Religion Shouldn't Be Inherited? Yes? No? I donno.

[broflovski 0]

This is just a thought i had right now while thinking about a conversation i had with a friend over dinner last night. He said,

"religion shouldn't be inherited. no child should be enrolled into a religion at birth (ex. baptism) without their consent. it becomes a part of their identity, yet many don't receive any kind of real education about it throughout their life. it's taken for granted and essentially loses value. moreover, i think a greater problem lies in the fact that because they've been raised with that one belief alone, their openness to other beliefs may be limited because it contradicts the one that's already been forced upon them. if one chooses to accept a religion into their life, i think they should only do so after some education (not just academia) and real world experience. many religions have their own codes of conduct in regards to social interaction; they have their own interpretations of the true nature of civilization, its origins and the ultimate purpose in existing (assuming there is one), etc etc. shouldn't one actually know their world first before accepting those ideas, rather than accepting it at the stage of their life in which their intelligence and, moreover, cognitive abilities were at their lowest? of course it's impossible to discover everything here in a lifetime, but one should pursue to create some kind of foundation of knowledge before they make a real concrete decision to orient their life around one set of ideas, whether it be religion or other philosophy, etc etc. those who merely accept religion as something they've grown up with are essentially just signing a contract while blindfolded."

 

That's all. Your thoughts on this are more than welcome. I would appreciate if you would share your thoughts on this. So I could maybe stop thinking about this.

[Dragonfly 0]

I agree to disagree with your view. What parents impose on their children is what they think is right and as their parents this is the one right they have to teach their children about education as well as religion. However, when their children are grown up and can have mature decision it should be left to them which is quite a common case for Christians. If a Christian wants to adopt another religion as far as my knowledge is concerned they just give free will to their children to do so. I don't know much about other religion like Islam and Hinduism whether they allow their children to do the same freely or not. I heard that in Islam it is the toughest. That's my small take on this matter. Thanks.

[OCAC 0]

Lets take this apart...

 

religion shouldn't be inherited. no child should be enrolled into a religion at birth (ex. baptism) without their consent.

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This implies that baptism is an act solely done with and for the person being baptised. This ignores the fact that religious rituals, of which the baptism is one. HAve a meaning not just for the person immediately involved, but also for the relatives - parents. Very often a religious ceremony like a funeral is for those left behind and not simply for the person gone, or just born.

This also ignores the fact that IN a religious ceremony a religious act takes place. God accepts the Child and the parents celebrate this. God takes the dead person into heaven and the relatives celebrate this.

 

Consent: Tricky. Did you consent to the fact that you were born? Or died? That you are white or happy, that you are born in a slum in Washington DC, that you have red hair, or black, or none? What did you do, when your parents took you to the football game each weekend. Did you become a sport superstar, or did you hate it? Who chose your kindergarden and your primary school?

 

it becomes a part of their identity, yet many don't receive any kind of real education about it throughout their life. it's taken for granted

197033[/snapback]

I cannot see anything negative about taking something for granted - apart from the fact that lack of education is to be lamented and reveals a lack of curiosity and interest.

 

and essentially loses value.

197033[/snapback]

Now here I would strickly disgree. See my first point. Something does not loos value simply because the people involved don't know what they are doing. It might lose value FOR THEM. But that does not mean it looses value overall. I am also wary of the use of the term values here, but more to that later.

 

moreover, i think a greater problem lies in the fact that because they've been raised with that one belief alone, their openness to other beliefs may be limited because it contradicts the one that's already been forced upon them.

