Hey, i'm 14 and in year 10, and i'm a christian, there's this girl that i like who's 15 and amazingly hot, (she's turning 16 in march) thankfully for me she likes me back, ALOT! She's always telling me she likes me and plays it off by waiting a moment and saying she was just joking. One time she actually whispered "I love you" thinking i wouldn't hear but i was able to read her lips and told her I knew what she said and then she was like "Oh,... I was just joking." I told her she always does that and then she said "I know." Anyways, back to the point, i met her in year 9 when she moved here (grand cayman) from the states, and i started talking with her and getting to know her and eventually asked her out and she said no. I decided to suck it up and be a man about it, and the day after that we started talking again. So on that friday she got her friend to ask me if i liked her, now, my manness declared that since she said no i should stop liking her and just stay friends so you know how the rest goes. I decided to like her again, and on the next monday she came where i usually hang out and sat down and wouldn't talk to me, so my cousin talked to her and found out she was upset that i didn't like her. blah blah blah, now, i asked her out again in september, said she didnt know yet, what i didnt know was that she had a boyfriend at the time who she is still with. I still have feelings for her, but don't want her because of her boyfriend. Sadly, she's a christian and knows she shouldn't be with him as he smokes weed and is a heavy drinker, i can see that he's breaking her heart like a twig and it's killing me to see her upset, I plan on asking her why she's with him and hopefully get her to go out with someone else who actually likes her *remember I don't mean me alone,* and doesn't smoke or drink Honestly, I need everyone's opinions on this.