Cyber Sex And Men From Far Away This may be offensive to some.

[unicornrose 0]

Okay first of all let me mention that I like sex just like anyone one else. When I first started using the internet I thought cybersex was kind of fun in a unique new experience sort of way. Well I learned there was more to the internet and grew up and decided that cybersex was not for me anymore.Well I have put out many innocent profiles on my various instand messanger sevices and well strange men contact me hoping to chat about sex. I have had to put in all my profiles that I am not into that sort of thing. The most annoying thing of all is a high percentage of those men are from froeighn countries and have wives. I always tell them to read my profile first because half the time they don't bother. I also tell them I don't want to chat about sex or cybersex. They still persist. What is it about men do they think that us american women are easy or something.I am more than just hormones and physical needs. All well that is my rant.

[no9t9 0]

I don't get cyber sex. Sex (not love) is about sensory stimulation and I don't really see how it works on line. Personally, I haven't done it and don't intend to (and no I'm not 12, I am 20+). I just think it's too weird. I'm the type of person who is the same online and offline.I don't normally walk up to a stranger and ask for sex. So why would I do it online? I just don't know why people do it. It's as if online people are not equal to real people in the real world.

[mzwebfreak 0]

Well I have put out many innocent profiles on my various instand messanger sevices and well strange men contact me hoping to chat about sex.  I have had to put in all my profiles that I am not into that sort of thing.  The most annoying thing of all is a high percentage of those men are from froeighn countries and have wives.  I always tell them to read my profile first because half the time they don't bother.  I also tell them I don't want to chat about sex or cybersex.  They still persist.  What is it about men do they think that us american women are easy or something.

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I know how ya feel...not trying to show stuff I shouldn't, but, with a profile like mine named christy wildxxx, I get all the weirdos..I also have in my profile I don't cyber or do cams, and still have guys asking. Well, generally, what I've found works is to point them back to the profile, i.e. "Well, I guess you didn't really read my profile, since it says right there that I don't do cyber." If that doesn't stop em, I just x out the chat window...the perverts are out there and will get to you sooner or later, but I usually use the worst of them for when I've had a bad day and can vent my anger on their stupid selves.

[whyme 0]

This topic is somewhat sensitive, seeing the current age group that this forum has. So I'd just like to say, please keep this topic as clean as possible and "everyone-friendly"-whyme

[tripletriangle 0]

I've seen people IMed (not me) with Arabic and Asian men with webcams... They invite to see their webcams and its disgusting... Personally I think its kinda pathetic people have cybersex, because it means they probably don't have a real sex life in the real world.I've gone to chat rooms, and you can go to "Mathematics 101" and they still talk about sex. There are these robots that IM you (and I have experienced this) which have pre-recorded messages, mostly "hey", "asl?", "17-f-al". because a normal conversation would go:Robot) Hey!Me) Hi!Robot) Asl?Me) 26-m-NY, you?Robot) 17-f-alAnd then you would get into the conversation, still thinking this is a real person, and at the very end they give you some porn site... Which I have foolishly fallen into and got a virus planted into my system...Most chat rooms today should be called "Sex" (description: all about sex and nothing else). You hardly find people interested in the chat room name...MSN had to close down its chat rooms because minors were getting into the webcam business... INCREDIBLE... And whats most amazing that the parents give them webcam... People can be so naive...Oh well......-Triple Triangle

[tripletriangle 0]

Woops, this message was meant as a reply for a previous one....

[Unregistered 017 0]

Yeah. I'm a very young minor, and I have to agree with you. I can't even play a game of Isketch anymore without being tempted to go into all those cyber rooms they have. The site has turned into a cyber place, instead of a really fun game to play with others. There are a few chat rooms that I am able to go to that are totally safe, and I don't have to worry about. But it scares me, how easily accssesed some of these things are.

[Amezis 0]

I don't normally walk up to a stranger and ask for sex.  So why would I do it online?  I just don't know why people do it.  It's as if online people are not equal to real people in the real world.

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I totally agree...

And... People who acts different online and offline... They're a little shizofren... Call them that next time you meet them in a chat or whatever... "Shizofren"

[rvovk 0]

Hmmm, having wife at home, let's say really nice looking one, but then again she just looks average, but still she is nice to you, blah, blah, blah.... Then there is a man. Her husband, and online undercover gives him power to reveal his real personality. He can become "superguy" that has libido up to the mountains and back multiplied by x to the power of y number. Yeap, that really sad story. While his wife is laying unsatisfied in their bed, he makes out online.This can be one story and I hope I didn't offend anyone, but this is sometimes the case. To all that wanna have partners in the future and to all that have one (I hope not 2,3,4..), ask yourself why do you have your love one, if answer is cause of him/or her then you are on a good way not to do things online. Possible thing is also that your partner is not intresting for you anymore and vice versa. But I guess that is a two persons job which must be refreshed all the time.I hope I cleared out why this online *BLEEP* is happening and is really pain the a.s. I rather have real thing than this.Best regards.

[rvovk 0]

Same thing happens on all chats, MSN, Yahoo ....., everytime you enter some chat room, first you get opened chat window with invitation to someone site: Please visit my site. And what you get there? Some picture from some magazine that has adult content, blah, blah, blah. :yawning:

[nykegodess 0]

hi,because of thing like that i don't chat anymore for any reason. i sign on as "invisible" and only chat with family membersi am not a minor, but i hate stuff like that. i don't see how it worlks in the first place.and the things on the cam?! so frigging awful!!! i better stop here i am already getting iritated

[=Savage= 0]

this sort of thing happens all over the world, i just think its sad and pathetic! It usually 12 or 13 year old boys who havent got any yet, so they say they are like 17 and try to "Cyber" with you.Just ignore it and/or tell then to get a life

[doom145 0]

Okay first of all let me mention that I like sex just like anyone one else.  When I first started using the internet I thought cybersex was kind of fun in a unique new experience sort of way.  Well I learned there was more to the internet and grew up and decided that cybersex was not for me anymore.

 

Well I have put out many innocent profiles on my various instand messanger sevices and well strange men contact me hoping to chat about sex.  I have had to put in all my profiles that I am not into that sort of thing.  The most annoying thing of all is a high percentage of those men are from froeighn countries and have wives.  I always tell them to read my profile first because half the time they don't bother.  I also tell them I don't want to chat about sex or cybersex.  They still persist.  What is it about men do they think that us american women are easy or something.

 

I am more than just hormones and physical needs.  All well that is my rant.

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you GO GIRL!!!! POWER TO U

[iwuvcookies 0]

I have never tried cybersex. I just think its retarded. Like they have people on the phone makings fake whispers and sounding like their horny and now it has to be on the internet. I don't care what people do just don't trick little kids. That's just plain disgusting. Almost all of the chat rooms have like spam bots and all they say is "click here to see my nude pics." or something retarded like that. That is annoying. I go to some Computer chat and suddenly stupid links like show up.

[Shinjiru 0]

I don't support cybersex nor have I done it, but I think it's an interesting alternative for writers who are trying to get a hot sex scene for one of their stories. The reason is that you don't know what the other person will respond after you "make a move". It's all random... I mean who knows, one moment you could be in one really intense part of the "sex" and then your partner decides to pull out a gun and make you do "something" for her/him or that person will shoot. Or the idea that the person you're speaking to is completely anonymous so that could also account for a suspense/mystery scene in a story. I wouldn't be surprised if everything that's logged in cybersex all sound corny and uncreative, but with a bit of editing, a skilled writer could make it interesting. And it helps for lazy writers since the "main content" is already laid out for you. Just change a few things here and there and then you're done, lol.