im getting married in 8 weeks to a guy ive been with for 5 years and had two kids together. many times in our relationship ive thought about leavign but have never done so as i love him but dislike a lot of things he does. he isnt a bad person but he has an anger problem and can get angry easy as well as doesnt give a lot of attention to the kids, yells at them, doesnt allow me to see some friends etc. this isnt always as well and he has many good points about him. i have an old friend ive known for 9 years and have always knew there was "something" between us though it was never spoken about or acted upon. we just get along really well and gel. the other guy told me last night that he likes me. and so im sitting here now thinking am i making the biggest mistake by marrying my partner. but im also thinking if i leave what will i be ruining. i guess i just need so advice on what you would do or questions that i need to be thinking and asking
