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  1. Daftpunk i understand what you are trying to say, but ill be straight up honest with you. I'm a Junior in highschool and these kids have been my friends since kindergarten. If it were that easy to walk away from them, i would have at the first signs of this... Scout, thanks for the advice man! What you've said has really got me thinking... I started this topic back in June i believe or maybe even july... But whats going on now is: most of them are talking to me again in person and corey is having little conversations with me through xbox live. It seems the majority of them still like me. I guess ill just see how it plays out from here... I look at it as, I have this current school year and then one more till i go off to college and basicly never have to see them again, I will of course keep ties with the ones that have stuck with me through thick and thin.If you have anymore to say I'd love to hear it. Anyway thanks for the Replys and advice, both Scout and Daftpunk.
  2. T84

    Memory Card Issue

    I tried this and the loading bar gets just about full and a pop comes up saying "Windows was not able to complete the format." It is a 1 GB sandisk memory card.
  3. Hey does anyone know how to photos off a memory card? The photos seem to be stuck on mine, i can't delete them on the phone and but it will let me delete them while it is plugged into the computer. When i delete them on the computer they are removed from the "photos" folder on my memory card, but when i put the memory card back into my phone or the computer they show up there... I can't add anything to the card either... Anyone know how to fix thisThe card is not in locked mode.
  4. O.o Freaky. A giant foot? I'd call taps. No joke. Heres a link http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/
  5. I am actually very happy with the laws that prohibit smoking in public places. You forget that second hand smoke hurts everyone around you. True you have a right to kill yourself (as mean as that sounds), but you have no right to in danger the lives of other people.
  6. I'm sorry, but I'll have to disagree with your statement that if you die in a dream, you die in real life. In several dreams I have been eaten by monsters, shot, etc. Although dreams have caused me to do some very strange things. Several times while I was sleeping I would just sit up in real life really fast and not be able to remember what i was dreaming about... Also on Christmas Eve when i was little, I had so much trouble sleeping because of the excitement. When i finally got to sleep, I had an experience like i described before, but what makes this unique is that i didn't just sit up quickly, I sat up so fast I flew forward and almost off my bed... Has anyone experienced this or something similar?
  7. Masturbation is perfectly normal. It not only feels good but it is good for your body and mind. Relieves the natural build up of chemicals in the body. DN the names of them but they are all associated with your id, aka sex,lust, and violence. Besides no guy likes a case of the blue balls.. but i dont know about women, probably relieves the same chemicals for them.
  8. First off I'm not familiar with any slang that could make the title co-inside with the discussion. I'm going to take a guess and assume that it was just to get attention. Assuming you want my opinion because you posted asking what should you do, here it is. I would get to a hospital right away and get checked out. Your heart's condition is not something to gamble with, it is better to know that it is ok, rather then assume it is ok.
  9. The Bouncing Souls.End of story.
  10. Thank you mikeyboy63! Finally someone replys. In this reply im not trying to question your opinion just have to a few questions to try and help me better understand your point... The girl i liked, her name was Megan, just to make my life easier typing this. I don't know what your definition of "hitting on" is but the only thing i really did when she had a BF was told her i liked her, that was in October. Then we basically continued our normal friendship until January when i basically said to myself, i can't do this anymore so i completely stopped talking to her, 100% no contact unless it was face to face because I didn't want to start an argument or something... I didn't talk to her until like march when she texted me and basically told me "I hate her because she didn't like me." I don't know what about that infuriated me but i really did, (please remember that this took place in march and that i stopped liking her after the first month of ignoring her), so I said i don't hate you. I forget exactly what she said after that but it led into like a hour long texting fight but thats long and forgotten by me and most likely by her... I do however talk to her now occasionally but we still aren't anywhere as close as to what we were... Do you think i should apologize and explain to her the reason for ignoring for so long, even though it was so long ago... or should i just forget that and move on? I laughed at the first part of that because we are both still minors and the cops were all over the place in our neighbor hood that night... I think your right about the second part i really think i should apoligize to corey for taking the phone away from him... I wasn't trying to change the way he is at all. I just thought it was the right thing to do at the time... Oh, and i don't even know the girl... she lives like 6 towns away... I recently got up the balls to ask Corey why he hated me, and he told me "Because you thought you were though *BLEEP* when you liked Megan and talked mad *BLEEP* about me" so i replied "Dude i know that and I still hate myself for t... I know I said *BLEEP* abiut you but i really didn't mean it." and i got no answer i staid "So that's it? You don't want to be friends anymore just because i went crazy for a few monthes? I mean we have been best friends for almost 6 years..." I said that on Wed, Jul 2, 10:45pm and haven't heard from him since... Now please don't misinterpret the "talk *BLEEP*" part of what we were saying, All of his friends and my old friends calling him stupid because he doesn't have the most common sense... I just pointed that out more then everyone else did which in turn made me look like an *BLEEP* for telling the not nice truth... now i realize that where it was the truth of not i shouldn't have been saying it... Anyone have any idea what to do from there? Once again thank you mikeyboy63 hope to hear back from you and other people soon...
