Never Tell This To A Girl !

[huntix 0]

Dating can be hard. Or rather, going on one date can be easy but launching from one date into two or three may be more difficult. Because of this, here are another few things never to say or talk about on a first date, if you’d like a second.

 

- Why you hate your mother. Save it for your analyst, not for the woman or man you are trying to woo.

 

- Any physical aberrations. First dates are not the time to say, “Hey, I have six toes on my left foot” or “I have a third nipple.” Though that may pique a person’s interest for a look-see, it will automatically label you as “extra-toe chick” or “weird nipple guy” before the person even gets to know the real you.

 

- The number of people you slept with or haven’t slept with. This will either make you look cheap , like a prude, or desperate.

 

- The amount of money you make or don’t make. This will make you look like either a show-off or a complainer. Keep your finances to yourself for a while. It’s nobody’s business but yours, your accountants—if you have one, and the IRS.

 

- Favorite porn magazines or movies. If One Night in Paris was the best movie you ever saw, no one needs to know. The reason should be self-evident.

 

- Your biggest celebrity crush. No female will ever feel as attractive (or curvy) as Pamela Anderson. Don’t inadvertently put down your date by saying you’ve always had the hots for some hyper-plastic celebrity. A mere mortal will feel, “If that’s the type of people he goes for, I don’t have a chance.”

 

- Calculus, physics, or cold fusion—unless of course you both are mathematicians, scientists or computer engineers. Talking about “smart” things won’t necessarily make the look smart. It could make your date think you are a nerd, a geek, or pretentious.

 

- Don’t name drop, including place names. Though your date may be interested in your travels, he doesn’t need to know you went to The Hamptons and dined at the same restaurant as Billy Joel or that you went to St. Moritz and skied with the Royal Family. Even if you are a close friend of Will and Harry, first dates don’t need to know…otherwise see c) under 7.

 

- That time when you got really drunk. Does a date really need to hear about your stupidity, vomiting and passing out? Do you really need to relive it? Talking about drunken episodes makes you sound like a frat boy/sorority girl with a Peter Pan syndrome.

 

- Any previous first dates you’ve had. No one wants to be the next person on your list whose anecdotes will shared with another date. Respect people’s privacy and they’ll respect yours.

 

Following these simple rules…and a little chemistry…should get you to date number two.

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[ongnoai 0]

Lol huntix, you certainly are a person of experience! I would hardly find anything in think faulty or inaccurate in this list. Now, what I can read is an apt list of DON'TS. What 'bout the DO'S?Cheers, all !

[joeysicily 0]

Those are some very good points on what not to say on a first date. As for me, also a lot of internet dating experience, I also found out what is good to say on a first date which actually will keep them interested in you. What you do is ASK questions. Not too many questions after questions. You will need to at least throw in some for yourself or pause a little bit to see if they will ask you the same question back. The only problem with this, is sometimes I get the talkers. You ask a question, like so what do you like to do for fun. All of sudden, your sitting there listening to a half hour conversation about every thing she's done for fun and of course you can't interuppt that would be rude. All you can do is sit there and try to listen and nod your head or say uh huh. Little do they know, but this is the time when we start to think will this girl ever stop talking, does she even wanna get to know me at all or is it all about her. I don't think I really went on too many second dates with the talkers. I just can't seem to get past the "all about me" girls. Well, what's funny is that although you had a boring time sitting there listening, she was thinking oh we had such a good time and we didn't have a dull moment. Anyway, I guess here is a short list of things to ask just to get things started.- So where you originally from .. and that can lead to other questions like then where did you.- So what do you do school/work? - So what do you do for fun .. any hobbies?Well there are tons of things to say, but that can get the ball rolling and you take it from there. There should never really be a text book of what to say. You should just start by saying hi and just ask basic questions and it will stem from there and of course if she interested to know about you she will also ask questions.good luck

[midnitesun 0]

lol what funny but true information huntix . gr8 help for those unlucky guys who throw up when on their first dates enjoy !!!

[CroSpartacus 0]

There are LOTS of ways to ruin a date. A few things NOT to say on a date, stuff like "I used to come here all the time with my ex." or looking at another girl when your date is present.

[DogEater008 0]

damnit.. i think i killed some of the thing you said. .AHAHAHAH ..oh well.. i will learn from my mistakes =P.... .

[Nani Cheri 0]

Your biggest celebrity crush. No female will ever feel as attractive (or curvy) as Pamela Anderson. Dont inadvertently put down your date by saying youve always had the hots for some hyper-plastic celebrity. A mere mortal will feel, If thats the type of people he goes for, I dont have a chance.

ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!

Normally Im not jalous at all. But i think almost any girl is a little bit unsure about their beauty. My boyfriend and I were watching some R&B clips...Then Monica ft. Missy Eliott - So Gone. A videoclip with Monica singing in ot lingerie and she really looks perfect. So what does my bf say? He and his stupid head said: "Monica is sooo hot. Look at her! I really gonna marry an African American girl like her!!! She is HOT!"
And I was LIKE: OKAY SO, 1) Im not AFRICAN AMERICAN 2) I dont have that lingerie 3) I aint her dammit!

That really was pissing me off. I immediately thougt.. So why youre dating me?! HELLOOO??

So , DONT EVER, say to your girl, you think a girl on TV is SOOO HOT that she can impossible equals that woman! You can say: hey she's nice isn't she. But hey 1 time is enough. Don't push it! LOL