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I personally don't have the money for a ps3 BUT I'm certainly not going to hate on it just cause I'm to poor to afford one, unlike SOME people. PS3 totally pwns, it is teh_sex, and I'm going to be saving and saving to get one. the end.P.S. In response to the whole halo thing, all I have to say is Final Fantasy XIII

I'm a huge nirvana fan! So this was really nice to see :)By the way, does anyone else here think courtney had him killed? Because his "suicide note" wasnt even in his hand writing, and there's lots of other things that lead you to believe he didn't kill himself (even if you don't think courtney did it, someone else did that wasn't kurt). I can't remember what they are right off the bat, but I know court tv did a show about it.

Actually I didn't get married till I was 20. And I was with my husband 2 1/2 years before we got married.

The things he likes to do have nothing to do with it. And fyi I'm 20, a mother, married (my husband is 24), and we BOTH like to play duel monsters. Granted it's not all we do, but if we ever have some free time, it is much fun To me it sounds like you're a true romantic, and he isn't. It's very hard to learn how to be romantic if it doesn't come to you naturally. Just talk to him about it and if he doesn't atleast put an effort into trying to be romantic, then perhaps you should concider moving on, because then you'll always be unhappy/dissapointed whenever those special moments/anniversary's/whatever come around. I myself am a hopeless romantic aswell, unfortunatley my husband is not, BUT he knows stuff like that is important to me and he really does try to be more romantic for me. And I appreciate his effort and since he shows me he's trying I know he really does care. Love is more then just saying it.

I absolutely love the vampire diaries (mini-series) and the night world series by L. J. Smith. Christopher pike is also a wonderful author.

Thanks everyone! And yes it is quite tiring.And teecee, I'd prolly feel more comfortable getting advice from you, cuz sometimes more advances users can be alil intimidating >.< but so far everyone seems nice and ready/willing to help.

I think its double jeporday (don't think I spelled that right though), but you know what I mean!

The same can be said for straight relationships. Lust and decadence are all the same, whether its gay, straight, animalistic (not sure if thats the right term, but you know what i mean, animal sex) or whatever the hell else is out there. IF you are born gay/bi then there is nothing wrong, and you truly have always had these feeling there is nothing wrong. Or even if you were abused as a child and as a result have had mixed feeling about sex/attraction then there is nothing wrong with that either (and yes I do know people that that has happened to). But if you're going to "experiment" or whatever just cuz now its more "accepted" or you're desperate to get off then no I don't agree with that. I personally am bi and my bestfriend is lesbian. So I know for a fact we don't "choose" to live that way. Cuz you'd have to be crazy to do that. But for those few crazies out there who do infact choose it, that is wrong.

You could have everything in the world and still be unhappy. Theres many different levels of depression. Just because yours may or may not be severe, doesn't mean you shouldn't take it seriously. Why don't you try going to/calling a local counseling center. You'd be suprised at how releiving it is just to vent to someone.

Well I had 1 serious boyfriend when I was 15, but he was a jerk, and we lived in a small town where there was jack to do, so he never actually took me out on a date. My 2nd "boyfriend" never took me out on a real "date" because that would have made his REAL girlfriend(s) angry. lol. So getting to my first real date, it didn't happen till afew months ago, my then bf (who is my husband now) and I had already been together for 2 years and we finally went to the movies just me and him, lol well actually it was a double date, his older brother n his girlfriend went with. We went to go see silent hill, it was nice definetly worth the wait. BTW I was 19 at the time. Notice from BuffaloHELP: Filter modified to improve the content

I remember when I first saw/heard about this...I was flipping through the channels and I saw it on fox news, I rolled my eyes, took a deep sigh and shook my head. I was so appauled. He has no shame.

Hello all, my name is Vanna. I'm actually doing this for my aunt pat because she has a small business. ANYWAYS, I'm 20, married, a proud parent, and VERY into anime.I actually think this whole arrangement is pretty sweet, I wonder why more people don't do it...

I think when it comes to relationships, you should try and find someone who completes you, you know, someone who can shine where you would fall short. Someone who can give you a different perspective when you're trying to figure things out. Yes you should have some things in common, but not everything.But how old are you? You sound alil young (no offense), I think you should just enjoy your youth and not worry about a serious relationship till you are older.And until you've actually lived with someone and have gotten so comfortable with them that you can fart in front of eachother and just not care and then go make out even though neither one of you have brushed your teeth yet, then that's love. lol. Pretty much everything up until then is just puppy love and infatuation.

I know exactly what you mean. I'm about your age (I turned 20 in july). I always leave everything to the last minute. I found that I just work well under pressure. When I was younger I loved school, and I did quite well, till about 6th grade. That's when things stopped being challenging and I just felt like I wasn't really learning anything. Since then I had been wanting to drop out, just never actually did it. That is, till the middle of the first semester of my senior year. My best friend had graduated the year before and one day I was just like...F this, I'm getting my GED. So I did, and it was TO easy. The next semester I started college and things have pretty much been good since then. Granted I did have a child and got married, but still all good things and I'm doin ok in school, yes I can only take a couple of classes a semester but still, it's something! AND I finally decided on a major I think I'll be really happy with (CIS: Security). But getting back to the getting distracted easily stuff, I think I do better with distractions, then without them. Because when I don't have distractions there then I spend all my time thinking about what can distract me! Oh and please don't think about suicide, that's a definite big no no. If you really are feeling that down, then seek professional help, I have a psychologist and I absolutely love being able to talk to him, he has a really good head on his shoulders and gives me the best advice. Also I do take an anti-depressant and it's a BIG help.

I'm glad to hear such positive feedback about it I don't think I'll be able to buy it anytime soon BUT I do hope to be able to buy it for my husband for christmas (even if it is a few days late).

I agree with TeeCee. Girls can be very tricky. She may or may not like you at the moment, BUT one thing is clear, she needs her space. I don't think you should completely ignore her, just don't go out of your way to try and talk/spend time with her, if she approaches you then be kind but not over bearing. Till then, when you cross paths smile and say hi, maybe some small chit-chat. Just let time work this thing out...