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The Perfect Girl/boy? Does it really exist?
Ousk replied to sonorama's topic in Dating And Relationships
I don't think there is such a thing as perfect or not even perfect for you. Relationships are about compromise. I don't think that u will want to find perfection cause with a perfect girl/boy the relationship will be boring as hell, no fights no different opinions, no nothing.The problem is that people don't really know what they want, i experienced some stuff in my love life and learned that. First example i wanted a girl with her own apartment because i wanted to move out, also to have a lot of experience with guyz cause i was bored with 19 old girls and their stupid games and stuff, and i was ready for a serious relationship. Well guess what i found the perfect girl, but after three months i realized that i did not want this stuff, i want to be at home doing my thing and not having a girl on my head all day. After that normally i wanted one for a casual relationship, i wanted her to be occupied with stuff and not have to much spare time, so i'll have my peace and quite. Found the perfect girl again but now after two month things got bad because she was to busy for my taste. In conclusion u just have to try and try and maybe you'll find one that suits you. -
Well i don't know how pertinent it's this advice cause i'm not a dream expert or how are those guys called, but i think that you dreaming about her is accidental, because she was a person that really influenced your life and your brain still has traces of her, or maybe you ask yourself to much what could have been if you guyz did not split up so the brain tries to give you some answers. Wrong answers that is why they're called dreams. Get out there and try to find another girl which hopefully will put your mind at ease.
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Not Had First Kiss Yet. Yes, I havent had it :)
Ousk replied to miladinoski's topic in Dating And Relationships
Don't worry about it i'm gonna tell you a story:I kissed girls since i was little i don't know 7 or 8 had girlfriends but when i got to 21 i met a girl and when we kissed that felt like the first real kiss i ever had.Short story i know :PDon't worry it will come when your gonna meet someone meant to give it to you. I know it sounds kind of romantic and stuff but be assured i'm not like that.Anyway you should let your computer or other stuff that u do fill up just 80% of your time and on that 20% get out there. Good luck. -
Squint Eyes does eye contact matter that much?
Ousk replied to africa's topic in Dating And Relationships
Yep that is right eye contact it's important but your cross eyed friend should forget about this rule because people if they like her will have no problem with this because they know her condition. Also you could try helping her to relax and try not to think that much about her problem cause there are bigger things to worry in life... sadly. -
I think you should try to go on a few dates with him if he really does not want to just let him be, because i use a lot of excuses that sound like "things won't work between us as we belong to different communities" just to let a girl down easy and without upsetting her.
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Iguest it's rightJust stop trying to figure her out cause it's not worth it she's just messing with you.A method that i love to test this stuff, just breakup with her or say you want to breakup and see how she reacts if she's all no prob fine just forget about her. I don't think she even considers that you are together i think from what you described that your just for fun.
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So What Should I Do so what should i do
Ousk replied to billy_chuck's topic in Dating And Relationships
I say you propose to her, again and say that you can not continue like this, just being friends. If she doe's not want more then forget about her cause she just needed someone to cry to (girls need that) and it's good for the boyfriend if they do, but not for you. -
I don't know if she just does not feel anything for you or just is really traumatized from her breakup but how traumatized can u be? Now she calls you back because maybe she felt like she was unfair and it's better with someone that will take care of her than just being alone.I think you should let her go for now until she figures out what she wants and gets over the breakup. And then if you are still single and she wants you back maybe you could try again, but that is if you really want to, otherwise just try to forget and heal.
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I don't think you should think about her anymore. It's obvious that she is not doing any sacrifices to keep the relationship together, and does not really care. If u say that she does not even reply to your emails i think it's all gone south. Your 19 so it's not worth it to waste 1 year of your life just to wait for her and then what wait some more? It's a no no from my point of view.
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Just from my point of view here and not an advice. I would forget about her. I don't like the cheating type cause if she cheated on him he may cheat on you with no remorse.Also there are a lot of better girls out there no shortage or anything.I would take into consideration that she was for two years with that guy, and after two years she got bored a little but she still loves him and does not know what to do, but i think she'll get to the conclusion that him is best for her.
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Well my current girlfriend is "obtained" from online dating. I find it great and it works really nice.From my experience three methods are the best:Find a girl close to where you live, you like how she looks from her pictures so it's good till now.1. give her a quick message and ask her if she wants to chat or just start a chat with her. Then chat for about 20 to 60 minutes and ask and set a real date (this is good if you are really good on dates, some people are better in person)2. Talk to her online for 2 3 days see if you mach and if you have thing in common and stuff like that then ask for a real date. Also learn from what you talk to her online and on the real date approach the subjects she likes.3. After an hour of talk or 3 days it does not matter ask for a "going out" with friend. You take 2 guyz she take 2 or 3 friends and go out somewhere you both like, like a common club or just out for drinks. This is good because you already see how she really is, because people tend to act real when they are with friends and also see if the two groups merge together, cause if you guyz will hook up u'll have to meet her friends and she yours often.
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Oh guyz you complicate stuff to much. Just grab her hand, take her somewhere quite and tell her the truth that u are really shy and u apologize because you sad no then but love is a big thing and you really like her and want to know her better and who knows maybe you love her already. Try to be funny :PShe'll like that and find it romantic. Also why do u want her not to get suspicious?, isn't your main goal for her to know that you like her and that u want to be together?
