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I was last sunday in my aunt house and suddenly we start to talk about all the woman who suffer the male violence here in my country... But In middle of discussion we remember to some guy who lived with his wife and he found her cheating with a neighbor in his own bed and he wanted to hit her but he controlled himself and forgive her because they were christians and his wife asked for his forgiveness. Of course it wasn´t easy for him to forgive her... how can be this easy not? :PSix months later he found his wife cheating him with one of his friends in some mall and he prefered don´t say her nothing and when she arrived to the house he beat her and broke his arm, some ribes and the mandibule with a broomstick. Of course hearing the scandale the neighbors called the cops who arrested him and incredibly in the trial the judge(a woman) gives him 22 years of prison.My opinion is: The man has rigth to beat his woman when she is cheating him. Only imagine all the humillation you think you can control yourself?? How...That is my opinion the women sometimes are so.... better I don´t say more :angry:

Sometime you figure that the girl is not giving you what you want and you feel like someone who has left home to buy oranges and you are stuck with someone who is selling only apples. They say that the only true love is unrequited love. I don’t think that is true in its entirety because that is like punching a bag and calling it a boxing tournament.I believe everything has a purpose whether you want to see it for its purpose or not. I also believe that everything is predestined with a purpose, right from the moment we spend in deep trash to the happier ones. When a relationship sees failure, I don’t think there is any better thing to do than ‘move on’ but this is so difficult. The hurt is like an emotional maggot wound and keeps us painfully anxious.Sometimes I wonder if I am called to be alone and if these failures in relationship are the thorn in me that keeps my humility in check. All you can do in these times is live of moment and leave the rest in God’s faithful hands for everything has its own time and He will make sure that you don’t brood when that time is up over and out.