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Hey your friend needs your guidance! I am sure your friend is not guided properly by his parents. He is probably too lazy too. I would like to make it clear to you that such people are really difficult to deal with but once you can convince them they will become your slave. So to start with I would like you to develop a deep friendship with this guy. Just try to know his thoughts. Tell him your thoughts for the same situations. Have a grip on him and try to hold his thoughts. Never shout at him and never argue on small things. Once you are a good friend of him you can try to ask him about his whereabouts and living style. He will surely answer every question of yours truely. Then you go for the strike. Ask him about his living conditions and about his hygiene. You can probably refer him some books on hygiene. Just tell him how many bacteria are there around him all the time. You can probably create a fear in him for dangerous and disease causing bacteria. I guess once this fear sets in him you don't need to bother much. Things will turn out the right way. This will surely take some time as bad habits don't leave so early. But I appreciae your concern for a friend. I wish you success in your mission. You will surely succeed. All the best! Notice from BuffaloHELP: Writing that fits our forum format is your responsibility. Do not use FONT SIZE=7 again through out your whole post.

Hi I feel your mom is probably too involved with Nelli. This means that they are really best of friends but she has to accept the fact that Nelli too can have many more friends. Probably elli is not neglecting your mother and your mom might be just amplifying the problem. I believe Nelli will soon realisize her real company and real friend once she gets saturated with her rich friends. I guess life teaches us lessons very well and so will it teach Nelli soon. Please tell your mom not be get so upset or angry as because Nelli is a good friend then she will definitely return to your mom. Just let time go by and then see the magic. Please try to divert the mind of your mom in some other direction if possible. She probably needs more care and affection so that she cannot think of such problems. I guess friends are definitely important but not so important that you change your mood ad life-style for them. Just make your mom feel secured enough. I am sure she will be back to normal very soon. I believe in only one thing, TIME is the MASTER. All the best and take care. May God bless you and your family. Post me if you have any future problems.

Humans are not the culprit it is their selfish thoughts...... I am surprised to see you writing so strongly on destroying human race. I know and can understand that humans have created a menace on Earth. But what does that conclude? Theri destruction is definitely not the cure for it. I guess eveyone should try to do their parts well. This means that everyone should feel equally responsible for the destiny of Earth. We must try not to be selfish as we should think about our future generations which are yet to come in this world. If everyone does his/her work well and contribute to nature then I guess there will not be any misery left on this planet anymore. The only think required for this is a bit of awareness towards nature and to our duties towards it. I am absolutely not in the favour of termination of the human race form Earth. I guess humans with their intelligence can make te world a better place to live in if they don't think in the negative direction and instead think in a selfless way. I hope I have changed your view regarding this topic. Please have a thought on my write-up. All the best. Take care.

The foot odour is due to bacterial growth The main problem of foot odour is improper footwear selection and wearing the same footwear the whole day. My first suggestion would be throw away your old shoes and go and buy a new pair which are comfortable and more open in nature. It should have lot of ventilation in it so that air can pass in it for better breathing. this is because most of the bacteria that cause odur are anaerobic and they do not require oxygen for their flourishment. If you provide more oxygen they will not flourish and hence inturn there will be no odour! The other thing is to have clean and washed socks everyday. This is because the sweat in the foot again has lot of nutrients for the bacteria to grow and create chao. Also try to keep your feet dry as moisture again leads to favourable conditions for bacteria. If possible apply talcum powder to your feet before you wear your socks. Try to change your shoes when you reach your work-place. This gives a change in atmosphere and more hygienic condition for the feet. Avoid wearing shoes whenever it is possible so that your feet can breath well. I hope you follow these simple rules and then you will see the big difference of having beautiful feet without and odour. All the best and take care!

Hey Teri......... I can imagine your situation when someone can't stop talking even when you don't want to listen to them. But thats life! Its rather very hard to concentrate in such a situation. But just do one thing. Whenever you come across such people first of all try to ignore them after listening to their problem. Its always better to listen to their problems atleast once!! Then the situation becomes more on your side. Believe me it works. After some time if you gradually ignore them they will understand your situation too and will stop talking or complaining again. This is the natural way of *BLEEP*-for-tat. If you listen to others problem once they will too try to understand your problem that you are finding it diificult to concentrate when that person speaks continuously. If you just scream at the person or give ugly gestures to avoid their talk they would be more interested in irritating you more. So just remember the trick to listen them atleast once. I hope it helps you in future. All the best!