197033[/snapback]

Now this seem to be rather strange. The fact that you don;t know about something and have no relationship too - which the writer implies - makes more opposed against something else. If you don't know anything about what you are for, how does that make you more opposed? You either do know about what was forced on you, and the argument falls apart, or you don't know about what was forced on you, which makes it impossible for you to distinguis the other belief from the one forced on you, apart from the label attached. Example: You don't know that as a Christian you belief in the resurrection of Christ. Now a Muslim comes along and says, Jesus did not resurect, but he ascended straight into heaven. How are you to argue this, if you don't know anything about the Koran, the Bible, the Christian tradition? The only thing you can say is. He is a Muslim - he is wrong, but why you don't know, because of your lack of education. If you were educated, you could say: "Yes, I know the Koran claims that Jesus did not die on the Cross. But I believe the account as it is being described in the Bible. Jesus did die on the Cross. We have to agree to disagree here. Moreover I believe the greater importance of the Bible over the Koran and I cannot accept this interpretation of Jesus suffering simply because it is what the Koran says. It has a relevancy to me on the following........ What do you think about that?...... Aha.... Very interesting .... Hmm.... Good.... Still.... Thank you I learnd a lot about your faith and I hope you too."

 

if one chooses to accept a religion into their life, i think they should only do so after some education (not just academia) and real world experience. many religions have their own codes of conduct in regards to social interaction; they have their own interpretations of the true nature of civilization, its origins and the ultimate purpose in existing (assuming there is one), etc etc. shouldn't one actually know their world first before accepting those ideas, rather than accepting it at the stage of their life in which their intelligence and, moreover, cognitive abilities were at their lowest? of course it's impossible to discover everything here in a lifetime, but one should pursue to create some kind of foundation of knowledge before they make a real concrete decision to orient their life around one set of ideas, whether it be religion or other philosophy, etc etc. those who merely accept religion as something they've grown up with are essentially just signing a contract while blindfolded."

197033[/snapback]

Well I sort of agree with the poster here. Of course it would be good if a cognitive decision was a the start of all religious life. But it hardly ever is. I don't know anybody that said, My intellect says I have to become a Muslim, my reflection over the last ten years made me realise that only Krishna shows me the only true path, having learned about all world religions, compared their human right records, their attitude towards woman, drugs and spirituality, I have come to the conclusion that only as a Rastafarin I will truely become on with the Universe.

 

You see conversion does not work that way.

 

You want to marry someone and her family makes you convert to their religion becasue that is what they want and you are alright about it.

You go to a service and suddenly a feeling overcomes you that makes you feel relaxed, elated and joyous at the same time. And everytime you pray you have the feeling that your actions are not futile, but are carried not by you, but by your God.

 

That is more like how conversions take place. They are not rational decision but emotional ones. That does not mean that religion is only emotional and cannot be rational - far from it. But very often religious pracice need emotion to manifest itself.

 

Now the writer is rejecting being born into a religion. I simply cannot agree with him on that. In my opinion he oversimplyfies the complexities that is religious life, the social aspects and the cultural traditions that are important to ones identity.

[kasm 0]

This is just a thought i had right now while thinking about a conversation i had with a friend over dinner last night. He said,

"religion shouldn't be inherited. no child should be enrolled into a religion at birth (ex. baptism) without their consent.

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Your parents have chosen you to born, when to born, where you born, your name, your school etc etc.

 

Your parents have chosen to you your father or your mother, when they selected their partner or having sex.

 

Your parents chosen for you your nationality your mother-tongue.

 

You have inherited from your parents, your genes, color, shape, your blood category and many many from their features and charcterstics

 

The government and the laws recognized that and put them in the laws of custody, cultures, non-discrimination....independent person, driving age, election age, candidacy age,....

 

Your parents are responsible for your fault when you still dependent.

 

Your parent choose for you what they think is the best for you: your clothes, your school,, your food, your drink,.....

 

Then what the difference for the religions. They think you it is better to you their religion because they believe that they chooses the best. They think the values and commandment for you in their religion will be good for you.

 

You have the right when you become independent to change your name and your religion as well.

 

Imagine when your parents go to church or other religion temples, do you expect they will leave you home and seek baby-sitting?

 

Imagine when your parents and other relatives celebrate religion festival, how they isolate you from that?

[Wilson Cook 0]

I agree with the friend, religion should not be inherited. How many of you with inherited religions genuinely decided to look into each religion and question your own? It doesn't happen, except to few people who become enlightened alone or through life circumstance, because we grow up and live in the box that is labeled for us. My parents were strict believers in their religion, Islam, but they were against me believing in it until I knew about other religions first so that I could choose what was right. I was even put in a Catholic school for all of elementary and the rest of my education in private Christian schools. I was made to take classes in Judaism. I chose Islam myself, I am such a stronger believer in it because it wasnt inherited and taken for granted.

