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Ok all so i did ask him what is going on. He said that he is just really focusing on work right now he wants to make as much money as he can and that sex is just not on the top of his mind right now and that he is not with anyone else and that he wouldn't cheat on me. Can someone be so into work that that is all he really is focusong on? I am a really hard person to win my trust over so i always think the worst of things and alot of the times it back fires into my face. I just dont want to lose him and i want to do whatever to make him happy and our family happy. And yes i have changed since we first got together so that could be part of it to i am not as small as i once was but anyone elses thoughts would be great. Thanks

So i have been dating this guy for 1yr and 5months and when we first got together we used to have sex all the time. But id say for the the last 8 or 9 months its like he could careless if we have sex or not. Like right now we haven't had sex in almost three weeks. He does have a job that is stress full and has long hours and we don't have the same days off. He says hes just not that sexual of a person and its not the most important thing to him. Well the first thing that comes to my mind is he must be cheating. We live together and i know what hes doing all the time its not like he spends any less time with me or the kids we just don't ever have sex. Is this normal or is it more like hes cheating on me? I just want some guys or other females point of views what should i do or think about this?Thanks all