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Yeah yeah,at frist I thought so great about Xisto but untill i saw that the one guy can do i see its not as save as i tjought it was.Ok that i admit theres only one guy that hacks Xisto but still if he found out how to do it then how sure are you that anther guy wount learn how too do it too?

The hacker was after wappyz script,he doesnt want anything do do with Xisto. "BOO HOO" Look at you running your mouth like a kid,what you trying to pose good member? what wana be made mod of Xisto or something hahaha pathetic.You not even hosted but you wana talk as if you know what you talking about.

Ok I understand that its not my research etc. but what about the time it took to post that kind of amount of text? And what about going out to find the research? It all comes together.I dn't propose that people get as much hosting credits as if it as their own info but atleast a few for going out,finding the research then tyaping it all out like i have.I could of well of been with my fiance during that time but no i was contrubiting to Xisto As to the hacking promblem,ask our dearest member wappy,hes sever was hacked recently.

And we wounder why alot of people that have been on Xisto and been hosted say "oh Xisto? they a good host the only s,hit thing about it is some of the stupid rules they got,no, rather get anther host" Its true,I went through the trouble of tyeping all that info out,AND yes from a BOOK not a SIte a BOOK,and for what? For the sake of info? Ok I understand its copyright and yes I would aggree if it was only 10 lines..but come on,Ypu think tyeping that all out takes 5min??,Ather thing aswel if I might add,You guys wana have so many rules ok cool I understand but then Xisto should be a safe sever..But no,Ive heard of 5 peoples severs that have been hacked and they they were Xisto severs.This not a post against Xisto just a awareness that with alot of ppl are not that happy with these rules,and MOSTLY the ones that have been hacked.

Notice from serverph: COPIED CONTENT. taking for granted Chatz "went through the trouble of tayping it ALL out for you", it still is COPIED CONTENT, which needs to be within quote tags. and thanks to rvalkass, an online version is found at http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/ quotes added, warning served. REVIEW Xisto FORUM RULES & TOS. Hosted members should know better that when their hosting credits gets reduced because of this violation, their loss would be MORE than what they have earned from the post in the first place.

If any one got qouestions or advise or need advise relating to the topic then please do post.Thanx in advance.

Offline or online doesnt matter.I want good games.tjhanx for the info. If you got more games please post them here.

Well said.It's as simple as that.You decide your future,the actions and decisions you make in live will detrumine your future.Which brings me back to your qouestion,can we change our furture? The answer is yes we can.

Im dissappointed that I got only one email today I got this email today. If you're looking for a relationship where there are absolute assurances that you won't be hurt, you need to forget it and just accept the fact that you'll be alone the rest of your life. My dear, there just isn't such a thing. It's impossible to have for yourself or to expect anyone to promise you. Regarding "trust" let me ask you a question: do you "trust" him to get something up from the store that he said he would? Do you "trust" him to pick you up when he as promised? Do you "trust" him to not steal your money, and to not burn your house down? My point is this: trust is a matter of degree. You've asked me how you can learn to trust him again. The fact is, you already do. Let's look at things a little differently. Just like you said, you "...broke up with him and made him suffer for a whole week." This doesn't sound like love to me. It sounds like revenge. Worse yet, you did this for what? He didn't even sleep with her! You confirmed that yourself! All of this drama has come about just because he spent time with her any maybe even kissed her? I think your actions are cruel and not that of someone that loves someone else. Despite what you think, or what you wish - you can't "own" another person. Even a married person is free to make his or her own choices. You can't make him do anything and in fact, have caused damage to your own relationship by trying to "punish" him. My question is: how can he trust YOU? The only place you can look for trust is within yourself. You need to see things from a different perspective - that YOU are in control only of YOU - nobody else. Taking responsibility for oneself is the highest way to live. Trying to make others do that for you is the lowest. You deserve better than this. Don't place your well being in someone else's hands. What if he doesn't live up to it? Instead, come to the realization that you are worthy of his fidelity, and expect him to abide by it. If you don't get it, you'll understand that you've simply made a mistake in your belief of who he is, and you can move on to find someone that DOES meet it, with you head high, and your self-esteem intact.Good Luck.

We can change our future.If you became someone bad It will come to get to back in future but if you change then your future will change too.You can make your future a good one or a bad one depanding on your actions.

Any one know of free but good games I can download and the links to it (for pc)Pls no puzzle games.I dnt want kiddies games if you know wat I mean Thanx in advance.

Never heard of it.Give us more info about it.The game type,graphics,playabilty etc.Support us with a few screenshots if you can.What is the game all bout? Is it like final fantasy?ff is a RPG game,and it's one of my fav games.

