Jimb40

I have been married for 30 yrs, and i cant seem to understand my WIFE.. She's not a very open person, she keeps everything inside of her...And it kind of makes me think she is liein, cuz she will not open up to me, although i know she isnt lieing, i just cant seem to understand her and her ways.... But it hurts me when we fight and she always takes off, and we never seem to get everything out on the table....But a few times i have taken off, and it didnt end up good, cuz i stayed gone for 4 days, and she thought i was cheating on her, which i can see where she was cuming from, cuz i never called home... I get hurt alot bye my wife, i dont think its her fault, becuz i am too senistive, to her actions and the things she say's to me.. You would think after 30 yrs i would know everything about my WIFE but i guess i dont.... Is my Marriage worth saving? Please help me here....Let me know if anyone else is going thru the same thing i am...Cuz i really love my wife i have spent too many years with her to lose her now... And i really feel like i am going to lose her....But the funny part is i know what she is thinking be 4 she thinks it.................

Awiii, It sounds to me that you are havin woman problem's, You know Men will never understand woman... But you must 1st think be 4 you ever run out the door, no matter what OUR woman will always be there for us no matter what!!! Have you ever thought that maybe ur truck was a woman also?? LOL And you didnt know how to understand it either??? So instead of being lonley and depress in a motel, drink a few and call someone you LOVE!!! Or someone that LOVES you.... So Awiii i wish you the best my friend, i have been down that road many of times, and its not good to be by ursure and depressed, and after being married for 30 yrs i still dont understand MY WIFE OR MY TRUCK!!! Good luck!!

You cant always stay angry at things that happen in LIFE, And you always have to have Belive and HOPE, at most of all if you LoVE someone you hafta forgive!!! And theres nuttin in life that is worth giving up... And sometime you have to give People a chance to explaine them selfs, and maybe the reason ur truck broke down is becuz it was telling you something... That you are headin in the wrong directions.... Maybe you should drink a few beers and think about things and Go call a friend and talk things over, its always better to talk to someone and let them know HOW you really feel... I hope you day gets better....