An Interesting Custom In A Community.

[contactskn 2]

Here there is a community in which like others if yourspouse is no more then you are allowed to marry for the second time but onlywith a person who should be a case similar to you that if the person is not yetmarried then you are not allowed to marry her. In other words if two personwants to marry each other then they should be either never married or both ofthem should be married at least once before. ?Isn’t it a peculiar custom in this community.But its really true. Now the main interesting concept is recently a personstarted loving a lady whose husband was dead and she was alone and both of themdecided to marry each other. But the problem was the boy was never married andthe lady was married once. In such a condition according to the customs of thiscommunity it was not possible for them to marry each other. Now in such acomplicated situation they from a reliable source came to know that there is aperson in the near by village who has three daughters and if you will pay himsome amount he will allow you to marry any one of his daughter just forformality. When they came to know about this person they went to this villageand met that person and they found that he was really doing this for some yearsnow just for money. So that boy gave the required money to this man and marriedone of his daughter just for formality. In this way now this person was alsomarried for once. And according to their customs now both of them were marriedonce. Now they can marry each other. They did so. And are happy living thereafter.

[anwiii 17]

yea, that's nice. we here in the states have a formality. outsiders don't give to live here without a green card unless you are married to a united states citizen. so what do people do? they accept money to bring people over to marry them. there are ohter scams out there. that's why there is still slavery in this world. it's just on the black market.....but, when there is a need for anyone, i am sure some guy out there will fullfill it.....no matter what the cost.marriage is sacred though and to lie about something sacred is a sin in my book. but....i guess love is stronger than any personal sin one can make while love is still just an emotion....

[sheepdog 10]

I find it rather sad that something that is so sacred is more and more becoming just something else to twist to fit our twisted logic and morals. Marriage is the basis for our society and the strength of our communities and our country. Marriage and raising children in a safe and balanced and secure home should be the pillars of our strength.