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Okay so I am a teenage girl, so of course I am upset with my weight. I'm not anorexic or anything, nor am I stressing about a few vanity pounds. I have a gut. There I said it. I'm not obese or anything, but my goal is to lose 30 pounds by my birthday, which is June 16th. I'm trying a lot of things, but what I need is some good, solid advice. It pains me everyday to go to school and see these girls with perfectly shaped bodies and flat stomachs...it makes me want to cry sometimes. I especially hate summer, when everyone is busting out their two piece swimsuits and I'm stuck in my fugly one piece. Someone please help me! I want to get out of size 7 pants and into a modest, good-looking two piece swimsuit by the time my birthday rolls around.

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This was from quite a while ago, I hope everything is going well for you. I lost some weight a few years ago and all I did was exercise and cut out a few things from my diet that I knew weren't helping me- soda, cheese, and candy.Exercising is really the best thing if you are just trying to tone up (I think that's probably what you are talking about... you said you were a size 7!! :( ) Just adding a little extra movement to your daily routine helps out a lot. For example, I do leg lifts while I brush my teeth. It seems silly, but think about it- If you brush your teeth after every meal, or even just the twice a day that they are recommending on commercials now, it really adds up. You get 6-15 minutes worth of extra movement everyday. I also do other little things like try to walk up and down the stairs as much as possible. Or if I need to use the bathroom I always walk to the one that is farthest away from where I am. Silly little things, but they do add up.

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Two pieces of advise: Eat less, Move more.Sounds too easy, but it works. The eat less part is aided by a trick that is so simple it scares you. Before each meal, simply drink a large glass of water. It helps to 'fill' the stomach so the body' inherent controls' stop making you eat. Also, while you eat, be sure to chew lots and do not 'gulp down' your food. There is a time lag for the body being able to know when you are full, and slow chewing of moderate or small bites lets the body catch up to the indicators which tell it when you are full.As to the 'move more' part, walking to the corner store, using a bike for short trips to a friend's house, helping out around the yard / house by raking leaves, shovelling snow are all small things which can help you move around and burn off some calories. If possible, take a regular break from Homework to walk the dog or just walk around the block a couple of times. Use stairs instead of elevators if they are in your daily pattern. Take up a sport even something like Badminton will burn away pounds quickly. If you take a Bus to school or work, don't walk to the closest Bus stop to catch the bus, leave 10 minutes early and walk to the second or third closest transfer point and likewise on the return trip, get off a couple of stops away and walk home from there. If you are genuinely keen on the weight thing, develop a life-style which is healthier for you by including these suggestions and it'll happen before you know it.

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Just exercise more and only eat when you're hungry. Make sure what you do eat is healthy! You could always go see a doctor or something...

good luck though.. I've been dieting for like 4 years since I was about 12 and it's so sucky.

The most important thing though is that you feel comfortable with yourself. I mean I'm overweight and I have days where I really really wish I was thinner but I'm not crazily self-concious about my weight all the time you know?

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Best way to lose weight is to increase your metabolism. There are plenty of healthy foods out there that help increase your metabolism, while providing essential vitamins and minerals. If you've been eating pretty much the same thing everyday, which you think will help you lose weight, just gotta say, that it'll just make you add on weight after a while. You have to mix it up. Different food groups, but most importantly cut down on fats. If you eat meat, go for lean. Actually, eat one serving. One serving of any meat is about the size of a deck of cards. And I'm talking about 2-3 times a week, for meat. Go for low-fat foods. It's better to eat several small meals a day than a few large meals a day. Doing so also helps increase your metabolism, cause you barely give it a chance to "shutdown". But, what i mean by meals i don't mean anything. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, cause it breaks your fasting. During "brunch", have a snack, nothing fatty or sugary. Then at lunch time, have lunch. Then between lunch and dinner, have another snack. Then at dinner time, have dinner. Remember to cut down on fats, but don't eliminate fat. The body needs fat to survive also. As for carbohydrates, they're not bad for you. Only if you don't use them. This is where exercise comes in. Hope this information helps.

 

Heh, forgot to mention, no soft drinks!

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Hi Brandice!Good luck with your goal. I think you can do it, even though it will take time. My suggestions aren't very different from the others. This is because there are no magical formula to losing weight. Some of the diets may work, but it's not easy to follow a regimen of food that you don't like. I suggest you eat healthy food that you like, in moderation, and exercise more. If you feel like you're eating too much, or that you're eating but you're not hungry, just stop. You also have to make a conscious effort to exercise everyday. That means setting aside 30-60 minutes a day doing an activity that increases your heart rate. Power walking and biking worked well for me.One of the most important thing about losing weight though is that you have to love your body. By loving your body, you will learn to recognize what is healthy for your body and do what is best for it.

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well, i have been on a weight loss "program" and it has worked well, i have lost 10 pounds and converted tons of my fat to muscle.... what i did was

When i got hungry between meals, i had a fruit or half a can of tuna-fish (no water or maynase)

ran 2 miles a day

went to the gym and worked out

eat chicken..its good for you

ate healthy...lol all your greens

basicly walk alot/run, eat healthy, and lifting weights will convert some fat into muscle...

it worked for me :-D

 

good luck with it, i hope ya get what your wanting, it just takes time and paitence...and dont get discouraged if you dont loose weight immediatly, if you find two miles is too short of a distance go longer, and push yourself more...being a teen, you may not loose any weight but maybe just convert it into muscle

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Can anyone suggest some excercise movements for those who arent old enough to goto the gym? Movements that will increase muscle and some tips on what to do if you cant goto the gym or go running as you have work to do?

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Can anyone suggest some excercise movements for those who arent old enough to goto the gym? Movements that will increase muscle and some tips on what to do if you cant goto the gym or go running as you have work to do?

Sometimes it's better to start young, but, um, it would depend on what you're trying to bulk up. If you're trying to work out the entire body, you can do one body part at a time. That way your whole body wont ache from all the work. And if your job interferes, rather than walking everywhere, you can jog. And if your job is close enough, dont drive, but bike over. I'm sure you can find other exercises over the internet.

Oh, be sure to stretch before any workout.
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any excercise can help you out if you stick to for ages...if you are busy or dislike excercise,you can just do a simple run for a while everyday in relaxing time.what worried about me is how i can add my weight...heh,i am too thin now :).

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I find that I know what I need to do, but I am just not doing it. Where do I find that 'on' button that gets me to be more active? I have adjusted my diet and that has helped. I have added little things like taking the dog out more often and dancing when a good song comes on the radio. There is still a long way to go. I keep on the look out for opportunities to be active, but it is just so much easier to continue doing what I am doing, such as sitting at the computer and typing messages on the forums, rather than get up and move. Funny thing is, when I do get up and do something I end up feeling so much better. So why don't I do it more often? I am finally getting to the point where I am accepting that it is something I need to do. Both to feel better physically, but also mentally. Okay, so I have a couple of broken ribs, I can still be more active than I am. They said I should use my pain as my guide. I can do as much as my pain will allow me without doing any damage. I can't use my ribs as an excuse to be inactive. When I am lying in bed because I can't think of anything I would rather do, I need some ideas about what I can be interested in. I have recognized that I am good at putting resources together with those that need them. Right now I am looking for someone with a computer game concept that we can develop together. I have the ability to get the time, skills, resources and energy to develop a playable computer game but I don't have the idea. Anyone with any suggestions, I would sure love to hear them.

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