gaspe86

Hi all,
I have a big question I need to sort out... What is considered gay?

I have been asking myself this for ages, am I, or aren't I?

Ok I like to watch gay porn (ok I hope noone I know is reading this , is it possible to have this topic hidden after its been answered ??? just so noone reads it who knows me and spreads rumours) but the thing is, I only like it if its only 1 person... I find the whole idea of two guys putting their thingy up other peoples you-know-what to be revolting... but I get turned on by boys with fit hot bodies... and kissing as well, but the thing is, I have no personal desire to have gay sex with anyboy and if a boy tried to kiss me I would run and hide...

I find chicks hot, I used to have a girlfriend a few years ago but I went to high school and haven't contacted her since (I don't think it was considered girlfriend status as we never went out, never kissed and only touched each other like, what? once, which was a hug I think when she was upset). But I never warm up at all to porn with chicks in it, and don't get sexually stimulated by the sight of one... but I do find them 'hot'...

Am I gay? Am I straight? Or am I bi (!!!!!!!). I don't really consider myself gay or bi, I am unsure! HELP!

It is wierd... I can stand the sight of a penis, but I cannot stand the sight of a vagina... I am one mixed up person.

Can anyone help? PLEASE? This is one confused 16 year old here

First of all what do you mean by liking it when it is only one person? Do you mean its a man masturbating or what ever he decides to do to himself in a sexual way. The fact that you get turned on with a male figure excludes the being straight out of the map... you are either bi or gay.... but if you do not get turned on my women... my friend you are closer to being gay then being bisexual. A 16 year old not being able to withstand a vagina? Hell, that has homosexuality all over it.

WOW!!!! Calling Obama a Baby Killer for supporting a possible law? Don't think so... guess not a supporter of Obama? Quite the opposite, you're an opposer of Obama and instead of pointing out how "your" candidate is better you attack the competition, typical. Just as almost on every campaign, both candidates end up so attack that past the elections we all know what bs president we have. Well, on the issue, I believe everyone has the right to choose whether they want to continue through a pregnancy or not.

As many of you are aware, Xisto migrated it servers two days ago and left everyone who did not get an email about this server migration in the dark. Let me apologize for the inconvenience this might have had on everyone, both paid and free hosting customers. I know many support tickets were sent about this and since many were about hosting being down not all of them were replied to because information about this would be posted at a later time.
The reason why the servers where change because the old datacenters were suffering severe power outages because it was unable to handle the current load Xisto has right now. So two days ago it was decided to move everything to these new data centers. This meant all the resources Xisto had were needed in order to move everything in an organized and safe manner so no data could be lost during this migration.

That is one of the reasons why no one on Xisto was informed about what was going on because the admins, support and tech staff was concentrating on making this server migration as efficient and fast as possible. Once we were able to move most of the servers over I started to send out emails to those with accounts in Xisto - Web Hosting and keeping everyone constantly updated on what was going on at that time.

It was supposed to take six to eight hours including the DNS propagation, changing IP addresses and reconfiguring the network. However, nothing is perfect, and many delays have made this process longer then it should have.

Due to the fact that websites would be down on all the servers it was necessary to post the news on the Xisto - Support website, since it wouldnt be suffering any downtime during this migration because the server was already moved over that he support page was on. I also would like to thank saxsux for posting a link to this server migration. Also because of this server migration we did not know when Xisto would be up again, and we knew questions would come up immediately the moment forum was online again.
I am sorry about the downtime, but currently the sites are down due to some technical reason. I thank you for your patience and cooperation.
Truefusion is correct, generally clients prefer confirming the news they read by submitting a ticket so that they know what they are exactly looking into. Very few clients use the forums to find current news about Xisto - Web Hosting updates and maintenance and rely on the Xisto - Support website to keep them updated.
We do not expect nor ask you to visit xisto before you edit your pages, I know it can be tiresome but there is an option where you can subscribe to the news. We put up only important news so you do not have to worry about spam.

That is why there is support website so any member who has questions could send in a support ticket or talk to support through live chat as well. Remember a moderator is job is to inform members as best they can when an admin is not available, and when OpaQue has the chance he will make a statement about the server migration.
We realized that the issue was serious when we noticed the VPSs' accounts were suffering severe downtime, and so every server, VPS accounts, dedicated IPs and owner IPs had to be change and thus another reason for the delay in informing everyone.

