bluefrostii

hey everyone, thanks for the advice.i am a girl lol (didnt know how to change my profile,but i have fixed it.YAYUPDATEso the guy has gone away for a 2 week holiday,and when he comes back im going overseas..the day he returns, but i have decided to simply tell him i love him,and that i want to be with him... something along those lines. im just trying to say it right,so it would be less akward afterwards.thank you so much for your time :)hope it works out for the best

that is a good question,i personally think we are not equal.and no im not being stereotypical or something, we jsut arent equal.its got nothing to do with our intelligence,or job capabilities, it is simply the way we are.there was always and always will be the battle between the two sexes, to prove self worth.its just the way it works..pitty huh

i think the best movies ever are:1.) 10 things i hate about you :P :D :D2.) Apocalipto :) ;)3.) and Pirates Of The Caribbean :D :D

Hey everyone,my story is this. I've been in love wit my best guy friend for 5 years.It started when we were both 14, the usual teen crush. But we both went out seperate ways,different schools,lifes,etc. and remained best friends.I have always had feelings for him, and recently he told me that he has been in love with me from the first time he met me,and that we are alike in so many ways,etc.But problem number one is that he has a girlfriend of 2 years.He asked me how i felt,and i said i didnt want to say because he has a girlfriend.He told his girlfriend that he was in love with me,they broke up and got back together now.He still keeps asking me if i have feelings for him, and our weekly emails to each other,have turned into 2-3 emails per day, instant messaging and going out.Dont get me wrong, we just hang out,we are just friends.His girlfriend is really obsessive about our emails to each other,and the fact that we hang out. Which she obviously has a right to be upset about since he told her that he was in love with me. The other day she emailed me asking me if i liked him,and that she doesnt blame me for liking him since he is a nice guy my problem is this, i cannot be friends with him because i am in love with him, yet i feel stupid for sacrificing our long friendship over something so stupid.I feel that he is being selfish, and keeping me on the reserve bench.I know his relationship is falling apart because of me,and thats the reason why I want to stop it all.But i am in love with him,and crazily enough i want to be with him.can someone please give me some advice? i just dont know what to do????thanks.sorry about the length...