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Autumn

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  1. I've recently fallen inlove with DreamWeaver. Sure, it's not 100% automated, but it's an awesome tool. My favorite part of it is when you're editting tags, it'll give you a list of options from the HTML Library. Atleast DreamWeaver 8 does. Not so sure about the earlier versions.To design, I use Photoshop CS2 (9.0). Coding, I use DreamWeaver.I couldn't be happier with either of those programs. Both are so user friendly and so powerful.Both are highly recommended.
  2. This is a pretty cool idea.I'm sure this will bring a fair amount of traffic to Xisto once the word gets out.250 credits? That's not a whole lot. Another 250 to renew? Make one post per day and you're pretty much set.Great idea guys.
  3. It was mentioned that giving up the physical part of a relationship (hugs, kisses, etc..) is hard and makes it awkward to be around the person. I can for sure say that this is true. It has happened to me before where we were just friends and the girl and I had become physically involved. Never sex, but she had the most addicting hugs and kisses. One day, all of it was taken away and I couldn't help but be astounded. It made being around her weird and everytime I was around her I wanted to do nothing but kiss her.Her and I are well past that part of the friendship. We have gotten back into cuddling and as of VERY recently we shared a kiss again. It's been an exhausting process.The good part about all of this though, is that I know that the physical part can be taken away and our friendship will be as strong as ever. And infact, we've discussed dating, but she's afraid of commitment. I know it's not just me, because she has told me she likes me and I've told her that I like her. But I think the more I show her myself as a person, the more her fear is breaking.So, you can see from my example that, infact, taking away the physical once it's been given is a hard and torturous process. But, if you love the person, you'll do what it takes to be around them. Even if it means giving up something you've grown fond of.
  4. Love is an emotion, therefor it has nothing to do with the physical: appearance, contact, material items, etc...In a relationship you develop a trust for the person you're with. Trust is what allows the physical aspect to happen. You wouldn't let a stranger touch you, because you don't know them, so you can't trust them. The person you're with you do trust and you allow to them to touch you if they please.In most times, a love leads to an ultimate trust which is what gets people confused. If love is trust, why can't love be physical? Because if you love the person and you know things in the relationship need to stop (too much, too fast) than the love for that person would be more than the lust for that person. No matter how much you trust the person. That might sound a bit confusing but I'm sure after you read that a few times, you'll get it.
  5. Girls like a guy that's outgoing. No girl wants a guy that shelters himself from the rest of the world and isn't able to have fun.Physical attributes? Girls love a guys eyes and arms. She loves his eyes because they're a gateway to his soul, and when she looks into them she's able to see a lot of what the body won't tell you. If you look at a persons eyes you'll be able to see quite a bit about them. They tell a whole life's story.She also likes his arms because in them she can feel safe from everyone and everything, invincible really; she can find warmth, trust, love, compassion, clairity. This isn't to say you need to go and work out and get bigger arms so a girl will feel "more safe" than she already is. If she likes you, you're already there.However, a lot of girls don't care too much for the exterior. Sure, he has to be atleast somewhat good looking but what really gets a girl is the interior. Kindness, truthfulness, good character. All those things come into play. When you want to do something for her, do it the BEST you can. Never give her anything less than your best. When she cries, be there for her. ALWAYS. Sacrifice for her: if her birthday's coming up and she said she wanted an 30gb iPod Video for so long, and you have one but you just lost your job and can't afford one in time, give her yours. Yeah, that's exactly what I did for my girl. She didn't ask me for one, she had just mentioned that she wanted one a few months before and I planned to get her one. I lost my job, but I gave her mine. Sacrifice. You do what EVER you can for her.I've covered physical and emotional attributes. One thing I can advise against is being dramatic. If you tell her not to tell someone something, and you find out she does, don't flip out. Don't fight. Talk to her normally, asking her why she FELT she NEEDED to. Maybe she was concerned for YOUR wellbeing. You should appreciate that.Hope this helps.
  6. Haha, that was funny. Anyhow... If you don't want to make a fool of yourself, and you're not sure if she likes you, the best way to find out is random chitchat. Not too much to start with. Don't stalk and offer to call her. DON'T. Just talk to her on occassion when you can. Work your way up. If she doesn't like you now, give her a reason to by the time you ask her if she does or not. That's all you can do. There's no direct way to know without hearing it from the person themself.
  7. I prefer slide-open phones. The LG8500 (Chocolate) has an automatic keylock when the phone is closed or when you're in a call.I used to have a flip-open phone, but I began to notice little things going wrong with it, all directly related to the wiring that's inside the hinge themselves.It's personal preference. Each has it's own advantages and disadvantages, but for me, I'll take a slide-open over a flip-open anyday.