That is why a server migration takes time so no data would be lost in the transfer, and thus the reason for patience while the bugs are being fixed.
http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/ is a server where paid clients are hosted, and so free hosting clients will not be able sign in there and that you try not to attempt to login into others servers except for what your hosting accounts are on.

So in order to end anymore topics and posts related to this situation I asked that you bookmark this link and check it periodically until an announcement is made to everyone that all the problems are fixed.

https://support.xisto.com/index.php?_m=news&_a=view

Any doubts, queries or complaints should be strictly sent to the ticket system and not to any one's pm boxes or email addresses.

Thank you

Thanks for taking your time to informing us of the matter, here in the Support Forum for all Xisto accounts. It's a bit late, but thanks a lot, it is some consolation to finally know whats going on with the servers. As some say above, it would have been more appreciated if this memo had been posted here in Xisto before the whole migration started. Yes we know that emailing everyone would have been a great hassle, but that was not necessary... a single thread stating what was going to happen would have done the job because everyone hosted here would have come back here to find out... I know I did.

It all becomes a chronic cycle of who is to blame, well everyone is; the parents for not educating their children, the children for not caring for themselves, the fast food franchises for putting the food their and bormbarding the world with propaganda, and the government for not doing anything. This is a topic where everyone points fingers, that is the easy thing to do. Yet, we must see this from every single perspective. Parents: The greatest mayority (the common class) has both parents working full time. That means you have parents arriving past 5 pm at any given afternoon. What happens between the time parents leave for work and arrives... ideally kids are in school til say 3 pm. The crucial part, is that 2 hour lapse when children are under their own supervision. What can a parent do if their kid is hungry at 3:15 pm and "oh" Mc Donalds happens to be in the way home? Not much, take away there allowance? For what? Being Chubby? Don't think so. Children:Sure they should control what they it and excercise regularly... but hey most consider Physical Education meeting the daily excercise amount "required." Again Mc Donalds is in the way home and trust me a dollar menu double cheeseburger tastes better than a ham a cheese sandwich. A coke hits the spot perfectly, water does not quite hit it. Fast Food Franchise Hey they are just making money, you put the bucks they give you a burger. If they wanted to sell healthy food, they would have started that long time ago. The same goes with beer franchises, cigarrettes, etc.Government:Hey Mc Donalds contributes more than you do, why limit them?Lets see, who are the healthy kids and who are the unhealthy kids. Those doing extracurricular activities are the healthier ones... is it because they do more excercise? Probably, but what is also a fact is that the gap between school time and parents being home is iliminated by this activity. Its because those childrens have less time to think of Mc Donalds in the way home.

I have worn glasses for about 7 years now, it happened when I started going to high school... great, is it not? Well, at first it was everything but cool. Starting high school with glasses, I though it was all ruined, that I could not enroll and soccer or would have less chance with girls due to the fact that I was the guy with the glasses. I went looking every where for sports goggles that look at least half decent. I found some pretty cool ones, they were just like sun glasses they where a bit expensive but worth every single penny. Those goggles kept me in command in the soccer field, and my glasses added a sense of authority in the class rooms, don't know why but every one assumes the guy with the glasses is right. XD

I guess this would be could to play a kind of a joke to a friend or something. But as someone pointed out earlier in this thread, whats the point of playing for it. Who would be dumb enough to do it? Propably funny for a one time thing, but it would loose its glamour passed that first time.

It appears that I am affected as well. Can't access neither my website (not much there anyway) nor my cpanel. Must be my bad luck, today I was finally in a mood to put some work into my site, and its down.

Thanks for the info, even though it is not much useful to me, I don't like the taste of papaya, I guess this goes with the common concept that all that is good tastes bad.

This reminds me of arguments I used to have with my parents (as I'm sure you all had similar arguments):
me: Why can't I go to my friend's party late at night?
parent: Because...
me: Because, what and why?
parent: Because I said so. End of conversation.

Just because number of religions increased it does not prove that god(s) exist. What about a religion that worships aliens from another planet? Due to increasing Extra Terrestrial believers does that mean aliens from another planet all of sudden exist? Do aliens' existence from another planet solely depend on our ability to believe them in the first place to form a dedicated religion? Then perhaps it's sad that this so called Great Beings cannot exist without our initiation of forming a belief system on behalf of them

But on the other hand, two complete strangers cannot have similar concept and belief of a supernatural being. That is to say, a person from California and a person from New York could not believe in a same benevolent being when these two never met each other. Therefore this benevolent being must be true since two or more unrelated witnesses are claiming that this being exists. When similar eyewitnesses come together and share each other's testimony on said day after day, isn't this called religion? So then because a benevolent being exists there are followers, naturally. And because there are followers there must be a being that these followers believe.

