jammy467

Hi,One alternative is, of course, is that they are not as good friends as you think in which case stopworrying about it and maybe you need to get some new ones.The previous post kinda said it. What you are experiencing is caused by your own thinking. Without realising it you are projecting the idea that you are like the way you describe and others are picking up on it. Like projecting yourself as a bit of a loner.I bet if you asked any one of them they'd tell you that they thought you weren't that interested. Incidentally have you done that?If you have good friends then mention it to them.It seems you probably have fairly low self confidence and maybe low self esteem. Perhaps you hold yourself back because of that.If you want ot get involved in things then you should just do it. Don't wait to be invited because the chances are you won't be because as I've mentioned people probably don't think you are that interested. You'd be involved in much more when you get yourself invovled. If the people are your friends then they will welcome you so you don't need to worry about not fitting in or just being in the way.It's not easy to change attitude and thinking but it can be done. When you feel yourself being left out take a step forward and get involved.