a human construct that the brain only recognizes when we are conscious because it takes conscious thought to learn and recognize words.
  11. Well actually to tell you the truth. I don't like to surf the net on my mobile phone. I rather wait till i am home to surf the net caz first of all the screen is too small i really don't like the mobile display that most websites have.
  12. From what the Bible tells us Heaven will be the Mountain of God resting on a new planet. The mountain of God is approx. 1500 miles wide at it's base, and 1500 miles high. The saints of God will live in this mountain, and the new planet has not actually been made yet.There will be no sin or sorrow there, and nothing impure. We will each have our own mansion there, and the streets are pure gold. There will be no night, though it doesn't say whether we shall sleep or not. We will apparently eat there, as there is the fruit of the tree of life.There will be work to do, but our work will be joyful there, not hard labor.Heaven will not be some silly place where we float around on clouds, playing harps, and all drugged up on happy drugs so that we are just artificially happy.Heaven will not be a place where we are forced to worship God, the worship will pour from us as we truly see and experience His awesomeness. The Bible also tells us that heaven is where we will learn the purpose for which God created us in the first place, which is for Him to continually and forever show His love to us. We will forever be the object of infinite love.
  13. yes totally!! Of course i'm afraid of dying..i never think that all my hard work is in vain and that someday i'll have to leave everything that precious to me behind. But the sad reality is that no one lives forever and that someday they will die. But i'm really afraid and i'm not sure if science can help...they can make u live longer but i don't know if they can ultimately prevent one from dying. but im really afraid. If there really is a heaven or help i want to go to heaven. So even though i'm not that religious, i ty to do good atleast. ---> Efrain was here
  14. To let you in on something really weird. I find my self these days reading Stephen King book. I really like his work especially Twilight and Breaking Dawn. He read has good work. lol. But other books i like to read include Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Leonardo DaVinci and others. lol.
  15. Well it's really up to you what option you want to use, but here are a few of my personal favorites. Engage in an active link / banner exchange program with a few prominent websites and make sure they put the link / banner with equivalent importance as you have places theirs on your website. For example: you place a huge banner to nytimes.com on your home page...just make sure they agree to do the same so both sites can benefit in the same way. Try to get the word out, once all content and design issue have been addressed. Make sure the site is fully functional and begin to tell your friends, family and friends to check out what you have been doing up so late. If the content has quality they will immediately take to it and surely pass on the info to others. I find that tell people to personally check out a site and refer to other the a great method to get the word out. Usually they are amazed by your skills and and be a good friend to share the URL with others. You can also go to local forums and not advertise your site, but post a quality post probably about an important news article or something and link the article to one on your site. So they will have a reason to visit it and while they rad, might as well they explore. At least they usually do. Well there are certainly more options...but these are the ones i remember the most at the moment.
  16. Dude thanks for the notice because i always try to keep up to date with the latest viruses or computer threats out there. I'll be sure to pass along this useful information to others once i do a little more research on this particular threat. I agree that NOD32 seems to be useful against most threats, at least for me so far.
  17. Dude do what you feel is right. If you have the money and the time to engage in such a venture it's all up to you. Of course i get fed up sometime by some email providers, but that's just me. Some people simply have to suck it out and do with what they've got. I sometime use the Xisto email services or others i pay for, but then again most people seem to go with the free services and that's their decision. Whenever you go with something that's free don't expect to much because all good things cost something. ---> Efrain was here
  18. yeah, i skipped alot of classes in Highschool...especially, my senior year. but alot of the time I didn't even leave the campus...just the class becasue i didn't want to be there...so i'd walk around the school and visit my friends in art class or video productions. But my senior year was realy cool because I had 4th period french, lunch, then 5th period spanish, And on thursdays we wen't to the local elementary school to teach frech to 5th graders...sometimes we just never came back to school...like we went to see a movie or out to lunch...and sometimes we'd just go back in time for 6th periodIn, college ...I haven't skipped so much. i think it's becasue I spend so much money on my classes...it would be a waste of money to not learn anything. I do remember I skipped math once intentionally last year because I had a major project due for my scociology class that wasn't finnished yet...so i skipped math to work on that...
  19. Yea it's true. I have lied online already. Most of the time when i sign up for some sort of trial or subscription and sometime in the forums, probably right here in Xisto. lol. Anyways i can't always 100% truthful because there are perverts lurking everywhere just trying to get a little action and scammers and defrauders scowling for personal information.But generally i make it a habit to be honest, but i can't all the time as i've said.
