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My site was recently suspended because my points went negative, but I don't want my site resumed, my points right now are positive. Since my hosting account is suspended, I won't be charged hosting credits daily anymore, right?

Alrighty, I'll check out Albus's site. Thanks guys!

Alrighty, thanks for the reviews everyone! I'll look into the link colors, I was wondering whether I should change the banner to a red base and keep the links, or whether I should change the links to a green base and keep the banner the same. Which one do you guys think is better?I've been looking for members, don't know where to find members for a harry potter roleplay site, anybody know of a harry potter community or anything where you can advertise your own harry potter site? But we have 10, and hopefully growing, the site's very young though only a couple days, actually.PS All canon means that all the characters are from the books, which means there are no made up characters

anybody know of any harry potter forums/communities where members discuss harry potter and have a showcase for harry potter roleplay sites and what not?

Hi, everybody, I recently finished a harry potter roleplay site of mine that's a subdomain on my main site (thenr.net) the url of my harry potter site is http://forums.xisto.com/no_longer_exists/ We currently have 8 members, but are hoping to grow quickly, and we're looking for experienced, seasoned roleplayers. Many main characters are still free, the site is also all canon, one of very few all canon sites on the web. - we're in dire need of members to get the fun starting - Anyway, check it out and tell me what you think! (I'm Cedric Diggory on the site). Thanks!

Again, I'm not af an of notes to get information from an admired one. I still think you should keep talking, you have more of a connection, and if she says I've got to go, then just ask her for her phone number before she leaves and make it clear that you want to talk and spend time with her. Everyone wants attention, but they want alone time too, so it's a delicate balance, don't disregard her too much by not talking enough to her.

Ahh, I was never going to find that . Thanks so much, Albus! I really do need to take more time searching for things, I was never particularly good at finding anything.

Well, needofadvice, want to fill us in on how it's going with your secret admirer? I hope everything's working out fine

I've got a suggestion for another forum on Xisto, perhaps you should have a showcase forum where members can show off the sites that they've created and then get comments and suggestions on what to improve. If this already exists, please tell me the name of the forum and totally disregard this message.Thanks

Well, it's going to be awfully hard to find out the requested information if you're afraid to talk to her in front of people. I don't see why this would be. That would be the simple way through things. If perhaps you could talk to her in person, just as a normal person, not as an admirer, so you can get her phone number. Then during a phone conversation you can get the rest of the information that you want. Therefore, no one will be around when you ask any of the questions and get the information that you're seeking.But if you're really not wanting to talk to this person AT ALL in public, then how much do you really like them? Apparently not enough to overcome your shyness, right? I say, make a stand, and overcome your shyness. Because, perhaps if you can show her that you can talk to her in public, then it will be more attractive, than a note on her car door, which I do not recommend, by the way. Notes on car doors usually do not have good results. Or so I would imaginge so.I really think the only way in this situation is you have to overcome your fear and really talk to this person. If not, then you can either leave a message somewhere other than the car door. Or if you're in public, you can tap her on the shoulder or something and tell her to meet you somewhere vacant and you can talk to her there. But you said you've only seen this girl three times, right? So, I'm not sure where you see her, I imagine that the environment in which you execute these "operations" would be very important in what plan you will choose.Anyway, best of luck, I'm sorry I couldn't be of much help. Just as an overview, I highly recommend talking to her, but if you can't (which is understandable), then I recommend a note that's not on her car or anything, perhaps slip her a note, don't leave it somewhere for everyone to see. You've gotta make sure she gets it, and only she gets it.Good luck!

You really need to call him up, or use skype again, and sit down and talk about this. Tell him everything that's on your mind, communication is key (saw that being posted throughout this topic), and I really agree, if something is going to keep you together, then it's communication.But you've also got to be real with yourself, if you're getting serious about having a relationship with this guy, then you two can't always live so far away, so he has to show that he is willing to move for you, or let you move to his place, because if not, then this relationship will go nowhere. You can't be this far away from each other forever. Secondly, you also need to see this guy face to face plan a vacation or a trip or something so that you can see him, finding flights with short notice is hard, so hopefully you'll get lucky there.Then you've gotta sit down and really think about what it is you love about this guy, what it is that kept you two together for 1.5 years, and what it is that will keep you two together for another 1.5 years, and then another, and then another for the rest of your lives. See if there's enough between you two, see if there's enough to form a strong, lasting relationship. If you feel there isn't, then why waste your time and money on a dead end.I know it might sound harsh, and it might be hard to dump the man. But if you feel if there's no future with you two, then there really is no need to carry on and stress yourself with this long distance relationships. Distance relationships are very hard to maintain, and 1.5 years is very good, I'm impressed, so it's obvious that this isn't any normal relationship.I hope everything works out for the best!!

ALMOST HALF TIME ENGLAND'S UP 1-0 :rolleyes:sorry, just had to get it outyay!!

Well, that is impressive... I kinda feel bad for the girl, it is her fault she's fat, but there are other characteristics to look at. But then on the other hand, hahahah, great story. Tell you what this is one of those things that's really entertaining to tell at parties, I love those stories.Anyway, you should write this up and send it in to FX or something, I'm sure they'd make a sitcom of it.. I would!Haha, better luck next time man, any other girls you're interested in? Maybe next time you should ask for a picture before you meet up.

Wait do you have five girlfriends at once?I agree though. Be yourself, don't act nervous, be confident.Funny, charming, always works. Act normal. No need to go on for paragraphs... lol unless you're hoping to get an obscene amount of hosting credits.

I say just take it easy for a bit. Make sure you clean up and have good hygeine before you go and make sure you look good. Other than that just be honest with her, tell her you're shy if she asks why you're not talking (as Saint Michael suggested) you don't always need to speak. So if there's a time where nothing comes to mind, let Guy or his date do the talking. That's the flexibility of double dating.Anyway, if you go the to theatres, there won't be as much talking, but then you won't get to know her that well. If you go rent a movie at home, then you may be more engaged, so it just depends which one you want to do more. And if you go to a cafe, then it's pretty much all talk, so get ready for it. :)Best of luck! Hope everything works out, sounds like you two make a cute couple.