Hi Albus. You should just not take such a peer pressure and should laugh your way. People tend to force others rather harshly. If you feel yourself that you should go with your girl then only go for it. Regarding her father, he is right in his way as if he doesn't protect his daughter who will?? Just imagine when you will be a father someday. Won't you also be concerned about your daughter or will you allow her to go out with boys without knowing their details? Just relax and take life as it comes to you everyday. Regarding your peers you don't have to worry as you have to deal with your own life and they will not be there your whole life for you. Try to ignore and laugh at their talks. Just be happy your own way. Take care.

Hi. I don't feel google is a spy as they are a huge database themselves and if they would be doing this they would be betraying the trsut of millions of its users. Please don't accuse google. Thanks.

Hi. In todays world racism is not practiced to a very great extent as it used to be. But still people don't easily accept couples of different race. Usually it so happens that people go for the people from their own race or religion but sometimes it so happens that our colleagues who are not from the same race get attracted to each other. I feel this attraction is absolutely normal. But I also feel that to develop a relationship one should look more for compatibility and understanding and not on attraction solely. It is seen that people from the same caste get fed-up by the people of their own caste, this is when they develop attraction towards other race/caste/religion. After all change is a way of life and everyone requires tat change! So if we see a couple who are different in their race, we should think that they must have definitely thought about it twice before going ahead as after all its their life. We should not discourage or laugh on such couples as it will lead to lossof their relationship and ultimately lead to loss of the integrity maintained in the society in general. Just remember, respect people and people will respect you in retrun. Also remember that you are also a human and you can be in the same situation too someday. After all 'LOVE IS BLIND', it does not see religion or race, it just goes by human instincts which inturn are not always under our control. All the best for your love life!

I feel females in India don't indulge in masturbation as in the case of Western countries where almost 80% of the females mastrubate. Masturbation in itself is an art and there is nothing wrong in it as it fulfills the need of the body by the same body. Indian females should not be shy enough to devoid themselves of this art. After all thats what is nature that has shaped us to be a sexual organism.

Terrorism is....... I feel terrorism is the fear imbibed by the terrorists in us. So the terrorist is obviously the culprit in terrorism. Terrorism involves display of cheap strength to form the base of fear. So terrorists should be the targets for terrorism surely because if they are spared, they will sow many new seeds of terrorism in their progeny. This would then lead to propogation of the crop of terrorism. Regarding the religion of terrorism, I agree with Rashi that terrorism has no religion but at the same time I would like to comment that Muslims being a huge population there is poverty. This poverty inturn leads some of them to adopt terrorism. So I feel no religion is to be blamed for terrorism instead 'POVERTY' and 'FOOLISHNESS' are to be blamed. I would like all of you to pray to God for the well-being of the people of the world. God bless us all! Thanks for giving us the platform to speak in this forum.

Life is a course of existence of an individual As we all know what is life but only few people know what exactly life and is its necessity. The universe began with a Big Bang and will probably crunch or get diluted in infinite space. But just imagine then whats the use of life on Earth? Thats because we are just here for a transient time and paas our time and then go. Life's just a TIME PASS???!! No. Life is more then time pass! Its life that shows us the superior strength of nature. It is the ultimate proof of nature when it wants to prove that it has immense power!!! Origin of life and theory of evolution proves the potential of nature and its forces. Have you ever imagined the machinery going on in a single cell where there are thousands of proteins being produced and functioning in tandem sequence with other networks of molecules. Life is a gift to us from nature itself. We should respect life to its fullest and make the best use of it for protecting nature itself. As we all know we cannot regulate nature we can only learn the laws of nature by using Science as the source and medium for it. As a concluding statement I would like to say that life is the means for realising Nature and to know the existence of its supernatural powers. Happy Living!!!

Atheism is probably becoming a religion in itself! 'Religion' is described as "A strong belief in a supernatural power or powers that control human destiny". It is this belief that makes many people going in this world. People started believing in different religions due to their faith in different forms of supernatural power. But still the definition of the religion remains the same even if the form of religion changes. Now once there are lot of religions people are confused on which religion to choose especially in this world where Science does not have any space for God and it can't prove any supernatural powers. Religion itself gives courage and strength to oneself to be true to themselves and to their respective Gods. This is the right way of practising ones religion. But it so happens sadly that people start to compare their religion with other religions and try to prove that their religion is the best of all. This is where the war starts. This is when religions are labelled. This is the point where we destroy Humanity and Earth on the name of religion. If this is to follow and take roots then I would rather prefer to be an Atheist. I believe that in today's Scientific world where people are more aware of things and realities and everyone seeks evidence of everything Religion and belief in God is fading out. More and more people are becoming atheists. It is sad in one way as people are probably losing on their resources of strength as I mentioned in the above paragraph. But I think people now-a-days are thinking in the direction of making a common religion where there is no idol to wordhip, no messenger, no formalities, no rituals and no God. This is the religion of the Atheists where people should believe in 'Nature' as the supernatural force. This will probably flourish soon and more and more people wil join this religion soon. I guess if such a concept is initiated then the world would be like heaven where humanity will be the platform. Hope to see such a religion soon. Feeling great even by thinking such a concept!!

