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  1. This is really, really cute . I think it's fairly accurate, actually. The roles at least apply entertainment-wise. (I'd say the messages are dead-on to what these gestures mean on T.V. )
  2. Midnightvamp is right, anybody would like to hear compliments, right? Besides, a lot of girls don't always feel themselves like they're beautiful so if you think so, you should tell her! (Well, maybe not EXACTLY like that though, I mean, I'd be a little weirded out if someone I barely knew suddenly told me something like that. I would start with little compliments.)Rather than just tell her you like her, if you two don't know each other so well yet, have a few conversations with her, flirt a bit, maybe slide in a few of those compliments (not all in the same conversation though!!!). You could also find some common friends and go out in a big group, so that you can get to know each other more outside of school. This way, I think she'll be more open to the idea of dating you. Go to a movie or something with several other people, and sit next to her so that you can talk before and after the movie. I've seen a lot of friends get together this way. It's like an indirect date?I'm sixteen myself, and I admit that some part of me is still attracted to arrogant, good-looking jerks (I don't know what it is, but I know I'm not the only one.) The thing is, even if the attraction is there, you don't see many arrogant, good-looking jerks in functional, long-standing relationships, do you? Girls like to flirt with them, maybe even go out with them for a while, but in the end it's usually the sweet guys you can talk to that get the girls. If you want, you could always go half-way, and that'd be alright. Just be your usual studious-self but every once in a while step out of your boundaries. Girls will like that, someone they can talk to and have a good time with. Remember that looks don't matter so much. Hygienic, good-smelling and romantic boys who write songs are equaly attractive. Oh yeah, and if a girl is shy, timid, or a little old fashioned, the girl won't make the first move. (Some girls will make the first move though, we're all different,) Making the first move yourself is a good way to step out of your boundaries, so if you feel the time is right, be confident and ask her out.Good luck,
  3. I find that I agree with most of this for sure. As far as looks go, they really don't always matter, (as long as there is good hygiene ) I don't think all guys are only focused on looks either though.
  4. I'm shy about this kind of stuff myself, so probably just casually saying you "kind of like her" a year ago will make her unsure of how to react. She probably didn't know how serious you were about it, if that meant you'd want to go out with her, or if you wanted to know her feelings about you. Since it's been a year that you've been good friends, I doubt she'll see you as a potential boyfriend right now. Maybe when you told her you kind of liked her a year ago something might have sparked, but after nothing more on the subject since, she's probably given up on the idea. My suggestion is, flirt with her a bit (friendly flirting, though,) and see if she flirts back. If you feel chemistry with her, chances are she can feel it too and when you're ready, ask her out properly, so that this time you'll get a proper answer and no matter which way it goes, things will be settled and you can either a), move on, or b ), come out of it with a girlfriend
  5. Okay, so, like someone already said, it seems to me like it's more a case of infatuation than love. Then again, no one knows better than you so I think you should just think it through some more and decide for yourself whether or not you love her. If you do decide that you really do love her, don't go and say exactly that, because it will probably scare her off. I wouldn't try and give her your number either, unless she asks for it. If you two still talk online, I would just wait it out and continue on like that, talking to her casually and over time you can both get a little more flirty. Don't push too hard, it might turn out that you two just don't have the right chemistry and there really isn't much you can do about that. To sum it up: Take it slow, don't push, don't let jealousy of her friendship with the other guy get the better of you, and keep an open mind to other girls whom you might share better chemistry with.
  6. That's hilarious! Though I'm a girl and I hate talking on the phone =P Oh, and of course, who's to say that exercising some personal hygene doesn't make a girl happy? Everything else is true though...
  7. I'm not such a big fan of comedy movies, since I'm not one of those people who laughes when someone accidently eats/drinks something they shouldn't have, or gets insanely drunk and embarasses themselves, to name a few. My favourite movies are deffinitly Kill Bill vol. 1, Charlie And The Chocolate Factory (both versions), movies by Miyazaki such as Spirited Away, Howls Moving Castle, etc., The Nightmare before Christmas and Monster House. Oh yeah, and Hercules. Of course, any movie is my favourite when I'm watching it. Even if it is only because it's giving me something to make fun of =)
  8. I first got into html when I was eleven, so it took me about a month or something to be able to make a decent website layout. A long time, I guess, though back then I didn't really have the patience. It really depends on the person, I think, since I know people who took a web design class for four months and still couldn't really grasp the concept of html. If you keep at it and are generally a fast learner it can take you anywhere from two days to a week, I'd say.Html isn't very good by itself though, so I suggest that you also take the time to learn some css and maybe even a little bit of php.