  8. Well, I'm in Canada. Ontario, to be exact. Our schooling system is really good, I guess. I'm a returning grade 12 student. We only have grade 9 through 12 in our highschool system. I graduated and went back for an extra year. More credits, higher grades.The positive side to the OSSA (Ontario Secondary Schools Act) is that they try to be as helpful as they can. Every student, no matter of race, religion, etc... has an equal opportunity to speak with someone about their highschool career and their success in the course(s) they're taking.A lot of the teaching methods are instructional and demonstrative. As highschool students we get a fair bit of hands on experience in classes Science, etc...So, I guess with tha being said, highschool where I live is really good.
  9. From how it looks, there's a chance he may be into his work. Some people use work as a form of escape. Maybe he's going through tough times right now. Not necesarily with you, but that's when you have to ask him how his day was and tell him that you love him, etc...Honestly, if he's losing interest in you because you aren't having sex with him, than, sad to say, he doesn't love you. He's using you. I know it sucks to admit that but it's true. The truth is always the hardest to admit.There's going to be a time when you're not going to want to put up with it anymore and you'll try to hurt him the way he's hurt you. All I can say is that it's not the right way to solve it. If this relationship isn't going anywhere, end it. Period.People do change. The person you're dating one day might not be the same person the next. It all depends on how they let the world around them influence them. It's a cruel fact of life, and it does happen and it does hurt. No one wants to go into a relationship thinking the worst, but sometimes you have to realise that life happens, whether you like it or not.I wish you the best in your situation.
  10. This is mostly textbook behavior.You guys have gotten to a point in the relationship where things are becoming very serious very fast. She's over-analyzing everything from her perspective; as she sees it. She's one of those girls that don't make any decision right off the start. Most of the time she has to think things through 7 or 8 times before she can make an assumptious conclusion.The best thing for you to do, I'd say, is to just give her time. While you're giving her time, though, it's important to show her that you feel no less for her now then you did last week, when you two were still dating. Tell her you still love her, as often as possible and just tell her that everything will play out fine. Assure her that you feel this is the right thing. Don't take it too far though. There's a limit between being desperate for her to come back, and you stalking her. It's a fine line that most people don't realise they're crossing.All that's left to say is that you need to be there for her, even if she doesn't come back to you right away. This isn't so much of a break-up, I think, as it is a time for her to collect her thoughts. Girls are emotional, most of the time.I hope everything works out for you. No one wants to be alone, and no one wants to accept the fact that they invested 3 years into something that's no longer.Again, give her her space when she wants it, but always let her know you still care. Always let her know.
  11. One thing I can say is that if you don't have time to talk to her right now, don't bother with her at all. Girls take more time from your life when you're in a relationship. They also take a lot of money. I hope you have a good allowance.As everyone else said, don't change who you are. If she's the one for you, she'll be more than willing to cope with the fact that you're not a jock, etc.. If she's not willing to do that, than forget about her. Eventually, when you least expect it, there'll be some girl that will love the fact that you're not all into sports and such. There's someone out there for everyone, so don't change who you are, especially for a girl.You say you're a 'nerd'. If you two can't hang out and just have fun; play a bit of Halo against eachother or something along those lines, you might want to reconsider your options. Trust me, the girl I've taken an interest comes over sometimes and we just sit there for an hour or so playing Halo 2 online against other people. She knows she's bad at it, but she enjoys it all the same. Does this make her a nerd, or ugly? No, she's just willing to do what I like doing sometimes. I'll sit through chick-flicks for her, and she'll do something I like to do, like play Halo or play fight. Oh, girls love play fighting.So yeah, there's a brief explaination of girls for you. Take what you can from it, because it's accurate. Don't change who you are, compensate for eachother.
  12. If this is still going on, it's quite obvious that it wasn't meant to be in the first place.You're still young and have your whole life ahead of you. You're bound to find someone sooner or later. If you just don't look for it, it usually comes faster. It's also more exciting because it catches you off guard.Everyone loves that "Butterflies" feeling.It's better to have loved, and lost, than never to have loved at all.That saying is true and best to live by it. You'll get over this. You'll pull through.
  13. Congrats dude.One thing me and my bestfriend (it's complicated) do is sit in the parking lot at my apartment and leave the car on. We go into the back seat and just cuddle. The backend of the parking lot of always deserted, so it's nice and quiet. That's when people are home. When you're driving, hold her hand, even if you drive standard, let her help you shift.Whenever you two are alone, let her know you love her. Don't kiss her lips, kiss her forehead and play with her hair. Rub her shoulder. Make her feel as close to you as possible.However, don't get possessive of her. Let her have her space when she wants it. If you don't want to lose what you have right now, trust me on this.
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