  11. Thank you for replying,Does anyone have any idea as to what i should do? It's starting to get to me more and more, each time something good happens to lift my spirits, something to crush my spirit happens.... ;) :) :) :)
  12. I'm sorry i haven't replied magic, thank you for your advice. I've been busy unforunatly if you have read or will read my topic in Mental & Emotional Health you would find out what has been keeping me so ocuppied. So basicly heres what happened, during January one night, I just had enough and made a promise to myself not to talk to her for as long as it took, until i didn't like her anymore... But like most girls she didn't take being ignored to well, by ignored i mean like out of school, texts, IMs, myspace that kind of stuff. I still talked to her in school to not be rude... Well one thing led to another and i honest am not sure how we wound up like this but we really don't get along to well, we occasionally talk but nothing serious and not a long conversation.... Honestly I'm not sure if him happier not having her as a friend or having her as a friend... I really just can't have a good friendship with a girl anymore for fear that i might start to like them and end up in the same position with them... Thats why i generally don't talk to her... She does ask me alot why we don' talk anymore but i don't have the heart to tell her that its because I really don't want to like her again...
  13. Like the title and the description say, I'm losing all my friends... I have no idea what i did to them, no one can seem to give me an answer as to what i did or what i can do to try and fix it...So far what I've gathered is out of 5 suspected friends that hate me 1 is a definate person that hates me. I really can't understand how this happened i hung out with my friend alex every day during summer 07 EVERY SINGLE DAY I'm not exagerating, not only during summer break but basicly from June to November. Then Christmas time came... everything was going as normal, by that i mean all of my friends and I were hanging out on a regular basis. New Years came and most of my friends decided to drink and they didn't have a little, two of them Corey(My freind that i know hates me) and Steve. We were all at my friend Anthony's house and his parents were upstairs, so we tried to keep Corey and Steve's profile low. Then they pulled a whole thing of vodka out of a backpack and started to drink again. My friend Anthony and I decided that it was best if we got the alcohol away from them, so I took the bottle and ran out of Anthony's house to go to Steve's house which is 2 blocks away to hide it. So I'm sprinting to Steve's house on New Years Eve, in a T-shirt, through a muddy feild, with a gallon of vodka. When i notice my other friend Stevyns run up next to me and say "hurry he is coming!" I turned back to see my friend Corey chasing us down the street... So Stevyns and I get to Steve's before Corey and I hide the vodka. Corey comes running up the driveway and asks me where the vodka is, so i told him that we drank it all. He believed us, but then he pulled out his phone and started to call a girl that he liked which he had already made several drunken phone calls to, so i thought that it would best if i took the phone from him because I thought if he liked her that might ruin his chance of a relationship with her. So i grabbed his phone away, and he started slapping and biting me, while telling me that he wanted to talk to her. After a few minutes I finally gave in and let him call her, but before i let him talk i explained to her the situation, apoligized and she seemed pretty understanding. So after the phone call we walked back to anthony's house and both me and Anthony tried our best to restrain Corey and Steve because they were very rowty(i guess thats the best word...) So basicly were that story ties in is that it is to the best of my memory the last time i'd see Corey when he was actually nice to me. As for Alex everything was basicly normal until around the start of volleyball season at my school. Thats when he started ignoring my calls and flat out ignoring me when i tried to talk to him face to face... I've been freinds with Alex for 12 years and i can't understand why he would just not want to be my friend... I mean if i was doing something to make him mad why wouldn't he just tell me or something? Another on of my friends Bob seems to hate me and i'm pretty sure he was about to tell me one time but he stopped in the middle of a word and changed it... Truely only 3 of my friends actually seem to like me. Stevyns, Anthony, and Larry... Although Stevyns is really close friends to Corey... Stevyns realises that Corey hates me but told me that Corey never really gave him a reason as to why he hated me... Larry on the other hand, Anthony's twin brother seems to be drifting away from me, I really don't know how to explain it but it just seems that I'm losing him as a friend... Last but not least there is Anthony... Anthony... i don't even know how to set into words what he has done for me... he always seems to have my back and be there when I need him... iI feel horrible because i keep pressuring him to try and find out why they hate me because he sees or talks to Alex, Larry, Corey, Steve, and Bob everyday...Honestly, I have no idea what to do... I'm so depressed i dont want to go to sleep at night because i know that i'm just going to wake up in the morning and sit at home alone all day...I really need any and all advice that you can give me, I have no idea what to do... If you didn't understand something in there just ask me and i'll try my best to explain clearer... I truely thank anyone that read that even if they don't reply but to those of you that do reply with advice or anything i'm truely indebted to you...