  20. Guys...I switched the site to Xisto...please tell me what you all think about it now! I welcome all comments, suggestions, etc. The site has little more interesting content now and i'll be adding more features...but i really want to hear what you have to say...so check it out now! Armond Times Belize (Official Website)
  21. When I had to choose between computer and cell phone. I would get rid of my computer. I would be upset. because first of all I would not be able to browse Xisto forums and reply to posts. I use my computer as my radio. I got myself a logitech 5.1 speaker set, that nearly costs as much as my computer and would miss my music very much when my computer had to go. I would still choose to keep my cell phone. I live alone, and can be afraid of just that at times. But really, i need to stay in touch with my friends and family...so i need my cell all the time. I believed one month i received a text...6 times a day, every day. No world record, but LOL.
  22. Hey..Go easy on yourself. I don't know what you do for a living, however I assume that if you're measuring within a 100th of an inch, you"re into a trade. I love to have my watch at the exact second. Isn't figuring the sun"s position in relation to earth an "exact" calculation. Galileo had it to the exact second. I think you"re OK. Just don't expect everyone around you to be perfect, then you'll be OK!It could be normal. Everyone has there weird little quirks. If it really interferes with your life or overly frustrates you, it could be Obsessive compulsive personality disorder. The only difference between this and ocd is that ocpd refers to obsessive perfectionistic behavior whereas ocd is mainly just performing rituals repetivitely and obsessively.I thinkyou are fine. you are just one of those people like my family. We like things a certain way.. even our television is meausured to sit exactly in the center of the wall, this goes for our couches, etc... i think its ok. Somtimes i find myself worrying about things that i dont perfect, but if you dont have those problems then your ok.But To be honest, you are a bit to the extreme, but being a perfectionist can have its advantages. You should be happy that you are not a slob, but at the same time perhaps you should try to tone down your obsessive behavior.I THINK THAT A PERFECTIONIST IS SOMEONE...To start, you need to begin by not settling for anything less than perfect. When something's not done correctly, fix it yourself. And don't let things be out of place or out of order. That'll be a quick blow to your image. So, basically you just need to begin by hitting perfection hard. Don't settle for anything less if perfection is what you truly desire. Good luck. =]To be serious, you can become a perfectly fanatic person! Only god (even that can be questioned) is perfect, and to try and complete with the big guy is not wise. You'd be a nervous wreck trying to be perfect but still end up doing something wrong, it is only human. We can all strive to be the best we can, and leave the rest to god. First learn to love yourself. List things you don't like and strive to change what is changeable, accept the unchangeable, and avoid the unacceptable. Cause no matter how perfect you may do things, there will ALWAYS be someone or another to mess it up for you and in trying to be perfect, you won't even be able to express your irritation at the idiot. Perfect people are always perfectly behaved, and that means no loosing tempers when things go wrong. SO just accept that you are not perfect, and try to just do the best you can, and stop worrying about the rest. Cleaning is a good habit, but being a cleanliness freak is not perfection it is a illness, find out where it came from and why!MY BEST ADVICE IS...You do not want to be perfect or close to it...then, you will have certain types of problems...stay normal, be the best, take care of yourself, learn, live, laugh, enjoy life...but never take yourself so serious that life passes you by...enjoy...adios!
