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Well, this happens in most of the cases. Just be calm for some time and as said by sheepdog just continue to be in touch as the same way as before. Keep your excitement levels under control (rather I would say don’t show that you are being excited). Just try to show from your behavior that she means a lot for you. It’s always better you deal with her directly rather keeping any intermediate persons. If she does not feel the same way then she would not have got this close with you. Most of the girls like guys to be matured in their behavior and also independent as they always have a feeling of insecurity in their mind. So be patient for some more time so that things happen in its way.

well, i have taken this topic just for creating awareness and from the statement previous generation women, I really meant mother in laws, as they have not faced all these type of problems in their generation and they expect girls from present generation to go for a job and take care of the family as they did in their generation, which is really a overburden for women to concentrate properly.

I agree with what you all guys have mentioned. These addictions towards social networking can be controlled if the parents spend time with their kids. All this is happening because parents themselves are nowadays very busy with their schedules. I would also say that parents keep a track over their kid’s activities in a friendly manner. Engage them in lot of extracurricular activities in which they are interested, taking them to social get together, family get together. Because nowadays, kids are brought up all alone without much contacts with the other family members. So some importance can be given at this stage to make them interact with all the family members of all age groups which will open their mind .

Well I could say that I have learnt it from my kid. When she was around 3 I told her how to draw apple and mango. She then developed interest towards it by coloring it and after sometime she started to do it perfectly and in one figure, she started using different colors, it will be so colorful, though the actual picture will have that kind of color, her imagination was so good u know and then whenever she takes crayons and scribble in wall I used to restrict her telling not to make walls dirty, sometimes she listens to it and most of the time of course she will not and then I gave her one wall of bedroom to explore herself. I would say, most of pictures scribbled looks like a modern art, believe me. Then I got one bunch of A4 sheets and used to give her one and I myself take one and we both used to draw and color any picture in our imagination and after sometime another kid from our neighbor joined this activity, the result was tremendous you know.... I really want to encourage this further and hoping to see a bright future of her.

This is the most interesting topic for me to share certain experience when I was doing maybe about 3rd standard I think (not so sure), in math’s geometry. In the question paper the actual question was AB line segment measures 10 cm and C is the midpoint and AC measures 5 cm and what is CB? Can anyone guess what I have answered yes, I straight away took the scale from geometry box and measured it with the scale in the question paper and wrote it as 1 cm and another question was supposed to be Pythagoras theorem to find the other side of the triangle, I repeated the same for that also. After the answer sheet came, my mom was shocked. Even now I could remember her face reaction.

I think more understanding is required in this topic. Actions arise from thoughts. So thoughts are the foundation of our life. If we make it positive as far as possible, negative happenings are prevented. That is what I intended to say here "immediately try to wean yourself off of it by diverting your mind towards some past good events/good memories". I know it’s not practically possible. That’s why I typed "it’s very important that you have to put some effort at this stage to make your future eventful" which means we can try our level best to do that. this is what mentioned in the book "The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne and i tried to follow it and personally my life has changed in lot of ways, you believe me its true and i really want to share with others and got an opportunity here. and with "not" as u mentioned "if someone you love has a bottle of some chemical that is harmful if drunk as a medicine ,but useful otherwise say for some experiment, is scarce as well, you can't ask him to throw it away, so won't you say do "not" drink that??"I have started with this just to enhance our life. So I have used "Avoid using the word "not" when you speak/think" in that dimension. Also already I have set a suitable example E.g., it is always better to use the phrase "go to east" instead of "do not go to west" in this aspect.and finally "Another point to be made, some people have a better sense of opining you than you do about yourself, there are many people who are either overconfident about themselves or have an issue with their self esteem, they absolutely need help from others in form of opinion, that will actually bring in real "POWER".For this, you can always hear an opinion which are said in a right way, but from the above mentioned statement a person who is overconfident or have an issue with self esteem will never ever go for others opinion and when u are aligned towards right thinking as mentioned in the first stanza, the least you need the opinion from others. So good thoughts and best decisions go hand in hand.

First of all, hi to everyone after a short vacation. As I have already mentioned in the second post, I never said that someone else is imposing law on us, it’s entirely women’s choice of course. What I exactly mean to say is, for example, if someone (aged parents) is bedridden , if both are working in a family, the first choice would be the women leaving her job to take care of the family, with which her dreams over career gets shattered. For this you can answer, we can appoint maid in simple, which is practically not accepted in most of our Indian families. Because of these reasons, I have seen many husband and wife ending up in misunderstandings. from the sentence “for that you have to prove how men and only men are selfish”This not only occurs because of men, it also happens, as i have already mentioned“All this is because a family comprises of members of one to two different generations”As I mentioned in the second post, the previous generation parents, which also includes woman.and finally, from the sentence "As a woman myself, I feel that we should be proud of our decisions and not regret in a way stating that we have made sacrifices,we do what we are supposed to do and we are happy with ourselves."its not a must that everyone will have a same experience in their life. i have started with this topic as i have been seeing these situations in many families not with my own life.