I hope I could have helped to present both sides of arguments.

Kobra, as you can see, our friend BuffaloHelp just pointed out how such question would be answered correctly. The question itself it is not asking whether you agree or not, or whether you are in favor of both sides of the question. It simply asks to point out posible arguements for both sides from a neutral point of view.

BuffaloHelp, about the parents counter-arguement... its always the same one

Well I use the norton bundle, anti-virus and firewall. I guess it works, yet again I have no way of knowing that. The problem with norton is that it slows down too much the system.

I went with the "Don't make me choose" options because I really enjoy watching both shows. The Simpsons show a more witty humor and always have some hidden moral or lesson, while, Family Guy is pure comedy... rude comedy... the one we all like and understand to perfection. Why choose one when you can have both, my way of seeing it.

I grew up in a christian family always rejecting their fate and the idea of a god, the word alone makes me realize of its none existences. Come its dog backwards. But thats just a lame joke. I don't see why some have the need to believe in a god.

Well, I really love Italian food and our good old mexican food... i guess I am a fan of meats, can't seem to get full if there is no meat. From the italian food my favorite dish is the Lasagna... just let it be the pasta, meat, cheese (lots of it) and easy on the sauce (don't really dig the marinada sauce). And from the mexican food it has to be Frijoles Charros, that would be like a mexican chili.

wow 1tb of storage space... personally I believe thats more than one needs. Yet, I guess someone might finded more than convenient. I ask my self how are they going to get that into a laptop? Yet what amazes me the most is that this will come with a problable advance in RAM memory space... that is more essential then the actuall storage space.

My favorites sports are Football (soccer), water polo, and Badminton all in that order. Actually the last two I started practicing because are football coach forced us to play them. Water polo really helps one to built strength, while badminton increases your agility and coordination... if your agile and strong, your one tough bone to take a bite at in soccer. I have grown my entire life playing soccer, but I hate to admit that until a good five years ago I was an easy opponent to get rid off... my skills are superb and have always been, but I was easily knocked to the floor... but that stopped as soon as I joined water polo and badminton. Now I am an extremely hard player to take down.

Glad to help with this topic, I have used for the last couple of months http://gizmosms.com/ to send international text messages. It has worked to perfection, I have not encounter any problems with this site. The only problelm that might be encountered is that if your buddy has disabled receiving online messages, but that can be simply fixed by allowing them.

Well it all depends from person to person, I guess it is very dependent on what sport one plays. For instances, I play soccer and I have never felt comfortable playing with the nike shoes, sole to stiff, a very narrow shoe... Nike is more of style than actual soccer shoe. adidas on the other hand makes excellent cleats, both on design and comfortability. But I guess if you are into basketball Nike is your brand.

The problem with nuclear power is that to the day we do not have a proper way to deal with the residue or nuclear waste which is highly radioactive. Even though, nuclear energy itself is a more efficient and more environmental friendly in the phase of producing electricity due to the fact that it does not pollute the air... a point in favor in the race against global warming, but the problem resides when dealing with the waste. There is no permanent storage for this waste. The waste comes out of the reaction at very high temperatures, therefore, it most be could down in pools... well, this pools are being over packed with radioactive rods (a great threat because a chain reaction can occur at any moment). Other forms of dealing with the waste are to bury the waste or store it in bunkers, or to reprocess the waste and gain a full arsenal of nuclear weapons.

Apparently a salsa nowadays is a combination of various fruits/vegetable/spices minced together Haven't tried out a salsa with mango yet, but I bet it was good. Well usually I don't make different salsa other then the more traditional ones.

Yes, the tomato is to mild down the spiciness of the salsa. As fact that example is a pretty weird salsa, probably it was a bit sweet, but hey as you say if it tastes good why complaint about.

