hey everybody. I guess if your reading this, you're in the same situation I am, because you typed "I can't get over my ex" into your search engine like I did. However, I doubt your situation is quite as extreme as mine. I broke up with my ex-fiance in December of 2001, and I hate myself for it. I was young (only 24) and I thought that because we were having a hard time we weren't meant to be together. I thought that when people are in love, it should be easy. We started dating when I was only 19, and I had never been exposed to awful boyfriends. But since then, none of the guys I have dated have been anywhere near as great as he was. I thought it would be easy to find some one else, and I have dated other guys, but they were nothing compared to him.