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  1. May it be human or animal, there is one vision which is universal. Can anyone guess what it is????....ok … let me speak about human being….what’s our vision in life…. Earning handful, good education, becoming a professional singer, to always have good food…, have a lot of bank balance, own a very big bungalow, own a 3 BHK apartment, ……. It goes on ………… ok now let’s come to other living organisms, say for an animal, maybe good food, shelter and fear-free life………. Ok now let us combine everything ……….. what is the concept behind every vision now??.......... is it possible to make it at least now………. Yes .. its HAPPINESS, irrespective of human or animal, good or bad, …..everyone is longing for that in life, they struggle for happiness without knowing for what they are struggling for……. They want to own everything,…… to be Happy……..so ….we should always be clear which exactly gives us happiness and then plan out the routes in such a way it is sustained…. And when we are sure of hitting the happiness, let’s make our journey towards it also happily……… so I would wish everyone a happy journey for your happy destination.
  2. Well, I would say that this is not a wise method of handling her. she was a culprit and finally he was behind the bars, so he must have used his brain to tackle her in a right way rather than getting emotional and being brutal like this. pity on him...
  3. When someone's development in life is crushed with a relationship, it is crush and when someone is able to move forward in life inspite of challenges with a relationship, it is love.
  4. I would say when someone is under stress, they eat in abnormal way, but it is better to have 6 limited meals at regular intervals in a day. Just see if it works out as I had a good result following it. Most of our people lose/gain weight because of emotional eating habits and from my experience i could also say that increase in appetite is the cause of gastritis, which is the initial stage of stomach ulcer because of intial stages of starvation, in which I developed acidity and headaches leading to vomiting. One of the natural way of curing this kind of ulcer is having boiled egg soaked in rock salt for 1 hour in the empty stomach which has been effective for many people.
  5. My kid is just 4. If I switch on my desktop/laptop, shes able to access google as it is a homepage in mozilla firefox and then she will type abcd and like that shes able to do by herself. What I do is I just allow her to access it in my presence and after sometime, i will plug out the modem and will say its over for you and she will listen to it and then will be weaned away by herself. I would say there is also a risk of seeing cartoons, which sometime endup in liplocking scenes, but I dont think it is always possible for us to keep an eye on them wherever they go and whatever they do. See now everything is getting advanced, so we cant stop anything, rather we can educate them about both good and bad things as they grow older. Moreoever, they get addicted to the internet when there is lack of outside activities, so I would suggest for a kid to have a right balance of everything and for that to happen, parents should first follow it in their life, when we keep on browsing the whole day in internet, kids will naturally tend to do that.
  6. If you say that you love two persons, then you must be a person to look for the opportunity to make your life interesting rather than looking for a true love.... see disturbance happens in almost everyone's life, that is really not defined as love... instead you can say that you were disturbed by two persons...if you love a person and in the absence of that particular person, you fall in love with other person means, you actually try to fill the gap of the first person physically...
  7. Even I don’t think that we can fully rely on it, I actually wanted to know about the Lokpal Bill and when browsing through it, I got information that in 1982, Lokpal Bill was implemented in Singapore and 142 corrupt ministers were arrested in one day… and in other sight it was mentioned that this information was fake and this misinformation was meticulously planned and generated to help these campaigns….. my head started to swirl….from that day onwards, believe me, I never touched about Lokpal Bill….I also agree that even books are not the complete reliable source of information…take for example any epic stories, same story with different authors will be fed with different information…I still remember playing a game in my college days by passing a sentence through different persons and finally how funny the statement will be, it was actually an exercise given by our personality development teacher to emphasize on the fact that how the information gets modified when it is passed through many number of people…. It is true….
  8. Yes... as you said their past life makes them to drive to that extreme levels.....and also you are right that people who lack mental stability does not show their symptoms often. They actually behave like a normal people, sometimes we may not even believe that a particular person could have done any such brutal things...and according to me, a person who is identified with this kind of mental defect should be separated from the normal society and of course treatment should also be given, but what is the assurance that these incidents will not be repeated again….. and some childhood registrations of such brutal things would have been in his subconscious mind….a person gives what he gets…. If he gets love, he gives love and same as this case I feel……
  9. Recently it seems that US president was concerned about “deteriorating investment climate” in the country especially in the retail sectors, it seems that India has prohibited the foreign investments in retails which is necessary to create job opportunities to both countries for which the commerce minister Anand Sharma assured that country has “investment friendly climate” and added Obama’s perception was “different from reality”.According to me, It comes to India’s concern when Obama curtailed business outsourcing to India, and when keen only about retail sectors in India as the country has lot of consumers, which clearly signifies that Americans are not confident to face Indian brains. And of course, with encouraging FDIs in retail sectors, our country’s common people and middle class will be the one who gets affected at last, (as majority of the Indian people belong to marginal class) which in turn will affect the interests of the Indian economy as some years before 1$=Rs39 and now 1$=56, which is again a decline in Indian economy. So what do you all think about it…..