[matto 0]

I don't think it is bad for religion to be inherited, as long as the child in question is completely content and has had the chance to explore other religions as well. Parents should not push children into participating in religious activities they do not find meaningful.

[Nitefell 0]

I agree with your friends. A human beings we have the right to choose for our selves, freedom of hoice, right? Well if you force something, whether it is religion, or anything else, it almost brakes that right.

[pixieloo 0]

religion shouldn't be inheritedjust because your mom is catholic doesn't mean you're catholicyou have to really believe and have faith

[Jimmy 0]

Well I do Not want to disagree as I think You raised Some Good points, along with all the other replies too... interesting... Its not often I have the chance to ponder something properly. Thanks so much for that. Anyhow I was brought up to be christian... (well not exactly so I may disagree) Every weekend I would go to church just because my parents did...I really had no take in the say... anyway by going to church I actually believeed myself to be a christian for a very large part of my life... and to have something good to look forward too was immensly purposeful. Because of this I enjoyed sunday school and enjoyed the company of so many people who I could have fun around... This was followed by my involvement (now voluntary) in going to holidays at christian camps with good friends I had made from the church every week.

 

I now consider myself to be an athiest. I do not believe there is a god... perhaps there is but what I learnt from everything is that we're all going to hell as nobody's perfect. Might as well enjoy it whilst it lasts. Believe what you want to believe. I may have been lucky that My parents werent strict and forced me to do communion or religous acts or whatever... Just going to church changed the way I will behave for ever. In a Good Way. There were many times when I really had a huge sense of Adrenaline / belief or happiness / or just overall enjoyment of life when I felt that there was a huge presence there and this was due mostly to the friends I had developed, not because I was forced upon by the "christian beliefs" that I now do not take for anything. I will accept those that believe whatever they want to believe. That is their choice. But I do think that being brought up in a specific way of life to have a certain purpose and morals (as of any religion) is extremely beneficial, if not for bring religious, but for meeting people and making friends and just having a say in things rather than roaming around Slough with loads of Pike friends. (Apologies to whomever involved).

So To conclude, I think it is not right to just have one way or belief and yes it is perfectly fine for parents to do as they see fit and to involve you in a specific religion / watever it may be as even if you are forced to undertake the rituals etc. You do not have to think that you believe. You can think what you want to and also just use the oppertunity to meet and get a new perspective on life from some different people,whether they happen to be a suicide bomber of a black friend or just the "normal" guy from Klataboo. It helps change your character, I would say for the better. (I knew a guy called Josh who also was forced to come to church by his parents. we became good friends. It was good, we had some fun. Then he decided it wasn't for him and never turned up again in an act of rebellion.) Now he Does Roam Staines with his Pikey friends and he is happy doing what he enjoys. Good For Him) What is the point of a way of life if you don't enjoy it. Being forced to believe certain things can make you moe aware to the other perspectives or on the other hand can show you a way of life that you will enjoy and accept as a big part of your life. So I believe that no bad can come of it.)

[beeseven 0]

I skimmed the posts here and didn't see anything about this: Islam (pretty sure) and Anabaptism (Amish people, etc.) actually address this. These religions state that you're not actually a member unless you've chosen to be. For example, in Amish communities, once a child turns 18 he or she can go out into the rest of civilization for a period of time (I think a week) and see how he or she likes it. Then a choice is made, whether to stay with the family or to leave the community. The downside of leaving is that the family never speaks to the child again =/

[dark_drgn 0]

This is an extremely hot topic nowadays especially with the teenage rebellion and stuff like that. Religion should NOT be inherited because everyone has their own beliefs, but most people inherit their religion because of their parents which hold a great deal of influence over you.