Hey If you have not understood Y=mX+c equation then I will describe it to you. The above equation is an equation for a 'LINE'. It tell you the co-ordinates of the linear in the X-Y plane and it also tells the slope of the line. The 'c' is the intercept of the line on the X-axis. So I guess the equation must have been clear to you by now. You can just fill in the co-ordinates of the line to get the respective values. Isn't it easy now?? All the best to you. If you have any other queries please ask on the forum. Take care.

Its ok if you don't have dreams! It is not an everyday thing to get dreams. Dreams are the platform where we think about ourselves or someone to appear in the way we don't usually don't think of or fear to even think that way. This is how the body alerts you for the situation. Its not the dream exactly but the 'theme' of the dream that is to be noted for analysis. Dreams may provide you with some hints! Its amazing that many people dream and their dreams are more or less fulfilled in their real life. On the other side its ok if someone does not dream. This might be mainly because your mind is too tired and you go into deep slee easily. It can also be due to no adventure in the life as you have nothing to dream about. That sounds strange but its true. If you try to widen your horizons and think more new things, dreams tend to be a major part of your sleep. And I would say if you want to be someone, then you better do something instead of trying to dream about being someone. But in general you don't have to worry if you don't get dreams. Hopefully you will have dreams soon. So take care and yes, sweet dreams!

Tension is a state of mind.Tesnsion is a state of mind which completely controls us if we don't have a hold on it. Its rather challenging to control the tensions as most of the times they play with the emotions which themselves are part and parcel of the mind. A person should know hot to relax his mind. this is the base of managing tension.It is rather sad that most of us don't know our minds very well and we challenge of knowing the other persons mind. Everyone should try to know their minds in a deeper level. We should question our ownselves that what are our limits and what is the capacity of our minds to tackle problems and tensions. Then we should try to assess our mind and make it realize of the facts. Once we know the facts now we are ready to build-up the much needed srength of our mind. This forms the platform for the courage to gup down the tensions and to stay stable and alert in times of tension.I guess its not as simple as I have mentioned as we have to practice it rather than just thinking over it. Hope I have contributed even a little bit to evaporate your tensions. Take care and don't worry! Notice from jlhaslip: edit to remove font and size bbcodes. Hard to read.

I feel the world is what me make it because we are the one who dare to change it, almost to the extent of questioning nature many times. The main culprit of the increase of confusion is 'increase in population'. Its because of increasing population that we face lot of competition and lot of poverty. Although in todays world education is probably not as a big problem as population as most of the people have realized that education is the key to success. But they have yet to realize that as education is the key to success, the same way over-population is the key to destruction and chaos. What do you think bird-flu and SARS will propagate if there is distributed population? No. Its just because the density of people is very high. The North Korea-US tension is another example of competition arised due to inflation of population and the fight fo rnuclear power. I guess nature handles the chaos on its own and there is natural selection by struggle for existence and survival of the fittest. It is the rule that entropy increases but it is nature that handles the entropy and distributes it. Finally I don't feel God is the culprit but it is only we who can do something to make the world a better place to live in! All the best.I feel the world is what me make it because we are the one who dare to change it, almost to the extent of questioning nature many times. The main culprit of the increase of confusion is 'increase in population'. Its because of increasing population that we face lot of competition and lot of poverty. Although in todays world education is probably not as a big problem as population as most of the people have realized that education is the key to success. But they have yet to realize that as education is the key to success, the same way over-population is the key to destruction and chaos. What do you think bird-flu and SARS will propagate if there is distributed population? No. Its just because the density of people is very high. The North Korea-US tension is another example of competition arised due to inflation of population and the fight fo rnuclear power. I guess nature handles the chaos on its own and there is natural selection by struggle for existence and survival of the fittest. It is the rule that entropy increases but it is nature that handles the entropy and distributes it. Finally I don't feel God is the culprit but it is only we who can do something to make the world a better place to live in! All the best.

I feel God is there and we can very much sense Him. Just take an example of a baby inside the mother's womb. Have you ever thought how does its first heart beat start. Its still a mystery! Thats where God's existence comes into picture. God is a supernatural power which is beyond the reach of human brain and even beyond the reach of Science. I feel worshipping God was not started by an individual itself but by most of the people who have experienced His superpowers. I hope I have covered the questions which you have asked.