hey everybody. I guess if your reading this, you're in the same  situation I am, because you typed "I can't get over my ex" into your  search engine like I did. However, I doubt your situation is quite  as extreme as mine. I broke up with my ex-fiance in December of 2001,  and I hate myself for it. I was young (only 24) and I thought that  because we were having a hard time we weren't meant to be together. I  thought that when people are in love, it should be easy. We started dating  when I was only 19, and I had never been exposed to awful boyfriends.  But since then, none of the guys I have dated have been anywhere near  as great as he was. I thought it would be easy to find some one else,  and I have dated other guys, but they were nothing compared to him.