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5 Things Not To Do On Your First Date
Ousk replied to somertonlord's topic in Dating And Relationships
@somertonlord - pretty common advice if you don't do that instinctual you really bad at this @GrinningKittie - nice ones for beginners11 Learn body language it's a must have. If the girl looks at you and palys with her hair, your in luck that's a good sign if she looks at the clock your doomed (these are just examples, u'll see a lot more signs). Also if the date started good for 1h or something an then you see that she is looking around and stuff just end the date now and ask her for a new one cause now she is bored and you want to quit while your ahead.12 As important as eye contact is physical contact, plain old touching. Just try to touch her hand by inventing a game or by saying that you can read the future in her palm. Or just touch her leg under the table and see if she pulls away. -
It depends. i as a guy prefer girls making the first move because them i see that they really like me and want something more. Because girls are used to guys hitting on them and many if they are single and like the guy a little say:"eh why not" even thou they are not really into you. From a girl point of view i also would like (as a girl) to make the firs move firstly because a lot of guyz just want sex so if i flirt with a guy he seems interested and i see that he's shy it's a good thing because i cam see his real intentions and then make the move a little assured. But because i'm not a girl maybe i'm wrong. :PSomeone sad something about sex after marriage, big mistake a relationship in which the sex is not working is failed from the start, and you don't want to get married just to divorce. Just use protection and don't do it really soon and with everybody.
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I for one am like that when i'm single but when i'm with someone things chance. I find it normal that the guy tries his luck more or less on a lot of girls than just one at the time, cause then he would just be wasting time. :PI like girls making the first move or not really the first move but to show real signs that they want something and not just easy flirts. So i think he is like that with many girls and then he sees what answers he receives from them, which are interested and which are not.Anyway you should ask him if you really like him but don't throw yourself in his arms treat the relationship casual until he demonstrates that he's faithful, and observe if he's hitting on other girls like he does now after you are together. There is no point in just wandering what would it be if i just ask him..
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Well with her parents going through a divorce she might feel like relationships don't work so that is why she feels like maybe you should just be friends because friendship worked for you.On the other hand in my opinion, a girl and a boy can not be real friends, one of them has to want more than just friendship. Here is the boy, if she is the pragmatic type you could tell her that and that sooner or latter you guyz will be together and if it does not work at least you tried making something good if it does not, then no problem, next for everyone. I know i sound a little ironic but i have some experience with these type of relationships or say friendships that became a relationship and i can tell you that if u guyz really are friends that is not going to chance if you break up on the contrary, u'll be closer and know more about each other. Soo i wish you good luck and be good
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Travian Online Game Village Based Online Game
Ousk replied to hitmanblood's topic in Computer Gaming
I tried travian but it's really boring and i don't like the graphics that much. Try Ikariam is way better, graphics are great, economy is great, end the mechanics are great, because u have to trade with other players for resources because every resource si on another island, you have tot trade at least until u are able to make colonies and go to those islands. -
The game is great nice graphics, and driving mechanics. What i don't like compared to other toca games is that the "story" is all over the place and u can't letz say just start a campaign as a formula one driver and just play like that. You have change between stiles and ride a formula 1 car then do a drift race in a tuned car. I did not like that and the thing with the garage is kind of useless cause it did not make me heel like i progressed through the game and got involved, i felt like just doing random races. But all in all the game is great greater if u have a wheel.
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Well GTR and Richard Burns Rally if u want simulation, real simulation, and Grid i think is the best. Nice driving a combination between arcade and simulation and great graphics. All toca games are great.
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I think that the GTR series are the most realistic, i mean simulation wise if you great a great wheel it's awesome. Also there is Richard Burns Rally i think it's called, kind of like Collin but better simulation and realism.
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yep Savage is great and it keeps you at your computer for some good hours a day, that is if you have time to waste And if you want the extras it's not even expensive 9$ one time pay for 2 more slots custom runes and statistics and other info. But the free play is in most cases all you need.
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Reqiuem : Bloody Mayre What a great Game Do You Play ?
Ousk replied to websey's topic in Computer Gaming
I played a little but did not like it. Did not really see the horror part of it just a lot of gore. Creature exploding in giants blood baths. That's not really horror. The quests did not give allot of xp and they wore not many so grinding is your main xp source. Did not like it one bit. -
Who Wants To Start A Mmorpg? Ideas for a new MMORPG.
Ousk replied to zippy77's topic in Computer Gaming
Well just copy paste your ideas here to see if they are any good? U'll get a lot of mycents that way and we will see some funny stuff. I've written in another topic why you are all dreaming and i don't think you really realize how hard it is to make a game. Anyway fun post i loled my *bottom* of when someone was upset because they could not find a tutorial on how to make an MMORPG. fun fun -
Well you just need a lot of money and it's done, it shows that you don't know programing and "or whatever you need" because you don't know what is involved. And you don't realize what you will do i think cause the plot is not enough, you need to write 3000 quest text related to your plot more or less, and that's the easy part.Some have tried this already and did not work so great. If you really want to do it just try leaning doing something not just talking about it, like 3d graphic design 2d graphic design, or programing. Of write the plot and the general idea find some ppl on an graphic forum to join in and make some artwork and try to get some sponsors or something.And by the way even if you have a game in our days when the market is saturated with all tipe of mmo's it will be really hard to have subscribers. For an mmo it's really important to have something new like a fighting system see Chronicles of Spellborn or Atlantica. Just try to invent MMO 2.0
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This offer that u mention from Linkbucks with $1.00 for 2000 clicks seems kind of bad. 2000 it's a lot and it does not even matter but think about this you exposed their banner to 2000 people and they just give u 1$ for that? It's just wrong, and it's just a ripoff in my eyes.@Tramposch bidvertiser seems pretty interesting, i think I'll try that, thx for the info. Can u please confirm that u get the money and they don't just scam you?