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Personally, I don't like the the self serve checkouts when I shopping alone. Usually no matter how long the line is I'll pick the one with the best looking girl checker that way I can flirt and try to get a number or give a number while she is checking me out.(pun intended) In the past it has worked fairly well and i've been on countless dates with checkers. The upside to self-serve checkouts is when i'm attached in a relationship with a girl and I don't have to avert my eyes when shopping with said girl to try and not look guilty. Plus sometimes your just in a hurry and the lines for the self-serve seem to move really fast compared to the other kind. So in general I hope we always have a quaint little mixture and they don't move it to a complete self check out store.

Personally, if I was in the situation you are in, I would have to ask myself one of two questions:1. Do I honestly care what she thinks about me and would I care if I made her depressed? or 2. Is she a cool enough person that I would want to hang out with her later on a strictly friend basis?If the answer to question number one was no then I would simply tell her I am not interested in dating her or hanging out with her!If the answer was yes then i'd simply tell her that i'm not looking for a relationship right now and would feel kind of strange going to the movies on a dating simulation.If the answer to question number 2 was yes then i would I would simply tell her that I am not interested in dating but would not mind hanging out as long as we are clear that it is not a date and i'm not interested in a relationship at all. If the answer was no then I would simply tell her to go find another friend because I already have to many.I hope you figure out the best answer to this little problem. Don't know if i helped any but I hope it helps a little. Have a good life.