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This is a horrible thing for someone to go through. But take it from a former cutter, help and support can get her through it. As much as she is going to resist the help. GET HER HELP. Do not avoid it, or ignore it. Many teens snap out of this phase very fast. But don't take that chance. Show her you will be there for her. and don't give up on her. Best of luck to all of you!--Bee

But see honestly i dont' think shes having any problems..she gets EVERYTHING she wants and when she doesn't get what she wants from somebody she pushes them away like a piece of garbage. We mean nothing to her anymore...and i have come to the conclusion i really don't care anymore. It hurts to sit back and watch her screw up her life, but theres really nothing i can do. Her dad still spoils her and just a few days ago her father took her side and pretty much threw me and my bf to the curb. So me and my bf talked and we are doing what we think is right...and we are just going to deal with our own problems right now. They can live their lives and we are going to live ours. And in the mean time we aren't going to let them bring us down. His sister is still trying to play her little games with us but we ignore them and lately she isn't as bad...because we aren't paying attention. However, she is still and will always be a spoiled brat, and I don't know about all of you but i think, once a spoiled brat always a spoiled brat. It's times like this im glad my parents raised me to work for what i want and be grateful for what i have. Sincerely, Bee

You have to tell her the truth buddy. and make sure you point out that it really isn't her... you and sammy have a past together that was left untied. and you really want to be with her. but you really don't want to hurt her. she has to know, and it may hurt her, but in the end its better she knows. and eventually she will realize that. just be patient, and consider her feelings.

We have all had the horrible birthdays, but i will gladly help you complete your goal. so, HAPPY BIRTHDAY BHAVESH Hope your goal is met. Be sure to let us all know about your past birthdays and this one. Where are your wishes at now?? Best of luck -Bee

Ok first of all your really not in the wrong thats actually somewhat understandable what happened. I mean you lost all contact and a few months had gone by, but maybe you and sammy should have talked about everything before she left. And before you and Hollie got together you should have told her about sammy and explained to her what you just explained in your post. Secondly, if you really have strong feelings for sammy don't let hollie be in the dark of it all. The last thing a girl wants is to be made a fool because her boyfriend keeps her in the dark. I don't know either of the girls but sammy seems to be a pretty down to earth girl so sit her down and explain to her what happened, and make it be known that you really would much rather be with her. Believe me she should understand. Now you need to tell hollie i don't know if she will take it as well, but if that was me i would really like to know the truth before i was to find out for myself. If she finds out herself without you telling her she make think of you as a lier and a "player" Let Hollie know you still want to be friends (thats if you even want to be, -remember, everybody has room for friends in their life-). Anyway, like i said sammy is a very pretty girl and seems to be very intelligent, she will understand. As for hollie thats all i can really say because you really didn't tell much about her. Be HONEST, Be RESPECTFUL, and i wish you the best! Hopefully some of this will help you,Good Luck,-Bee

Thats true and hopefully more sooner than later. I mean shes only 16, thats kind of a young age to start hitting some extreme lows. you know? but then again i guess it is around that age where you start to hit some low points. hopefully she learns from them. Im just not going to bother with her anymore. Im not gonna bring my life down for her. i mean i love her to death but eventually shes going to realize who has always been there for her. and when/if that happens then ill consider talking to her. but its pointless right now. and like everybody has been saying once she sees that we really don't care and she sees us living our lives with out a care for her, hopefully, she will snap out of it. But thats a big "hopefully". But honestly i don't think i really care anymore anyway. It did really make me mad, but everybody is right. Why give her the attention she wants?

Well i honestly don't think she is having boyfriend problems, she seems pretty happy with him. and we have tried to talk and she pushed everybody away. so your advice on ignoring is probably the best solution as cruel as it may sound.

My step father follows alot of this. And our whole family used to love mashed potatoes (especially Shepards Pie ) just thought i would let you know that we found that if switch mashed potatoes with mashed cauliflower its alot healthier. I don't know how much of fan you are of potatoes but just thought i would let you know! I know it may sound gross but it actually doesn't taste much different and its a H*** of alot healthier.

As cruel as that sounds its really the only thing we can do now. And yes her getting pregnant will probably happen with the loser shes with. well see before all this we were very close, so it really hurts and i don't know how i would take it if something like that really happened you know? but i have always been a strong believer in fate...so maybe your right. and hopefully the father plays his part before something bad happens. I really do think its going to end up being her that gives herself her own reality check. We believe that her BF is going to leave her and she will be left with nothing but a failed education and no family and friends, but she only has herself to blame. Also strange-garden does have a point... the father is really the only one who has the power to straighten her up. But if you knew him you would realize that isn't ever going to happen. She is daddy's little girl who gets away with murder.

That is very cool, and yeah i would be interested too to see if this person teaches classes for this stuff. I don't know if I would have the patience for it though. I wonder if those ones were sold, they would definately be sold for alot. I wonder how durable they are though and what kind of paper they used haha It would suck to spend a whole lot of money on something and then step outside and have a small breeze blow it apart. haha :(Did you just google those pictures???

Thats crazy...Can you imagine the time and skill that must take?? Where did you find those??

Ok so basically im sick and tired of my boyfriends younger sister shes 16 and gets her way on EVERYTHING. She told my boyfriend that he isn't her brother if he is with me. We have been together for 5 years believe me nothing will change that. He was nice enough to add her to our cellphone lines. Well she took advantage and ran us $500 into overage charges. We had been telling her for 3 months that she needed to straighten up and watch the minutes. Well running us into that much in overages was the last straw we called customer service and had her cellphone reported lost. She told us she hated us both. The following day my boyfriend went to her house and took the phone back. She thought she could be sly and take the sim card out and put it into a different phone. We already knew she had done this, and before he left with it he took the back off and found there really wasn't sim card in it. She then told everyone she hated us. She wouldn't go to the family Christmas party because of us. 2 days ago her father went out and got her her own plan with a brand new cellphone. She is failing school because of her new boyfriend. She isn't made to go, and she lost her job. My step father told me and my boyfriend to just let it go and not get so worked up, but we are watching sink lower and lower, and her father isn't doing anything about it. Shouldn't somebody take action? And even if we did what can we possibly do? She doesn't listen and she's impossible to talk to. She has been like a younger sister to me for 5 years. Do i just sit back and listen to her tell everybody im nothing to her...because of a cellphone??? Thanks for listening to be vent,Always,Bee

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