  9. I came across this a couple weeks ago, and was quite pleased. It's a lot easier than downloading the plugin, and you can make any picture you want into a favicon in only seconds, free of charge. http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/ I think you can actually MAKE them there too, as well as uploading them XD
  10. Haha, if I were that girls parent I think I would kill him for writing such an inconsiderate letter to my daughter, even if I was glad that they broke up =/I think it was a really sweet thing to do on the guys part though, and if I were his girlfriend I would be both very touched and amused at his efforts.
  11. I'm assuming that you know for certain that she's single, so I have to say, go for it. You miss every shot you don't take. You'll probably regret it if you don't at least try, only this time around do it right, because last time I think you went about it the wrong way.First of all, I wasn't there so I can't say for sure, but judging by how little confidence you seem to have, and her reaction, you were probably too quiet. If you weren't too quiet, you were deffinitly at the wrong place and the wrong time anyway. Heck, maybe she thought you were talking to someone else. If the girl doesn't know you very well, then she deffinitly won't be expecting you to ask her out. I remember once when a guy I barely knew was giving me love notes for nearly half a year and I didn't even notice what these little shreds of paper I was finding everywhere were. I felt horrible when I finally realized they were for me, but things would have gone better if he'd just come up to me, looked me in the eye and told me.I suggest that you do that, find a good time, like walking together after school like someone has suggested, or even just call her. Either way, make sure she's listening. It's also a good idea for her to have a vague idea that you like her before hand. That way it won't come completely out of the blue and she can take you seriously. You can do this by flirting with her a little bit. Give it a little more time, talk to her some more and your feelings will come across naturally. You might want to know each other a bit better anyway, because a date between two almost-strangers could be...awkward.When you're ready just go for it. The worst thing that could happen would be if she says no, and knowing is better than not knowing. If she does say no, don't let it make you feel bad about yourself and stop you from having a good homecoming with someone else. Anyway, I wish you luck and no matter what happens, I wish you a happy homecoming.
  12. Well said. I agree, dating do's and dont's can be completely different depending on the people on the date. Plus, if it's a first date and there's no chemistry then no ammount of "do's & dont's" is going to change anything. Of course, I do believe that there are some things that aren't and never will be okay to do on a date. Like talk about an ex. It seems almost like common sense, but believe it or not, a lot of people do it. Or talking about yourself the WHOLE time, cutting off your partner. Or winking/flirting with the waiter/waitress. But again, these are all common sense and if you need a list of do's or dont's to tell you that it's wrong, then maybe you're just not ready for the dating world yet =P.
  13. I like both, but I'm picky about which songs I'll listen to. Just because I like rap doesn't mean I'll like every rap song, and the same goes for rock. Plus, there aren't many rap artists out there who I'm fond of. Sure, they can rap just fine, but there songs lack any good content and their music videos are boring.
  14. Ah, Sudoku. I know it well Every Saturday morning I sit down with a bowl of cornflakes and do one until someone else wakes up. If it's hard enough, I'll scribble down possibilities all over another page of the newspaper I'm not interested in and it annoys everyone in my family to tears.It seems to have gotten pretty big in the past year or two, I hear it mentioned everywhere and my bookstore has an entire shelf dedicated Sudoku. If you're ever bored and want to do one, just search "Sudoku" on google image search, pick one and paste it into ms paint. Then sudoku away! You can even erase easily.
  15. Haha, I woke up this morning at what would have been around 7:30 and I started to get up when the radio reminded me that it was only 6:45 :lol:I was really greatful to be able to lie back down again onto my soft, fluffy pillow =DOh, but how come Saskatchewan, Canada doesn't have daylight savings time? I heard this this morning and I was curious.
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