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Thanks guys. Been ages since I checked this forum out. The guy I did the site for decided to start handling the maintenance himself - testing his skills out I guess.I appreciate your comments. ciao

Buddy, lets talk straight...You do seem more concerned about your reputation or status than you are about the lady. My advice? let's cross love out of this equation for now. Just be friends, casual friends, with the girl.

Thanks Mike...nice to know guys like u are here too...

First, You have to get a grip of yourself. You want to kill yourself for someone who is already onto someone else? C'mon, no one should have to do that. Yeah u had something great with him but if u want to see him, do something constructive. Please as much as your heart is filled with love, you've got to allow rational, logical and constructive judgement.U guys had something beautiful. He got too possessive which went wrongly and you took off. You had to do what you did then to save yourself emotionally. Razor said meet him, I agree... but we all know what might happen. Is he coming with his new girlfriend? If he is, u will make things uncomfortable for her without trying to. You might also not feel too comfy either. Prices you have to pay to see him.Do not use this occassion to let him know about your continued feelings for him except he brings it up somehow. My guess is he could not possibly have gotten over you yet and he is trying to bcos he feels you are over him. You've still got a chance but dont force it...let the opportunity present itself.If there is no opportunity to let him know at this time, well, try and get his e-mail/postal address or something and explain there. He's got to know how u truly feel. It may not sound so effective but if u want to get this off your chest, you've got to let it out right.Another thing, you should be prepared to move on if it comes to that... life goes on . . . love will come again if u will but give it a chance.Goodluck!

I know this is really off the topic but I was wondering, why do I have this warning thing on me? I dont recall having broken any rules or something.It would be nive if I was told what I am doing wrong cos it might just continue as I can not for the life of me figure out what it is exactly that i am doing wrong.i hope the right persons read this...

my judgement? Ubuntu Feisty Fawn with Beryl is the ultmiate in linux...

Lets just say, linux is getting there and I bet you will get there bigger and better than windows will ever be. It takes time to make the foundaion of a grandiose building. I just installed linux and I am sure i am in a for good ride.

Just installed ubuntu fesity fun and beryl on my computer and I must say the effects are totally awesome especially the bit where the window burns off the screen. Then the spinning cube and best of all it is totally free? TOTALLY UNBELIEVABLE!!!Anyone thinking about trying any linux distro should try out this.

Do not come to any conclusions yet, give her the benefit of the doubt ... give her space and hear her out if and when you meet but meanwhile give her space cos it si apparent she wants that now.

Besides the fact that you should not allow your feelings for someone stop you from living, admittedly, - goodlooking ladies do have a way of getting the guy tongue-tied - you are not alone. But the longer you wait, the more formidable they seem and the more difficult it will be to break the ice. Remember a lady is a lady is a lady, is a lady - beautiful or not. Have that mental attitude and you'll find it a little less daunting talking to ANY chic, beautiful or not.

God aint got nothing to do with u kissing the chic with the baby... attraction might be the culprit. Lets not spiritualise what's obviously physical. U like the chic, that's it!Brainless, you like/love the chic, c'mon go after her... "the dream you dont fight for will come around and haunt you the rest of your life"(quote from Dumbledore - Harry Potter)

I have to be a bit upfront with you, u've seen thru it all and realised your mistakes namely;- it is almost impossible for a girl to wait for a guy whilst he is still in school - for what? In Nigeria (I am a nigerian, I know)- go easy on the girl, dont dump all them feelings on her, even if you date for a while, try and maintain control of yourself cos once you loose control, guy, u are at someone else's mercy.- always try and tell yourself the truth and act fast. the longer it drags, the worse its going to behope that helps...

will try them all and see what comes of it. what's a guy to loose but time...

I have a nokia 6600 that has started acting up. I want to backup the contact on it to my PC (windows xp sp2).I downloaded the PC suite s/w from nokia and tried syncing using bluetooth... the syncing would not be initiated.I searched the web and found that there are known issues with this...please does anyone know a way round this with the hardware i have?

The one nite, she was just been nice...you were feeling left out and she probably saw it and figured she could keep you company. She has been a good friend to you and I think you should be too. You assumed too much and she was probably too polite to directly let you know she just wanted to be with you. Anyways, you should hold on to what is really important which is your friends and your band. Dont loose that for anything.

I believe girls are more comfortable with guys who are secured and confident. The outsides may be the first point of attraction but what makes a lady stay is the above.

i agree, uve been bitten by the love bug... what to do? U could walk up to him and tell him u like him, I know its difficult but doable. I believe if he is up to it, he should take it from there.And well if he doesn't, mermaid's put it right... there are many more fishes is the ocean.

eka... u got any ideas on what you said...?

I think I live like that everyday. I dont have to change anything I am doing at the moment - and i think we all should learn to live a day at a time. Dont transfer what you are to do today till tommorrow...it makes tommorrow all the more fresher. Each day is new, I haven't passed through it before so I do not mar it with the dirt of yesterday.

The cause of the sadness usually determines whether you should say something or not. Find out and dont be too eager to give an advice. Usually, all that needs to be done is just share the burden she is carrying and you will see the dark cloud blow over.Take your time, give her attention and let her know you are there...

I dont know if this post is late or not but... she appears to be willing to be with you but you are, naturally, jealous about her "involvement" with the other guy. Me thinks you should give her space and give yourself a break - admitted it would be real difficult and you do not need to hate her to do it but uyou've got to do it, for your sake and for hers. It is bound to help you get a fresh perspective on things and life.I hope that helps, good luck.

Good advice in all, but truth be said, if you are not tall, you've gotta learn to accept it and get to appreciate it. Everything has its advantages/disadvantages.

I havent got any favourite fodod really. I got the appetite for it, i take it. Though come to think of it, I always have a appetite for fied plantain. :XD:

Everyone you meet in life add/subtract from you resulting in what you are/become later - meaning everyone is important and should be valued. Popularity? I dont know, but it does sound like something too fickle to go after. Just my opinioin...

Lean back. Give her space. If she likes being single and u love her, let her be. What will be will be.