  14. Thanks for the advice from everyone.Dcshaw.en, I see were your coming from but would it really be a constant bother to her that I hate her boyfriend because she knew even before she started talking to him that i hated him? Also even if i somehow manage to get over her, I'm not going to stop hating her boyfriend.... Also, the problem with not contacting her is that we have 2 classes every day together (1 with her boyfriend too....and they sit next to each other... >.>)
  15. Hey Xisto peoples,Sorry i never bring any good news....but another problem(if you can call it that) has come up....As you know for the past like 4 monthes I've been in love with this girl who is one of my best friends, but she has a boyfriend. And it kills me to see her and her boyfriend talking, her talking about him, and like all other girls the date he asked her out is everywhere(myspace, aim profile, etc)....Its been hard to hang in there and be her friend and all but i dont know how much more i can take of this... she knows i hate him and how i feel about her and all that stuff.... but she told me just to get over her and that i was wasting my time because she isn't single. I don't know what to do at this point...I think it would be best for us not be friends anymore....but i don't know if thats best or not....(i know i just controdicted myself)....her grandma also passed away at the end of December and i dont want her to be hurt anymore....but like i said its killing me inside... She says we are best friends but I havent hung out with her since early december...and it seems alot of the time she talks to me on aim at night she wants something (although we do talk every night)....today i ignored her IMs and texts cus i have no idea what to do anymore....please help im desperate
  16. hey guys,havent been on in a while, sorry. Alot has happened with me and stuff but im trying to keep this post short so im not going into any of it at the moment. The short story is the girl i love's grandmother just passed away ...she was very close to her grandmother and i need some ideas on how to confurt her. I really dont know what to do at this point.PLEASE reply with any ideas. Thanks for reading, and replying.
  17. If you are so smart maybe you should stop with the insults and help me with an alternative! And yes i do know what commitment it because i have been committed to her since the day i realized i loved her, which was before her *bottom* of a boyfriend came into the picture. I'm not going to say I'm not going to be the reason why they break up because i probally am, he always has an insult for me whenever i hang out with her and she won't take them and they cause arguements between them. So would it really be my fault if they broke up because he is constantly insulting me?
  18. I understand what ur saying but all i did was sit next to her and she put the pillow on my lap and put her head down. Now im not lieing i have strong feelings for her and she knows it. I dont understand what you mean by manipulating tho. If she were to break up with her boyfriend and liked me i would ask her out so its not like im someone she cant have at all. I don't know what you think i was supposed to do tho, because if i was like get off me she would think i didnt have feelings for her anymore but i still do. If she breaks up with him i dont think it is going to be directly because of me. He is a "very strong flrter" so to speak. Like pushing her into walls in the hallway while they are walking together (....i dont get that), and asking her why she is at his reffing joke. While on the other hand im completely different, i treat her with respect and dont force her into anything but i do flirt with her and bust her chops. The only thing that is probally bad that i did is when we were going to sleep not getting up and finding somewere else to sleep but it wasnt my idea to share a pillow and blanket and she slept facing me.
  19. i see you point but i didnt have stealing her away in mind, she put her head on my lap and she wanted to sleep next to me...how does that make me scum? She knows i like her but im not the kind of person to try and steal someone's girl friend and she knows that. If you also talking about the hug, i hug her all the time and i did before they were going out...
