People Who Put You Down And Think They Are The Best.... Punks :(

[iGuest 3]

I hate these peoplePeople Who Put You Down And Think They Are The Best....I know a guy who is like this...He always is a jerk. Hes friends with my best friend and one night when I was at her house they were talking online and he was talking all bad about me. He was saying I was lame and dumb and that he was such ha better friend than me. But instead of sticking up for me my friend agreed with him. To say the least I was pissed so I confronted him and her about it. I couldnt believe everything they said...Well I'm not friends with them anymore and believe it or not they both got some karma back. Like I always say...Karmas a *****!-reply by Madison

[iGuest 3]

I have met some Americans who have put me down calling me Hispanic. I felt very bad, because I wonder how come the Americans calls me Hispanic, while I have blood type A Rh positive. Where the blood type A Rh positive comes from? Most of the Americans and Mexicans and all the races have blood type O. I am just saying it, because I have investigated about the blood type O. I am just saying because I am not racist, and I have learned that I must be racist in order to live the racist world. Because the Mexicans are also racists and some of them are socialists. I have been put down, by gays who told me that I am not sexy. It something that made me feel very bad and low. I refused to go to buy again. Well, of course, I am Hispanic because I am blood type A Rh positive. It sounds weird to say this, anyway. I was told that I am not sexy by gay people, and put me down by competing with other guys and having sex with other guys than me. Also men have put me down by having sex with other women. What the hell are they doing? I need some respect. I am not doing anything to them. I was shocked to people when they put me down because I am not doing nothing. They increased anger from time to time. They have sown hatred in my heart that I believe people sows a bad leader. Because they are making me angry so hard, and I was not a bad guy and I was a good guy who has loved all mankind. But, I made a serious mistake by caring the people. They have reversed me into a evil guy full of hate and full of anger who is betrayed by these people who put me down. Even though, I am not religious anymore. But, I am not socialist like as the Mexicans and Americans are. Because Some Americans and Mexicans are not socialists and some are. It makes me angry because when someone puts you down, they apart from you and join with other groups saying, We are better than you. The message they sent from their behaviors. It cannot fool me. Because once they humiliate you and separate from you just because I have some different ideas and issues and nationality. The Mexicans have put me down because of nationality as the Americans have also put me down because they call me Hispanic. It is not fair, the racism was never part of my plan. I am always put down just because I am not a drug addict, prostitute male, I am not a drunkard, I do not use marijuana, and I am not Mexican and American, and I am not gang member, not racist, socialist, killer, and a bad guy who sells drugs, and I am not like any of these guys whom they have put me down, also I am not smoker, and I am not a homosexual offender, and I am not like one of them and have always put me down and separated from me just because I have some different ideas and issues. Simply, because I am not like one of them, and have also put me down many times, calling me such ugly, not sexy and betty la fea, and other things which I hated most of my life. Anyway, I have love for all the people, but I try to change the love that I have had since I came here in America as an American Citizen that I am have no rights and privileges of being here in America and have no voice and have been hurt and beaten by some guys just because I am not like them. Simply, because there is so much competence, that I need no competence. Maybe, I am in the wrong place I live, or have wrong ideas or issues. Probably, their messages sent me to be like them or I do not know and understand their revolution. Because I am not a revolutionary. I hate revolutions. If the people wants revolution, go ahead, and I will not do anything like them because I am not like them. Anyway, I have no friends, just because I am not like them. If I would have friends, then they would have the same ideas like me. It could be wrong and erratic for someone say that America is free. No, America has never been a freedom country. America has been a freedom country with a mask of no freedom. Anyway, this is all what I have to say. I am glad that I have said these things right here, and I am totally happy and complete fine by saying these things. Reality is reality. Because having no friends, just because they are not equal to me. I can say these that I am not equal to them.