Im bored Iven't cheacked my emails yet so I tought of giving advise to people that like getting things in other to feel loved. When people start new relationships, they do everything they can think of to show their interest in the other person. For instance, they tell them they are interested, they show them they are interested by doing thoughtful things; they touch to show interest, etc. In short, they use every method they can think of to express how they feel. Each person has a "preferred method" or "modality" of being shown this love and interest however. Some people need to hear someone say "I love you" in order to feel loved. Others need touch and closeness and still others have to be shown. It's not that those that prefer touching don't want to hear the words too, it's just that we each have a "primary modality" that makes us feel most loved. As the relationship progresses however, a person tends to revert to the modality that he or she prefers simply because it seems so direct and specific. You are likely a "show me you love me" type of person. Your boyfriend/girlfriend on the other hand is likely one of the other modalities. Thus, if you were to ask him/her if they think that they expresses his/her love for you, he'd/she'd say, "Absolutely! Don't you remember when I did that..." Frankly, I'm against gift giving as a method to show love. It's tied to a financial arrangement rather than something less cold. If you really need to have money spent on you to feel that your boyfriend/girlfriend loves you, I'd suggest you re-think that position. If you disagree with this, I suggest you sit down with a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle of the page. Now, list everything you've spent on him/her on one side, and everything he's/she's spent on you on the other. Then, draw a balance at the bottom. If it doesn't match, (for instance, you haven't spend the same amount on him/her), then I'd ask you: why don't you love him/her as much as they love you? How romantic! That doesn't mean that a little gift here or there isn't a nice gesture, but why does it have to be based around money specifically? I'll bet he's/she's done other things that are loving expressions too, and if you stop and think about them, you'll begin to realize just what they mean. So, what's the answer here? Is he/she a liar because they didn't give you as many gifts as you expected them too? Are you a gold-digger just waiting to fill your closets with things? Neither of these is true. You both simply have different ways of expressing your love for each other. I suggest that you talk to them and explain that you like being shown how someone feels for you. Little expressions of love and caring go a long way, and you need them regularly. Expand your acceptance of what these expressions are, and if he does something like this - even if he doesn't pay a dime for it - see it for the loving expression it is. But, don't do this unless you're also willing to find out what makes *him/her* feel loved too! Ask them what things you do that make them feel close and loved by you and start working on yourself to insure they get as much of this as they gives you. Now that's a ledger that balances.

Im am a relationship shrink I have studied for 3 years to be one. Let me just say well done,BUT,little advise and most important one is; always be conferdint.Also 50% eye contact isn't enough.If you want to have a connection with a girl eye contact needs to be 100%,and by 100% I dn't mean STARE at the girl,just eye contact get the picture. Next what I need you to do for me is to reflect on the things you have learned from talking to the girl,in other words make yourself be that guy she's always wanted. How do you do that? how? By doing everything right.Become that person she always dreamed of having,use what you have learned from talking to her..get what Im saying.

Let's begin by talking about the concept of "the one" or in other words, a "soul mate". Many people believe that there is only one soul mate for each of us, or at most, only a very few. In fact, according to my own research, there are thousands of soul mates - maybe even hundreds of thousands - for each of us! So, is she "the one"? Obviously, I don't know. Further, I don't know if she's going to date you as I don't read minds and I don't see into the future. However, with that said, let's now talk about marriage. Should you be married in the future with this girl you say you only see at the gym? My first reaction is no. This isn't based on anything you've said however, this is based on few simple facts. First, dating itself is a "format" for the relationship - just as there are a thousand other "formats" from dating to living together, etc. This has nothing to do with the quality of the relationship itself. I try to get people to understand that the quality is the most important aspect and that you should choose a format that will either sustain or enhance that quality only before going out after want you wan in this case the girl. Don't start to go to the gym or tennis more just to see her more simply because it seems like the next step. Become her friend either because you know it will take an otherwise perfect relationship and you may give it that last little kick to make it, The second fact is that dating rarely makes a relationship better if it's not already perfect once you two are friends! Consider that becoming her friend and making it a good one before going ahead.dn't rush things no matter how much you like this girl.If you happy with the friendship you two have made and think you can step it up then go for it.More than 1/2 of all relationships end in breaks for this very reason as to people rushing into things so make sure you know what she wants once you become close to her. As I continue to say, there aren't too many"friendships", there are too many break ups because people don't know eachother well but yet they want to date.Some say they date someone so they can get to know them better which is WRONG. One last fact: I don't think that anyone should consider dating until they've been friends at least for a good time. After than, the talks can begin.

Metal gear For ps,ps2 and the pc version.Metal gear one,two and three are my faverite games.No other action game can compare to metal gear.

For most of you that did notice I haven't been online today.Why? Because today was a busy day.I got 10 emails from people asking for advise.Sadly only one person from Xisto emailed me. Email me to tell me how it ends up brother. Notice from rejected: Plagiarism again. Taken from http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/. Warning issued

It's my job to help people with their promblems revolving within a relationship.I am here just to help.I could very well be doing some other kind of work sittng down in my nice office drinking my coffee bossing people around.You get the pictureBut no.I choose this job of relationship shrink to help people out.And I get all kinds of crap from people when they hear my advise but when they fellow it,alll of them come back to thank me and tell me how I changed their live.

