Im scared to kiss my boyfriend Not Had First Kiss Yet.

[iGuest 3]

Im scared to kiss my boyfriendNot Had First Kiss Yet.

So my boyfriend, Tyler is ready to kiss me. But, is it normal for me not to want to kiss him? I'm really scared. I was going to kiss him at the pool on Friday, March 12th but I found out that he's leaving town that night! There's a dance coming up on Tuesday, March 16th should that be when our first kiss is? My friend told me that, since me and Tyler have a song, she would go request for them to play it and then when that song came on we should kiss. I think this is an okay idea. But, I have a nother problem So, theres this guy named Tristan Fuller that I absolutely LOVE he's awesome. I'm scared to ask him out but I think I might want my first kiss to be with Tristan. I need mostly boys opinions on this and ill take girlz to. So, if you were tyler would you be mad at me for going out with Tristan and kissing him? I mean I haven't decided anything serious yet but I don't want tyler to be mad at me for it.  So, please comment back ASAP! Thx btw I'm 12. Lovez ya, Jordan

-question by Jordan

[linekill 1]

Kissing is a common symbol to show affection. And it's definitely fine that you were scared to kiss your boyfriend Tyler. First kiss is scary specially if you don't know what to do with the kiss or you don't know what to expect after the kiss. I'm not the most credible person to answer your question. I could, however, give you an advice about relationships and kissing. You're still 12 years old, darling. I'm sure girls have this fantasy of a fairy-tale-like first kiss and if you do, please wait for the right moment. I can't tell with whom you should give your first kiss but you'll feel it when the chance jumps in front of you. At 12, a kiss is really special. So make the most of it and make it just a kiss, yet. You'll have plenty of time for the next steps. Enjoy.

[mandla 0]

Every first is special. SO I say follow you heart dont follow your head. Go with your feelings and you wont regret. Dont read too much into anything at this stage just have fun your still a long way to go. After a few years you will have kissed so many boys the first one wont matter but the will always be in your heart as your first kiss. Soon it will be first boyfriend, first guy to touch my boobs, first guy to do this and that, first guy to have sex with me. and if it goes bad from there it will be first guy to make me pregnant, first husband, first restraining order, first true love but first will always exists in your life so who ever it is let it be someone your heart wont regret having to remeebr for a long time to come.

[Бојан 0]

You shouldn't be scared to kiss your boyfriend because believe me, he will like it.

[iGuest 3]

Kissing is a sign of showing love. Though girls show their love by expressing through words. Guys are very closed type and their common way to express love is kiss. So there is nothing to be scared in this i think:)

[rpgsearcherz 5]

Every first is special. SO I say follow you heart dont follow your head. Go with your feelings and you wont regret. Dont read too much into anything at this stage just have fun your still a long way to go. After a few years you will have kissed so many boys the first one wont matter but the will always be in your heart as your first kiss. Soon it will be first boyfriend, first guy to touch my boobs, first guy to do this and that, first guy to have sex with me. and if it goes bad from there it will be first guy to make me pregnant, first husband, first restraining order, first true love but first will always exists in your life so who ever it is let it be someone your heart wont regret having to remeebr for a long time to come.

I laughed at the restraining order part.

I do agree with you for the most part though. To the OP : You should do what feels right for you. Asking others for opinions is not the right way to go because every person is different. We have different desires, different views on things, etc. Society can not tell you what you should do -- you need to do what you feel is right.

I know these posts are a little old but the information is still relevant.

[genevie 0]

ok, i'm a traditional one, so i say, you are only 12 and you are stressing out about a kiss and relationships. you have plenty of years to think about this serious stuffs. anyways, the first kiss is i agree supposed to be unforgettable. but what if tyler also kissed another girl first instead of you, what would you feel? this is how relationships go, you don't just think about yourself but you also think about your partner. don't take relationships too seriously at your age, as the other comments say, you still have a long way to go. Thanks!

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[iGuest 3]

Dear what's your nameLook if i were Tyler hell yes i would be mad!!!! You don't go out with somebody that likes you and then (CHEAT) go out with somebody and KISS them!!!!!!I'm 12 too and i have a 13 year old boyfriend i lost him once wanting to go out with someone else and then found out how much i really care about him! Sometimes you have to think before you make a decision that can taunt you forever.....Now i have him back and this time i know how much he means to me Sincerely- P.S. good luck -Ginger- make the right decision