Well this was a question that often used to come into my mind after I lost my father in heart attack. It happened to him because of pulmonary edema.Heart attack occurs due to various reasons. It is also caused because of a disease condition called pulmonary edema, in which there is an abnormal accumulation of fluid in the lungs that leads to inflammation. Lungs are located in the mediastinum. The mediastinum is the "middle" section of the chest cavity. The chest cavity contains the left and right lungs, which lie on either side of the heart. This vital organ is made up of air sacs known as alveoli. Lungs perform the important function of taking in oxygen and giving out carbon-dioxide. So when there is pulmonary edema, there will be a swelling in the lungs and as a result of it, the heart which is located in between the two lungs is exerted and hence the condition called congestive heart failure or heart attack. This condition also happens vice versa that is, a person who has CHF often will also develop pulmonary edema, which is associated with restlessness, shortness of breath, anxiety and so on. So for this condition the goal of treatment is to reduce or eliminate the excess fluid from lungs and improve the heart function. This condition can be life-threatening, if not treated properly. So people diagnosed with pulmonary edema must take appropriate medications correctly and on time. For the treatment to be effective, one must maintain a healthy diet, reduce salt intake, avoid smoking and excess alcohol consumption. Proper exercise routine and having a nutritious diet rich in vegetables and vitamins can surely prevent heart disorders.

I will also say that it depends upon the girls. Even though, I would say anything applied lighter is always safe and descend. The actual beauty starts from within, all other extra applications are only little enhancement. Any girl who has clarity in her mind and relaxed within always look pretty, no matter how her feature looks like and it also depends upon her food habits. Any girl who takes a balanced diet, will have a natural glow in her skin. And of course I go with Velma that girls who are very young have no necessity for the makeups and by doing so, they are accelerating the quick aging processes.

Of course Ms.Ananya, I am not saying that others are imposing those laws on us, it is in our hand only. What I exactly mean is, whatever the culture/tradition we follow are actually because of the influence our ancestors. Even god whom we worship is because they followed it and we are doing it and as the same case, as you said“innate nature” and “we woman aren't the selfish creature” is also a part of something which our ancestors followed before. Previously, I mean, a generation before I would say, women are not over educated. So their thought processes are entirely different I would say. But nowadays, its not the case, their thoughts are also set that way, once it becomes vacant after entering into the family life, it starts to work in a different manner, only a few were able to channelize their thoughts by deviating in the positive direction. And previously, men were also not much concerned in having over-educated women as their life partners, but now most of the men prefer that, in which case, as a woman, they are overburdened. While we have taken a lot of vigorous measures to make women educated, to eradicate social illnesses like sathi, child marriage, which I mean to say it, is not complete. “The system is definitely in our own hands to change/not to change.”We are just ignoring the serious consequences of future simply by mentioning as above, which does not mean that we have to fight for this, but we can make others understand by having a simple discussion like this. I started with this topic because, I see this case almost everywhere and in some family’s people understand and in most they don’t. All this is because a family comprises of members of one to two different generations. So my idea is just to create an awareness.

Online money making can also be done by doing medical transcriptions. Let us see what the medical transcription is. In countries like US, the doctors are not paid directly by the patients and they are paid through the insurance companies. So the doctors are supposed to furnish the details of the patients they are attending (for e.g., history of illness, family history, social history, physical examinations, radiographic details, plan of treatment). So they will dictate everything and will be recorded and that recorded message will be sent to us for transcription.Here, first we are supposed to get trained properly for good English listening (especially for sound alike) and the medical words for 3 months and then we can do the files from home. Initially, it will be a kind of tedious job, but once picked up, it will reach up to any peak level in the near future and then our income will become steady as the time goes on. Apart from earning money, we will be accomplished with a lot of medical knowledge, what are the latest methods of treatment available for particular diseases and also it’s very interesting to do. If we concentrate and strive ourselves initially with some doctors speech (tough dictation), only we will be given the files to do, with which case our performance will be appreciated a lot. Nowadays some Multinational companies are providing this job for us. So anyone who finds this interesting can try for medical transcription also.

I have seen many women even who are overeducated than men have to compromise their career when comes to family especially after their marriage. This finally results in development of depression in them, which is a prelude to many emotional breakups. I just want to know whether these things are more common only in India or worldwide. Recently, my friend who holds a very good post in airports authority got her marriage fixed and the demands are just she has to shift from the place where she is currently to some other place where her husband is working, which is not that supportive to her career wise. In many cases, they leave their job to take care of their family, so what is the necessity for them to get over educated, why such revolutions started?... just to make them educated??? And at last one more pathetic thing is that, even when they are working and earning handful, they have to take money and ornaments as dowry from their parents to her husband’s place and there she has to do service for her in-laws. Why the system is still unchanged???