Im a relationship shrink ive stuided to be one for 3 years,If I may please let me give you some advise.You two "might" even be liveing far away from each other. That can be a very good thing - or a very bad thing depending on how you handle it. If she's logic and you're emotion, that's going to make for some very challenging times indeed! It's far better to have a balance between calm and controlled emotion as you both not only need to get your own needs met, but you also need to be able to understand (and sometimes adopt) the other's point of view. Being on such opposite sides of the fence may create great tension between you,her and her parents. I first suggest that you both work on this as a goal in your relationship; to gain a better handle on the other's methods to understanding and dealing with both joys and problems within the relationshipWith regards to moving in together, let's consider a few points:First of all, you mentioned that "...two hours away seems like a long time..." My question is: for what? Do you think that you need to move in together or be married simply because of the passage of time? That's very short-sighted in my humble. Living together, dating, marriage, etc., are not "relationships". They are FORMATS of relationships! Do you understand the difference? It's a critical distinction. The format has nothing whatsoever to do with the quality other than the more "tight" the format the greater the conflicts in a less-than-perfect relationship; and let's face it - there is no perfect relationship! I would strongly urge you to forget the timeframes and focus on the quality instead. Make decisions for your relationship based on what you want to grow or change - not because a certain amount of time away from eachother.Things like moving in together and even getting married isn't going to realy solve your distance problem. This is internal - not external. It's just as easy for one person to cheat when living together or being married as it is when you're just dating or again living away from eachother. That's not going to solve your distance issue; and in fact, it may even make it worse. When tensions arise in the relationship are you going to assume that she's out with other men? I can assure you that they will arise as that's part of being under the same roof. Insecurities need to be handled before you consider such a drastic change in your relationship format.All in all, the reasons for moving in together should stem from having a terrific, solid relationship in the first place and both parties wanting to grow all those good things. It should never be done (nor should marriage) in order to solve other problems. It exists for its own benefit and for its own reasons.You dn't have to take my advise.Just think about it.

The very first thing you need to know is YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Almost EVERY man has many of these same problems - although not usually to this degree. The up-side is that there ARE ANSWERS! Let's look at what you need to do: 1) GET EDUCATED POST HERE OR EMAIL ME QUESTIONS! Most men make the mistake of trying to "wing it". They keep trying the hit or miss method until they discover that nothing they've tried works. Then, they give up. YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO THIS! Many of our brothers have gone before you and figured out what DOES work. Joining Xisto and reading my posts (later on I will be writing a book), are great places to get an education. These things alone will do so much to help you get over all of this. So, don't cheat yourself, GET EDUCATED! 2) BEGIN TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN. You see; women don't want to be alone the rest of their lives anymore than you do. 3) STOP SPENDING YOUR MONEY! This is a huge mistake, and will actually PREVENT you from finding women! Sure, strippers will hang around while you act like a human ATM, but as soon as that stops, so does the attention. What's really bad about this is that you don't have to do it! There are far, FAR better ways to get what YOU want without having to spend much at all - if anything! 4) CONFIDENCE COMES FROM INSIDE - not outside. Nobody "gives" you confidence. It is a gift you give yourself. The only trick is knowing how to do this. 5) SUCCESS DOESN'T HAPPEN BY ITSELF - you have to develop it. However, you CAN develop it! I see guys all the time with the same problems you've described here. These guys lose out to others because they don't make the effort. They are hampered by fear and doubt. There is nothing wrong with fear, and in fact, you may never get over it entirely. What IS bad however, is being controlled by it. You should look forward to that anxiety - it helps to improve your performance. Don't seek to eliminate it, seek to control it. My brother, you CAN DO THIS! The only "failure" is not getting started. So, GET GOING! You have nothing but success to look forward to if you do. Then, as you master these skills, remember - many men feel the same way you do, so find 5 others, and help THEM with what you learn.Post your qouestions here or email me.I will answer to you.

Are you a relationship shrink? have you gone to study for 3 years at college to be a relationship shrink?well i have and i can bet you all my money there is a gam,if you say there is'nt one then you have never experinced it and there for have no clue what the game is.