First of all I excuse myself for being the first to comment in this topic without actually having the answer to your question. If we view the Islam as a religion, as it is, we must assume that it promotes peace and love. Even though, we might be bombarded with propaganda portraying certain groups as violent and in certain point bringing terror to society, we must comprehend that that is just one report of a biased media. I am pretty sure that the Native Americans in the U.S. did not believe Christianity was a religion of peace, probably the Aztecs did not believe that either, and I'm pretty sure the pagans and other groups being persecuted in the crusades did not believe that Christianity was a religion promoting peace and love among the world. Personally, I don't know much of the Islam, but your topic caught my attention... is that comment about being rewarded a number of virgins when ascended to heaven true? What about women? What is there reward for entering heaven?

Well it is not really smart to think that if humans can't find the explanation for something it must be the work of God or SOMETHING(and this is what you are trying to say isn't it). No one knows what really happened and the big bang theory is just theory so it doesn't have to be true. There are many other theories(and mathematical models of universe) about beginning and in some of them there is no beginning but most of them are very hard to understand unlike the big bang theory and this is why everyone thinks there was a big bang:because for average human being that is very easy to understand to(while he can't accept that universe didn't have beginning which is basis of some other theories). There is simple way to imagine that universe didn't have beginning:we all say universe doesn't have limits, so if it doesn't have limits in space why would it have to have limits in time.
Now to the original topic. The idea of after life started when humans where very primitive compared to today. then they believed then that Earth has edges and that you fall of if you stepped from the edge further no matter what shape they imagined(circle, square,...) and we all know that isn't true. we all know how life works that it is just physics and chemistry and yet people can't forget this old belief about afterlife probably because they can't accept how insignificant in fact they are. So to answer the question in the title of this topic: THERE ISN'T LIFE AFTER DEATH.

I agree with you in the fact that life works just due to physics and chemistry, we seem to have gotten stuck in the idea that everything has be explained under finite circumstances. We can't seem to comprehend that somethings just don't have a beginning or an end (and yes I have no actual proof that the universe has no beginning or that there would be no end, but in the other hand also there is no actual proof that the universe has a beginning). But is there really no life after death, for the being that died obviously there is not, but there are many organisms that due come to life once any living organism dies so technically the death of one organism allowed the existence of another.

*Off topic*
So you along with Carson, have passed away and have the answer to this question? Wow. I sure feel mortal right now Anyways, that isn't the answer to a question. I to, along with the big bang and the bible are theores. However you failed to explain to me how we just came out of nowhere, big bang or not, with out divine intervention. That's right. YOU CAN'T. However, being rimitive 300 years ago has nothing to do with what will happen as you pass away.

*Sorta On topic*

I believe in an existince after death. I am a christian, and I don't giv a flying fig with what you think about it. Just because I believe in a God and in an existance after death does not make me primitave or ignorant in anyway. Sure I could be wrong. Whatever.

*On topic*

There can not be life without a drive behind it IN MY OPINION! However if we are no more than mortal beings we have nothing to lose in religon. There is nothing wrong with believing in a God or other supernatural being. So yes, I BELIEVE in life afer death.

Call me a Jesus Freak. I don't care.

So you yourself along with Carson and whale_shark passed away and have the answer to the question? right?

Ok, maybe we can't explain how we came out of nowhere, well, at least I can't. I don't know whether I can explain the existence of life without using theory, big bang or not, but since you yourself considered the bible to be also just theory can't explain without using the bible to explain that we came from somewhere. This all becomes a vicious circle due to the fact that one has the absolute truth. So it is wisest to say as the old saying says, "I only know that I know nothing."

Answering the question Is there life after death? Yes, there is life after

Answering the question is there an after life? No, I personally do not believe there is an after life. I could be right, I could be wrong. I guess I'll find out later on.

Well, I've used the services of Yahoo, Hotmail, Lycos and Gmail... all in that order, an can honestly say that to my personal experience Gmail is the best. Lycos is good also, I have spent months of not signing in into my email account and it still remains active... Yahoo kind of allows you to do that... but they delete your inbox after a couple months. Hotmail in terms of absences is the worst... and considering that is a Microsoft services there is always a chance it will be down... In the last years I've never been in the situation that I can't access Gmail, while, hotmail will be down a couple a times a year (same happens with Windows Live Messenger).

Wow, I guess the if one is in a hurry one can fall for it, but it is always important to remember that the GMail homepage url always appears as https://www.google.de/?gfe_rd=cr&ei=OKc3VJPfFsWg8wfu5ICQDQ in the address bar. Much damage can be done if one is careless enough to fall for it.

Need to try out Firefox 3 to see how it handles Java Games... don't no why but I keep facing some problems when I play them in Firefox 2