  10. When technologies like test tube meat are growing on one side, the other set of highly educated people started thinking about the natural way of farming, which is really encouraging. Recently I came to know about this organic farming through one of my friends. This farming can be done in following ways using vermicompost fertilizers utilizing various species of worms, it actually contains water soluble nutrients and is a good nutrient-rich organic fertilizer and soil conditioner. Then naturally available manures, green leaf manures, crop rotation, biofertilizers and animal husbandry. It strictly limits the use of chemical fertilizers, pesticides, hormones, plant growth regulators and genetically modified plants. The organic farming is now being widely followed in many nations these days. It works in an eco-friendly way. This method is not something new, it’s our ancient practice. When same work is done by two different set of people, the uneducated and educated people, the work done by later gets more appreciations and encouragement. Recently, I have also read that the Indian Army has taken initiative to promote organic farming through which retired jawans and officers gets new opportunity to continue their service for humanity. Let us also try to participate and encourage these types of practices to make our world go green and chemical free. http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/
  11. In our democracy to enjoy democratic rights I think first we have to get elected.... and then its on our hands how to efficiently misuse the government rights and make money in short span of time and if we have luck, we get reelected by our scapegoats (so called citizens) or else the opportunity slips towards the opposite party. Thus it has become a vicious cycle at last.
  12. Its all because of lot of stress you have at the back of your mind because this is the mark that is going to decide your future, even i have experienced this at your stage. You can do some meditation for 10 minutes two times a day, that will definitely help your stress levels flee away. Fix your study timings and have some time for you for short entertainment, don't keep on having your book in hand. If you feel very sleepy, just keep your books away and close your eyes for sometime and watch your breath for 10 minutes, you will definitely find improvement with it. Apart from that, healthy food habits is also a must, try to have low cholesterol, light diet and at regular intervals, have lot of salads, fruits, soups,.. etc.
  13. Yes I too agree with you, anything obtained naturally has its own value and taste in spite of the other side effects. Even the apples which we buy those days when immediately cut and exposed to the atmosphere will turn brown, but nowadays, they don't rot at all, which is actually some scientists say due to the exposure to radiation, so as a cause human beings are prone to many carcinogenic diseases...... so maybe this technology can be used for short term as u said...as we use ready-made noodles once in a while when in need. And one more thing, people who really doesn’t like animal cruelty can opt for the choice of being vegetarian. Even I don’t like animal cruelty that’s why I am a vegetarian. Instead it can also be very well compensated by other vegetarian supplements itself like cottage cheese, mushrooms, soya meal makers…. So on…
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  15. I generally like Michael Jackson and his music. His contribution to dance, music, recording …. Made him a global personality for decades.…. As Velma said every man has his own flaws…. And of course even we may not know whether the news about him was 100% right, all we know is, his music and his performance at his excellence, which of course is a known true fact and his death actually triggered this world with outburst of grief….
  16. This has been puzzling everyone after marriage. When I met most of my friends after their marriage, the first talk was about their love before marriage and after marriage. Almost everyone says that he/she is not like before, has changed a lot, is short tempered, life is not like before …. Ya it happens, it will certainly take some time to get compatible when they are from different social environments. So from this what I would like to say is, when you love your fiancée, think of your responsibilities also and main problem arise when they have to adjust with their partner’s family members, of course we need to accept it. Well, there is a lot of difference between adjusting and accepting. Adjusting is something which we really don’t want to do and we have to be with it, it can be only short term and of course will be disastrous after some time. Accepting is something, we accept the family members as your own parents and siblings, at this stage empathy is very important. After marriage, is something like life is shared, everything, your love, partner’s love, both of yours care, money, haha… in other words your movable and immovable properties ….maybe the major contributions will be to the partner, then too when comes for sharing everything, it affects and responsibilities after marriage increases with family, just can’t be like a free bird before marriage. I have heard many of them telling, “after I got in the hands, life became bored” it is not that way, it’s something like when we buy any new gold ornament, we will be passionate about it for some time and then it diminishes, that doesn’t mean that we don’t like after sometime, we keep it safely lifelong, well that’s the relationship. As the time goes on, the value goes up. If we understand these small things, we can avoid conflicts to some extent because life according to me without a life partner is meaningless and incomplete. It is our life partner who is going to be with us till our end, neither our parents nor our kids, as they both have a generation gap. So it is better to think a lot before taking decision than to think after a decision in selecting a life partner.