  23. Sup man. haha, addicted to video games huh? Dude, in my perspective, there is nothing wrong with that. Unless its ALL you do and have no outside life, then its a problem. Heres a few tips on how to get by your video game passion. I am a victim of this myself but i can get by it lol.1. Limit the time on how you play, such as if you usually play for 2 hours, play for 1. get it? cut down.2. Go outside, enjoy the fresh air, im 14, and my dad always says, "your only young once so do what you can, while you can" lol, parents. Anyway, do exactly that enjoy the fresh air.3. You got friends right? call them up, these days everybodys got cell phones so give them a call, see if you guys can do something constructive like playin football. We play football everywhere and it rocks lol. 4. Maybe get another hobby? I play guitar, so when video games are bein gay, i play guitar, i love rock music so it clicks for me lol. For you, do something you like. Work out ( if you dont already), thats awesome for the summer cause youll got back to school and everybody will be like wtf? haha. Well, thats about all the advice i can give ya man. Trust me, theres people worse than you that are willing to sleep outside a game store for a video game, thats worse than your case.Becasue it is fun and you meet people you accomplish something there. There can be alot of reasons you are addicted to game. I am video game freak a gamer and i do play WoW but, I don't play it constantly. Try cutting your time on the computer and TV read a book I suggest Pendragon: a journal through time an space Read the frist book though Merchant of death or you'll have no idea what is going on. I couldn't put it down. go out and hang with friends some where away form video games like the park or a club. Run errands that way you won't feel so guilty when you play. Part if teh fun of playing is leveling up becaus eyou feel like you accomplished something so accomplish something in real life then pay for a while. Lets say you need milk go the the store ans stock on grocereys not just milk come home put them away and then play and try to do something every day.Or you could...Click your mouse on the start icon at the bottom left of your monitor if you are using xp, if you are using windows vista, click on the arrow on the bottom right of the window that opens. Click "shut down", stand up, stretch, turn your back on your computer, walk to the nearest exit. Don't be afraid of that bright light in the sky, it is the Sun. The Sun provides us with many life giving items and powers all lifes processes on Earth.
  24. Just watch animes you highly dislike all the way through, till the end. You will never want to watch another anime again. LOL!If that doesn't work, you have to take action! Find a good book! Make a time limit! Call some friends! Go for a walk! Listen to some good music! (no, that does not include anime themes!!) Just do something to replace the habbit! It takes at least a week or two to break an addiction! So, replace the habbit with something else!It's a mind over matter thing. People obviously haven't given you reason to like them, and I understand that. But not everyone is bad. There are a few, just a few, that will surprise you. You like the anime because it something that can be controlled, because it's a cartoon. As for sleep, don't start it so late.Anything is fine in moderation. You just need to take your mind of it for awhile. Try reading a book that interests you (not manga) or spend time doing something outside.The trick to slowing down on something is to make sure you divide your time among other persuits as well.i know this is not really what u want to hear however ur addition to this is pretty normal i mean we all have our "clicks" for some its leather for others its feet. it just so happens yours is yoai accepct it and live with it just try and keep it to certain times and behind closed doors you are perfectly normal so never fearWatch wwe instead, i like wwe wrestling.
  25. Well i think anyone addicted to sex, is just pleasing themselves because your not thinking of wat the other person wants when your having sex with them. men when their having sex they tend to escape the real world and only try and please themsleves and forget the other person. i suggest if you wanna please the other person, get to know them first, do some forplay first instead of heading straight for the sex, make the other person want you.. compliment them while in bed, make them crave for more by showing that your not just having sex to please yourself but to please your partner too. do some new moves but dont change moves every 10 secs thts just selfish. show them that you want them not just as a toy but someone you need and want. a girl can tell. You just gotta feel it! GOOD LUCK!Nothing is wrong with you and you sound as if you are a male. For male and females that is very common However i think that you should try not to think about it too much and here are a few tips to control yourself1. when you think of it(sex) try to do something like do the dishes, watch television, go for a walk or link with your friends nd don't try to talk about sex with them.2. Try to get a cold shower and try not to masturbate ok Hope you get over it because sex is not going to run away.i think your sex is starting to manifest into an addiction. Listen it may be hard to realize at first your addicted to something and sometimes hard to accept (so you may be in denial) especially if you want to do what it is your addcited to. Just make sure you realize when it is and put an end to it.NOTHING is wrong.I mean, sex is good, no GREAT.Why wouldnt you want to please whoever your having sex with.This is not a worry.At this age it is normal to love sex.We all love sex.Just dont be silly, wrap your willy.(:Kelly me boy-o... Is your need for sex controlling your life to the point that you can not do anything at all?If you can work and hold a job, do chores, and so forth, no, you're not addicted. Touch obsessed, maybe.But in your teenage years, you're at your sexual peak, and your hormones are still running rampant demanding you procreate. We guys are visually driven, so you are going to be obsessing over breasts and butts, and the other "visually pleasing aspects" of the female form. That is something that once activated by Mama Nature, will never go away, but as you grow-up, you'll be able to control it better. :lol:Good Luck!P.S.: If it still bothers you, drop by a Clinic and see if they can recommend some inexpensive counsellors, psychologists, or psychiatrists you can talk to (in order of preference and expense).---> Efrain was here
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