Unlike human beings, the pet animals are really true in their feelings, they doesn't know how to cheat their master. They will make us forget everything happening around us and will take us to a different world of emotions, which are unadulterated. And in some places, they help to treat psychologically affected children and adults. Doctors have noticed a lot of improvement with the patients after they are allowed to socialize with the pet animals. So always they are man’s best friends. They always fill a vacant place in our life in some or the other way. I would also suggest at this point that people should come forward to take and raise the street dogs as their pets after proper medical measures. This would be a great service and it will be most suited for our weather conditions here.

It all depends on how wavelength between the two persons work out. Sometimes, the long distance relationship will be more pleasant than the near and dear ones. As in my friend's case, shes more comfortable with her long distance relationship (now her husband) when compared to her parents. He gave her lot of freedom to explore her talent when compared to her parents, who really dint encourage her inborn talents. Shes really proud to have such a husband in her life. Its all about how they understand each other and how they are confident in persuing themselves inspite of others different opinions and of course they are apart in different places because of their job situations.

Naturally, anyone who is normally depressed cannot concentrate in studies. Its all because the orientation of our thought is scattered, its not concentrated. so instead of making a deep analysis with this topic, its always better to go for a solution. As far as I know, many people got recovered from major problems by practicing meditation, which is actually a scientific solution for your issues related to depression. So I would say, that you see for any good meditation classes in the nearby area and try to practice in your life to help with your depression . Be happy.

May it be God or Evil, its just something which is unseen, we can just feel it. only human created both god and evil and finally we ended up with structural representation. whatever you do and wherever you go, everything is a representation of our subconscious mind, i.e., how it has been registered in our neurons from the childhood period. So if you strongly believe in ghost, there is, or nothing. On other words a human mind has both good and evil setup, depending on where we concentrate, it takes a shape of our future. So always its better to think good.

Different kids have different skills that are shown at the earlier stages, some kids are very good at motor skills and some at speaking skills like that... their improvement will be so sudden that overnight changes can happen within a couple of days, just try to be patient and keep on speaking to your kid, the more you speak, quicker will be the result. No matter even if he doesn't repeat your words, everything goes inside his brain. And one and half year is not a big criteria, because my kid started speaking from 2 years onwards, so give him some time to observe and he will explore with good results .

My first mobile was Nokia 1100, a mobile with a torch light (in TV advertisement). I still remember how i get excited when i hear to different caller tunes from different callers. I used to set different funny tunes for my friends nearby in my office and they get embarrassed listening to it .

According to me, idea and opportunity always go hand in hand. A healthy idea is a prelude to good opportunity. An idea includes the knowledge of time, place, situation, how to make an opportunity (so it includes opportunity). So, in my opinion, good idea is necessary for good business.

Let us first see what a science is. Well, we see a lot of definitions being given for that, its actually a deep insight knowledge of various things and happenings around us and it has its own calibrations, in simple. So, a political science can also be taken that way, which means, it also goes deep into the human political setup and has its own time calibrations for everything to be done. So a political science is a science I would say.

Generally time/date problem in computers gets rectified by changing the CMOS battery as it supplies power to the board to keep the time and bios settings. This is actually a first step taken by the computer technician and if the problem still persists, then he will further go ahead with some virus problem... like that.... to make your day

Well, here I am going to share some of the thoughts which can enhance our life and of course it is also centered on the thoughts.I would ask to question yourself "how are you feeling now?" a day often. If you are feeling good, carry on..... if not, some negative thoughts are going on at the back of your mind... then immediately try to wean yourself off of it by diverting your mind towards some past good events/good memories, its very important that you have to put some effort at this stage to make your future eventful. Try to monitor your thoughts often a day. Although it sounds irrelevant, it is where your whole life depends on.Avoid using the word "not" when you speak/think. E.g., it is always better to use the phrase "go to east" instead of "do not go to west". Develop "love" over each and everyone, even for your enemies (I know that’s not easy). Ink your thoughts if it is meaningful. Be focused in what you want in life, concentrate in that, believing it will happen. Do not get carried away by others opinion on you. No one knows about you. "ONLY U KNOW ABOUT URSELF". Always try to ignore negative comments, don’t give them a ear. "U know U R VERY POWERFUL" so, try to use your power in a positive way. "DO NOT CURSE ANYONE" because it simply retaliates back. One important message which goes very well with the Newton's Law of energy "For every action, there is equal and opposite reaction". well, you might wonder why I am using this when talking about thoughts....yes life is that... we think that our thoughts are not known to others as it is inner....fine, physically, atom is also inner and minute, which has the capacity to destroy a country when activated... now think of the thoughts....hm.. have to be very careful isn't it?