  17. When browsing through I came across one interesting topic of astro-meteorological prediction, which was done by S. Ramachandran. He in his prediction said that North-west part of India will be worst hit by monsoon and said the best rainfall during this year will happen between 3rd week of July and 15th of September and according to his prediction Chennai will have floods between mid-November and mid-December, also said that he does these predictions using vedic knowledge. It seems that he also has some well-proven predictions in the past for natural calamities like Kandla (Gujarat) cyclone in June 1998 to the Sumatra earthquake (2004), Mumbai-Chennai floods (2005), Chinese quake (2008), monsoon failure in the country (2009), Thane cyclone (December 2011), etc and also said that the Guchol typhoon now threatening countries in the Pacific, such as east China, Taiwan and south Japan, was forecast by him in December 2011 itself and had been carried in the media. He claims that his predictions are more accurate than IMD (Indian Meteorological Department). He says that his predictions are based on inter-planetary relationships and the struggle between their orbiting positions and the effect of their disturbance on sun and earth unlike the present scientific scenario which uses just wind pattern and pressure systems in the ocean to forecast weather and says that this will be accurate only for a couple of days and finally, which shook me was when said that he is making his research towards perfections and once all done, he will be able to forecast extreme weather conditions and calamities and public tables similar to NASA’s eclipse table for 7000 years. So, yet another scientist in a different dimension. Let us hope that he be successful in his work, so that it could be of help for the mankind to take decisions. deccanchrge
  18. Hi Shahana welcome... definitely u have chosen a right place to share your views... u will also have a different experience in this... all the best...
  19. I don’t think school is a right place to any show public display of affection, particularly for higher schools. And as said we can’t define the limitations for PDAs, so it’s better to rule it out and to have a uniform conduct code, so that anyone can follow it to maintain the decorum of the institute especially for any Indian-based institutions.
  20. In present days, it has been becoming issues for having a normal delivery. Wherever we go, the doctors say some or the other reasons to have a C-section. It is all because we show lack of confidence in having baby naturally due to pain and lack of fitness and sometimes, even parents of the girl ask doctors to go for a C-section. If we withstand the pain, it’s just for some time, maybe for few hours, but when we opt for C-section, it takes quite lot time to get healed up. So the first thing we should have is will power to have a normal delivery and for that to happen, we should keep ourselves fit as far as possible before the date of delivery. There are some natural exercises which will definitely help us having a normal delivery, like light walking, doing our routine household chores, and finally comes one simple exercise called “Ashwini Mudra”. We can start practicing this exercise after fourth month of pregnancy. From my personal experience, I had an easy delivery, though it was a first time and I have also suggested this to some of my friends who also had normal deliveries after practicing this. Well let me say what exactly “Ashwini Mudra” is, it is actually a rhythmic contraction of anal sphincter, you can practice this in any positions, either lying down or when simply sitting. For more details you can approach any yoga gurus near your vicinity. And you are supposed to do only maximum of 10 times like that, as doing more than that may generate a lot of heat in your body. This actually helps pelvic areas to get proper blood supply (or otherwise pranic energy). It is also very simple to follow. So I hope that some of you to be really benefited by following this.
  21. It is an amazing experience to have a kid around us. The situation of the house changes when a kid is there in that particular place, of course, many feel fresh themselves after they interact with a kid (of course for quite some time ). It’s a true fact that by seeing them we can learn how to keep ourselves busy the whole day. One more interesting fact I have noticed is that they don’t get exhausted as we do after quite long time period of our chores. So in my perception, the tiredness actually is due to when we do a certain job, we not only concentrate on that, some other thought processes are also running at the back of our mind, but in the case of our kids, if they play, they only play putting their whole lot concentration in that and they enjoy themselves in that. So even if we try to follow that in our life, I think it will help a bit. We also think that our kids are too small to understand anything, but they understand lot more than we do, so we have to be very careful while talking to them, while behaving in front of them, each and every move they watch. Having a kid, I learnt patience, which was once upon a time far away from me. I really enjoy being with my child, but after sometime, I will not be able to cope up with her energy levels, which will make my energy to degenerate, at that time, I will go for a brief nap along with her, and then again my battery will be charged. Sometimes, I feel free when she goes school for a short period of time, but even in her absence with my work on, her each and every thought relish me like anything. It is also a must that we should be always alert when we have them around, otherwise, the above-mentioned good experience turn upside down, which happened in my case, when I left the Paracetamol syrup bottle in the table, which was reachable for her hand, as it was a flavor with a strawberry base, she really loved having it and she gulped it once, after I came from the kitchen, I was really shocked to see that bottle, then immediately called up doctor to seek advice, he asked how much she had, even I was not sure about that quantity, then told me see for her symptoms, if she sleeps a lot or vomits, asked her to bring her to the hospital and also told to have a visit anyway and we rushed, but fortunately everything was normal.