You'd be surprised at how many famous men were "shy" too - Winston Churchill for one comes to mind, but there are thousands of other examples. Buying into the idea that you're shy is simply an excuse. You're using that excuse to explain why you're not having better luck with women, when in fact; it's based solely on your unwillingness to get educated and to take small risks.Consider also, that magazines like Psychology Today are a pure representation of our feminized world - one where nobody is responsible for their own actions and everyone is a victim. I operate by (and teach) a different ideal: there are no "victims", only volunteers!Believe me, when people first enter the dating world, every one of them are "shy". That's because we are normally wired to not want to get shot down and suffer the pain of embarrassment. This doesn't happen anywhere near as often as "shy" people would like to believe, and in fact, everyone that wants to can learn to be successful with women, and guess what? As soon as you start experiencing that success, the shyness magically goes away!Many guys spend years - and even decades before they learn this simple fact. I have guys that email me even from Xisto constantly in their 40's, 50's and even 60's that have been "shy" all their lives only to finally discover this fact and turn their own lives around. You (all) can do this too if you decide you want to, but don't try to pull the shy excuse on any one.Others may tolerate it and even pat you on the back saying, "Oh, you poor, shy thing." Not me. My job is to kick you in the **bottom** and tell you to get moving! After all, what are relationship shrinks for?

No one has asked anything about true love.The game is all about how to get a girl.Theres other advise or mathreds for true love.If you don't know that you're in love, you're not. Love is very difficult to explain, but one of the best explanations I've seen is this:"Love is when you are more concerned with the well being, safety and happiness of someone else than your own.".True love has no game.The game is to get the girl after that the game is won and let love,serious relationship etc. come in.

Ok considering your age, I think you're right on the mark about getting all of this solved now! Many of the "shy" guys that email me are often in their 20's, 30's, 40's and even much older. Why go through that much life without getting what you want? Being "shy" is going to prevent you from getting what you want if you don't get it straightened out. First, let's get past this myth about shyness - it's not a real problem, it's only an excuse. Everyone has some issue with shyness at some point in their lives - you, your buddies, and everyone else. The difference between you and them - or anyone else that is "shy" is that you use it as an excuse to not do what you have to do. Don't forget that point. Being shy is not an affliction, it's a choice. Second, you're not going to get many women to approach you, and you're going to have to learn to approach women yourself, in person. That is the way the "game" is played and it's not going to change just for you - trust me on this one. Thus, I want you to realize that from this very moment onward, you are going to be working to change the way you think. Stop choosing shyness as your excuse for not having what you want in your life. Third, as soon as you start learning basic skills about dealing with people in person, you're going to find that the shyness just goes away on it's own! Sure, you might feel occasional shyness, but you'll find that it is so minor that it doesn't really even bother you. What was a huge impact in your life at one time will soon become just a minor irritation that you can completely control any time you want to. he key to all of this is: 1) Education - get yourself educated about how to approach women, how to hold conversations, how to be funny (on the Internet), and especially, how to "close" to get what you want. Know that women are just as interested in meeting you as you are in meeting them! )2) Practice Why is this all that's required? Because when you know what to do and how to do it, you'll find that you are confident and believe in yourself. Further as you practice these skills your internal dialog (how you talk to yourself) will change. You'll start thinking, "Wow, I can go meet that little cutie over there in the corner and get her number right now" instead of "Man, I can't talk to her - what if I blow it?" The last point is also a simple one: get started right now! Don't waste another day on bad choices like being shy! If you don't do something today, tomorrow will be exactly the same. If you don't do something this week, next week will be the very same. If you don't change this year... I think you get the point. How do you get started? First, I strongly urge you to get educated about women and this entire dating game by posting or "emailing" me more questions. These answers that i will give you to your questions are going to give you the tools you need for the rest of your life. Second, I suggest that you start working on your skills. Start learning to make eye contact with everyone. Learn to say "hello" to people (especially beautiful women!) and do it very single time you get the opportunity. No excuses here - it's time to stop choosing shyness as your excuse. Again I say post or email me your questions

If you're too shy, then just lie down, do nothing, and be alone the rest of your life. I fully understand how it feels, but you aren't going to use the "shy guy" crap anymore. I know how much anxiety this can give all of us, but you're just going to have to get over it as it's going to affect you the rest of your life negatively if you don't. The good news is that you CAN get over it! You're don't have to be shy the rest of your life and just suffer with whatever life gives you. You can actually take what you want, (and leave the rest to the other "shy guys" out there!) You do this by getting yourself educated. I suggest that you post questions here for me to answer as a very good start. In addition, decide right now that you're not going to use being shy as an excuse any more. Just stop it. It's time to grow up and be a man. If you're not sure how to do this, that's ok - that's what this post will show you. Find a "role model" whose person you can adopt. I like James Bond or Tom Cruise's character in "Top Gun". These are great models to follow. Then, fake it until you make it! Like in the question I got in the email, just because this guy has already taken the first step doesn't mean that you're out. After all, it's HER decision - not his! Just go up to her and say, "You know, we need to spend some time together and get to know each other. Let's have coffee this week. How's either Thursday or Saturday?" Believe me my brothers - it really IS that simple! Take a few small steps, get a few successes and watch your confidence level soar. Post questions here if you wish.I will answer them.