[iGuest 3]

Personally i have been through both scenarios- family putting me down.. and friends as well as constantly being bullied throughout school and even in some work places. It is totally unnessary to be this way. However to see the best of people is to see why they do this- low self esteem, low self-worth. Some people enjoy being arrogant, small minded and selfish, rather than being modest, open minded and selfless at times. The only way you can help is help yourself. If other people bother you then don't let them.. just walk away (regardless of who they are) Its extremely unfortunate- I know as i have been in these circumstances but what it boils down to is YOU and what YOU need from family and friends and in your life as a whole. Communication is key to respect- if you don't voice how you feel they will never know and have a chance to change to become better people. I have seen friends and family make big changes after sending them the right message. However there are certain things I know personally i can and will not tolerate and do not have the time anymore to deal with the drama people want to create. I've finally found the answer which is there are plenty of lovely people out there just like you. If they are not in your class (move classes!) if they are not your friends (make new ones!) If there is no-one in your town (change towns) and if its your family (maybe you will do things differently with your own one day or get to know someonelses) Time is always a great thing when people change.. however you can't always guarentee in the meantime the ones you feel should act a certain way in your life ever will as much as you'd like. That is my only regret i never did any of these things sooner! It took me 3 years of hell in one school to realise how bad things had become (when i should have told someone and moved classes or schools sooner), then 2 years of being bullied in a relationship, years of being bullied by friends, even being treated badly by parents over 3/4 years or so. Every time a person tries to dent you it's a knock - don't even let them do that! I was a fool to think i could curb all the negativity and brush it off but nowdays when i have found myself being that bit older and meeting such amazing lovely people i realise i just don't need it at all in my life (not one bit). Whats relevant if something isn't good enough or working it can always be replaced by something else because you do deserve it. Become who you are and don't let anyone stop how you think of yourself and how you want to be and the right people will be attracted to you (like attracts like). Its the same in any relationship with anyone. Its taken me years to figure this out as i thought by being stubborn and resilient meant i was stronger- i was but i did myself no favours- why not surround yourself by people who really love and care about you as much as you do yourself?... I'd say leave your negative thoughts and anyonelses comments, ideas about you and generally negative people behind! Everyone deserves to have a great future ahead of them, support and encouragement! and its you and only you who can make this happen! x

[sheepdog 10]

All you really need to do is be quick witted and come back with a fast, hard hitting insult that will just put them in their place in a spit second, and then walk away. For example, when some one says, "your haircut is retarded dude." just come right back with "that's ok, my hair will grow back, buy you'll always be an arrogant a$shole."

[rpgsearcherz 5]

All you really need to do is be quick witted and come back with a fast, hard hitting insult that will just put them in their place in a spit second, and then walk away. For example, when some one says, "your haircut is retarded dude." just come right back with "that's ok, my hair will grow back, buy you'll always be an arrogant a$shole."

People who act that way are attention-starved though. By making a response you are doing nothing but empowering them, as that's what they're looking for. If you really want to bother them, flat out ignore them. Being ignored is what they often times fear and what will bother them the most.

[sheepdog 10]

rpgsearcherz, you are probably right. All our lives we are taught to ignore bullies in the hopes that they will tire of their silly games and will eventually go away and leave us alone when they don't get the desired result from their bullying. There is just one problem with that idea. Look at all the crap you have to put up with until they get tired of hasseling you! I personally have a pretty low tollerance for putting up with other people's BS. So for me, it works better to cut them hard and quick and make them look like an idiot, they will much sooner realize that you are no fun to hassel and they will leave you a long a lot quicker than if you just ignore them. Saves you from have to put up with all that BS.

[ritu 1]

Probably half the population of the world has been through troubles caused by such rogues, I can pretty understand how you might feel when you face them.I guess the real cause that they behave this way (to think and depict themselves as God), is to hide their own flaws. They become too conscious when they find that someone has got something good about themselves, a complex gets risen and in order to conceal that they start blowing up their( putting everyone down) own trumpet.Turn a deaf ear to them and be your normalself as proudly as you should.