  22. This was a news that has been circulated in the Facebook for quite some time, which I thought to be true, well thought of sharing it too, then thought, “fine let me give it a look”, there I came across another link, which claimed the above message to be untrue and also there it was mentioned that the product recall affected only a specific range of French products, It seems that the recall was issued back in mid 2011 and majority of the products seemed to have been returned and claimed that it has nothing to do with Gerber Company, which is a US subsidiary of Nestle. Source It takes many years to build a reputation and 5 minutes to ruin when there is a flaw at particular point, so mere building may not be as tough as maintaining the same.
  23. Whenever there is a hike in petrol, we generally think about “Ramar Pillai”, herbal fuel inventor, whose claim was trashed by the scientists. He held a press conference in Chennai recently with a different fuel claiming that it would make transportation much cheaper for Rs 5 for a litre.He says his concoction when mixed with water and heated to 78 degrees Celsius turns into an inflammable bio-fuel that gives a smokeless blue flame. "The mixture is 15 gm ammonium chloride, 15 gm sawdust and 15 gm yeast. It is fermented and distilled. Then he said he mixes with a litre of water and shake it a bit to see how the water settles at the bottom. He named it “Velar Bio Hydrocarbon Fuel".It seems that a CBI case against Ramar for cheating is still in court. He was arrested in March 2000 for allegedly buying organic chemicals from the market, mixing them with additives and selling it as “herbal fuel'.In another interview to regional magazine “Junior Vikadan” he told to wait till August to come up with good news for our country. He said that he will definitely overcome the sabotage against his invention. He also said that he made a lot of enemies after he was successful in selling about 13 lakh litres of fuel between 1996 and 2001 and none of the customers also seemed to have complained. He said that he also paid tax appropriately for the sold one and told there were no flaws in his fuel. It seems that he had taken his present sample to Shri Shri Ravishankar ji maharaj, a spiritual leader, Anna Hazare, social activist and Ram Dev baba, yoga guru for testing and seemed to have received appreciations from them and also said that Shri Shri Ravishankar ji maharaj came forward to help him financially to set up a fuel manufacturing plant in Haridwar and currently planning to open another one in Chennai.so let us wait and see what is exactly going to happen.....if it is really gonna happen, its a boom for our country, no wonder if it becomes a super power country in a brief period of time.
  24. I just want to know whether any one has experienced NDE (near death experience) in your life.well, I would say yes I have experienced quite a number of times and my first experience was when I was doing my 1st year of college when my grandma came to see us, the experience was heart shocking, it was in the night time after everyone slept and I was sleeping in a master bedroom, I actually wanted to wake up, but couldn't, my body was totally out of control, it was in a sleep stage, but something else inside me was awake, I was helpless and something else inside my body went to wake up my mom and dad, but they were not able to see me, hear me or feel me, something else inside was actually crying aloud of anger that no one was able to feel my senses. then something inside me was vigorously trying to shake my hands and legs, I would have tried to do so for quite some time, after a long effort, finally succeeded in getting my body move and finally got out of the bed and went away shouting. That was really a shocking experience. I literally thought at that time that I was dead. Then from that particular incident, I thought, even a dead people will have this kind of experience.In between also I have experienced some NDEs, but that was very mild not like first one, immediately I resumed. One more time was when I was sleeping with my kid in the bed, at that time, she was around some 5-6 months and my husband went to office during daytime. My god that was really haunting, with kid being my side, I was helpless and I wanted to take her, but my body didn’t resume control for a long time. Of course at that time also struggled a lot to get back my body system under control.I am so sure that it was not a dream or hallucination, it is something different. Scientifically speaking, I think when our body gets too much exhausted, and it is not allowed to take rest for required period of time, it is not able to cooperate with our brain commands. So if any experience/opinion, please share.
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