[glamour_trash 0]

I am agnostic and basically I reckon religion is a load of rubbish (no offense), but I don't think there's anything wrong with being brought up with a certain religion, as long as parents are sensible about it and don't force their beliefs and let their children question these beliefs, if they wish and don't teach them that other religions are bad. I guess that would be hard if you believe in something so much, not to mention that organised religions are hypocritical and preach nothing but hate (just my opinion) so they tend to not be accepting of others who believe differently - an example being christians who assault pagans because they believe that they have a god given right. My parent's aren't religious, but my best friend comes from a Catholic family, went to a Catholic school and their beliefs were forced on her so much that she has now taken up Satanism.

Edited June 6, 2006 by glamour_trash (see edit history)

[kasm 0]

I am agnostic and basically I reckon religion is a load of rubbish (no offense), .....

glamour_trash,

 

Instead of using words rubbish and then apologised saying that was no offense, you can speak plainly and clean. You have no right to undergrade other people just because they believe another way than you. You can disagree or agree and say why that as the others do. This is the domacratic dissuction without it you could be prosecuted by the majority. Respect people who give you the right to express your opinion without insulting them that they do rubbish things.

[Galahad 0]

Let us distinguish two things: religion and belief... Religion is nothing more, than an organization, brought together by mutual interests (it's disputable what are those interests, most likely it's the money, and controll of the masses), whereas, belief is something one person believes in...In my oppinion, if someone choses to believe in God, they don't need to have church, or belong to Christianity, or Islam, or Hinduism, or any other... But long ago, someone figured, that using someones beliefs, he could controll huge masses, if he could only bring them together somehow.. So, Christianity was created... I believe there was someone named Jesus Christ, and probably the whole story is true, to certain degree... probably, that poor man did die on the cross... But I don't believe he was resurected, I believe that's when those in the shadows, begun their "propaganda"...From Christianity, there emergend dosens of smaller Christian religions, such as Orthodox, Catholic, Evangelist, Protestants, and many more... All essentialy the same, but with small differences... Why is that? Because, you can't controll the masses if they are content... You need them to argue, to look at those petty differences, and fight, to debate, to start wars over it, and so on... Only in that way, you can control people, by presenting them an invisible enemy, and enemy that doesn't exist, and keep them in fear, and keep them angry...Now, just to say again, this is not my rant about someones beliefs, this is my rant about religious organisations, and religion...We are born as individuals, right? And as such, we all have our own view of the things.... Often, our views are very similar to, or the same, as someone elses... But! We all have our brain, and our free will, to think what we want, to do as we want (as long as we don't commit any crimes), and to BELIEVE in what we want to... That means, that if my mother is an Orthodox Christian, and my father is a Catholic, I, by default should be what? Orthodox Catholic? Or something else? Or should I just be pulled into religion, of the "stronger" parent?Yes, it is true we weren't given the choice of parents, and we weren't given the choice of country to be born in, and the language we will understand... But we do have the free will to believe in what we want...Who is to say that God himself, wants ME, to believe exactly what I believe? What if I am the one he has the plan for? Who can say that? No one?So, my moto would be, "LIVE, AND LET LIVE", which could be extended with "BELIEVE, AND LET BELIEVE OR NOT BELIEVE"...When I meet someone, or see someone in the street, who is not white as I am... I beg your pardon, who is not caucassian as I am, but is of dark tan, or Asian, or Native American, I don't actualy see the color of their skin, and I don't see what they believe in... They are just another fellow human being, trying to live to her/his 80 years, or more, and die in peace, the way they want to... Who am I to forbid them to believe what they want to, or follow theyr religious customs?Or not to believe and not to follow theyr customs?We are all individuals, and in our own way, we are all unique... Everyone should respect other 6+ billion people on Earth...And to answer the question, I agree, religion should NOT be inherited...

[Madkat-Z 0]

I believe that at a young age you should take your parents religion until you are old enough to make a desision on your own. However, I do belive that by making you follow your parents religion may lead to brain washing by the parents of some childern. Trust me, with my religion is hit really hard by other religous groups (mostly Christans) who brain wash their kids into believe that my religion is "evil". I don't think parents should say to their kids that their religion is the only religion, but I think they should use their religion as an example at first and the let your child slowly start learning about other religious beliefs and eventually they will start to create their own beliefs and eventualy find their religion of choice (if there is one).