To Do, Or Not To Do... Thats the question.

[wassie 0]

oke here's the story:

 

Story:

i play volleyball...

i train 3 times a week and do 1 match a week. But i practise in different sporthalls. There is this "main" sporthall in my town. Its named 'The Misse". I only train 1 day a week in that sporthall. And sometimes a play a match in there.

 

The girl:

There is this girl who is the daugther of one of the owners of the sporthall... (she cleans and arranges some stuff in there i think). That girl is always in the sporthall when i need to train there. Its allways on fridays. That girl is pretty hot but there are 2 problems.

 

-She is 2 years younger as me.

-She is very known at the sporthall... dont you think my volley-mates will make fun of me?

 

Contact:

I notticed that she looks at me allot... (my reaction is then to look back ) I have a feeling that she also likes me, but that i have to make the first move... But how the Hell do i wanna do that, when all my volley-mates are around

 

Funny Story:

I had to play a match in "The Misse", and we had this crouwd that was cheering us. Well the mom of that girl was also there and the girl ofcourse. And i didn't played that match so good, so we were comming on even. It was 2-2 in sets and in our final set, the mom of that girl yelled "If you win this set you'll get a kiss of Ilse (=girls name)". That was rather funny i thought. And we won the match! So after the match a friend of Ilse and ilse came to me and my volley-mate. And the friend said, well do you come to resieve your award (that was the kiss of Ilse).

And Ilse was gigling behind her, but because my volley-mate was with me, i said "nope". (i could cry after i said that)

But there is a plus on that... i could maybe use that as start-centence for a confersation or something.

 

Help!

Help!

what should i do?

[Moody 0]

Problem 1: This is no problem, girls like older boys. All the girls of my class are only looking to older guys from 2 years older (or maybe more old). So, don't worry about that.Problem 2: If it's a nice girl, I think they won't make fun of you. You says she's hot... they would be jealous. Of course they will say something about it, but the more they say from it and tease you with it, the more jealous they are.What should you do?Give it a try! If you like the girl and you think she likes you, try it! I don't know how old you are, but ask her out or something. Just talk about something the first time. And when you do go out and you think it's time to kiss, just tell here you want the kiss from winning the game.The most important thing is: Be yourself! Don't try to be the best guy on the world or something!Tell us how it went....I'm looking forward to hear your story.Ps. I'm not a love specialist, but this is my opinion.

[wassie 0]

well here are mij "so called plans":i got the e-mail adress of the friend of that girl. So i think i can get her e-mail from her. But i haven't seen her online yet.tomorrow i will be in the hospital because i'm getting opperated on my thoos. So i cant play volley for a week or so... But i am planning to just go to the sporthall so i can see her.

[Moody 0]

Still going is a very good idea, but asking her out on mail or msn...i don't like that. Do it in her face, that's the most romantic way. If you get rejected it's also harder, i know, but I think you'll have more chance when asking in her face. Of course, don't do it when everyone is there, maybe she'll be shy.Good luck.

[sunkist 0]

Hi:I agree, u should ask her out in person. But you can keep it light and casual. The fact that she is younger should not be a problem. Girls mature faster than guys do, so that is why traditionally, girls have always liked guys a year or two older.Sunkist

[emma 0]

Hi:

 

I agree, u should ask her out in person.  But you can keep it light and casual. 

 

The fact that she is younger should not be a problem.  Girls mature faster than guys do, so that is why traditionally, girls have always liked guys a year or two older.

 

Sunkist

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Ask her out. Maybe to one of your games NOT at teh training hall. Or to another sport and sit with her. Beign younger shouldn't matter because girls mature faster than guys so lol. Also, if your friends laugh at you/make fun, tell them she's a great kisser or something lol! But, be casual and if she says yes after the game take her to a movie or dinner if all goes well maybe even ice cream!

 

BTW I play volleyball as well...woohoo

[Unregistered 015 0]

take her to a movie or dinner if all goes well maybe even ice cream!

Yeah, dont forget buy her a porsche! C'mon give me abreak.

[wassie 0]

i cant wait until its friday

[wassie 0]

owke i just got the worst thing you can ever imagine...that girl i got her msn now... but now i hear some1 is trying to get her and a volleyfriend of mine together... :S:S:Swhat should i do know?(btw they aren't together... but he does have (how to say) a lead)

[Tonny 0]

Make a move man. If you really like her, you wont think what are volley mates are going to say.Screw them. what are you planing, to be a single just because of your friends. MY advice. catch her after your training, say her that you really like her, and ask her:are you having any plans for saturday evening. If she reject you , never mind. There are a louds of better girls on this world!lol

[Unregistered 015 0]

What about asking her out?

[wassie 0]

hehe another update,my volley-friend turned her down! haha laughed my *bottom* off.but noway i'm going to start a relationship now he turned her down.(my teammate is the same age as she is)

[xaetos 0]

but noway i'm going to start a relationship now he turned her down.

.. I'm going to hope that you didn't say what I thought you said? :\ If you like someone, you shouldn't really care what other people say and who turned them down before, because before that, you liked her anyways. You were worried because someone was going to set them up :\ Assuming you're not after her for popularity or something, you should think it a good thing he turned her down..

 

But then, I might've misinterpretted that. I'm somewhat sick, and not entirely awake, so it wouldn't be surprising. Just make sure you do what you want, not what others have done..

[serenity 0]

1.there is no problem with age difference (i think it is always better that the guy was older)2.if she looks at you alot then she has a thing for you OBV lol i think you will have to make the first move as she seems shy 3.and yes you can use that to start a conv like 'can i still get that kiss off of you' works most of the time