Ok all so i did ask him what is going on. He said that he is just really focusing on work right now he wants to make as much money as he can and that sex is just not on the top of his mind right now and that he is not with anyone else and that he wouldn't cheat on me. Can someone be so into work that that is all he really is focusong on? I am a really hard person to win my trust over so i always think the worst of things and alot of the times it back fires into my face. I just dont want to lose him and i want to do whatever to make him happy and our family happy. And yes i have changed since we first got together so that could be part of it to i am not as small as i once was but anyone elses thoughts would be great. Thanks