  20. Hey guys, Haven't reall been posting much lately because things have been crazy with school/soccer/ and of course the girl i like. =D So anyway here is an update to my story...Yesterday i had a Christmas party at my house and all my freinds came over and of couse the girl i like because we are best friends. The party was great we all had alot of laughs at jokes and stuff alot of them coming from me. Then after the party we all went to my friends house and slept over (9 kids sleeping over a house lol) we all hung out and watched movies. The girl i like and me were sitting next to each other and i had a pillow on my lap and she was resting her head =D for like 4 hours and we were talking and stuff. Then between 4-5 am we decided to call it a night execpt my 2 freinds rob and alec didnt wanna go to sleep and they were annoying us all. Now im not one to get mad easily BUT me and the girl i like were lieing on the couch next to each other, on the same pillow and under the same blanket facing each other. Then i was gunna attempt for a laughing down hug or w.e. u wanna call it, nothing mroe then that(like i wasnt making a move on her i just wanted a hug) but alec had to put his leggs up on her legs even tho he was laying on the floor. That really pissed me off but...yeah i got my hug later on =D....ok this were it starts to go kinda down hill...her boyfriend texted her cus he knew she was sleeping over and i was there and she told him that we were sharing a blanket and pillow...and he like in my opinion "flipped out" and they had a fight while they were txting and ...yeah but i had a great night sleeping right next to her but she lied about what her boyfriend said because i know i shouldnt have, but i looked at her inbox txts when she was fooling around on my phone and she let me see hers...Any comments? Id like to know if anything stands out to you as good/bad. ALSO: The girl i like is in constant agruements with a girl we go to high school and the girl she is having the fight with took a cheap shot at me because i stood up for the girl i like and she said "she doesnt like you, thats why she choose anthony over you" but before i even had time to post my own msg to that the girl i like posted that she never said she wouldnt go out with me its that im an awesome friend and we are both happy that way.And now im #1 on the girl i likes top =D and there is a paragraph about me on her myspace saying how great i am and how i always have her back =D
  21. Update: I made 5 goals for myself and i told her them because she wanted to know what they were and they are: #1 not to lose her friendship no matter what #2 for my friend who is and has been by my side since this started to "go out" with the girl he has feelings for #3 to strengthen my soccer skills #4 to see my friends cousin that went back to europe again #5 to keep my promises to all my friends she said that it is a good list of goals for me but that #1 is already done because she promises she isnt going anywere thanks thatguy93 for reading what ive posted it means alot to me but thanks for the feedback everyone its giving me ideas on what to expect in the future and im trying my best to hang in there, but still inviting her to do stuff like before(although im getting alot more "i cants" and "i have plans" ) if anyone else has any input please continue to add
  22. ok so yeah if you have read my other topics you now i love this girl who is one of my close friends but she is going with this guy i hate...my one friend asked her what she saw in him and she said that he is the only one that treats her like a girl, like she is supposed to be treated, he is nice, funny and cares about her. This deeply hurt me :'( and to add to it, she told my friend that she wasnt going to even hang out with us because me and all my friends hate her boyfriend...so i went home and IMed her and asked her in the exact way my friend did and she gave me the same answer and then asked me why it bothered me that they were together and i said that i hated him because of past issues which is true and she had known this before she even started talking to him(which was like litterally a week before he asked her out). So then she was mad at me and we went our separate ways for the night and the next night i IMed her and asked her if she was still mad at me and she said alittle so i asked what i could do to make it up to her and basicly i told her EVERYTHING and she said she "loved me like a brother but even if we had something it wouldnt be worth our friendship." i agreed with her and she said she wasnt mad anymore. I dont know if it is just me but she kinda acts like she is mad at me and doesnt want to be around me but will still talk to me on the computer... its been 8 days since i told her everything and she is still acting weird...and honestly i have no idea what to do....basicly everytime she gets a myspace picture i tell her she is beautiful and she sent me a picture of her trying on a dress that she wanted to get and i told her she was gorgous and that makes me feel great that i can tell her all the stuff that i want to, but at the same time the constant AIM away messages saying "i love my boyfreind" make me feel absolutly miserable...ive started to notice that im having alot of mood swings and the smallest things like someone bumping into my chair can make me so mad...i have no idea what to do at this point... the only options i can see are just try and stay away from her which is going to be extremely hard considering we have 2 classes together and i love talking to her but even if i can do this i risk us drifting apart or i can try and wait it out but every week just explode and go off on someone... PLEEEEEEEEEASE HELP
  23. Thank you but her and my best friend just had a HUGE fight and she said she wont be hangout with us for a "long long time" while he is with us. Even past that i really dont know what words to use other then the 3 in my head "i love you." but im ok with using that i guess. My other probelm is i don't have good judgement when it comes to choosing a time.
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